PozToxVersPig

My favorite part about it is getting him hard and a little wet so he can fuck my hole full of cum! 😈🙂 Sometimes I like the appetizer more than the main course, but in this case-the main course is always better (for me!)

@iosam I'm sorry that you had this experience, though hopefully in the past now. I'm poz and switched from a very well tolerated Odefsey daily pill to once every other month double shots of Cabenuva. For similar reasons to you, I thought only having to get the shots every other month would improve things - especially since Odefsey needs to be taken in the morning (to avoid sleeplessness issues at night) and with a "fatty meal." I didn't experience any medical provider issues - they were great and handled all of the paperwork and approvals. My issues were: each ass check gets one of the two medicines in Cabenuva. For 4 or more days after, my ass was so sore that I couldn't put pressure on it at all, had to pull myself up from a seated position, etc. And then the day after the injections and for at least 4-5 days after, sleeplessness, fatigue, aches and pains all over my body, headaches. It was like having the flu - relatively low grade but significant enough that I took a few sick days and was noticeably lethargic and bedridden. The subsequent two medicines we tried after that I had different but not insignificant reactions to, hence why I'm taking a break. Thanks for sharing your experience.

Your and @topblkmale make me laugh. I've never heard this, and also....was "air head" not good enough? LOL

It was really inspired by my research in to BDSM principles + my own experiences of having consent/limit conversations. We've all been asked a bazillion times "what are you in to" and it might seem a little bit robotic, but having it outlined makes a shit ton of sense to me 🙂 I worry when I hear folks say "no limits" and that's just simply not true! 🙂 Thanks @evilcoyote! 🙂

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Well, you're lucky....many have. And congrats on that flex.

@extremsub337 - and this is fine, as long as you and he understand where there any limits...it sounds like are enjoying the experience of having that understanding and I 100%%%%%%%%% agree that it's liberating and freeing. The reason the topic is important to me is really representation of many who say they have "no limits" but don't actually know what that COULD include if the dom were going to choose to push - You and your partner sound hot! 🙂 And I am very liberal with my limits also, so can relate to the "scary at times" - though I'd call it thrilling 🙂

@NWUSHorny - I want to comment on this and your other thread around spit and shove (link below) in one-fell-swoop...because they are, to me, related. Beyond that, two separate friends had experiences related to these things within the last few months. Use and type of lube is a personal preference and decision made in the moment. I am generally fine with spit/shove unless it's the very start of things, but my friend "Eric" just told me about his recent experience. Eric is a slut - on RentMen, takes and gives dick constantly. He was at some party, and the guy who was starting to fuck him had a REALLY massive dick and so Eric asked, "hey can you use some lube" and the response Eric got was "no one else used any, why should I?" and then proceeded to fuck him. Eric was PISSED because his plan had been to take many more loads, but what happened to him left him literally unable to take dick for over two weeks including that night. This is the opposite of what you're saying, but I think it's confusing to hold the line at "artificial substance" when you're taking random anonymous DNA/loads/whatever. Also, when topping, if you've never had a chaffed dick then you're a luckier person than me - that shit hurts and makes you walk strange for a few days at least. TOYS - I have arrived with a buttplug in me and if at a bathhouse sometimes with dildos and toys. The plug is good if there's a lull, the toys can be something a top might like in additional to fucking me. I have heard NO ONE say that they prefer only one way and not the other. If you state that you only wanna top with your dick, then it's not the right bottom for you - walk away. Other guys may want to wreck that hole with toys before fucking. I, personally, wouldn't INSIST on toys versus the opportunity to take your dick, but different strokes for different folks, I guess! 🙂 I don't think it's rude though. What you're describing though is more about just being sloppy in the bathhouse, and I agree, if he was as messy as what you describe, bad behavior! 🙂

Ryan Phillippe, everlasting. Zac Effron - heard he's really nasty in bed.

In an attempt to summarize some of the many thoughts shared in the various threads on these topics, thought I'd create a quick survey! A second survey in this same channel coming.

@onlyraw This "art" you speak of - what is that? 😀😄😍 I don't expect everyone to have the same opinion or experience the same impact of anything.

YO PEOPLE! I only vaguely remember writing this so long ago but it's time for an update, I think. I'll work on one, but I'd love input! We know that the American Hotel is now closed, have any additional places started to pop up to replace it? DO YOU HAVE ANY PLACES TO ADD TO THIS LIST? One place I have heard of a few times is the Motel 6 on Wadsworth. I have a friend (a Rentmen.com guy - really, friend of 20+ years) coming to town from NYC. He's going to stay with me but wants to try to get some clients while here as well. Also, he's just a slut so I'm sure will want to check out places.

I had Wicked for that. I'm NOT a fan of this show at all, so hard for me to find escape in it. I had the two Wickeds for that - and when I really need to juice up, The Greatest Showman. 🙂

I appreciate this really wonderful thought process -- I don't think that's it. The books upon which the show is based on books first published in 2019 through 2022. This only narrowly intersected Trump's first term.

I think what your experience is the massive knowledge gap that exists for what U=U means, what the implications are, etc. It's unfortunately because it puts some of us in educator roles in situations we'd rather not have to be educators in. There was a little cheat sheet I saw recently for "how to explain to someone who is neg...." - I'll try to find it and send your way

I get that everyone is all about this show right now and that I am antithetically not really that impressed. 🙂 I'll accept my role as iconoclast. To lightheartedly make fun of all the bruhaha, however, I created a really low-brow series called "RELAXED COEXISTENCE" - I had to take a break from editing Trunk and Cage. [think before following links] https://x.com/poztoxverspig/status/2014691885953241102?s=20 [think before following links] https://x.com/poztoxverspig/status/2014793946581631275?s=20 I am actually drawing from storylines in the show.....it cracks me up. I can finally fuck again so ya'll only have to deal with me a few more hours! 🙂 TGIF! 🙂

Hey @lttltvbb - congrats. I have posted a bit on this topic - I'll send you a link about my experience. I'm currently in the recovery period from my last upsizing which is a thing in and of itself if you're going for a 2, 0 or 00. I hope you love it as much as I do!

I just re-read my earlier post, and I want to clarify because they seem as though they are at odds with each other: I think I make best available efforts to inform any sexual partner of my status - via public profile updates, as well as clarifying their understanding of my status. To the extent I hook up with someone randomly, anonymously, whatever, I'm not compelled to stop things in their tracks to ensure that someone engaging in anonymous sex is aware of any potential risk they might be facing, nor do I expect someone to tell me if they don't know their status (HIV or STI). When and if asked in the latter situation, I will always obligate myself to honest.

@PozBearWI the fact of the matter is that nearly 2/3rds of the states in the US have HIV criminalization laws. You've seen and read PLENTY of MY posts from me about the ridiculous low rate of transmission, but the fact of the matter is - if I don't disclose it, I'm still liable under current law in a lot of places. If not criminally, civil charges can also be made. These laws are UNFAIR, and should be overturned, but they are the law. What these laws criminalize: HIV-specific charges: Elevating charges for sex crimes or other offenses if the person knows they have HIV. Non-disclosure: Failing to tell a sexual or needle-sharing partner about HIV status, even if transmission risk is zero due to treatment. Exposure: Actions with no realistic risk of transmission, like spitting or biting, especially in correctional settings So the reality is - YES, under the law, we ARE required to disclose this in most states. And I sure as shit don't want to have to hire criminal and civil defense attorneys and get involved in a protracted court case...we can fight this, disagree with this - but I for one don't want to spend a decade of my life and a huge amount of money being the poster boy for HIV Criminalization reform. Also, your comparison between the flu and HIV is inaccurate. HIV is a retrovirus which integrates with mRNA and attacks the very core of our immune system. The flu does not - it isn't near the level of sophistication of HIV and the way it fully integrates via mRNA into its host...it is helpful to make appropriate comparisons here because they are fundamentally different.

I’ve been trying to figure out those two for a while. I actually do know what they mean now and I will write up a response once I’m back to my computer… Essentially it started as code words which enabled people in oppressed countries where being gay was not OK or looking at porn pornography was not OK to be able to search for and find porn gay or sexual content.

To be clear @norefusal - I don’t stealth and refuse any type scenario. And perhaps among others, I’m giving my most current and relevant information. But it is not my job to elucidate an entire medical chart or its implications to another person every time I fuck. i do my best to convey my status and frequently say things like “you know I’m poz, right?” - Also, I don’t think we can play both sides of the fence here… Either HIV is a chronic disease that we have learned to treat via medication OR we are giving people a death sentence by possibly giving them HIV where we know the transmission rates are low. I don’t think it can be both. Lastly, I am very upset by what you said equating me having HIV and having unprotected sex with somebody when I’ve been forthright is equivalent to somebody being raped. You’ve seen my words for sure on the matter of rape writ large. equating somebody having unprotected sex with somebody choosing an outfit is just damn right foolish and you should really reconsider those words.