GexTrick

hello there. I'm planning to be in Berlin in the summer and wondering the best time to go. There's Folsom of course in august and the pride month and parade between june and july and both seem good boosters for looking for breeding opportunities. Never been to folsom and although I love to make new experiences and go beyond my limits I dont have much leather/fetish gear nor experience of it, so my doubt is if this could either prevent me from taking full advantage of the event (for example I've seen the notorious PIG party has a dresscode of leather and rubber, both of which I am lacking atm) or make me a less interesting pick for tops compared to other bottoms whom are into it. Pride seem to me to be a less crowded (I guess, but maybe I'm wrong) but also less specifically themed choice and still with better odds than other dates. What would you suggest? am I worrying for nothing? Thanks in advance for any suggestion.

had my debut sucking a high school friend at 12 or 13 but then had a denial phase (what a waste of time, I'd punch my old self in the face if I could) up till 17 when I had a cock in my ass for the first time (online hookup with a stranger), so I barely fall in the "Before 18" category. I think I topped for the first time (again a online hookup) somewhere after I turned 18, early 19 at most but throughout 18 and 23 I was a bottom most of the time unless fervently asked to top. But I'd like to add a third sort-of virginity loss which happened at 26 after two boyfriends (first one was only top and second one only bottom). Back then I was no virgin anymore but still pretty limited and vanilla, but then someone dragged me out of the vanilla zone and opened my mind to the real horizon of being a pervert and a pig and I consider this to be as relevant, if not more, of a stepping stone to my sex life.

I dont have a neat preference, as many say both options have their perks. However by experience i can say sometimes being blindfolded encourages undecisive and not so confident top to have a go on me: I look pretty manly, I am very fit as a gym rat, and I noticed that make some guys at the bathouse think I'm either top or just out of their league. But when I take my towel off my crotch and use it as a blindfold, placing myself ass up and ready, it usually increases the chance I'll have a cock up my hole sooner rather than later.

I'm very much willing to be a very nasty, desperate faggot for men to use, but I feel I still have to earn the title. I have to push my remaining limits further and embrace the life of a real faggot

I'd say absolutely not. I personally always plan my sex trips with at least 2 months (and preferably 3 or 4) advance. Is there any event for such date?

A bottom friend was to meet a regular top of his today, but couldn't and offered me as replacement. Had to go in a small park next to his workplace and let him breed me during his lunch break, no question asked, just obey and provide holes for his cock. I happily obliged and I'm on my way home now, his load deep in my ass ( my mouth cleaned his cock after he loaded my ass) I like the whole being given as a set of holes replacement thing.

Although broadly speaking every single experience, both sexual and not, made me the guy, and by extension the cum slut, I am today I think one big leap was when I started to date a guy named Filippo in 2013 (I think): At the time I was 24, had just ended a relationship with a sweet but very insecure and jealous other guy. although I had experienced both raw and safe sex (and therefore already knew raw was waaaay better) I was still kinda vanilla and had a strong societal preconception that raw sex is wrong because of the risks and safe sex is right because its the responsible choice and bla bla bla. Filippo was way more open minded then me, and much more kinky (although with time I think I've surpassed him in depravity) and through both raw sex and talk sessions crushed most of my preconceptions and really sparked something in my brain. I did not become an enthusiastic bare pig immediately after, it still took some years to evolve to that point, but he definitely unlocked the mental freedom that would eventually make me embrace my inner bare slut nature rather than be ashamed or fight it and my actual attitude and philosophy toward sex.

couldnt agree more

I am the kind of guy who one would very hardly suspect to be a slut into raw sex, cocks and loads in the hundreds, orgies and overall an above average level of perversion and debauchery. I still remember coworkers could hardly believe me to be gay at all when I told them. I live with three gay friends and despite living with me and knowing I am on the kinky side they don't have a clue actually how much, because I naturally dont look like hardcore sex is so often in my mind. It's not even "hiding" something, it comes natural to me to act like this And to be honest, I love that. The thought of people around me thinking I am a pretty ordinary guy, not even suspecting I not only think about being a hole for multiple men more often than not, used and filled with cum, but I already realized some of it and I am constantly trying to push my limit further and further down the rabbit hole makes me horny. Sometimes I may be chatting with the roommates like nothing but I have a plug inside my hole to keep it well trained. So, a couple days ago I was talking with a regular of mines and the topic surfaced. To my surprise, he told me he would find it hotter if at some point I'd become so unashamed and unapologetic of a slut that I dont even "hide" it and instead talk and behave as such (not in EVERY context of course. He knows it cant be done all the time and with everyone. He just meant with those close enough to me or when the situation allows it). Now, the discussion about what those contexts mean and are is way too complex and serious. Consider i oversimplified a lot the conversation with my regular. But I am asking you: what do you find hotter? a total and shameless slut that looks like and acts ordinary guy or a total and shameless slut that is glaringly and very openly a shameless slut? I described the thing from my point of view of a bottom, but I'm interested in what you think of it applied to tops and vers too

Not yet, wouldnt mind at all honestly. Pretty open to approaches even if means travel within europe

Short answer: raw just feels damn fuckin better. like... many leagues better A bit more in detail (in my experience at least, I'm not by any mean a medically qualified and I dont pretend to be): I think organic tissue is just more "compatible" interacting with other organic tissue. Raw penetration is just so smooth, makes me relaxed and high at once, makes my ass immediately produces rectal mucosa which is the best lube (not too dry, not too slippery) and just knowing that if the top cums it will go in my ass is a phenomenal psychological aphrodisiac before he even does so. I've often sincerely told myself no matter how smart and evolved we are in creating toys and tools for pleasure, nature just knows how to orchestrate the perfect set-up for sex. Plus, to me condoms dont just make receiving anal sex inferior, they often make it straight up unpleasant, that's why I tend to refuse a wrapped cock at the moment. The rubber surface pumps and seals air inside my ass, which has given me a bad feeling in the long run at times and triggers weird farts. The folds of a condom feel odd inside me. Rubbers have a distinct smell and they leave that smell and taste on a hole, while I want my ass to smell and taste like man and it's the smell and taste I want when I rim men. They somehow seem to dry me up within minutes, unless copious amount of artificial lube is applied (which is detrimental to the aforementioned smell and taste thing, plus artificial lubes are inferior to mucosa and cum as lube, too slippery means almost no pressure and friction of which a certain amount increases pleasure). And on top of that they are relatively expensive. To sum it up, it's just a completely different experience both mentally and physically and although I understand and totally can see the reasons why many people choose to use condoms (at least until they try to blame or judge me for my choice not to do so), it's bordeline undisputable that raw sex is the better experience.

yea, couldnt agree more! thanks a lot @tallslenderguy for the hyperqualified contibute

I don't have a preference about the physical o psychological feeling, sex to me doesn't feel any better nor worse with a blindfold. however when I go to the local sauna/bathhouse i more often than not blindfold myself with the towel when I decide to stay in the cubicles with an open door and wait for tops to approach me. In my experience, it brings a couple strictly practical benefits: I am a gym rat, I have a pretty defined and muscular body, and this can be either confusing (some seem to think I am a top) or intimidating (some seem to think I'm out of their league). But being blindfolded makes some guys more audacious in approaching me, cause it makes visually clear I am submissive and willing to be at their mercy. Plus, it motivates me better to just accept any cock. Although I aim at turning into a no cock refused slut with time, I still am progressing to that gol, improving as a slut, and i still have some instinctive adverseness towards certain body types (very old or very overweight) and I realized this may transpire in my body language. But removing sight from the equation makes me approach every cock I am presented with the same thrill and appetite, which ignites a horniness that makes me forget about personal preferences.

I've recently started to have this fantasy during my toys n poppers sessions: I get in contact with a much more experienced master and I commit to a days long training to push my limits. I move to his place for a limited time period under the strict rule of utter obedience. I am kept almost uninterruptedly under the effect of drugs and for the first one or two days I undergo a very hard toys training to loosen my hole properly, particularly (but not limited to) being tied for hours and rammed by an automatic fucking machine while he doesnt even pay attention to me or even spend time away. I am forced to cum until my dick doesnt even get hard anymore and verbally abused about how patethic I look. I am then whored to a great number of men, both in venues or at master's place or elsewhere, or given goals like to collect a certain number of loads within a limited timespan on my own. All of this over the following 3 or four days until the training is deemed over.

Well seems like I've learned something new. Thanks