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Fuck had a great night tonight.

Went to a book store and sucked quite a few dicks and got one guy to fuck me for a bit. Diddn't cum though. Best part was I got in for free. One guy tried to sell me his ticket and I told him no I'll just buy my own. Oddly enough another guy near the door offered his to me for free. I was a bit hesitant, but he assured me it was free and there was no charge. So I swiped it and got in for free . The only thing that bugs me was there was this really hot daddy there who cruised the hell out of me and followed me around and gave me so many signs but when I tried to do the same back he walked away or acted like I wasn't there. And surely enough when I turned around he would too. But eh whatever.

The second place I went to was a sex club and I got in for free because of certain promotion going on. It was dead but I saw this cute late 20's jock guy. Real masculine and hot as hell. He cruised me big time. When we are in the room and he pulls down his pants he is wearing really sexy underwear. I immediately, start sucking him, groping his balls, flicking and pinching his nipples, and grabbing his legs and feeling his body as he face fucks me. He tells me to stand up and he bends me over. He pulls out a condom..fuck. He lubes me up a bit and starts fucking me. It was okay..he had some trouble getting in though. After several attempts and a few partial fucks he says, "...Can I fuck you bare". I asked his status (..pointless but w/e) and after he tells me I say go ahead. Damn it felt so much better bare. It went in easier and stayed hard and his speed increased. He eventually came in my ass. Damn it felt so hot.

A little later there was this hot bearish latino daddy. I get on my knees in the area he is in and start licking and mouthing his cock through his pants. I eventually pull them down and suck his cock. Damn his cock was nice. After a while I pull my pants down and bend over. I sort of ride on his cock in the open and a few guys are watching. He is enjoying it but I can tell he is a little nervous. We go into a room and I bend over and he puts on a condom. Fuck. He pushes in and it just doesn't feel right. Sort of hurts and feels abrasive. I eject him out and pull the condom off. I jerk his dick a little and he pushes back inside me.

..SO MUCH FUCKING BETTER. Damn he pounds my ass hard and fast. He keeps telling me that my ass is his pussy too and that he loves my boy pussy. Another guy said that tonight too. Doesn't bother me. He tells me he is going to cum and I tell him to fuck me hard and breed my ass. Okay I was lost in it so it was probably, "OH DADDY FUUUUUCCCCK MEEEE FUCK MEEEE!!! BREED MEE DADDY!!! OH COME ON BREED ME I NEED IT SO FUCKING BAD" or something like that.

Hey if a top don't like me making noise he can always gag me or cover my mouth. That's fucking hot too. It doesn't take him long and I feel his cum filling my ass with the other cum still in there. Damn so hot that I got two loads. We make out a bit and I get on top of him and sit on his dick. We quickly switch though and I am on my belly with my ass sticking up and he lays on top of me and pushes in. Fuck it felt so good. I loved how he used his body as extra force to fuck and made me take it deeper and rougher. And he came in me again. We made out a little bit and he sucked me for a little bit and I came. And then we finished. I sucked some other guys there..in dark room I was so tempted to drop my shorts and beg the men to fuck me. But I'm really not fond of dark room sex for fucking. Somewhat hesitant with sucking too. I like to know who I am servicing.

But yeah. Hot as hell and did not cost me anything. Just gas ;P

Hated to lose that cum though but I ejected it when I got home. I've gotten so much better at cleaning myself out that I get done so much faster then I used to. It's still somewhat a hassle but it fucking pays off

Fuck had a great night tonight.

Went to a book store and sucked quite a few dicks and got one guy to fuck me for a bit. Diddn't cum though. Best part was I got in for free. One guy tried to sell me his ticket and I told him no I'll just buy my own. Oddly enough another guy near the door offered his to me for free. I was a bit hesitant, but he assured me it was free and there was no charge. So I swiped it and got in for free . The only thing that bugs me was there was this really hot daddy there who cruised the hell out of me and followed me around and gave me so many signs but when I tried to do the same back he walked away or acted like I wasn't there. And surely enough when I turned around he would too. But eh whatever.

The second place I went to was a sex club and I got in for free because of certain promotion going on. It was dead but I saw this cute late 20's jock guy. Real masculine and hot as hell. He cruised me big time. When we are in the room and he pulls down his pants he is wearing really sexy underwear. I immediately, start sucking him, groping his balls, flicking and pinching his nipples, and grabbing his legs and feeling his body as he face fucks me. He tells me to stand up and he bends me over. He pulls out a condom..fuck. He lubes me up a bit and starts fucking me. It was okay..he had some trouble getting in though. After several attempts and a few partial fucks he says, "...Can I fuck you bare". I asked his status (..pointless but w/e) and after he tells me I say go ahead. Damn it felt so much better bare. It went in easier and stayed hard and his speed increased. He eventually came in my ass. Damn it felt so hot.

A little later there was this hot bearish latino daddy. I get on my knees in the area he is in and start licking and mouthing his cock through his pants. I eventually pull them down and suck his cock. Damn his cock was nice. After a while I pull my pants down and bend over. I sort of ride on his cock in the open and a few guys are watching. He is enjoying it but I can tell he is a little nervous. We go into a room and I bend over and he puts on a condom. Fuck. He pushes in and it just doesn't feel right. Sort of hurts and feels abrasive. I eject him out and pull the condom off. I jerk his dick a little and he pushes back inside me.

..SO MUCH FUCKING BETTER. Damn he pounds my ass hard and fast. He keeps telling me that my ass is his pussy too and that he loves my boy pussy. Another guy said that tonight too. Doesn't bother me. He tells me he is going to cum and I tell him to fuck me hard and breed my ass. Okay I was lost in it so it was probably, "OH DADDY FUUUUUCCCCK MEEEE FUCK MEEEE!!! BREED MEE DADDY!!! OH COME ON BREED ME I NEED IT SO FUCKING BAD" or something like that.

Hey if a top don't like me making noise he can always gag me or cover my mouth. That's fucking hot too. It doesn't take him long and I feel his cum filling my ass with the other cum still in there. Damn so hot that I got two loads. We make out a bit and I get on top of him and sit on his dick. We quickly switch though and I am on my belly with my ass sticking up and he lays on top of me and pushes in. Fuck it felt so good. I loved how he used his body as extra force to fuck and made me take it deeper and rougher. And he came in me again. We made out a little bit and he sucked me for a little bit and I came. And then we finished. I sucked some other guys there..in dark room I was so tempted to drop my shorts and beg the men to fuck me. But I'm really not fond of dark room sex for fucking. Somewhat hesitant with sucking too. I like to know who I am servicing.

But yeah. Hot as hell and did not cost me anything. Just gas ;P

Hated to lose that cum though but I ejected it when I got home. I've gotten so much better at cleaning myself out that I get done so much faster then I used to. It's still somewhat a hassle but it fucking pays off

^^^^This

For someone new there is nothing more intimidating/exciting then a bar full of gay men and the bar being packed. You go early when it's slow and you don't have to worry about finding a place to sit or all eyes being on you. What I usually do is just order a drink and sit at the bar or as close as I can and just enjoy the drink and smile and have fun in my drunken stupor and if there are people nearby I usually try to at least chat with them. Even if you aren't interested in someone it never hurts to chat with people. But like you said if you aren't interested with them don't chat with them in a flirty way to mislead them. But also if people in the bar see you happy, social, and having fun you will probably be more attractive and approachable then someone who is alone and looks nervous and scared.

It does help to let the bartender know it's your first time and you are a little nervous and if they have any advice. And to stay close to them too. Especially if they are cute. I visit one bar frequently just because of that bartender..and the food.

And like others said a guy generally needs to make some kind of eye contact with you to know he's interested in you. But that goes the same way. You might shy away at first or turn but if you keep looking back and him or he looks back at you chances are he or you are interested. But sometimes they can be unsure and will never make a move and you have to. Or you can even make a move and they might act cold or indifferent because they are nervous.

Best of luck

actually theres plenty of tops who swear by the condom. For several years I used condoms (altho found myself fantasizing about doing it raw) and never really had trouble hooking up with a top who wanted to / agreed to use a condom.

I guess once you kinda fall in love with barebacking you start losing the ability to understand why anyone would ever even choose to use a condom. there are also a lot of misinformed people out there. While it's possible to contract std's while topping bare, it's less likely than when bottoming...now what they taught my generation in school is: IF YOU DICK TOUCHES THEIR NAKED SKIN ANYWHERE EVEN FOR A SECOND YOU WILL DIE OF AIDS. haha guess the scare tactic didnt work out so well on some of us

You hit it.

I used condoms since I was 18 and just stopped recently. I got plenty of dick and got fucked plenty of times safely. I would be overcautious sometimes and check the guy and make sure he was wearing a condom. Even when I barebacked with trusted partners I still would only use condoms for others and enjoy it and get plenty of sex. Maybe it's just my area but it's pretty much 50/50 with condoms bare. Most guys do prefer bare but won't admit it. But there are enough in my area that live it bare. And the ones with the condoms...there are a good amount of men who wear condoms always and don't have a problem with it. But there are also a lot who use condoms but wish they did not but do it anyways and bareback maybe every full blue moon.

I do think back now and wonder how I ever enjoyed it with the condoms. I did get stealthed twice though now that I think about it. I don't think a safe sex bottom will ever go through life without getting stealthed once.

Probably because I'm young. I'm not trying to suck up or anything too if I was I wouldn't do it like this.

RawTop for creating and running this site. This site really to me feels like an old gay forum I used to go to. I loved it and was always happy to post there. It's lacking the off topic randomness too which annoyed me. But it just feels at home and being curious about barebacking, starting to bareback, taking loads now, it just seems that all everyone wants to do here is help each other, get advice, share their experiences and stories, get off, and feel like a home. Which it does and I like that. Also respect RawTop for being so open, honest, and uncaring about barebacking and the fact that THE FREE PREVIEWS KICK ASS. All the content is really nice too.

Also that iblastinside guy is amazing too. Running a blog like that openly stating about barebacking, the bareback brotherhood, and not giving a damn what people think. Takes fucking balls to not only think like that but openly state what you like and not give a damn about what others think.

I'm starting to like and respect a few people who post on here too. It's just the way people are so "open" and honest about barebacking and act like it's a natural and hot thing to do. Also excepting that it's dangerous, risky, and life altering but owning that.

I should watch those TIM films. Never really seen any. But seriously knowing there people out there who will openly state they bareback, stealth, breed, poz, and etc. and being worried about tiny things like, "being out at work", trying not to offend people you meet, being shy, not having enough confidence. It just makes everything else..every little problem or nitpick just seem useless or silly since there are a hell lot more of things to worry about but not only that but even if your gay, leather, poz, a barebacker that people will still accept you and there is still people you can talk to who are like you.

Thank you everyone on this site and everyone who is brave enough to not care what people think about them and be who they are. That's what I want to be like someday..

Don't know who you are but great and well written thought out post. You explain everything so clearly and the bullet points help too. I'm somewhat in the same boat you are too. I never used poppers and my early experiences with poppers where men so horny to take fists up their ass they might as well have shoved the bottle up their nose because they wanted anything and everything up their ass with no control or care.

Being trained as a submissive/slave I learned to take cock, toys, get fucked, and have my ass opened up on command without poppers. Proper breathing techniques, control of your mind and mental state I guess, and relaxation, and the desire to want it..need it.

I'll admit though I have trouble with my shower shot sometimes and sometimes even if I try to will it in, relax, or breath the rod won't go in my ass. Then sometimes I have to fantasize about a rough daddy telling me to fucking take it and shoving it in (slowly though) then once inside I try to relax my ass as much as possible so I don't damage it or stretch it too bad.

Pretty much all fucks I've taken have been without poppers. Took a 10 inch dick without poppers, basically a whole bottle of lube though and a condom without poppers. Was so hard to take because it felt like it was breaking through another wall or something but I took it. At a sex club once man had a massive dick and I sat on his 9 inch and took it like a champ without poppers. In a sling once too, carefully, and slowly, willed my ass to open and relax and take the man's cock. The only problem..or maybe reality of doing this is you have to take a few breathers, a little patience, and a gradually take it. If a top just shoves it in it's going to hurt and mess up the concentration.

But with poppers a few weeks ago a not dom top, top fucked me with poppers. They did not really do much for and I felt it for a minute and that as it. But with another top the man wanted my ass and when he was pushing in, I felt the pressure and him trying to get in and me slowly trying to take it. He pulls out a bottle of poppers and I don't even, sniff deeply and hold it in, and breathe out, must have been a different kind of popper but just it that close to my nostril, went inside fast and I felt:

Floating, numb, unaware, still, like time stopped, and I could feel his cock going inside me in the back of my mind but also somewhere in the real back part of my mind I did feel a little pain but it felt like it was lessened or suppressed. I just lay there basically as he fucks me and takes me ass. Although, while he is fucking me I can still feel that I am able to relax my ass and open up and not just completely let him pound me. No idea what kind of poppers they were.

I said that because I got with a top the other night who gave me 5-6 sniffs of poppers and each time I felt a huge thrill and rush to my head and it felt like a copy of headspace. But not as strong as the real headspace or those other poppers. Each time I felt like I fell more too and it felt like any bondage, chains, or restraints around my inhibitions were slowly being unraveled and coming undone. But after a certain point the effect lessened and seemed like too much. Kind of like what you said.

I still think that in some ways the bottom should be able to get to that level of excitement and piggyness without poppers and show their nature, submission, desire, hunger, and lust. But maybe poppers aren't a bad thing. I'll admit the next time I get fucked I do want to feel that raw feeling of submission with the heightened pleasure and sensory overload and feeling of headspace.

But at the same time I have noticed that. I see and hear about mostly pigs using poppers. In my experience DOMS or Tops that are more controlling, and bottoms who give control to them have a much stronger dynamic sexually where it seems so natural, raw, intense, and overloads with headspace vs. someone using poppers to fuck, cum, blow someone, or get fucked.

But maybe that's just me. I think they probably can be addicting though. I have heard that the better ones give less headache and are much stronger.

There is also that one poppers like thing that you soak in a bandana or cloth and tie it around your mouth and bite down/inhale on it. I have seen some guys do that before and also seen/fisted some of those guys before. But the mindset they are in is almost unimaginable. It's like they want to take everything given to them. To be honest, it is actually rather hot and inspiring. Just wondering if you can get there without the poppers

I've really been wondering how to get clean at the baths. Where I work I am in the city so if I could leave work, go to the baths and get cleaned up and out there, and then have sex and fuck a bit by around 6pm I will have already be in the heart of the city and free to stay at the baths and get some dick, cruise, or relax or go out to a book store for a while, eat, or go to a bar or club later.

Vs, going OTP, going home, greetings, shower shot or fleet, going through the rinse, release a few times, waiting, showering, and waiting until like 7 or so to go out because traffic is too heavy and then having less time to be out and more worried about being home at a reasonable time because of work the next day.

I've heard of enema bags. Not sure if at my baths I could really do that since showers are somewhat public. Only one shower is more private. I have never heard of that rubber hose thing though that can be used in a bath room. Need to look into that more.

Are for the glycerine sticks. I like that idea. When I got my wisdom teeth removed a few months ago I had suppositories and liquid medicine since I am horrible at taking pills. The liquid was for sleepyness/upset stomach, and the suppository was for the pain. It was so easy to lube up my hole and stick the suppository in and feel better. If there was a bowel movement control type suppository that is safe and doesn't have stuff that will F up your colon or insides I would be more then happy to try that. I have trouble with fleet enemas because of the long plastic tube like thing that you have to stick back there. Also since I tend to be tighter back there (nervousness, lack of experience, don't get fucked enough) most of the time the fleet can't even go into my ass because it's being blocked off. It's really cumbersome to do but even so it's quicker then shower shots. I prefer shower shots because it's just water and I kinda like the metal rod being up my ass. I don't like the time it takes to rinse and repeat though.

Might have to try a douche bag (lol) to save water too. Been screamed at a few times with my more frequent showers. I do recommend if anyone does water fleets doing them before you go to work or when you wake up. Had to release some of it at work but when it came to tricking that night my ass was pretty damn clean and no messes. If you aren't able to go home or something or no access to a shower.

Glad people are giving such great advice to a very important aspect for bottoms.

Sounds like a great idea. Besides being poz and barebacking it's also good advertisement and if out and about cruising and you see a guy who has the tattoo you will also know you have something in common.

I really like that generic loading zone picture with the cock squirting in the ass but I know you want something original. I'm not a designer or anything but having noticed the site "logo" it looks really good. Find a way to incorporate those colors

You could always do a sketch or something similar to your avatar. That avatar seems to represent this forum perfectly

Oh right almost forgot...

Sunday night after failure at bars I hooked up with a regular buddy of mine. He sprained his knee though so I could only ride him for a little bit. I still had fun though. He is a passionate top and I love making out with that man and love when he grabs my ass as I kiss him and finger fuck my hole. I'll get with him again.

Went to the bookstore though. Found a hot latino daddy. Asked him if he was neg or poz and he said he did not understand what I meant. I kept asking and he got confused. Strange. I just bent over and he took out a condom and said, "I always use these". He had a pretty good sized dick and cam basically as soon as he got inside me. He told me I should always use condoms too and always play safe...

....Next

Had a guy or two stick it me but just fucked me for a bit. A cute cubbish guy I was lusting for hard did not seem to give a damn about me so I gave up on him. After leaving for a bit to ride with a stranger to an undisclosed location and give him a blow job in a car and as he "wanted to make sure" I swallow his load since he loved piggy bottoms to swallow his load I came back to the bookstore. Still have no idea how that happened but it was hot.

I decided to go into one of the cubicles and saw a guy sitting through the hole. I showed him my face and desire for cock and I couldn't believe it. It was the hot cub I was lusting after. He stuck his cock through and I started sucking and heard him groaning and moaning. Almost instantly, I took my lips off his dick and for the first time ever backed up my ass to the glory hole.

Never ever done that before but was so horny for that man's cock. He rubbed my ass a bit, spanking it, and fingered me, and kept rubbing my boy ass and making me purr like a bitch in heat. He stuck his cock inside me and damn it felt so good. It was hard taking it though since I am short and I did not have much balance. He invited me into his cubicle. I went in and immediately got on my knees. He was cute and I would have loved to kiss him but he did not look like he was after that. He looked like a horny man who needed ass. I immediately bent over and felt his cock go inside me. Fuck it felt great and he was fucking me hard. After a while I said I want him to breed me and want his load inside me. After fucking me for a bit he pulled out.

..I realized he was wearing a condom the entire time..

...OMFG WTF

I was so into the lust, pleasure, sex, and being a slut for him that I assumed he was fucking me bare and that it did not feel completely full because I was still adjusting to his size and have a tight hole. (which I do..dammit). He pulled his condom off and shoved his bare dick inside my ass and fucked me like a man should fuck a bottom boy. Oh fuck it felt so much better and so damn good. He had a damn good rhythm and started fucking me hard and I heard him start to really growl and and groan. I felt his load inside me and fuck it felt so hot. He pulled out and I immediately sucked his dick. HE was surprised. After the sensitive came to his dick he pulled me off and pulled up his pants. I thanked him and we parted.

..Usually I clean up after that. But I thought..I have a load in my ass..I need another. I found another guy to fuck me. He was fucking me raw even though I had a load up there. He did not cum in me though just fucked me for a bit. Had this really pushy guy hit on me too. Literally blocked my path and everything and kept harassing me. I was about to tell his ass off and he kind of begged. So I let him fuck me he used a condom. Kinda happy he did. It felt pretty fucking good though. I kept remembering how before about how he was begging for me to go in the room with him and wanted my number. He was damn cute just his attitude and approach was horrible. After he fucked me though he lost all interest thank god.

Damn. Can't believe I backed my ass up to a glory hole. Never thought I'd do that before. Oh and I of course took a shower when I got home. At least I know that because I'm shorter if I do that in the future the top will more then likely invite me in to make it easier to fuck me and so I can serve him better

Oh right almost forgot...

Sunday night after failure at bars I hooked up with a regular buddy of mine. He sprained his knee though so I could only ride him for a little bit. I still had fun though. He is a passionate top and I love making out with that man and love when he grabs my ass as I kiss him and finger fuck my hole. I'll get with him again.

Went to the bookstore though. Found a hot latino daddy. Asked him if he was neg or poz and he said he did not understand what I meant. I kept asking and he got confused. Strange. I just bent over and he took out a condom and said, "I always use these". He had a pretty good sized dick and cam basically as soon as he got inside me. He told me I should always use condoms too and always play safe...

....Next

Had a guy or two stick it me but just fucked me for a bit. A cute cubbish guy I was lusting for hard did not seem to give a damn about me so I gave up on him. After leaving for a bit to ride with a stranger to an undisclosed location and give him a blow job in a car and as he "wanted to make sure" I swallow his load since he loved piggy bottoms to swallow his load I came back to the bookstore. Still have no idea how that happened but it was hot.

I decided to go into one of the cubicles and saw a guy sitting through the hole. I showed him my face and desire for cock and I couldn't believe it. It was the hot cub I was lusting after. He stuck his cock through and I started sucking and heard him groaning and moaning. Almost instantly, I took my lips off his dick and for the first time ever backed up my ass to the glory hole.

Never ever done that before but was so horny for that man's cock. He rubbed my ass a bit, spanking it, and fingered me, and kept rubbing my boy ass and making me purr like a bitch in heat. He stuck his cock inside me and damn it felt so good. It was hard taking it though since I am short and I did not have much balance. He invited me into his cubicle. I went in and immediately got on my knees. He was cute and I would have loved to kiss him but he did not look like he was after that. He looked like a horny man who needed ass. I immediately bent over and felt his cock go inside me. Fuck it felt great and he was fucking me hard. After a while I said I want him to breed me and want his load inside me. After fucking me for a bit he pulled out.

..I realized he was wearing a condom the entire time..

...OMFG WTF

I was so into the lust, pleasure, sex, and being a slut for him that I assumed he was fucking me bare and that it did not feel completely full because I was still adjusting to his size and have a tight hole. (which I do..dammit). He pulled his condom off and shoved his bare dick inside my ass and fucked me like a man should fuck a bottom boy. Oh fuck it felt so much better and so damn good. He had a damn good rhythm and started fucking me hard and I heard him start to really growl and and groan. I felt his load inside me and fuck it felt so hot. He pulled out and I immediately sucked his dick. HE was surprised. After the sensitive came to his dick he pulled me off and pulled up his pants. I thanked him and we parted.

..Usually I clean up after that. But I thought..I have a load in my ass..I need another. I found another guy to fuck me. He was fucking me raw even though I had a load up there. He did not cum in me though just fucked me for a bit. Had this really pushy guy hit on me too. Literally blocked my path and everything and kept harassing me. I was about to tell his ass off and he kind of begged. So I let him fuck me he used a condom. Kinda happy he did. It felt pretty fucking good though. I kept remembering how before about how he was begging for me to go in the room with him and wanted my number. He was damn cute just his attitude and approach was horrible. After he fucked me though he lost all interest thank god.

Damn. Can't believe I backed my ass up to a glory hole. Never thought I'd do that before. Oh and I of course took a shower when I got home. At least I know that because I'm shorter if I do that in the future the top will more then likely invite me in to make it easier to fuck me and so I can serve him better

Hey guys,

Looks like I might end up with a free day or two in the Atlanta area, depending on how things go with my next delivery. It's been many years since my last visit and I'd love to enjoy the hospitality of the city again.

So can anyone post the best places to hit for a piggy barebacker? Sex clubs, baths, bars, sleazy places generally.

Alternatively, if anyone's interested in getting together and hanging out, maybe having a little party, that'd be great too.

Here are my difficulties:

1) Most likely, I'll be in town and available to check things out Monday and/or Tuesday, which are often dead nights (but maybe a local bath has a good special going?)

2) I'll be parking my truck in a secure location, most likely the TA on the east side of the city close to where I-20 and I-285 cross. Which also means that my options for transportation are either (a) public transit ( cabs or © renting a car for a day or so. I'm assuming car rentals (or maybe cabs) are most expensive, and I have no problems with using transit if it's safe, reliable, reasonably fast and gets me where I want to go. (I suppose there's also (d) someone willing to pick me up, for which I'll gladly trade gas money and sexual favors but I wouldn't want to impose )

Any help or advice would be most appreciated! And anyone interested in hooking up while I'm there, please get in touch.

Muhahaha

Your talking to the guy who basically has the entire database of all the gay clubs, saunas, and bookstores in Atlanta. Working on the bars but got them for the most part. All in my head

I'm not real knowledgeable on rental cars but I do know there is a petro truck stop little past downtown Atlanta. I found it once cruising

I'll be honest MARTA is a horrible transit system. If you are staying somewhere in Atlanta or around the area you could very well use marta to get to the sleazy spots. No problem since they are mostly in the general area midtown. We have about 3 sex clubs and a few bookstores. There is Flex which I visit often *grin* and it can be very bareback friendly. I've done it there a few times and most people if they fuck raw in public do it in the steam room. But it's easy to find guys in the rooms that are bb friendly. There are a few signs to tell. There is a pool which okay but at least showers, locker rooms, and rooms and a few special rooms. There is a glory hole area too.

Eros is a tad bit sleazy and doesn't look the cleanest or the nicest but some like it that way. It used to be really packed but it's starting to pick up momentum again. I do notice that truckers gather over around that area and park. No idea if they are looking for dick or ass or if there is some truck thing over there. But I've had a trucker cock or two at eros. There are a few black out areas there too, some slings, glory holes, light mazish, and some rooms.

Manifest has been described as more upscale but it's also a little bit more stuck up and some of the guys have more attitude. There are pretty men there though. And big dicks. Not everyone seems to play though. Manifest does have poz night, spanking events and even cumunion now. Really...really been wanting to go to that but not ready to take that leap of faith right now. They have internet and some soft drinks but also MOUTH WASH. YES MOUTH WASH. Oh and flex has internet too but less computers then manifest.

We also have a book store called "inserections". Top level is porn and sex toys and bottom is cubicles with little rooms and some glory holes. There is an upstairs downstairs now that has 4 bed areas and one GIANT bed for orgies. It's a hit and miss but I've gotten some damn good cock there and guy do bareback there. But i'd say it's 50/50 there.

I'd say the barebacking happens more at eros and flex. Sometimes at inserections..I got asked a lot in the past to take it bare. Really wish I did from a hot trucker once but turned it down.

There are a few other gems or cruising areas too but those are the big ones. There are membership fees for the sex clubs, a cover charge for the book store and flex has day passes. I don't know how friendly flex is at getting trucks. Parking is kind of iffy so a cab or rental might be needed to get to flex. The others basically have trucker parking..if that's what it is. I am going to go to those truckers and say, "Hey..whats with all these truckers parking here. What's up with that"...

*smack*

Not really but I am curious as to why there are always truckers over there. Confuses and excites me. The one thing you do need to know about Atlanta is there are TONS OF BOTTOMS. Oh there is also a cruisy motel area. I stayed there over night once. Guys walking around looking for sex. Some of the rooms are really a hit and miss though.

However...if you really want fun sex I recommend parliament house in Augusta. No idea what it's like for trucker parking but they have campers and RV's in the back. But the maze they have there makes Atlanta sex club mazes look like a little mouse maze *giggles*.

it's just incredible and the lighting is low on the first level but there are SO MANY turns, corners, rooms, glory holes, slings, and all these random spots and different ways to have sex. I was scared like hell first going in there but I had some fun. Had fun sucking two dicks at once too. I earned a slut feather that night...

....

But anyways. Yeah Atlanta will be WAYYYYY different then what you remember. Hotlanta races are gone as is the name Hotlanta. It's now the ATL and the culture is more urban, hip hop, country, and god awful pop. But the music at the clubs are generally pretty good. If you wanna learn more about Atlanta feel free to ask me. I'll make an unofficial Atlanta book someday...and I'll do it out of state

Hope this answered some of your questions Sir.

Used to have trouble with dildos. Tried it when I was a virgin and hurt myself bad once using it and trying to force it in >_>"

I got it in sometimes but it seemed to hurt more then feel good. Even when getting fucked the first few times it hurt more then it felt good. A few more cocks in my ass though I got used to it. Hell I couldn't even eat cum at first. Was turned off by it and would not swallow..lol

I was originally trained and had to wear a butt plug everyday. My Master taught me great ass control too and how to relax your whole, breathing exercises which made it easier for him to mount me whenever he wanted. Once he just bent me over the bed, used a little spit and fucked me til he came. The main thing I believe a bottom can do to break in their hole is to "find a way to enjoy it". When first using shower shots I hated that metal rod going up my ass. But I'll admit I would sometimes, bite my skin, or suck my finger and pretend it was a fat daddy dick going in and not only did I know I had to take it but I wanted to take it. Once your hole really relaxes your ass just sucks it in. But I ain't an expert at taking large cocks or toys. My hole doesn't get fucked enough for that. And I don't play with my hole a lot because honestly I prefer a man to use my hole. If I was ordered to though and ensured sex I would.

I know a friend who got into fisting he trained his hole for a year with toys from small to large, breathing techniques, lots of lube, and taking all kinds of things up his ass until he eventually was able to take fists and get fisted.

If you really wanted to if a top slams it into you or pushes it in and you are not fully relaxed or open..he will open you up and sort of pop it in even if you aren't a virgin. The downside to that is I think too much of that can stretch out your hole which can be good or bad depending on your case. Some bottoms might like it others might same goes for tops. I heard too that if you clench your ass a few times before you sleep you start to develop muscle control for you ass. And I guess better at tightening it up when the tops cums. Best of luck

I got a few. Got straight up hit up by really hot guys on BBRT. Just damn hot even gave me their number. Responded with one of them 10 minutes after I got his message with a definite, "HELL YES" and did not here back. Already saw my pictures so not like they saw me and ran away >_>"

I know sometimes people hook up with someone else or go to sleep or are away from the computer. But they view me again the next day and don't say a word. Change of heart I guess. Maybe it's for the best. As much as I love barebacking I'm sort of glad that I limit it and only do it every so often. I'm sure there will be a day where I'm filled with cum every night and sometimes multiple times a day. But that day will come when it (are you ready for it..) cums

I know sometimes if it's a weekend night and I get hit up by a guy or we talk and it's late and one of us falls asleep it might be a few hours the next day or maybe a day later but I'll respond that, "Shit..passed out" or "Sorry hooked up with someone else". At least to let em know. Not cool to leave someone hanging. It's universally understood, "not always accepted but understood" that if you unlock or message a guy and you never hear anything they don't have an interest in you or don't care and leave it at that.

I also find it strange how in sex clubs or bookstores sometimes a guy will completely ignore you if you pass him or look at him but when he sees your ass or sees you in a glory hole room he will stick his cock out and let you blow him or ride it. Or invite you into his cubicle or room and make out with you and have a full on session. I can understand that when guys are in clubs that always are constantly checking out other guys and weighing their options. But if you have the littlest bit of interest in another guy at least show it. At least "add him to your que" and let him know "I might be into him a few hours later or after I walk around". It's rather strange if interest is shown out of the blue later.

...Oh and not sure if I should tell this but I'm ranty tonight. Went to a sort of stripper club a few nights ago. Was planning on going to a different bar in my short short daisy dukes and desert storm boots but stopped off at the strip bar instead. Had a few boys pawing at my cock and ass since it was so easily exposed. I went to the back area and sat all the way in the back with my drink not trying to flirt or show off. Just watching the guys chat, cruise, and the hot boys dance..and thinking about myself up their dancing and having that body and showing off a bit. Noticed my dick was getting a little hard so I pushed it back and my balls as well because even though I did wear revealing daisy dukes was not trying to whore off my body. Because it was a last minute decision to go to that place. Partially through my drink I am drunk and feeling happy and without thinking I got hard and it was hanging out I guess. Random troll comes over and yells at me for having my dick exposed and telling me I need to leave. Confused as fuck not knowing what he is on and a little drunk, he tells me he is going to tell management. I rushed out the backdoor when I saw him walking.

God damn. Even if I wasn't allowed to show skin he could have said, "Scuse me sir, could you kindly tuck in your balls and cock since it's against regulation for those to show in a gay strip club bar with boys dancing on the tables."

Totally threw off my groove. I was a bit shaken by that..and really drunk so the next bar I hit I was a little sloppy with. Decided to just fuck with a friend that night and then hit the sex clubs instead. Had a much better time. I was told I should have ignored that asshole though. Even if I was in the wrong, "don't know if I was" a simple excuse me would have sufficed not try to get my ass thrown out. I was planning on finding one of the cute boys later and have a lap dance or tip them if they were nice and seemed friendly. Also get a feel of what it's like to be a dancer since once I work on myself more I sort of am thinking of that.

...Research gone wrong I pressume...

Besides big cocks, gays LOVE a well toned or muscled body, it's a huge obsession. I also love toned bodies, but if I were to choose, I'd prefer better looks, a cute manly and horny face but no muscles, and even a bit of belly fat drives me crazy, much more than a muscled body guy who's face is not the best looking one. Reason for this might be that all muscled bodies tend to look the same, gets boring over time, but a face is unique to every single human. Also, anyone can have a muscled body if they work for it, it's not a natural feature they were born/blessed with, so if the guy with good looking face gets toned/muscled, wow! would be fantastic. So what do you feel, if you were to decide between one or the other, which one you prefer.

You just won my heart and probably a few others on here . My body might not be as toned or muscle as it can be but it's still pretty slim. I'm a little bit furry in some areas but my face is DAMN CUTE!!!

I do agree. First off I've never been crazy about muscled or toned bodies. I generally like stockier guys but have no problem with fit guys or guys who aren't buff, muscular, or toned. There is something about average men too their face, personality, their attitude, and just them as a whole which is either warm, funny, happy, or just human. Sometimes guys with damn good looking bodies or okay faces just don't seem all that human. I've been to strip clubs before and I know not all guys are like that. But some of those guys expect you to bow before them to be acknowledged by them.

If you ever watch the "butch factor" it's a very great documentary that says a lot about masculine, buff, muscular, and toned guys and how people perceive them and the pros and cons of them. Also shows the average side of guys who aren't like that and the pros and cons of that as well. Just a great documentary and a great way to help people feel more confident with their own masculinity or sense of self and their body and be happy with it regardless of what others thing. But yeah I'm being a little ranty right now I apologize. I'm like that at night sometimes.

But yeah a guy has to have a cute face. Or sexy face. Even if he ain't into kissing *grrr* it's nice to at least see that smile and laughter or smirk.

I guess I'm lucky that I haven't really been preached about barebacking. I never had to because originally I was pro condoms. I was never really anti-barebacking and I believed it was cool if it was monogamous..until I learned later how often men cheat on each other. But I used condoms and some people did not. Wasn't going to judge them. I did remember though on xtube once when I watched a fucking video where the guy used condoms someone posted "The fucking condoms ruined the video the guy needed to remove the condom. Hate videos with condoms." Thought the man was crazy at first until I did start to get off on bareback porn and eventually bareback. And now I would post the same thing that condoms in videos turn me off. Well not post but just think outloud.

A guy I really liked though was condom nazi. Wouldn't even get his cock near my ass without a condom. He was a damn good fuck but did not fuck a lot (blew him and jacked him off more...greatly improved my skills though) but his whole condom thing was annoying. Only time he ever rubbed his cock against my ass was when he was drunk and stoned once. I felt him push put then he put on a condom. I haven't told people close to me I bb though but got re-assured the other night about me staying out late (I got a curfew) that I am an adult and I can do whatever I want because I probably will anyways. Still though. Might be harder for some gay men to accept barebacking especially the ones who were around during the AIDS epidemic and buried their friends so to speak or watched some of them die. Don't think it makes that right for "anyone" to judge about barebacking since gays in general are judged for being gay. But there is a HELL lot of judgement in this gay community.

Maybe it's just me but it seems that older tops are more popular. I have known men though even older men who prefer younger tops. It's probably mostly because of my leather background but sometimes a very experienced Sir, DOM, TOP, or Master, started out on the bottom first and submitted to someone at one point at some time. And they later went onto become a successful TOP or DOM with their own style. Or became versatile even. It's harder for a younger guy to gain all the experience through an early age. But I am talking about leather here not fucking.

I've been fucked by a younger guy twice before. One was a sweet boy who did everything he could to relax me, make love to me, and fuck me, but it just did not do much for me. The other guy was a bit rougher but still. Nothing like having an older man on top of me. It just feels right. I've always been into older guys though. Sometimes, some young guys might seem older then they really are. As someone else said it's mainly attitude. If they are a rare case and they have the attitude and experience of someone who has been around for a while and tried a lot of things and has learned a lot then it would be more likely to let them have my ass.

Of course appearance is a factor too. As shallow as it might sound.

Can't believe I did not post this.

Friday night a top visiting town wanted to get together with me and have me be his friday evening boy toy. We met at bath house and I immediately serviced him for a while but he wanted to find tops to fuck me. We found one downstairs a really cute muscular guy. He agreed to come back to our room and I sucked him as soon as he got in the room. He really enjoyed it and put me on my back and using a little lube shoved his big Italian cock up my ass. Damn it felt good. He had me sit on it too and was bouncing me all the fucking way off it and back on. Damn that was hot. I sucked my top's cock while I was getting fucked. He came in my ass a little bit but he pulled out partially and came on my back. That was hot as fuck. I saw another top by the shower area. Big dicked daddy man. I went to his room to try to convince him to come back to play with me and my top.

He wasn't really wanting to. He sort of shoved me to the ground to take care of his 10' inch manhood and after he was pleased with me sucking his cock and choking on it a bit, he bent me over and spit on his dick and started pushing it in my ass. Oh fuck it hurt but he was able to push all the way and he started fucking me with reckless abandon. I told him to please please come in my friend's room and he can fuck me there but he said he wanted my ass for a bit first. I was able to sort of throw him off me and told him he can fuck me all he wants and breed my ass if he is in the room with my top friend. He said he'd come but he lied. Oh well. Really regret not getting a full fuck from him though. He would have probably stretched my hole and really treated me like a bitch, breed me, and then throw my ass out of the room. Fucking hot.

We found another guy later and he again game to the room and I sucked him and he fucked me and gave me a load. He was pretty cute. While I was sucking him near the end the top shoved his big cock in me and started fucking me. Oh damn it felt good. Having two cocks in me. After I swallowed his load he left. We got one more guy to come in but he was more versatile. I sucked him and he sucked me which kinda felt good and while I was sucking him my top was fucking me some more. Damn it felt good. Man was cute as hell too.

We left around 3 am and went back to the motel he was staying at. I tried to get a top friend who has been wanting to fuck me for a while (fuckbuds but haven't gotten together in a while) to fuck me and he said he would come over but he flaked. We tried to cruise for some guys around the motel but my top wasn't in to them. It was getting late or early and most guys were asleep I guess. Before we went to bed though when we were spooning he started shoving his cock up my ass. Oh it hurt a little and I pushed him out a few times til he broke me in and got on top of me and started fucking me like the bitch I am and fucking me pretty hard. Damn it felt good. He came in my ass and we had a repeat. When we woke up in the morning, I turned on my side again and he fucked me again and breed me. Damn he has a great dick and I love him fucking my ass. He loves it too. He especially loved how I woke him up by blowing him. So I got a few loads in my ass friday night-saturday morning.

He gave me a nice tip afterwards. There was supposed to be more and I was going to get together with him saturday night but stupid damn chores had me busy the entire morning-evening and I took a nap and texted him but he said he was going out with his friends and I did not here from him til the next morning. It's just as well since after I woke up from my nap I pretty much went right back to bed. It was one hot night though. Can't wait til he comes back in town.

I did get fucked sunday too but condoms was used unfortunately but for the best with that situation.

Can't believe I did not post this.

Friday night a top visiting town wanted to get together with me and have me be his friday evening boy toy. We met at bath house and I immediately serviced him for a while but he wanted to find tops to fuck me. We found one downstairs a really cute muscular guy. He agreed to come back to our room and I sucked him as soon as he got in the room. He really enjoyed it and put me on my back and using a little lube shoved his big Italian cock up my ass. Damn it felt good. He had me sit on it too and was bouncing me all the fucking way off it and back on. Damn that was hot. I sucked my top's cock while I was getting fucked. He came in my ass a little bit but he pulled out partially and came on my back. That was hot as fuck. I saw another top by the shower area. Big dicked daddy man. I went to his room to try to convince him to come back to play with me and my top.

He wasn't really wanting to. He sort of shoved me to the ground to take care of his 10' inch manhood and after he was pleased with me sucking his cock and choking on it a bit, he bent me over and spit on his dick and started pushing it in my ass. Oh fuck it hurt but he was able to push all the way and he started fucking me with reckless abandon. I told him to please please come in my friend's room and he can fuck me there but he said he wanted my ass for a bit first. I was able to sort of throw him off me and told him he can fuck me all he wants and breed my ass if he is in the room with my top friend. He said he'd come but he lied. Oh well. Really regret not getting a full fuck from him though. He would have probably stretched my hole and really treated me like a bitch, breed me, and then throw my ass out of the room. Fucking hot.

We found another guy later and he again game to the room and I sucked him and he fucked me and gave me a load. He was pretty cute. While I was sucking him near the end the top shoved his big cock in me and started fucking me. Oh damn it felt good. Having two cocks in me. After I swallowed his load he left. We got one more guy to come in but he was more versatile. I sucked him and he sucked me which kinda felt good and while I was sucking him my top was fucking me some more. Damn it felt good. Man was cute as hell too.

We left around 3 am and went back to the motel he was staying at. I tried to get a top friend who has been wanting to fuck me for a while (fuckbuds but haven't gotten together in a while) to fuck me and he said he would come over but he flaked. We tried to cruise for some guys around the motel but my top wasn't in to them. It was getting late or early and most guys were asleep I guess. Before we went to bed though when we were spooning he started shoving his cock up my ass. Oh it hurt a little and I pushed him out a few times til he broke me in and got on top of me and started fucking me like the bitch I am and fucking me pretty hard. Damn it felt good. He came in my ass and we had a repeat. When we woke up in the morning, I turned on my side again and he fucked me again and breed me. Damn he has a great dick and I love him fucking my ass. He loves it too. He especially loved how I woke him up by blowing him. So I got a few loads in my ass friday night-saturday morning.

He gave me a nice tip afterwards. There was supposed to be more and I was going to get together with him saturday night but stupid damn chores had me busy the entire morning-evening and I took a nap and texted him but he said he was going out with his friends and I did not here from him til the next morning. It's just as well since after I woke up from my nap I pretty much went right back to bed. It was one hot night though. Can't wait til he comes back in town.

I did get fucked sunday too but condoms was used unfortunately but for the best with that situation.

Imma break down bath houses.

Bottoms: Ass up in a room or bent over waiting for cock. Some shy bottoms on their back looking out the door or holding their cock and playing with it. Some who just sort of linger in some areas waiting for tops.

Tops: Standing around watching everyone, ignoring half the guys that pass them, wanting a bottom to drop to their knees in front of them, in a room with their cock out and looks inviting, or standing and waiting for a bottom to approach them.

Eye contact is the most important thing. If you look at a top directly and his eyes IMMEDIATELY leave your sight of vision for eternity then that man wants nothing to do with you and you are wasting time. If you are bent over somewhere or sucking cocks he MIGHT change his mind. If a top gives you a glance for a second and looks away and looks back once or a few times then they are deciding. They are either going to watch you and see what you do or wait for a while and weigh you against their other options and decide to approach you or decide if they want to be approached.

Some guys might want nothing to do with you either because it's obvious to them that you are a bottom which won't get that off. And some just aren't interested. And some guys go to sex clubs and bath houses to...wait for it...not have sex and just watch.

What I do is I usually look around first and take a shower first. Usually if I see a guy I think is hot I don't "wait" to weigh him against others. It's a live freaking top and what is the bottom to top ratio? Can't ever find those damned tops to the tupperware huh.

I go for it. Another advantage of going for a top first if you are both interested is..well what better way to get more excited and get prepared by getting fucked right off the bat, bred, or sucking some hot cock and swallowing a load. That makes you and him happier and makes you more confident and happy and that is attractive and other guys will take notice. I will admit though if it's a sauna area or steam room if I man makes eye contact with me and gives me that look in a heartbeat I am on my knees servicing that man's cock. Because that's what I do. Sauna is a little different and sitting next to a guy works better and seeing if he approves first or asks.

..But yeah. Sex in bath houses. Fuck I'm horny I need to go to the baths tomorrow. For the most part bath houses are pretty easy to figure out and can be DAMN fun. But as others have said it's a hit and miss. It's usually a hit for me. Especially versus some of the other clubs.

And as slutty as it sounds. Sometimes just turning around and letting a top check out your ass works. Did it once and the guy grabbed me and took me to the room, bent me over, fucked me, and grabbed me. And damn getting hard just thinking about that. Fuck...

Just go on BBRT and post a profile or on something like manhunt or adam4adam put that you are looking to get fucked by tops and it's your choice to mention raw or breeding.

But if you post something like, "Horny bottom looking for tops Neg and DDF" or something like that you are not implying safe sex vs. someone who says, "Horny bottom looking for safe play with neg and ddf tops. I've seen people do that and I've done that myself. You can also just not check "safe sex" in other non bb profiles and men will get the message. It's worked for me.

Best of luck, boy.

Great question. There are some bottoms out there who will take any load from any guy. Some bottoms who are always available, some bottoms are only available sometimes.

And some bottoms go out more then others. I honestly know that there are a hell lot more of better bottoms out there then me. I'm a pretty good cocksucker but not the best. I have become much much better at taking cock though. I am proud of that. It's really up to the top. If the top just wants an easy lay and piece of ass if he sees me and decides to go with me I'll give it to him. If not he'll find someone else.

I don't think too much about it. I'm generally grateful for a top that wants to fuck me and play with me since there are more experienced men out there and I'm young. But those tops who do decide to play with me and want to fuck me I am completely obedient to them, please them in every way they can, and make them feel damn good and let them take my ass and breed it or just fuck it if they want. I've gotten some repeats and I've gotten some who just want a one time. I've been pretty happy with the repeats though so I can't complain. I am starting to wear different clothes when advertising too which seems to work and let the top know what I want which is usually what he wants. I don't compete though. I've seen bottoms do it though and it's hilarlious.

If I can get a top fine, if I can't well there's always other tops and other guys out there and another day. I'm not really into fucking so I don't plan on being versatile anytime soon. I can still get a bottom off though if he is really cute and into me I'll definitely play with him

Losing my virginity I lost it safe. Guy was so big I probably would have taken it better raw though. It took two seperate times before I could enjoy it. The first two times he just fucked me and I had to take it and try to enjoy it and relax.

I am happy to say though that the first man I did bareback with was someone I care about and close to me and trust was gained and time passed before we got to that point. In that regard and back then, it was worth the wait.

I am not talking about taking the plunge.

When you think you are rejecting poz guys, you are only rejecting a subset of them: Those who are aware they are HIV positive and who choose to respect your wishes. There is no way for you to know if they are really negative, they might not know, or they might be lying. I understand you do not want to become positive, so, but turning down positive guys and fucking bare with "negative" ones will not be useful for that goal. Use a condom, if you are that concerned about infection. It sucks, yes, but you cannot eat your cake and have it too. If you really want to remain negative assume everybody else is positive and use a condom every single time, unless you are in a monogamous relationship.

"I have nothing against poz men and I would meet up with a poz guy to have coffee, hang out, drink, but play would be a little different." Kinda sounds like "I cannot be a racist, I have black friends". I apologize for being so blunt, but that's how it sounds to me. Maybe other poz guys see that statement differently, but to me, it is offensive. Before switching to barebacking, I spent a year or so doing condoms and BB, as I was in a place where there was no BB scene. I found out that condoms were very dull after months of BB only in New Orleans. So, I switched to BB only. But for a while I was willing to use a condom if necessary. If a poz guy is willing to use a condom, why are you going to reject him? If the same guy would lie or stay silent, you'd fuck him, wouldn't you? So you are punishing honesty and rewarding ignorance and/or lies.

"And I know lots of men lie out there. It probably is just a numbers game. Even though some accept that when they bareback doesn't mean that every bottom wants to get pozzed or play with a poz man. That is the bottom's choice. But a bottom or anyone should ALWAYS ask the status of the top. Ask if they are negative or positive. The man might lie but at least you asked. If nothing is said then it's partially the bottom's fault for not even asking or discussing it first."

While I agree with you that bottoms NEED to ask, (and, oh, boy, how many ask _after_ I fuck them), I must tell you that you need to think carefully what do you want. Your goal is to be neg, but your behavior is not leading there. Please be realistic. It's not a game of numbers. It is your life. If you are going to become poz, better be aware it can happen to you and do not be in denial of the real risk. As it is said before, the guys in early stages of infection have much higher viral loads than most of poz guys, even the detectable ones. At one point my VL went to 120K, before coming down to 3K. Paradoxically, you are putting yourself at a much higher risk if you play bareback with guys who honestly think they are neg.

This is not about bug fetish, or about not hurting the feelings of poz guys. It is about your health and future life. Fucking bareback with "neg only" guys, who obviously are barebacking with others, put you in a lot of risk. If this scares you, stop barebacking and think it over, many times. As I said, I have seen some guys unwilling to face the risk and denying it could happen to them and they take it much worse than realistic guys.

It's your life, no need to listen to a grumpy poz man, but sooner or later reality catches you.

Thank you Sir. I appreciate the advice and that you took the time to write it. You are correct that eventually I will become poz if I keep barebacking. I realized that last week and I don't know if I am starting to accept it or just not care. It just seems so natural and free to bareback and I can't really ever do condoms again. I know I am young too though. And I do realize that this is about my health and future life. I pictures my future life in some sort of monagamous relationship or serving a Sir and being his boy/slave. It could be my ignorance back then but I thought that being poz and barebacking would not lead to a great future and no relationship whatsoever. But I know that's not the case. I'm still not ready to play with someone who is honest to being "poz" and that is ignorance and stupidity on my part. But I am becoming more open to play with guys that are undectable. But then again it's the whole "honesty" thing. A guy can simply say he is undetectable to breed a bottom and infect him if he wants. I understand that regardless if the guy says he is neg, undetectable, that I should always assume poz and be prepared for what might come in the future. I'm not quite ready to fully accept this or fully understand this but I know one thing. I am tired of being afraid of how I should act during sex and how I should hold back or not go completely piggy and slutty if it's with a guy or guys I like. And I am tired of being afraid of barebacking and of the fear of getting infected. I will probably eventually cross that line.

I'm sorry if I offended the poster when I said, "have coffee with a poz guy". Yeah that did sound a little offensive and I did not mean it that way. I'm just young and a little unsure so forgive me for being ignorant or stupid. I'll mature as I get older and become more confident too

Thank you.

Met up with an old fuck bud tonight. I regret that he isn't more verbal or dom but he has a great dick and I love sucking on it. He talks a bit too much and I like what he talks about but I think it's a defense mechanism. When he gets going he gets into it. I haven't had him bare yet so this was my first time taking his bare cock. He is a bearish guy hot as hell. He fucked me on my back for a bit and his cock slid in nicely because he gave me time to adjust. It felt so damn good and big and he had a fucking curve. Love curved cocks. He put me on my belly and humped my ass rapidly and I was moaning and begging him to fuck me. He put his hand over my mouth because he likes quiet fucks I guess. I muffled in his hand as he fucked me until he came into my ass.

Damn it felt great. If only he was a bit more aggressive and dominant though. I would have loved to call him Sir but he isn't into that. He's a cool guy though and I really needed that fuck. He gave me a little load he already came earlier. I need to get back together with another regular. There is at least a little more passion, verbal, and aggression with the other man but after he fucks me that's it. At least this guy I can get along with and relate too and we can do more then sex.

Anyways great night finally glad I got fucked. Been wayyy too long. And the load was nice too

You are safer with a guy that is poz and undetectable that with a guy that does not not know his status.

If rejection of poz guys gives you peace of mind, go for it. But when you become poz you might have a really rough time with yourself, after rejecting all those guys and sticking to the negs, you are one of 'them'. I have seen that case and it is is ugly. It devastates the men. And, IMHO, they deserve all the guilt, shame and general bad feelings they get when they realize they are on of those they have been rejecting.

I converted, aware of the risks, but I never rejected poz guys, I just used condoms. And I am almost certain that the person whose I got it from did not know he was poz. I had a rough time converting, but I was with somebody who had been poz for many years and he helped me, got me in the gym, started barebacking and anonymous sex. I am happy now, I was happy while I was in the US with this beautiful poz man.

As I said, rejecting poz guys is your right, but then it also has consequences for you and for others, and it does not make you safer at all.

I agree with this to a certain extent. I think it also depends on what age the neg guy is and how he handles it. I have turned down poz men before. But recently I did get fucked by an undetectable top with a condom first then bare. It was the fact that he was willing to use the condom which I greatly respected. Not everyone is ready to take that plunge yet. It's also if you put in your profile that you prefer neg tops and a bunch of poz tops message you. It's already been stated so it's not like they weren't warned. I have never rejected a poz top in a bad way though. Just apologized that I'd prefer to play with neg tops and hope they find a fun bottom to play with. I have gotten nasty responses sometimes.

I have nothing against poz men and I would meet up with a poz guy to have coffee, hang out, drink, but play would be a little different. I guess I'd want to get a feel for who the guy is first. But maybe you are right maybe I am setting myself up for karma or something.

And I know lots of men lie out there. It probably is just a numbers game. Even though some accept that when they bareback doesn't mean that every bottom wants to get pozzed or play with a poz man. That is the bottom's choice. But a bottom or anyone should ALWAYS ask the status of the top. Ask if they are negative or positive. The man might lie but at least you asked. If nothing is said then it's partially the bottom's fault for not even asking or discussing it first.