All Activity

As a predominantly Top, I can only speak for myself . I tend to play off the bottoms vibe. Not knowing your discussion with the 22yo before meeting, it’s hard to draw any conclusions to your situation. If I had to speculate a hypothesis, I’d say things have definitely shifted to the more extreme side over the years for a few possible reasons. the ready access of porn might be to blame, or at least the prevalence of online access too hookup sites. Back when I was in my 20’s, I met and hooked up with guys the old fashioned way. Typically a drunk encounter in a gay bar. The only sexual ideas were from real practical experiences. As I hot older, and had more encounters, my understanding of sexual encounters expanded, as did my comfort level. It seems a lot of online guys lack practical experience and skills. another factor might be life in general. I don’t believe too many of us have escaped the growing tensions and restrictions of every day life. I find more people carry a great deal of frustration around. Sex can be a great release if done correctly, but not all bottoms are created equal. Some like being used and fucked without mercy, others not so much. my guess is your 22yo lacked practice experiences. And possibly the bottoms he was fucking didn’t offer constructive criticism or advice. If you liked how he treated you, than that is fine. If you felt he should have done things differently, than you should have offered some constructive guidance. It’s be my experience that young people in general lack a lot of the same qualities my generation were taught. It’s not just sexuality, but in general. I was lucky to have a lot of real life sexual encounters early on, AOL was in its early stages. I even had a few older mentors to help mold me into the Top I am today. Although I do enjoy the youthful energy and sex drive younger guys typically possess, it’s often not worth the frustration of emotional immaturity that often accompanies them. I have been fortunate to know a few younger people who were not typical, but they are getting harder to find. I suppose the system is winning! 😭

I always preferred anonymous loads. Most of the places that I go, bathhouses or gay theaters in the NYC area. They are more likely to just use me as a cumdump. Being poz for 20 years. I always prefer other poz guys. A lot of them are at those places. Anyone who wants to dump their dirty seeds Text me 973 997 4934

Your reply perfectly describes my experience and mindset. I have many sexual fantasies that involve “risky” sexual behavior. In each instance, I eventually succumbed to my fantasies and just went for it. At first it was bareback sex after talking to a guy for a while and asking for STI results. Then, it was bareback sex with strangers at public places, which eventually led to me being a cum dump at the bathhouse. Now I’m hooked on the rush, which for me means being used and bred by strangers in bathhouses, sketchy places, and not refusing any load ever. So, my mindset now is harm reduction— I’m going to do this and can’t stop myself, so how can I keep myself safe?

Who is or isn't comfortable doesn't always exactly correlate to size for me. I've had experiences with smaller guys that never feel good and larger guys who slide in just fine. I suspect it has something to do with individual "geography," slight variations of size/shape that can cause problems. In my case, I'm fine with length but girth and/or curve can be an issue for me. I've also found that using a lube injector is a big help - they make some that are compatible with silicone lube these days.

Some of my best encounters are with versatile guys - they know the experience from both sides. People are so peculiar.

I’ve had guys ask me this after they’ve already came in my ass. I’m like um… a little late for that, don’t you think? I have a fondness for anonymous sex and dark rooms— on talking, just animalistic sex and breeding.

Everyone’s risk assessment will vary greatly. What ever works for you and you feel comfortable doing is great. The notion of “risky sex” in itself implies some level of “risk”. If we remove all risk factors, than it no longer is considered “risky sex”. If it’s more of a fantasy based implication, than you can make it whatever you want, or need it to be. although I have been undetectable for over 20 years, I still mostly get with guys who are undetectable or on PrEP. Not so much because of risk of HIV infection, I am already infected. But because I feel more comfortable if someone takes the time and energy to look after themselves and their health. I understand I can catch other things, and that is part of the allure of engaging in risky sex. I am comfortable with the consequences and possibly needing a round or two of some medication. The risk outweighs any desire for a safe and boring sex life. if you are anything like me, my sexual fantasies eventually become inadequate to sustain my satisfaction. Eventually I seek out a physical presence in order to quench my risky needs. But that is an individuals choice. As long as people can be satisfied with how they handle their desires, great. To each their own.

Yep! Clean as a whistle! I spent all day douching my fat hairy ass!

That really sucks. It’s a shame people still feel the need to shame and condemn others. I know it happens, probably more frequently than I can even imagine. Most of us have way too much on our plates in our daily lives. At least for myself, my online presence is a sacred space where I can let my hair down and reveal my true self and hopefully connect with others with similar interests and desires. You should definitely be allowed the same privilege, no matter your interests. Sounds like breeding.zone can be that safe place you need. Granted it’s not typically the “hookup” site like others sites are, but you might get lucky. Hopefully if you contact someone from the website, they can at least block him for the time being. I have found most negative stalkers find a way to come back online eventually. Good luck and hold fast to your desires. Don’t let the A-hole win!

A bottom does “not owe” a top anything. A top does “not owe” a bottom anything. It pisses me off, and saddens me when a bottom believes that is his duty in life to be treated like trash. As I have said in other topics, no one will abuse me. If he continues doing something I don’t like, after I’ve asked him to stop or take it easy, there will be problems. I might still get hurt, but he will always remember what he did to me. Unfortunately, this society is getting increasingly more mean. There is a belief that if I want something, I deserve it, no matter what the consequences are for others. People have got to start saying, “enough is enough.”

Sorry you are having to deal with this idiot. Stressful and unpleasant, but as people have said above, he is the one with the problem.

I had an old piss buddy that would meet me at the bathhouse and we would indulge in piss play. He loved sticking a small funnel in my ass so he could piss into it. Loved the feeling, he has since moved and I can’t find anymore guys that are into piss.

I don't tolerate PrEP well anymore. So I have to switch back to having sex with guys with Tasp as I had before PrEP. So I have sex with HIV positive men without taking the risk. Perhaps this could be a way for you to get closer to your fantasies. The bad thing about it, you cannot have sex with casual encounters at a cruising area or anything similar. PS: Your cock is great. I love it, when it is a little bent.

Navy blue hankies have white paisley on them already, so the polka dots are redundant. There *is* a black and white checked hanky that's for flagging safe-sex bottom and top. Given that, I always read a navy hanky as bareback fucking and breeding.

Had one married DL guy who really loved breeding my ass, he let me suck his dick at start to get him hard. Nothing major, just a warm up, getting it lubed up. Offered a throat fuck many times, always refused, tho one time he popped in without any notice, didn't have much time, asked me to just suck him dry, so I took my chances. Jumped on the bed with head hanging down and told him to just go in, he hesitated, but couldn't resist with his dick already hard and dripping with precum. Didn't last long, finished deep inside almost making me pass out, but he texted me later that my throat feels better than any pussy he has ever had before.

Good man. I love getting fucked filthy in a man's office or workplace and leaving with his nut buried deep.

I've had a few dozen in the last few days.

Does anyone know who this hot daddy is? Found a few videos, but haven’t been able to find a name.