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  1. Who else prefer old man's asshole? Recently I fuck guys from a large age range and found it seems I like older guys more because their holes really feel better. Maybe it's not too tight but still you can change the position and it's not the critical matter as people say. Old assholes tend to be rough...even leathery. And hairier. They are not too tight so you don't need to use too much lube too, which means more friction. All this makes their holes feel really good to fuck. Their ass cheeks are not plump as younger people's, but well, you cannot have it all. Anyone has same preference?
  2. 17...blurry line 16...maybe. But 14? I don't think so. When you are old enough, you cannot get tricked by a 14-yo boy. It's just too much. He knew it or at least tried not to know. I personally believe 18, the age of consent in the US, is too high, but still 14 is also rather questionable. Most European countries set it between 14-16. I understand it's rather a subjective issue; some people may believe 14 yo is enough to make all sexual decisions. However, still, I don't think you mistake a 14-yo boy as someone over 18 yo. Very unlikely. I am sorry Mr. Dozer. I liked your work. But you have a really hard case here.
  3. I understand your feeling and believe it's very natural thing. You are not passing anything to them (probably) if you are undetectable. However, still 80's crisis is still a big part of our psyche and the guilty feeling may not be removed totally. We all talk about breeding and bug-chasing here, but it's fantasy. Not that there is some people who are really doing it, but for the most people, hurting others is not a part of desire. I respect your honesty. As far as you are open about your status and bb preference, there's no ethical problem. But still your reluctance is also understandable and I think it's very humane feeling. Do whatever as your heart goes. You don't need to fuck neg bottoms if you don't feel like it, not because it's wrong or illegal.
  4. Shower nor pissing does not help. As a top, your risk is low from the first. A couple of general tips to reduce your risk: 1) Ask Bottoms what their status is. As we all know, if the bottom is on medication, there is a high chance his viral load is undetectable level. Fuck someone you can trust; at least minimally. Having a regular fuck buddy is a good way. You can talk more about the bottom's status. The worst case is the bottom that does not know he is poz. This increases your risk. Just ask them. Many guys don't do that. 2) If you are uncut, you have more risk. 3) See your doctor and get the prescription for PrEP. If you have a decent health insurance, it will be covered. 4) Don't play too rough. If you hurt the bottom's ass wall, it may cause a higher chance. Most people do not fuck like porn stars and there's nothing wrong with that. None of these is perfect. There is no better way to avoid infection than using a condom. But by being a level head, you can keep your risk at a quite low level.
  5. Having other STD increases your chance to get HIV. Get tested frequently and vaccinated if possible. Check your partner's general and anal areas before you do anything.
  6. As many already said (including yourself), it can be fatal. Very hard to control the concentration of alcohol and your body will respond very rapidly. You can do whatever you want to try. But this may not be a very wise choice.
  7. I am a relatively inexperienced fisting top. I tried only one bottom. He is a nice guy. Very cute, submissive and Poz. He has been playing around quite a bit and I learned a lot from him. My hand is small he can even take both of my fists (on my lucky day!) I learned that fisting is not all like the porn scenes. It's more delicate and I need to follow the bottom's lead. If you don't want blood puddle in the bedroom , you have to be careful and watch the bottom's face all the time. It's very intimate experience and I liked it a lot. Also he can tighten up his hole amazingly and I love to fuck him too However, he's not much into fucking itself...well, still let me fuck him before and after fisting. My question is, usually how long do you play? My bottom boy is an experienced one and my hand is small but still he can take it about 20 min. When he is done, he's done. He does not seem interested in cumming. Sometime he let me fuck him a bit but does not seem into it either. Also, whenever I pull out my fist, we should start from the first. One finger, two finger...slowly.... I understand it's very demanding physical activity for the bottom (that's the part I appreciate a lot) But is it usual? Once you are used to it, do you still need to be this slow? And can you play extended period? Like at least an hour? I don't think a lack of practice is an issue here. He's old enough (50 something). I still love to play with him, but I want to know what others are like. Thank you in advance!
  8. We all know the statistics...topping is rather 'safer.' Also many poz bottoms are on med. Do you know any recent case who got pozzed only by doing topping? Just curious...
  9. In the last scene of "Meat packing," Dawson briefly topped Jerek. http://www.treasureislandmedia.com/cart/MEAT-PACKING-DIRECTOR-S-CUT.html
  10. Maybe I am the only one who read this article wrong (or vise versa), there is no mention about infection. According to the news that the original poster linked, the man was Poz, and did not informed the teen boy, but there's no mention the boy was infected. The sentence is a bit tricky but I am pretty sure that means the teen boy heard from a friend that Sumlin was Poz. Well, statutory rape, I agree. Busted to his parents, pretty bad. But at least he does not look infected by this case.
  11. I know many guys here say bottoms should only focus on Tops' pleasure, blah blah. However, I think touching a bottom's cock is also good for top's sake. In my case (and probably others too), when my cock is touched, my sphincter got tensed up. I tried fingering and I can feel a significant difference. So, if you touch the bottom's cock while fucking, it will tighten up his hole immensely. Anyone has an opinion about this?
  12. I have a feeling that this topic has been handled here before (unless multiple times), but I could not search it. So, do you have any erection trouble with condom? In general, I can assume that the condom may affect your sensation and erection to some extent, but I mean seriously. I barely can keep my erection a condom on. I know it may sound like a jerk to some people, but I just cannot. If I'd do safe sex, I would be a bottom. I have no choice. Anyone else feels like this?
  13. It did not happen to me (yet), but I think seeing a bottom losing control and peeing can be hot. I am not into scat though.
  14. Days ago, he tweeted that he has an apartment in LA, but planned to move to Spain at least for a while. He seems quite international. He said he was born in Argentina, but has a Spain citizenship. He's very responsive on twitter, so try if you like him @LitoCruzXXX
  15. Hey Derek, Thanks for your comment on my post. Honestly I am a bit surprised (you can imagine). But isn't this forum basically for "gossiping"? How could I "come directly to the source" when I talk about porn in the most time? I bet it's the same for the most people here. According to your profile record you were not in the forum member until this Feb, and my post was written in Jan. To my defense, I did not have any approach to come directly to you. Anyway, I did not mean anything negative in the original profile. Actually I am a fan of yours and enjoy seeing you in BB porns. You are a good performer. But as you described yourself, you were not 100% in your fuck in THAT movie and I was not impressed by that. I did not know it was your virgin experience and it must be fair to say that was not presumption for the most audience. And about acting skill; it's also totally fine with me a porn performer cannot "act" as far as they can fuck. However, don't have have a freedom to make one or two joke about their awkward "pre-ritual" lines? And yeah, when you actually talk you were not super duper macho as you are depicted in the other BB porns. And I know it's not only you. AND we are all fag here and I don't take calling or being called more or less "feminine" is an insult. If you are really masculine, you are supposed to go for vagina according to the definition. Finally, I know not all BB performers are not poz. Especially the ones who exclusively top in the film. However, still it's very rare to see the guys cross-over between straight genre, where the producers require much strict test criteria; more so for the BB performers. Can't I say it's surprising? Once again, I like your performance in the BB porn. But I don't think my original post is hurtful to anyone in it and you may need some thick skin when you get naked and fuck some strangers' orifices on camera. I sincerely wish good luck with future works and look forward to seeing more.
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