NiceHard1
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There are often fluffers....though usually not a separate/paid role, but usually guys who happen to be around on the set --- typically the producer or camera person will try to "help" if any guys are having trouble getting going. On the last set that I did, the hot cute boyfriend of one of the producers was hanging around, and so I went over to molest him a little, since the guy in the scene wasn't doing it as well for me! I ultimately did pretty well, and I think will have some great footage in the new film when it comes out.
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Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?
NiceHard1 replied to blktone67's topic in General Discussion
I believe in being respectful of the requests of any bottom guys I'm with. As a poz top, I've been with neg guys who are comfortable with thier limits of bottoming without taking loads, and I'm cool with that if that is the request. There are millions of guys around the world every day who don't get a hot guy to fuck - so if I have the opportunity, I'm willing to work within his limits. In fact, if I'm going to be with a neg guy, I am sure to talk about it in advance of the meeting to know what he is looking for and comfortable with. If he says he will take it, I'll let him know that he can always change his mind and say to stop if he wants. I'd rather respect his wishes and get invited back again. -
People get different needs met in different ways. Communication is always important. Ask him more details regarding why he would not be comfortable --- but do it in a way to let him know that its not that you are trying to force him to do it, but that gyyou want to understand the dynamic better of your relationship with him. But is sounds like he may consider you more special, and perhaps likes to have his pig play sessions to be more anonymous
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Just arrived in Buffalo --- Hanging out and doing things today, but hoping to spend all day tomorrow (Sunday 12/11/11) naked at my hotel room, meeting hot local guys, swapping sperm. Please let me know if you're around and interested in coming by for a while to get naked and play. (ps -not into pnp - just hot bareback fucking!)
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Greetings I'm back in Buffalo - hanging out with a hot guy who I met on this site, but open to meeting more friendly, accommodating guys from Buffalo. Send me a message.
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greetings - how's it going?
I saw that you checked off that you became poz after having sex with guys you thought were undetectable. That is really interesting. Do you have any more details?
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What's it like in Fort Wayne?? I've spent some time in IND and hooked up with some hot young guys at the bathhouse there. You get out there very much?? Or do you host at your place??
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It is often hit and miss...just like bars, sex clubs, and bathhouses! It can be a time waster, but can sometimes be productive. I've sometimes met guys for sex, and then turned into friends, so you never know. I have no trouble getting on a plane, train, or bus for great sex. I just flew to Buffalo last month to meet a guy from this site, and swapped several loads of sperm with him over a weekend - planning to go back to see him. I am feeling that this site might have more guys who are serious about hooking up and fucking. I'd love to meet a number of guys for individual one-on-one, or even planning out some hot group sex gatherings. Perhaps get a hotel room in a random city and look for sperm. Anyone serious, please let me know
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Important to ask if he's on meds and undetectable or not. HIV transmit ability is more a factor of the amount of viral load than the amount of fluid. several guys here posted the fact that pre-cum can carry some HIV risk. This is especially true if the the guy has a high viral load. It may be true that a full load of cum from a guy who is undetectable may be a lower risk than pre-cum firom a guy with a high viral load. Even undetectable may not mean no risk, but many people are much more comfortable and believe that the risk is much lower. There is no proven science to say that undetecable is completely risk-free, so your choice if you are willing to accept the smaller risk that may be there
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What is the 1 thing that can make you not want to hook up?
NiceHard1 replied to Bluepsyclone's topic in General Discussion
The need to have a pre-determined agenda. If I find a guy to be really hot, attractive, and interesting, I don't even find the need of asking who likes to top or bottom, or if we are going to cum inside each other or not. I find that if we are attractive to each other, once we get naked, things will work out, and I know we will find pleasurable things to do. Perhaps that is the positive thing about really loving to both top and bottom.... if a guy prefers only one or the other, I can be perfectly happy just topping or just bottoming....and then if he is vers too and we flip fuck back and forth,,,,then it is even more hot. -
Also, while you're there, try to catch some of the actual MAL events. It can be easy to just hang out in the bars and your room having sex...but the actual events have some value. Its great to see all of the guys whomoare contributing to the community. The leather community has certainly been most affected by HIV/AIDS, and is as much involved as a leader in HIV care and treatment as it is in the barebacking community. Something that I enjoy doing is hanging out at the gay deaf events. Gay deaf guys often feel like the outsiders in most places in the world...and so being is Washington is kind of on their turf...and it is humbling being in a gay bar on a deaf night and feeling like the outsider, not being able to speak the language. Be open to new experiences like that and make some friends that you might not expect to make.
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I'll be there...have a room with another buddy who I've done some porn filming with. I actually love going to the different MAL events, but also plan to do a lot of fucking. My buddy is more bottom...I am more top...but love to bottom too.
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Its always about giving and receiving accurate expectations. Say what you're looking for and hopefully people will actually read it.
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OK, so I admit that I voted for the third option, just like everyone else. But I think that often times we get obsessed with what we see in bareback porn, and start to feel unsatisfied if we don't have as much as we see on the screen. First it was the 20 load weekend, then the 50 load weekend, and then the 1000 load fuck. OK, sure I've even participated in some of those films, and it was fun. I've had a few personal experiences of getting fucked by about 15-20 guys, but they really are few and far between. When it does happen its awesome, but when it doesn't happen, that's normal! There are so many men in the world who go through every day and every night without getting even one load of sperm inside of themself, and so when I get one load, its a good night. If I get two, its pretty awesome. So my advice is to have a lower expectation, and enjoy what cums your way!
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Finally took my 1st Cock
NiceHard1 replied to Want my 1st cock's topic in General Bareback Sex Stories
Thanks for the great story. Sounds like you know what you want and like. -
Experienced barebacker trying to up the ante...
NiceHard1 replied to JustProwling's topic in General Discussion
JP. Great posting. What I mos love is your clarity of each voice being your own. That is the key. That your choices are well thought and in concert with what and who you want to be. I too would be delighted to meet you and fuck you
