What’s the weirdest thing you’ve been rejected/denied a hookup for

[Spider54]

So this is for more or less stupid or unimportant reasons why you’ve been denied or rejected for a hookup. I’ve been denied because my teeth weren’t perfectly straight, I have a slight gap up top and a slight overlap on the bottom row. In consequential but it was weird and not a normal denial 

[Olderkinkybiguy]

I have been denied because of my weight and size. I had guys tell me I wasn’t big enough to be considered a bear; I didn’t have a big belly. I had other guys tell me I wasn’t lean enough for their liking.; I had a 42” waist. So when I was about 250lbs and 6’3” tall, I felt I didn’t fit most of the guy’s requirements. Now that I am under 200 lbs, I am sure some other reason will crop up. Such is life. 

[Eastvillagefun]

My hair color. Green was "too distracting" even though I told him beforehand that it was green. He showed up and exclaimed, "wow! It really is green." I was not sorry to see him go.

[backdoorjimmy]

I had a guy call off a hookup because I didn't want to hit his bottle of poppers, which sucked but I didn't argue and just dipped. The one that made me feel the worst was when a top called off our hookup because my dick was too small. I made it clear I was a total bottom ahead of meeting him, and he said, "I know, but I need a guy with a bigger dick." 

That shook my confidence and gave me anxiety about my body for a while. 

[NYBBGUY58]

For being a Virgo.

The guy coming onto me was drunk out of his mind. Truthfully, I was relieved when he asked my sign (🙄) and ended his pursuit when I said "Virgo". I still think it's slightly weird.

[URS2USE]

For having too much of a kinky side.

[yoursinmine]

For wanting to get fucked. I was a virgin, but still, he didn't want to, just head. Twice that happened, the first time was more than four years of trying to get fucked. The second guy, I sucked his cock because... It's still cock, but I wasnt invested in the same way 

[Fprefect570]

Being too tall. I answered a CL add to go suck off a guy and said what my height was (6 foot) but when I got there the dude was probably 5’4 and when he answered the he just said “I don’t think this will work out. You’re too tall” and closed it. It was very bizarre. 

[blackrobe]

On 1/29/2026 at 10:43 AM, backdoorjimmy said:

I had a guy call off a hookup because I didn't want to hit his bottle of poppers, which sucked but I didn't argue and just dipped. The one that made me feel the worst was when a top called off our hookup because my dick was too small. I made it clear I was a total bottom ahead of meeting him, and he said, "I know, but I need a guy with a bigger dick." 

That shook my confidence and gave me anxiety about my body for a while. 

A random guy's arbitrary standards are hardly useful inputs to your worth as a dick-taking, seed-absorbing cumdump.

I hope you soon realized his erotic fixations aren't your problem.

[blackrobe]

One time a guy was asking me very detailed questions about my body musculature and specifically my abs. I'd sent him pics and he'd agree to hookup. I was younger and 165 lbs so in pretty decent shape, just not his ideal target of a dehydrated fitness model.

This not very good looking, not very fit, not very hung guy was not even in the same country, let alone zip code, as the requirements he wanted of me. It was obsessive, unhealthy, and unfair.

I told him we weren't hooking up and said his obsession with crazy body standards he didn't even meet himself was why. Fuck that guy, he was a walking body dysmorphia contagion. 

[leatherpunk16]

On 1/28/2026 at 9:40 AM, Eastvillagefun said:

My hair color. Green was "too distracting" even though I told him beforehand that it was green. He showed up and exclaimed, "wow! It really is green." I was not sorry to see him go.

Relatable.

Just last week, I got this message from someone on A4A. He said that the purple hair doesn't do it for him, and the fact that I've been a prostitute is a real turn off. He wished me good luck.

Let me give some context. This guy is not local to me, and I never showed any sort of interest to him previously. My mohawk is a blood red colour, not purple or violet (I called him a colour-blind boob for that). And I haven't been an active sex worker in over a decade. It wasn't even on my profile. Still isn't. Unless he was referring to my work in porn, which isn't what he called me. How on earth could he have known that I did that???

Strangely, he did not block me. I had to see who this was, and when I looked, it was a near-empty profile with no location given. 

DA FUK, MAN 😵‍💫

[Tiboer]

A while ago, one of my profile pics was me in a suit.  Once when I met with a guy after chatting for a bit, he immediately rejected me because I wasn’t wearing a suit.  Turns out sucking guys in suits was a fetish of his (which he never told me about)—did he expect me to be wearing a suit constantly?

[NWUSHorny]

3 hours ago, leatherpunk16 said:

and the fact that I've been a prostitute is a real turn off. He wished me good luck.

I can sort of relate to that. I have been rejected lots of times for being too big of a slut. A few of them have even told me they admire me for it for various reasons, but can't hookup with me because of it.

[NWUSHorny]

On 1/29/2026 at 11:58 PM, yoursinmine said:

For wanting to get fucked. I was a virgin, but still, he didn't want to, just head. Twice that happened, the first time was more than four years of trying to get fucked. The second guy, I sucked his cock because... It's still cock, but I wasnt invested in the same way 

That's pretty common.

On the flip side, there are a lot of guys that don't seem to understand why they are being rejected by guys like me who are primarily looking to fuck or get fucked, just because they don't fuck or get fucked. I'm sure I've heard about thousands of ways to have the "best sex ever" without having to put a dick in a hole or in a lot of cases even touch each other's "icky dick," at PNW bathhouses, theaters, ABS, and other cruising spots.

Edited Wednesday at 08:32 PM by NWUSHorny

[Spider54]

On 1/30/2026 at 4:37 AM, Fprefect570 said:

Being too tall. I answered a CL add to go suck off a guy and said what my height was (6 foot) but when I got there the dude was probably 5’4 and when he answered the he just said “I don’t think this will work out. You’re too tall” and closed it. It was very bizarre. 

Yeah that’s a little absurd.

 

2 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

That's pretty common.

On the flip side, there are a lot of guys that don't seem to understand why they are being rejected by guys like me who are primarily looking to fuck or get fucked, just because they don't fuck or get fucked. I'm sure I've heard about thousands of ways to have the "best sex ever" without having to put a dick in a hole or in a lot of cases even touch each other's "icky dick," at PNW bathhouses, theaters, ABS, and other cruising spots.

See I get that a lot, I’m not just looking to suck dick I want to get fucked or fuck someone I get rejected when I say that. I just say there loss thy lose out on some good head and a good fuck.