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It's interesting because the people who got me into the leather lifestyle, the submissive is extremely piggy. He used to get fisted, has a shit load of anal toys, great cock sucker, top, bottom, versatile, kisser, watersports, spanking, cum eating, anything piggy and to serve or to be served he will do.

I think it's probably just the situation he got into with the relationship he is in is one of those routine relationships with little to no sex and he is more monogamous natured then most. I could just see him in his younger days though or with a different guy. He does safe only unless relationship but I could see him out there being full pig and having lots of fun. He helped me discover that I was a pig as well. I was always nervous to admit it or feel it but I have gotten better about it over these last few years. Now the only thing is finding someone to do it with. Most guys it's they fuck and breed and they are done. The ones who have the high sex drive are much harder to find or who would willing to go to bars, clubs, and places and whore my ass out or play with other guys and do groups and sex parties like that. Or even take sex trips. But this is a big world and I'm gonna be a traveler someday so I'll find someone out there who is into it. I would like to really go full piggy one day too but prefer to do it away from home

Don't know if I am 100% gay but maybe pretty close. The only time anything intimate was ever done with a girl was in middle school a girl I liked kissed me on the cheek as a thank you. Never touched a woman's lips. I get a little uncomfortable hugging women sometimes. It's different then hugging a guy. Unless she is a friend or something. When I hug men 99% of the time I get hard/excited. When I hug a woman it hides and won't ever come out until he presence is gone

I've never had any desire to have sex with a women or any attraction to a women. No I will admit some women look "pretty" or "hot", but I mean that different then a straight guy would mean it. I just mean they look fucking awesome or look good. But I don't care about the breasts, va-jay-jay or any of that. Don't want none of that. Want a dick up my ass or in my mouth though

The only reason I ever thought about girls when I was younger was because it's what everyone did and it's what I thought you were supposed to do. But then I discovered porn and all I looked at was the men. Tried to cover up the women or fold them out of existence. Then I started looking only at gay porn

I'm a faggot and proud of it.

Nervous to say it but I'll say it. Thursday I went back to the sex club and cleaned myself out perfectly before I left the house. When I arrived there was almost no one there and I counted two other guys there. I was on my phone for a while cruising and looking for dick while waiting for some to arrive. I played with a few guys who arrived shortly and sucked their dick for a little bit but I guess they wanted to save their load.

More guys starting coming in so I went to my car and changed into my daisy dukes and left my shirt off hoping to attract some guys. It worked. I sucked a guy off in the stair area and damn he had a nice dick. I went a bit farther though and went into the blackroom. A guy started sucking my cock really big beefy bear guy and rubbed my cock against his ass but I wasn't into that. A few other guys came in and I made out with some of them, groped their cocks and they groped mine and I was soon on my knees going back and forth between a few different cocks. Even though I had no idea what the guys looked like I got some feel of what they looked like by their arms, legs, body, and size. One of them brought me up and kissed me a little bit more, (had a really big busy beard) and started rough fingering my ass and I kept moaning and the other guys seemed really excited. He pushed me on my knees and fucked my face like it was his own personal pussy and gave me a huge load to swallow. It tasted really good. Some of the other guys came on me as well .

I cleaned the cum off me in the bathroom and moved on. I later found out he was a hot trucker daddy bear. Fucking woof. I went back to the stair area and saw a military looking daddy there. I immediately got on my knees and started sucking him and he felt my ass and his dick grew harder and longer, until he stood me up and kissed me passionately. I asked him if he wanted to go in a room and he agreed. When we got in the room I was able to suck his big dick in private and he really loved playing with my ass while I was sucking him. We kissed a little more and he said he was going to fuck me. I asked him, "Are you negative or positive?". I never ask a guy if he is clean because that's such a broad question. He told me honestly, "I am undetectable and on medications.". I freaked out and thought about leaving but he said he would fuck me with a condom. He had a great dick and he was really hot and a great kisser and I was horny as hell. He was also honest. He used a little lube and then started fucking me. Damn it really hurt, he had a really big dick and I thought back to the other night where that top used poppers on me and slammed it in my hole and I felt like my body was floating and numb as he fucked my ass but even within that semi conscious state how I was able to relax my hole completely incase I would feel the pain later.

I needed those poppers. But I have pretty good muscle control and always clean myself deep back there but rarely do I get a cock that is that big and that fucks me. I tried my best to relax but was not able to relax completely. This did not stop the top though. He fucked me rough and hard and would pull out all the way and slam it back in. While he was doing this he kept calling me a little bitch and telling me that I am his little bitch and that my hole belongs to him. While he was fucking me I saw a hot black daddy come in and he was watching me getting fucked like a bitch, I was moaning, even crying a little bit because it was so big and hurt a little, but I was taking the fuck this man was giving me. But I was taking it like a bitch not like a man. The top saw the black daddy come in the room and pulled out and let me suck on his cock. The black daddy already had a condom on and pushed inside. I rarely ever get fucked by black daddies or suck them because I am not the best deepthroater and as I said before I don't often get fucked (or do I want to?) get fucked by large dicks.

I was crying and moaning as his schlong went inside my ass and I swallowed the tops dick all the way. They both fucked my face and mouth for all it was worth and they seemed to really get off on me being in pain and moaning and crying a bit. It did not take long for the black daddy to cum and he pulled out and left the condom on the floor. The top then pulled out of my mouth and put on another condom and shoved it in my ass and fucked me until he came and then he took the condom off and put it on the floor. I wondered if I would have been able to take it better if I was getting fucked raw by both of them.

We talked a little bit afterwards and cuddled and spooned a bit. All the while I kept rubbing my ass against his hard raw cock. I was really horny. I told him that he probably would not fuck me raw. He told me he would not do that to me and we talked a little bit about him being poz and about barebacking, poz, and undetectable altogether. He once again confirmed that no one really wants to be poz. He cautioned me that the road I am going down I will likely end up poz someday because men lie and barebacking will lead to becoming poz.

I guess I had a little bit of respect for him for being so open and honest about himself and his status and even telling me he was undetectable before he fucked me. He did admit to me that he does have a lot more sex being poz and that he usually only fucks poz guys or if guys "don't ask" his status and offer their ass he fucks them. Maybe it was bonding with this man, the fact that I felt safer and open, around him, but I begged him to fuck me. He did not hesitate and his dick was rock hard and red and I could tell he and it wanted nothing more then to fuck me like the bottom slut I am. I got on my back again and felt his raw dick enter me and open up easier this time. Damn it felt better but it still did hurt. I'm not used to anything that long going back that deep but he kept calling me a bitch boy and told him he was going to take my ass. He went back to pulling out all the way in and slamming it back in to torture me and said he wants me to feel his cock in me the next day when I am sore. He then flipped me over and when I was on my belly he pushed his raw dick all the way inside me and started fucking me. I kept moaning, crying, sighing, and went into sensual overload having that giant cock fuck me raw and his body pin me down and make me take it. After he fucked me for a good while he pulled out and had me suck his cock. He came in my mouth. He told me he would not cum in me even though he is undetectable because although it lowers the viral load it still leaves a chance and he did not want to do that. Then again so does technically fucking me raw. He thanked me and I thanked him and I gave him my number and I left. I was past my curfew though but it was a very enlightening and amazing night.

And yes I did take a few loads in my mouth even though none up my ass and I got fucked with a rubber for a little bit at one point. So this is relevant, just long, textwall-ish, and probably ranty

But now I am starting to think about undetectable guys...

Nervous to say it but I'll say it. Thursday I went back to the sex club and cleaned myself out perfectly before I left the house. When I arrived there was almost no one there and I counted two other guys there. I was on my phone for a while cruising and looking for dick while waiting for some to arrive. I played with a few guys who arrived shortly and sucked their dick for a little bit but I guess they wanted to save their load.

More guys starting coming in so I went to my car and changed into my daisy dukes and left my shirt off hoping to attract some guys. It worked. I sucked a guy off in the stair area and damn he had a nice dick. I went a bit farther though and went into the blackroom. A guy started sucking my cock really big beefy bear guy and rubbed my cock against his ass but I wasn't into that. A few other guys came in and I made out with some of them, groped their cocks and they groped mine and I was soon on my knees going back and forth between a few different cocks. Even though I had no idea what the guys looked like I got some feel of what they looked like by their arms, legs, body, and size. One of them brought me up and kissed me a little bit more, (had a really big busy beard) and started rough fingering my ass and I kept moaning and the other guys seemed really excited. He pushed me on my knees and fucked my face like it was his own personal pussy and gave me a huge load to swallow. It tasted really good. Some of the other guys came on me as well .

I cleaned the cum off me in the bathroom and moved on. I later found out he was a hot trucker daddy bear. Fucking woof. I went back to the stair area and saw a military looking daddy there. I immediately got on my knees and started sucking him and he felt my ass and his dick grew harder and longer, until he stood me up and kissed me passionately. I asked him if he wanted to go in a room and he agreed. When we got in the room I was able to suck his big dick in private and he really loved playing with my ass while I was sucking him. We kissed a little more and he said he was going to fuck me. I asked him, "Are you negative or positive?". I never ask a guy if he is clean because that's such a broad question. He told me honestly, "I am undetectable and on medications.". I freaked out and thought about leaving but he said he would fuck me with a condom. He had a great dick and he was really hot and a great kisser and I was horny as hell. He was also honest. He used a little lube and then started fucking me. Damn it really hurt, he had a really big dick and I thought back to the other night where that top used poppers on me and slammed it in my hole and I felt like my body was floating and numb as he fucked my ass but even within that semi conscious state how I was able to relax my hole completely incase I would feel the pain later.

I needed those poppers. But I have pretty good muscle control and always clean myself deep back there but rarely do I get a cock that is that big and that fucks me. I tried my best to relax but was not able to relax completely. This did not stop the top though. He fucked me rough and hard and would pull out all the way and slam it back in. While he was doing this he kept calling me a little bitch and telling me that I am his little bitch and that my hole belongs to him. While he was fucking me I saw a hot black daddy come in and he was watching me getting fucked like a bitch, I was moaning, even crying a little bit because it was so big and hurt a little, but I was taking the fuck this man was giving me. But I was taking it like a bitch not like a man. The top saw the black daddy come in the room and pulled out and let me suck on his cock. The black daddy already had a condom on and pushed inside. I rarely ever get fucked by black daddies or suck them because I am not the best deepthroater and as I said before I don't often get fucked (or do I want to?) get fucked by large dicks.

I was crying and moaning as his schlong went inside my ass and I swallowed the tops dick all the way. They both fucked my face and mouth for all it was worth and they seemed to really get off on me being in pain and moaning and crying a bit. It did not take long for the black daddy to cum and he pulled out and left the condom on the floor. The top then pulled out of my mouth and put on another condom and shoved it in my ass and fucked me until he came and then he took the condom off and put it on the floor. I wondered if I would have been able to take it better if I was getting fucked raw by both of them.

We talked a little bit afterwards and cuddled and spooned a bit. All the while I kept rubbing my ass against his hard raw cock. I was really horny. I told him that he probably would not fuck me raw. He told me he would not do that to me and we talked a little bit about him being poz and about barebacking, poz, and undetectable altogether. He once again confirmed that no one really wants to be poz. He cautioned me that the road I am going down I will likely end up poz someday because men lie and barebacking will lead to becoming poz.

I guess I had a little bit of respect for him for being so open and honest about himself and his status and even telling me he was undetectable before he fucked me. He did admit to me that he does have a lot more sex being poz and that he usually only fucks poz guys or if guys "don't ask" his status and offer their ass he fucks them. Maybe it was bonding with this man, the fact that I felt safer and open, around him, but I begged him to fuck me. He did not hesitate and his dick was rock hard and red and I could tell he and it wanted nothing more then to fuck me like the bottom slut I am. I got on my back again and felt his raw dick enter me and open up easier this time. Damn it felt better but it still did hurt. I'm not used to anything that long going back that deep but he kept calling me a bitch boy and told him he was going to take my ass. He went back to pulling out all the way in and slamming it back in to torture me and said he wants me to feel his cock in me the next day when I am sore. He then flipped me over and when I was on my belly he pushed his raw dick all the way inside me and started fucking me. I kept moaning, crying, sighing, and went into sensual overload having that giant cock fuck me raw and his body pin me down and make me take it. After he fucked me for a good while he pulled out and had me suck his cock. He came in my mouth. He told me he would not cum in me even though he is undetectable because although it lowers the viral load it still leaves a chance and he did not want to do that. Then again so does technically fucking me raw. He thanked me and I thanked him and I gave him my number and I left. I was past my curfew though but it was a very enlightening and amazing night.

And yes I did take a few loads in my mouth even though none up my ass and I got fucked with a rubber for a little bit at one point. So this is relevant, just long, textwall-ish, and probably ranty

But now I am starting to think about undetectable guys...

I always think of "ask me" as a guy being unsure about his status or not wanting to say, poz, neg, or undetectable for whatever reason. I've had a guy on manhunt message me a long time ago and I asked what the "ask me" meant and he told me he was poz. I asked why he did not just say positive in his profile but never got an answer.

But what I find really interesting about bbrt is the contradiction between "your status" and "my status"

My Status: Neg

Your Status: Ask Me

My Status: Neg

Your Status: No Preference

My Status: Neg

Your Status: Poz ok

My Status: Poz

Your Status: Neg

I did not think about this until I read this thread but the "your status", "my status" thing reveals a lot about the person. For some reason it sounds like a good or twisted song name too

There are guys on there who are neg but don't care if the guy is poz or neg. And there are guys who are poz and specifically want to play with someone who is neg or don't care about the person's status. One thing I have noticed though for the most part (least in my area) it seems to be tops who don't care the status of the bottom. If the bottom is poz they don't care or neg. It seems to be the bottoms who prefer neg tops or if they are fully pig bottoms they don't care.

I wonder if that's because some tops out there feel that if they are breeding bottoms they are less likely to get infected, versus a bottom who takes loads is more likely to get infected.

I have hosted a couple of bb sex parties in Charlotte, NC. The Red Roof Inn is popular for this as it is motel setup (guys don't have to pass by a reception desk and can park in front of your room). Just post an ad on BBRT and wait.

And thank you NiceHard1 for the tips. I saw you at MAL in January in peeboy's room. Next time I will introduce myself.

Interesting. There is a red roof in around my area too which I hear is popular. I was just curious if a city with very little sex clubs and gloryholes to almost none and few gay bars can be that sexual. I have been to charlotte before and I remember there being no glory holes or sex clubs. But I did go to Woodshed on a friday night and it looked like a lot could happen. I kept having guys insist that I come saturday night as well and that saturday night would be fun. It could be "possible" that a bar like that has sex going on in there. That does not happen in my area despite me living a big city like area.

But it could be that in cities like charlotte because of the lack of public sex like areas that cruising is higher and places to cruise are much easier to find and happen more frequently. I think in the mountains of NC is where the nude clubs were, the bear groups, and some of the leather groups. But bobcats (I believe that was a nude area) closed down so not sure how much happens in the mountains anymore. But it would be fun to have group sex in the mountains

You have a good point. But even so its pretty obvious I am a bottom but he tried to "pretend" to be into a scene that I am into. That's what frustrated me. And its happened before. I don't try to do that or pretend I am a top. But then again sex clubs can be places to try things out like that.

This is very true. I was warned of this when I was 18 and at one point I went to the sex clubs wayyy too often. I am not really concerned of a reputation anymore. I know what people are like in the city I am in and if I "really" tried to put in a good reputation for them I'd probably be fucking miserable because of their expectations and ideals of the reputation one should have. I know there are some sluts in my area that are proud bottoms and sluts and don't get offended when guys call them that and joke about it and still have great sex. Of course they are older and probably know how to do it. At the same time if I guy sees me and says one day, "Oh..I heard you are the one who likes to go those bath houses and sex clubs and get really slutty and whorish". My response would probably be, "Yeah and I do a damn good job at it, got a problem". It doesn't make sense to me why most older guys can have the confidence they have of not being worried about what others think of them and their business and able to laugh things off or get over things quicker. That should be able to be done at a younger age.

I'll bet he will. Whats worse is me posting it on a bareback forum. Guys might say, "Eww that guys a dirty bottom that doesn't clean himself". But there is another side to that. When I first started going out when I was 18 I never douched myself. I never got "fucked" that much either. Mostly oral never really fucking. I'd clean in the shower (when I thought I was cleaning myself) but later learned I wasn't. I was nervous to learn to clean myself out but it's something every bottom should do and learn how to do. The thing is I don't have a lot of sex especially fucking so I never really had a "reason" to clean myself out everyday like some bottoms do or use dildos (still don't use those). But I am trying to have sex a little more so I am cleaning myself out more now. I am still not perfect at it. In regards to that I mean the time it takes for me to clean myself out. It takes way too fucking long and frustrates me but I get better each time. When I clean myself out a top can cum, piss, fuck, spit, and lube up my hole all he wants and all that will come out is what he puts in. I pride myself on that at least.

The mistake I made that night was after work going straight to the baths and thinking I did not need a douching before getting fucked. That was the big mistake I made. I should have gone home then gone out later and gotten dick.

Which is exactly what I did two nights ago. Got quite a few raw dick up my ass and my hole was clean and there weren't shitty dicks or anything like that and fun was had. The only problem I had was taking the size of some of the cocks. Guess that needs working on too huh.

I understand what you are saying. But I believe in humiliation, pride, and growth. I was embarrassed and ashamed that I neglected to clean myself out properly. I might have people avoid me now or not get near me because of that. But it won't happen again and I'll do a better job at making sure to clean myself out frequently and never skip it if I am planning on having sex. I'm able to admit that I fucked up because I'm human...and stupid.

And besides if people avoid me that means less sex. That's not necessarily a bad thing. It means that the men are missing out on some good ass BIG TIME and those who give me a chance or decide to play with me will fucking enjoy it.

I have not reached the point of being a cum dump. I don't bend over and let any guy fuck me like some do. But if the guy is hot and is into me and I'm into him I'll definitely submit to the man and be his cocksucker and let him fuck me and breed me how he likes. But it would be nice to find more regular guys to do it with. But you are correct that in doing this I am going to more then likely have guys who are looking for something more then sex avoid me and guys who want to use a bitch hunt me.

Thank you for the post I appreciate that you took the time to read it. There will be hotter stories.

Greetings.... Ah. Where to begin...

So you will be here for the three months? Doing pretty unlimited travel?

Wow....I have traveled all over the US, working for an airline, and have some good ideas, but they are of course my tastes. Hope others will throw in some ideas that I don't have.. So, lets start west to east, assuming you'll arrive on the west coast..

San Francisco

You could stay all three months in SF, and be a content little pig right there. I lived in SF for 8 years and miss it. Hot men and hot sex. There are some sex clubs (Mack, Eros, Blow buddies) and bathhouses which are just beyond the city (Steamworks, watergarden) But posting here or bbrt or walking the street, and you'll find it.

Los Angeles/West Hollywood

Being from SF, there is this north/south rivalry, and so I have not spent a lot of time there, but it is the second largest city in the US, since it surpassed Chicago, and I usually have a good time there. Check out Slammers - a great sex club there, as well as the nearby leather bars

Palm Springs

One of the three big gay resorts in the US - this one is landlocked in the desert with no beach, but lots of gay guest houses with pools. Check the site for Helios - they have monthy sex parties that go on all night and are as piggy as it gets. Book your room right there so you are in the center of the action.

Seattle/Portland

Great cities to visit too, with a young vibrant scene. Portland is more earthy/cruncy, Seattle is more techie. Check out the Cuff - lether bar in Seattle.

Vancouver BC

Cross the boarder into Canada for one of my most favorite cities. Awesome gay village - great leather bar pumpjack. Several bathhouses. Those Canadians are a little less inhibited than us americans. Stanley park is awesome too for biking and cruising.

Denver

A great western city; Good size gay population; Wrangler is a great bar; Denver Swim Club is the bathhouse that can be great, depending on the day and who is there. I've been filled with lots of sperm there, and did a photoshoot for them. One of the pics on my bbrt profile in a three way is from that photo shoot.

Dallas

Probably the best city in Texas for hot men and sex. The bathhouse is hit/miss. The countrywestern bar iRoundup and JRs are both great places to meet hot guys. I'm not a huge fan of texas, but I usually have fun when I go there.

CHICAGO

This is on your must-see list. The former second-largest city in the US, is also the second-largest for piggy hot men in my view. You won't be there for IML (Come back in May for that) but even without IML there, it is awesome. Things to do:

-Jackhammer - upstairs is a twink dancebar, and downstairs is a dirty leather bar called "the hole" Downstairs is only open I think on Friday and Sat - but when I am there, I always leave with cum dripping down my leg. Then when you go upstairs, you just might find some young twink boy to take back to your hotel to fuck.

-Touche - another leather bar next door to Jackhammer

-Steamworks - part of the same one as in Berkley CA - Always a good time there

-Heart-o-Chicago motel - this is the place to stay --it looks like a cute 50s motel; Its no Mariott, but the rooms are pretty clean and it is right near the leather bars. I usually get a room there and post a party on BBRT - and you'll find other guys there doing the same.

-Leather Archive and Museum - Since I am a member, I would be remiss if I didn't suggest that you visit to learn about the leather history in the US and the world - its appropriately near the leather bars, but open during the day.

New Orleans

-A unique city in the US with an international flair. The French Quarter has the reputation of being the most wild party city in the US for gay and straight alike. It is one of the few places in the US that allows you to drink out in the streets 24/7. It really is a beautiful too. Not as much for leather bars, but trust me on this - the straight guys who come there drop their inhibitions and are more willing to try things that they might not try at home.

Fort Lauderdale

This is the big gay city of the south - lots of gay guys move there for the warm weather in the winter. Good bars, good leather scene, and a good bathhouse. Also, the same Slammer sex club from LA has another one in FT L. I always have a piggy time at Slammer

Miami

I love miami. Its more international/Latio. If you love latino boys, check out the miami beach/south beach area. They all have huge cocks.

Key West

Another gay resort area - You should check this out and stay at Island House. It is a combination bathhouse/gay guest house/restaurant/bar/gym all rolled into one. The rooms are very upscale, and can be expensive. But if you can do it, you'll have a great time

Washington DC

If you get to the east coast first, MAL (Mid-Atlantic Leather) weekend is in the middle of January. It is on MLK weekend, and since this is an election year, the innauguaration is the Tuesday after MAL weekend. So as long as Obama gets reelected, one of the innauguration parties will surely be for gay/lesbian people. If for some reason he does not get reelected, you should then leave the country immediately after that weekend. Oh - and there are other leather bars too - Eagle, Omega, Green Lantern

Philadelphia

Don't skip PHL on your way from DC to NY. Its a great city with a slightly more on the edge population than DC or NY. They are in the shadow of both cities, and work extra hard to prove that they are a great city, and they are.

New York

You can't go wrong or have a bad time here. Lots to see and do. Lots of men all over. Stay in the center of the city - midtown - near hells kitchen. The problem with NY is that since there are so many men to choose from, if you are more than a few blocks away, it is too much trouble, and they will look for someone closer. The Eagle is a great bar - esp on Thursday. Avoid the bathhouses - they are trashy. There are lots of sex parties all over town - check postings on bbrt for them.

Provincetown

The third gay resort city in the US. In the summer it has the highest percentage of gay people in one location - just about everyone there is gay. The gay bars outnumber the one or two straight bars. The dick dock under the boatslip is packed with men at night getting fucked. In the winter it does get quiet - but I live there year-round, and there is a small but fun year round population. Saturday nights in the winter the town gets busy - but the rest of the week it is dead. Summer everyday is busy.

Montreal

Cross the border again for those uninhibited canadians. Lots of bars and bathhouses. GI Joe is the more dirty bathhouse for us. Its a great city to not miss

TORONTO

Top of the list in my view is TORONTO. It is one of the best kept secrets. Most people think Montreal is the piggy city - and it is, but I think Toronto even tops that. It is a larger city than montreal. The bathhouses in Toronto are more clean and polished than in Montreal, but the men are just as dirty and piggy. Steamworks has another locaiton in Toronto. (In fact, I've been to EVERY steamworks - Toronto, Chicago, Berkley, Seatle, Vancouver!)

OK hope you made it to the bottom of the list, since I kept the best for last.

Enjoy your visit!

I love you.

I have been dying to get out and travel and go to places to have sex and meet hot guys and learn to become more of a pig slut. I have heard quite a bit about chicago. I had no idea there were so many clubs and sex clubs there. I heard of two clubs that sounded like fun so I guess I shouldn't be too surprised. I completely forgot that the National Leather Archive is there too. I already have heard about new Orleans and that sounds something that I need to do. And yes I have heard about IML in chicago where the bars are filled with leather men and walking down the street they are everywhere and various sex parties around the hotels and everywhere. And with that many leathermen there is probably quite a bit of barebacking going on. I'm glad you have been able to travel and experience all these places.

I am curious about North Carolina though. I know that sex places in NC/SC are rare and hard to find. But there have been nudist, bear, and leather groups in North Carolina in the past and still are some so I am wondering if there is lots of sex there but if it's just hidden more or maybe more exclusive. I live close to north carolina is why I am asking. But I have been thinking about Fort Lauderdale alot. Never been but it's closer to home then Chicago. It sounds like it would be fun. Thanks for inspiring the horny travelers

Interesting you mention this Sir.

A while back I tried out two gay nudist groups in Atlanta. I did not have much sex because I wanted to be respectful of the group protocols and tradition and was a newbie and did not want to mess anything up. I did end up having a little sex though. I am not really good with crowds or people though so i was mostly shy and in the corner. However, one of them did tell me about GNI. It looks like so much fun. Leather guys, drag queens, bears, the contests and events and of course sex.

If it's about all natural then bb should be natural. I have a feeling a good deal of men will probably bareback. You get that many men together they are going to be horny. And you have all those men walking around naked all the time. If their dick gets hard they will find a hole to breed or find their hole being bred. The poz symbols are a good idea though.

I don't know why but that "loading zone" picture the one with the ass and the dick squirting. I vote for that being the national symbol of barebacking

Well....I would not say its impossible, but something that requres some thought and planning.

I agree with others here that if you want to bottom raw, it has inherent risk. It can be hard to find where your balance is between your desire to bareback and your fear of HIV. You obviously find bareback sex attractive and interesting, since you are hear. Is it interesting enough though to take a risk? Can you mitigate enough of the risk to be comfortable?

So how to mitiage is theh question....

These are just suggestions...don't take it from me that these are risks you would be comfortable with, and though they may help you to lower risk, still are not foolproof...

- PrEP - Pre-exposure use of Truvada - The FDA is recognizing that this can be highly effective to prevent HIV transmission - if you're willing to start taking HIV meds without having HIV, and if you can either get into a study or find a doctor who will prescribe them, as it is still technically off-label, even though the have been proven to be effective

-Only get fucked by poz/undetectble guys. It may sound counter intuitive to only get fucked by poz guys rather than neg guys...but it may be safer. A guy who knows he is poz and undetectable has a lower viral load than one who thinks he is neg, but really has a high viral load if he is newly poz and doesn't know it. \]

-develop a closed circle of guys who are tested to be verified negative, and then only fuck in that circle - you just have to trust that everyone in the circle is only fucking within the circle

-Find a monogamous neg boyfirend. and hope he doesn't fuck with others and become poz...

Go with guys who are negative, and say that they only top....less chance that they become poz if they don't bottom

So again, nothing is foolproof. The PrEP idea is the one where you would be in the most control, as you'd be relying on yourself to take your meds every day, rather than relying on the info that others tell you is true.

Hope that helps give you some ideas

Best advice ever. Really the safest option is not to take part in BB sex. Having a partner and being monogamous is idea especially if you get tested but the real test is if either of you will stay faithful to one another. And faithful with condoms but with all the stealthers out there condoms aren't as safe as some like to think.

I have heard of that prep thing before. It does sound like a good idea.

I have actually really started to wonder about poz/undetectable. I have only been getting plowed by men who "say" they are neg but recently got fucked by an undetectable top and opened my eyes a bit. Regardless of how you bareback if you bareback with multiple guys you are most likely "eventually" going to become poz. Men lie. People lie. But here is another thing.

If you were an evil twisted BB poz top couldn't you just tell the bottom, "Oh yeah, I'm on meds and undetectable" but really have a high viral load over nine THOUSAND!!! Just as a poz or someone who doesn't know can say, "Oh yeah I'm neg" and be lying. Same as someone who is undectable. On the flip side I've noticed that "some" poz guys who are undetectable or not seem to be more honest then neg guys.

I don't know what it's like to have HIV+ because I am neg (right now and hope to stay that way) but I don't think it's the all in one killer it was back when it first came around. What the older gay generation experienced is something no one should ever have to experience. That being said some people live to be really old and have happy lives and are poz. Yes we sometimes see the shrinkage of weight and some noticeable poz features but I don't believe everyone goes through that. I don't think anyone really wants to be poz but I think it's probably at the point where it is possible to be poz and live happy and maybe even happier then someone who is neg. But I don't know that.

The point is though it is easy to believe, "oh if I only play with neg guys I'll stay neg and can have tons of sexy bareback sex". But that's not reality. It's just a convenient excuse and lie to justify taking raw loads. I am a bit indecisive again right now but I don't always want to be afraid of life and death and possibly dying earlier or maybe having some of my youth taken by being poz. But at the same time I want the freedom of youth and bareback sex. Unfortunately there is always cause and effect.

Just out of curiosity? How many people actually know or have done the PREP thing. It sounds like a lot of hassle and money (not everyone can afford health insurance of have good insurance). That doesn't sound like something many people do. Like suck cock with condoms. I have only had "ONE PERSON' ever put a condom on my cock and suck it. And I've damn NEVER sucked a cock with rubber on it...well unless I am relubing the top or getting him hard or helping him get excited again. But that was when I played safe-er

..Yeah I moan. Hell I moan when a guy fucking touches me or grabs me. Especially if the touches or fingers my ass. Then I really moan. And when I get fucked I moan a lot. If a top has a problem with it they either need to flip me on my belly and pound my ass and hold my face down so i can't really make noises or gag me. I moan when I am sucking cock too. I can't help. Most tops don't have a problem with it.

I was screaming the other night though. That's different.

So I decided to go out after work today. The one mistake I did make though was not cleaning out. I did go to the baths first and clean out the best I could there. Should have rented a room though so i could use my fleet. Was cheap and got a locker instead.

After much cruising at the bath house afterwork and lots of cock sucking I wasn't getting anywhere with fucking. Guys played with my ass plenty and I sucked lots of cock but people were too shy to fuck in public and in the sauna. Yeah it does get hot and sweaty in there but that don't stop me.

So I went to a sex club I haven't been to in a long time. It was get in free night . It was pretty busy and it was not even 10 o'clock. I went there a few months ago at almost midnight and it was DEAD. There were 2 other guys there. Tonight was different though. I went and first thing I did was see a guy near the room area and I was on my knees sucking him. I got on the bed and sucked him and others watched and I sucked some of them. He came on my back. One of the guys watching stayed and I closed the door and sucked him. Big bear guy really hot. After sucking him for a while he put on a condom *...* and started fucking me. I hated it but pretended to like it. He was starting to lose his hard on (imagine that..and he was wearing a condom). He told me he was sorry and pulled out. I pulled the condom off and rubbed his cock against my ass. This got him a little hard and I pushed back against it. He pushed into me and started fucking me for a few seconds but then he went limp. He did not cum probably just got freaking out fucking raw. Oh well.

Next, I saw this big beefy bear guy and he took me into a sling room area. He told me to strip and get on the sling and gave me a few doses of poppers. They did not do much for me though but he fucked me raw for a bit. He then stopped and left me in the sling for a while and came back. He did not fuck me but wanted me to suck him, kiss him, and play with his nipples. I was getting a little annoyed because his hold "attitude" did not seem dominant or controlling but selfish and put on. He got in the sling himself and wanted me to rim his hole. He then lifted his legs up and put them on the chains of the sling. Yeah..really a top. I told him sorry but bye.

I was getting ready to leave and (GOOOD PART CUMING UP) I saw this hot looking daddy in a green shirt with jeans. Damn he looked hot. I looked at him and he looked at me. I immedietely told him that I will service him. I got on my knees and started sucking his cock. It slowly rose and got pretty damn big. He then told me to take off my glasses and got me on the bed and started playing with my hole. He announced he would fuck me. He started to push in but I was tight and not losening up completely. He told me to use his poppers. The bottle looked different then what the other guy had but he did not give me much of a choice. I inhaled a huge deep breath. All of a sudden my body felt lifeless and I felt numb and somewhat paralyzed. I felt like I was floating and I felt something fucking hot going inside me. He was shoving his cock in my ass and my ass wasn't rejecting him. I did notice something else though.

Even though I was high on the poppers and just about in headspace I did in the back of my mind feel pain as something that large went inside me and made myself relax and open up slowly before he rammed it in. Even if I was high at the time I knew the pain would come back later. He then took control of my ass and fucked me like a bitch. He rammed his cock in and out and plowed me for quite a bit. He then started getting verbal and I was a bitch in heat taking his cock. He then asked me what I wanted and I told him I wanted to be bred like the bitch I am. He fucked me with a few more strokes and I felt his cum filling my ass. Damn that felt hot. He gave me his number afterwards but I found out that it was just a tad bit messy because I was not completely clean back there. Damn.

Guess it happens once in a while. I did not go home to use my water douche I went straight from work. I mistake I won't make again. Fortunately it wasn't too bad and could have been "MUCH" worse.

But I got to finally feel the difference between a closeted bottom pretending to be a dom top and an actual dom top.

The closet bottom top kept telling me what to do and wouldn't shut up and kept being "needy" and was too much bluff. The dom top just wanted ass. I sucked him and after he was hard and wet he shoved his cock up my ass after poppering me up and raped my ass. Damn that was hot. Now I know what a top really is. And now I know what to look for and what not to.

..So yeah from now on if I go straight from work I need to find a way to douche myself completely. Otherwise just come home and do it and go back out but deal with shit traffic. Oh well I'm sure it's happened to everyone once in a while. All in all it will help me become a better bottom

What is "gay print"? Just curious. Your outfit sounds hot though. The daisy dukes would be hot. Way to cold where I am to go out like that, unfortunately.

Well I have an android shirt with two androids holding a rainbow flag. I have an old shirt that someone gave me that is yellow and says "Get blown by a sailor", another that is blue with a jockstrap on it and I have a few bear ones. I don't have many of the gay subtle ones though. Ones like MILF, I've seen one that says BILF with a bear on it. Sort of gay prints like that. If that's the word for it.

Thanks

Heh. These tumblers are great. This reminds me of when I was younger and I was looking for porn online and sites like kingfuraday and other daddy fucking porn picture sites were really popular and I had to save all those pictures to my computer and jack off to them. Tumblr makes it so much easier and more convenient. I am honestly tired of all this olympics talk and pictures I see everywhere. I just want to see holes being fucked and bred (wishing they were mine)

Haha. I love the post about only bottoms on and no tops logging on. You sure that ain't Atlanta?

I think rawtop mentioned something once that it had something to do with the browser and the way the cache was saved or something. Or maybe that was a while back when there was actually a problem. I did remember that one time once. It does not happen much anymore but sometimes bbrt does randomly not allow you to log on. It never says there is an actual problem it just loops the log in process and makes you go "FUUUUUUU".

I have seen them post sometimes when they will go down for repair. All in all I am pretty happy with bbrt. If only there were more guys (tops) on it >_>, , >_<, X_X, o.o'

I have not seriously cruised bathrooms, truckstops, parks, and motel areas yet though. What I do though is on weekends when I go out I try to dress stylish. Some nice short jean shorts, nice tight shirt usually some gay print or message on it and the jeans shorts and tight jeans show off my ass nicely. I've gotten looks when I go out like that.

Now going out to bars. Used to wear leather but not much of it anymore. I've worn onion skin like mesh shorts or white see through shorts with a very small and tight shirt and I got cruised on big time. I have also started wearing daisy duke shorts that shows my dick when I get hard and really shows off my ass. I love those. Need to work out a bit more though and I can try some other things. I also wear a leather wristband too. Fucking love that. I do miss wearing leather though. No where to really wear it in this town though. In time.

I agree with what people are saying about other sites like manhunt with stating "safe only" and they will end up barebacking. Two guys on other hook up sites had safer sex in their profile and they are the ones who sort of started me with barebacking. A little alcohol and making out on the couch and some raw cock in my ass. Some making out and sucking in the bed and the guy "just wanted feel it bare" and he ended up fucking me raw a bit. They did not actually breed me though that came later.

But then..there are some who say "safer sex" and are condom nazis and fucking mean it. I still have safer sex on my profile though not ready to take that off yet. I have not fully commited to barebacking yet but I'm right at that line and it seems I'll cross it. Interestingly if things went another way I might have completely stopped barebacking and only done safe sex with one guy. In some ways I am sort of fortunate that did not happen.

I think this is what it really is. You talk to a guy in a bar, "oh yeah I use condoms and do safe sex". And then you end up breeding him or he ends up breeding you. Same as on an online site. It's probably more politically correct to say "safe sex" even if the person doesn't practice it. It's just a shield to hide behind. I do wish I could be more open about it. Seriously though, when I first turned 18 I went to a bunch of sex clubs and bath houses having sex and that got reported back to someone else. Snitches.. Reputations do follow you even if you don't realize it. Whether you are a flake online at a club or bar, if you are cheap, kind, easy, impossible to get to, etc. People do talk and people do know or assume. The only difference to people that are out is that they don't let it get to them. But being at a younger age I don't think it's the best thing in the world to let people know sexually what you are like and to do your best to have a good reputation. But having no reputation (like credit) also sucks too.

..I think there is a time and place for everything. As I said when I first posted this some people are at different stages or points in their life, "bi, young, married, curious, out, and etc." But it's interesting learning about how open some are. I did not think there would be this many responses but glad there is. I still won't go to a bar and openly announce "Hai guys I liek to get breed and eat cum and used like a bitch. PIMP ME OUT!". I'd do more subtle things like wear damn tight or small shorts, jock straps, show more body, and etc. Subtleness can be very sexy sometimes.

I am curious how many people are actually out and open about barebacking. I'm not going to assume everyone is gay but for starters coming out for some about being gay can be rather difficult. Now that you are in a community or group of people who are like you, when you realize you bareback not everyone takes kindly to it. If you add leather to the mix that makes things even more complicated.

For example do you post on non bareback hook up sites that you bareback. I've seen some say barebacking in their profile and some not say anything about it. And when you go to a bar if someone wants to hook up with you or you want to hook up with them do you admit to barebacking first or ask if they are into it or do you just let it happen naturally once it comes to fucking.

Do your friends or family (well..family doesn't really need to know) but do your friends know you are into barebacking or is that something that you keep secret. Same goes if you have a partner or etc.

I have only barebacked with one person from the bar but I thought afterwards, "What if this guy tells everyone here that I like to get barebacked". I thought about that. Especially in cities or small towns things spread fast and others know. It's not necessarily a bad thing depending on your view but it's bound to happen.

So as for me none of my friends or people close to me know about me barebacking. When I hook up with a guy (unless it's from bbrt) I don't mention it I just hope it will happen naturally. And on my other profiles I don't mention it. But when I post craigslist ads I don't mention bb either but don't say "safe" or "condoms". Since people on here are different ages and have different views I am just curious as to how open they are about barebacking. I wish I could be more open about it

Like everyone else said you have to do what works for you. I do agree with andymcgreggor and some others too. When I first turned 18 I went to a bookstore and online hook up sites. Almost no one wanted me. They all said I was too young or did not believe my age. Even now I still get turned down because the guys don't think I am interested in them and assume what my tastes are. I had my first breeding in a relationship and it was something I will never forget. Since then I did have it in a hook up by accident (stealthed..sort of) and ever since then I have been slowly becoming less cautious. I have a guy or two who I got together with regularly with to breed me and a hook up or two that bred me. I just started getting bred in bath house/book store but still been selective about it. Still nervous.

Pretty much every bottom fantasizes about getting bred multiple times, multiple guys, multiple ways, and different scenarios. But like the first time you lost your virginity you have to choose (or sometimes you dont') what is right for you.

For me, I prefer getting to know a guy a little well or at least sexually knowing who he is. It's fun being bred at a bath house but a bummer after it's over because then you crave more. And if you aren't willing to go all the way and be a complete cumpig and cumslut it's agonizing wanting what you are afraid to go after. Not sure what it's like once you reach the cumdump stage.

Do what feels best for you

...But more importantly the top *kisses ass...licks it too*

There's another side to it as well. You could always ask before the top sticks it in "ARE YOU POZ OR NEG". Now being asleep in that position is your own fault. Yes the top should disclose his HIV status but it takes two to tango and if you don't ask you don't know.

I'm not surprised by some of the comments. It doesn't matter if you are gay or not. There are certain things that are considered prohibited or taboo in the gay lifestyle and community and if you do those things they don't want anything to do with you or will judge you. It's just how it is unfortunately.

Yes, and a young guy's package looks so much sexier, maybe because of a flat stomach.

The reason why a kinky young guy is so hot, on a sling or a gang-bang, may be because most younger men are more controlled with their desires and fantasies. I became a slut at about age 45 and before that I wouldn't have dare to do the stuff I do now. Young slutty guys exist, but there are not as many as older ones.

You could be right about that. Younger guys are also hornier most of the time. I know I am. It is more common to see an older man completely pigging and slutting out. But to see a younger guy doing it is much less common. I think younger guys are becoming sluttier though

They now have them in Atlanta at a sex club I have been to a few times but isn't my favorite.

I have really wanted to go the first time they had it and now they had it a second time. But a few factors stop me. I can get out of the house easily so that's not a concern. However, sort of know the people who work there. Would be awkward to see them and assumptions might be made.

Second if I went would I go all the way and probably end up getting pozzed or just watch the guys. Those are obviously the two reasons. Besides poz cum there are probably tons of STDS flying around. Those would not be fun to deal with either.

Hell i'm in Atlanta.

We have 3-4 sex clubs here as well as a few book stores. One bookstore I visit often and I visit the baths sometimes too.

As for more local or hidden cruising spots. Those are trickier. I don't actually really "know" of a place where guys openly have sex. Obviously it can happen anywhere and It can and has. I do remember on a trip with a friend once coming back I had to use the bathroom bad so we stopped at a rest stop. I saw a big rig outside and got hard and excited but went inside so we could be on our way. As I was leaving I saw the man walk inside the restroom. Big beefy fucker and he gave me a look. Damn I should have gone for it but did not. Actually technically in Kauai there was that nude beach area. That was very non touristy and something the locals knew about. I wish there were more places like this in my area.

All we really have is the bookstores and bath houses. I hope to travel more and find more secret and hidden areas. Would love to get fucked in a park, rest stop, truck area, or a more outdoors type place

Go to Salvation/Goodwill. Tear the seams up the back of your pants. Buy a garish color like rust or even white. Make your own slutty clothes. Take a dump on some nice white jeans and let it soak in before you wash them; you owe it to all of us to go as low as you can

^^^This

I went to goodwill and got a few pairs of jeans for 5 or 7 bucks. Turned them into daisy dukes and they show my ass real nice when I wear them and they show my cock when I get hard. It's one thing to want to be fashionable and hot. But if you want a cheap slutty look or nice slutty clothes make your own and get some inspiration from the past too. Men back in the day knew how to wear them

I think it's better to clean yourself out first. I did before I met a top one night. Had no idea we were going to do piss anyways but cleaned my hole out nice and well regardless of what would be done (besides me being done).

One of the first things he did was piss fuck my hole. Damn it was so hot. I'll admit I'm not a fan of shower shots and cleaning myself but something about that warm piss going up inside me reminding me of how earlier I was getting myself nice and clean for the top felt right. He let me use the restroom immediately though (thank god) and continued to fuck me, breed me, piss in, and repeat several times over. Damn good night.

..I guess the thing to really know about a piss enema is once it's up there it's going to need to come out soon and fast. Try to be somewhere convinent nearby if he is going to piss in your ass. Unless he wants to breed you that way