fuckboy20

I used to cruise in bars & that generally worked for me; i.e.' date=' I'd get some hole to fuck. Especially when some guy would ask me, "what brings you out tonight?" and I'd reply, in my usual direct manner, "I'm lookin' for some ass to fuck"...since I don't drink anymore and also since a lot of the men in the bars are on their iPhones, etc.,; thus physically present but mentally absent, that approach no longer works well for me.

I have been labeled a "vibe-boy" and it's true: I emit some mighty strong ones and lotsa guys pick up on them...[/quote']

If more guys like you were more direct it would make it easy. I think only one time I walked up to a Sir at a leather bar and asked permission and if he needed anything. And he flat out said he was going to fuck me. And that he did. Bars have changed a lot with phones. When I used to go out to bars I'd have my phone but I'd almost never be on it. Having your phone out you might be looking for some dick or ass but like you said it makes you look like you are absent, taken, or just occupied. But then again going back and forth until you both admit you want to fuck can be hot as well. Direct and bold or subtle and leading up can all be hot depending on the situation or the guy.

Riding a cock is probably the most muscle-intensive way of getting fucked. Okay, I've got some muscle deterioration from HIV, but I tried it the other night for the first time in years. I could barely manage five minutes, whereas in the days when I was hiking miles through woodlands with the dogs I could keep going till I got the load. Plus I was younger then... Yes, I'd feel it in my thighs the day after, but earlier this week I could barely walk.

Fuckboy's right about the slutty feeling of it: probably the best way of putting on a show for a top and the most definite statement that you want his dick.

I'm sorry that it gave you pain bearbandit. At least you tried it again though. Did you enjoy it a little at least despite the pain? They do make muscle relaxant pills as well. That might actually help. It is an incredible slutty feeling and nothing says you want a top's dick more than riding him. I've been jacked off while riding dick before too and that's even more amazing. It's not my favorite position and I know many tops prefer to just mount a bottom on all fours but sometimes it's fun to do. Ironically though I don't really get much from a guy sitting on my dick. Not that it's happened much.

Shit can't believe I never saw this one. I completely agree the reason why I never really watch piss videos is because it's just guys getting pissed on and some of them trying to look cute by opening their mouth with their eyes closed and letting it flow out of their mouth or gargle it.

Limited piss experience but I always drink a man's piss if watersports is what he's into. Unless it's up the ass then I'll take that too. For the first time in a while actually drank a little of Sir's piss. He pisses outside sometimes and I've always been damn tempted watching his thick PA cock dangle out and watching that stream of beautiful piss. The other day I did just get down on my knees and suck him while he was pissing but he was pissing way too fast and I was out of practice so I wasn't able to swallow it all. Wish I could have but swallowed what I could at least.

There will be repeats I'm sure though.

This is just one of the issues that's dealt with when dealing with married, bi, straight, or curious guys. I have nothing against guys like this as I've fucked and been fucked by married and straight guys and bi guys. You have to understand that whatever insecurities they have, whatever worries or misconceptions they have will be there. Whether it's their wife, diseases, am I gay?, still a man, okay to do this with another guy, what can or can't be done, all that comes with it. If you really want you to breed you, really get into when he's fucking you, work your ass muscles, match his rhythm maybe get him to be a little more verbal. I think it might be also that your asking for it. If you don't ask for it he might give it to you.

Although it's nice to think that every guy out there be it bi, straight, or gay thinks of ass as a piece of ass and cum hole and that there is no better feeling in the world than fucking an ass raw or being fucked and breeding not everyone thinks like that. If he doesn't breed you that's just something you have to accept. I never thought about it being a bonding type thing either. Although I do know that some men think of it like that I had the idea that most straight or married guys think of a man's ass as a cum hole or a place to get off in. Some guys do think like that. I never thought about it as getting a women pregnant though. No idea how straight guys think but I guess if someone fucks women for a long time and doesn't breed them because of worry of pregnancy that might carry over to a guy. But then again some men distinguish how they fuck a woman and how they fuck a man. Some don't.

Best of luck and if he doesn't breed you maybe you should just look for another. Actually have you thought of introducing him to poppers. Maybe if you try to get him to use poppers when fucking you he won't be able to hold back and he'll breed you.

Could be a number of things. Could be age, weight, strength of bones or muscles, stiffness, or some other reason. I'm not in the best shape of my life and I'm stiff at times but throwing my legs up, bending over, and riding a guy wasn't difficult. That being said I never really sat on someone's cock and rode them for hours. Hell it surprised me when I did bondage and BDSM with a fuck bud at one point. I figured my legs or arms would cramp from the extended period but they diddn't. Only if he tied them extra tight or did other things. But he was also very very experienced with rope and probably knew what he was doing. That being said being fucked in those various positions and slings did not present a problem.

However, when getting fucked by a really fucking thick and big guy once I lost all feeling in my legs and part of my body. Felt like the man was wishboning me (he was) and I had no feeling at all. Fortunately he diddn't take too long to cum usually 15 or less but it was partially painful. I also know that if you get into headspace like being in a sling or if the fucking is extremely intense of the connection or energy with the top is intense can send electricity all through-out your body and make you weak kneed, make your body limp or numb and even have the feeling last afterwards.

Like I said I don't know anything about you but I recommend either trying some stretches or maybe practicing on a dildo or something and seeing if you get the same feeling. You might just need to relax or work out your legs or it could be too much work out or too much stress on your legs. Hope you find out the reason. While I like getting fucked in different positions riding someone always made me feel extra slutty and I really get into it. I don't think a bottom or top should be denied any position.

Being a geek and everything I always used apps. I never could understand cruising or anything like that until I got a little more experienced. I could tell when a man was cruising me but harder to cruise in public. Cruising in sex clubs or bath houses is rather easy. Eye contact, a certain look, if submissive or dominant show your role or nature and a nice smile or as you know body language. To be honest cruising probably will become somewhat of a loss art as apps, websites, and online takes over. Yes it's easy just to go online and say "Wanna fuck" or bullshit or chit chat to get them to come over or to go over to them. But I think it's more rewarding and more of a challenge to cruise at a bar, club, bath house, or even more tricky and rewarding in person.

That being said I did find my past partners online and current partners on growlr. That is something that cruising in person can't do. Help you find others outside your area. Well not completely true but you know what I mean. I think I prefer cruising without apps or the internet but I'll admit it was much easier going online or using an app.

Congratulations on your first leather harness. With all the leather I have I actually don't own a harness. Kind of funny actually. I agree with what the others are saying here that it's important to get it fitted. My Sir actually does leather and makes harnesses. I've seen him order the leather online or go to leather places and actually make it. It's an amazing process to watch and I've seen him fit guys. Honestly, I still don't know much about harnesses. So far from what I've seen full body harnesses look the best. If that's what they're called. The fact that they go around your balls and cock and from front to back is extremely hot. But probably a basic harness wouldn't hurt either. As I said I know you'd prefer to just buy online but there are some things that are just better to go with in person. What I recommend is trying to find a leather shop around your area even if it's a drive. Make sure it's a good one where the staff are friendly (Or extra friendly) and fit you and get your measurements. If you can do that at least and know all the measurements it would make it easier to find one online in the future as well.

As for style I strongly strongly believe in arm bands. Some men look good in gauntlets too but arm bands are a little better if you go around just wearing a harness and jeans, shorts, or jock. Sometimes less can be more. Some arm bands or wrist bands even have a slit in it to hold money. Best of luck and congratulations.

@TigerMilner:

Glad you have a fuck bud who doesn't mind that. You are right sometimes in the heat of the moment especially when sucking someone they want to fuck you or you want them to fuck them. I'm glad he diddn't mind and that he bred you.

@Blueyedsoul:

That's how it started with me too. Even when I flew up to see both of them I prepped myself before and I'd always clean my hole before they fucked me. But now that we are all living in florida and working somemtimes there isn't always time to clean out. That's basically what it's becoming now I usually am told to get on the bed and get on all fours or sometimes just laying down with one of them he'll fuck me. I was sucking him last night and I wanted to fuck him but he ordered me to get on my side and he fucked me. This morning the top for the first time fucked me without me cleaning. I pushed out most of the cum from my verse partner the night before but I think there was still some in there. For the most part my top partner fucked me dry put he pre-cums so much that my hole usually gets wet and slippery quick. But he fucked me for quite a while and bred me this morning.

Afterwards I asked him if I was clean back there even though I knew I was after I pushed his load out. He told me I was and I asked him about what our verse partner said early about not always having to clean out and if you can really fuck like that. He told me he was right. I used the bathroom a few times yesterday and had to go really bad but afterwards I was fine so I guess I literally got it all out before my verse partner fucked me the night before. That and it was hot this weekend so I took multiple showers yesterday.

But I agree with you about knowing and learning about your own body and partners body. I wasn't as nervous as I thought I'd be this morning and I diddn't feel cramped or like anything was back there because it wasn't. I'm glad that I can look forward to fucking my partner and him and the other fucking me occasionally in the heat of the moment and without worrying too much about if the other is clean or

not. But I still will clean out of myself from time to time.

Nice regiment. I usually did the same when I was single and would clean out the night before or if I knew I was going to get some action eat light and clean out prior. But a proper fuck bag with lube, poppers, and etc and a bottle is what I used often.

You would not believe this but there are ACTUALLY watersport groups. There was one here this weekend. They are called the South Florida Rainmakers. I heard there is another watersports group in California. Never even something remotely closely to this in Atlanta.

I saw a few guys pissing on each other and in each other's mouths and blowing each other. There were

slings, piss tubs, a beer bust too, and plenty of other things as well. I'm sure it would get any piss lover hard it did me. Would have loved to participate in it but it was nice watching. Just gives me more ideas and things to do with my partners.

So look around maybe there are more watersport groups out there.

Okay so bare with me. I'm not into scat or anything like that even tried it in the past and couldn't stand it. In a previous relationship when I wasn't the best at cleaning out and diddn't know any better (wasn't taught completely) sometimes one of my partners would come in my room in the morning and fuck me. I got nervous sometimes not knowing if I was clean or not and he'd fuck me regardless. Usually I was clean but sometimes I wasn't.

The relationship I'm in now one of the partners is more vers like me and the other is more top. I would clean out myself regularly so the vers one and the top could fuck me and he'd do visa versa so I could fuck him. Sometimes..and actually recently he'd throw me in the bed and shove it in me. I warn him sometimes and say, "Well I haven't clean out.". He tells me that sometimes if he fingers or rims my holes he gets a good judgement of whether i'm clean, cleanish, or dirty and if there is a smell. If there's a smell he won't go in. But now..it's quite common that even if I don't clean out he will fuck me sometimes.

I'm still grapsing straws at this one at least I don't tighten up like I used to I open up my hole and enjoy my partner pounding and breeding me. Usually when he pulls out it's clean but sometimes he says ironically, "Shit happens.". And I've fucked him too when I don't know if he's cleaned out or not and maybe only twice he wasn't as clean but it diddn't smell.

Again this isn't a scat discussion or question. It's probably an unwritten rule that if a bottom goes out to a club or meeting a trick or date they should clean out. But when you are in a relationship with a guy or two, live together, sleep together, do everything together you find you are more forgiving in many things you wouldn't be with just a trick. I still always have a little hesitation when he fucks me and I know I haven't cleaned out but then again I don't eat real heavy and always drink lots of water most of the time. I much prefer cleaning myself out but at the same time it's nice when he just fucks me regardless and even him knowing I haven't cleaned out he pounds me anyways and breeds me. It's nice being able fuck him and breed him without having to worry either.

I'm just curious if this is something common with couples where maybe you get to the point where whether you're completely clean or not you still want to fuck or get fucked and don't want to wait. I asked

this actually to someone a few minutes ago but them being a fisting bottom told me nothing ever goes their hole unless they are completely and thoroughly cleaned out. But like my beliefs with 24/7 Master/slave relations being clean every single second of the day isn't possible although some might think otherwise. Whether it's laziness or convience I am starting to like fucking or getting fucked even though there might be a chance we might not be completely clean. That being said I still feel so much better and much more comfortable knowing I'm cleaned out or he's cleaned out.

Anyone have thoughts on this one?

@firefighter:

Thank you. Thank you so much for that. That saying is something that will always leave an impression on me as well. I can't imagine what it would be like to lose that many friends and people close to you. Also it's never bad or wrong or bad to be emotional or sappy sometimes. It helps sometimes.

@AnonBBottom

Thank you and also thank you for announcing that you recently become poz. They don't really make greeting cards like "Congrats ur poz" or "Oh shit your poz now.". I don't know if it's right to welcome someone into being poz, celebrate, worry, or caution. I'm glad that at least you aren't living a false life anymore and you have accepted who you are and also understood the risks. I think what being poz really means is you just cross a line. It's a line that you can never undo or go back to you just have to accept it. And I'm glad that you have. Everyone's experience is difference.

@bearbandit:

It's been a while bearbandit. Congratulations on actually doing a seminar on barebacking. You may definitely use those words. I'm glad and happy that you will teaching and talking about barebacking.

Also just a little update about being poz.

I thought back to when I first found out I was poz. I wasn't really shocked and in a way I did not really care. What bothered me more was the way the clinic handled it and how I got the safer preach. I can honestly say that I probably did not care about what happened to me. Where I was, with my job, and everything that was going on in my life being poz did not phase me simply because I did not care abou myself or my life. Although I say I diddn't care part of me did and there was some caution because I barebacked way less after that. But I think the concern was more for others and not wanting to pass it on to anyone else.

Anyways to get to the point my count is around 590 well over 450. I think my actual viral load isn't too high. But I can take any and every medication except one I forgot which it is. I'm not on medication yet simply because I moved to florida with my partners and transition from doctors and clinics. But in some funny way I feel like I have a clean bill of health. I forgot about being poz not because of disregard to myself and my body but because my partners are both poz and are on meds and they are happy and healthy. It's because I got tested early and found out only a few months after that I was poz that I won't have to go through what others have gone through and hopefully I'll have a long, succesful and fun life.

Even the loser that i was with a shitty job and no insurance there is still ADAP which helps if you don't have a high paying job or insurance. If you catch it early it really isn't a death sentence anymore it's only a death sentance if you make it that way. That being said those who have had it for years and diddn't know..unfortunately that's another story. I'm very grateful that's all I can really say.

Also where I am staying now someone my partners knew the guy was going on about how people with AIDS are sickly, horrible, deserve it, and how he doesn't want to be like that was put in my place. My partner explained to him that all three of us are positive and that we are very healthy, happy, and it's not a death sentance like it used to be. Not only that but this guy never even has sex because he is worried of catching something EVEN playing safe. I can't stand people like that but it would be worse to be like him. I'm still in the process of making friends and meeting people and socializing more and I have told some people I am poz and they still accept me. I know that there will be people who won't accept it and will have nothing to do with me but I don't want people like that in my life anyways. I don't know if I'll ever be OPEN about it like some are. Part of me really really wants to but for the time being as with other things I'm just going to let things go their course.

I'm sorry that some guys will get sick, that some guys do develop full blown aids and that some will and have lost friends who don't accept them or even loved ones and that it can and does ruin their life. But everyone is different and everyone has their own path. I can say that it hasn't ruined me, killed me, or made me an outcast in any way. Like leather did in the past for me it's actually made me stronger and happier. I can't say I wanted to be poz but whether poz or neg as long as you have friends and people who accept and love you it doesn't matter what you are. I just want to live as a strong poz man and leatherman and someday be able to be open about both.

Thank you everyone.

Well very interesting. I like the title but the your predicament and the title seem to be a little misleading.

You say he's almost virgin like to where he can only really do one position and not too well and you think he wants you to be your bf. What I find interesting is that you asked yourself, "Don't know why I'm considering it.". I will say that although some guys do like virgins and guys who aren't as experienced some don't. Some like an easy lay where it's easy to get in cleaner, and the bottom is more experienced. I'm sure most on here would prefer more uninhibited, kink, instead of someone who is more vanilla. It never hurts to keep an open mind if you like him and find him hot you could always sort of , "train him", especially since he's younger and if he likes you he might let you. You never know if he opens up his mind and does more positions and he gets better he might be a much hotter lay and much closer to you too.

As for him and others wanting relationships besides just fucking. Could just be your area. In my area must guys just like to go to the clubs and bath houses or book stores to fuck, get fucked, or just get off. And of course some go..and don't even do anything but probably get off from being in a place like that.

As long as the guy you like isn't too clingy (had those before) if you keep having sex with him he'll probably get better especially if he isn't with others. I was a slut..so I got plenty of practice. But not everyone is like that. And if he gets too clingy you can always just break it off or just make it clear. Also, everyone has their own philosophy on this but some don't play where they work. Also you start to see the same guys over again. You could try taking a trip somewhere to where there is a better area of people who want "just sex" and go hog wild if ya want. Hope you find more guys though. I always find it interesting to read about different cities and areas and compare it to where I live.

After reading this thread I actually realized I don't need poppers anymore. I used to always use poppers during sex sometimes I diddn't but most of the time I did. Of course poppers help relax and a guy can shove it in or make a rougher entry and relaxing is easier.

I don't recommend, especially to anyone who is new, using spit, dry, or having the top push it in forcefully if you aren't used to it. Lots of lube helps but also patience. If the top pushes in slowly..or actually what's better is to have the top push in a little and use your ass muscles to have the muscles take the dick in until it sinks in all the way. I've done that several times. It gives the bottom more control but I think what's more important is it builds a "hunger" in the bottom and in the bottom's mind. But before any of this using dildo's butt plugs, and everything always helps. I strongly believe desire is a strong point. If you don't want to get fucked or are nervous about it you will obviously be tighter. But the anticipation of having a cock at your hole and laying there in wait before the cock enters can (at least for me) build a hunger. You want to get fucked, you need the cock in you, and you want to take it. Keeping that hunger or desire I'd say is along the same lines of what "poppers" does to you. Going out with sex for a while helps too. Especially if you are familar with a cock in you and you miss and need that feeling again.

Breathing helps too taking deep breaths and breathing in and out. That always helps me. But really I think what poppers does is it just allows yourself to let go. Let go of the fears, let go of whatever is going on in your head and just sort of shut everything down and gives you the floating feeling and the hunger of wanting to get fucked or whatever you are doing (or fuck). But it's possible to get that feeling without poppers. In other words. Channel that inner slut or pig

Keep in mind that some tops actually get off on having the bottom be in pain too or "not" being able to take it. I've come across a few of those.

After already having breakfast and coffee I was doing some writing. I looked at the time and realized it was getting late. I checked the time and saw it was already 10 am. I closed what I was writing and went to see where Wayne and Don were. Fortunately, it didn't take long for me to find them as they were on the chairs relaxing. I hopped out of the chair and jumped up on Don and gave him a kiss and a hug. I went over to Wayne and gave him a kiss and a hug as well. I said, "Can we do the pictures now..please. I still want to go around the campground taking pictures too". Wayne looked at me said, "Oh I guess we can go ahead and do it.". Don looked over at me too and said, "Get some underwear you want to wear." I smiled and jumped up in down in excitement. I said to Don, "I already picked out the underwear. It's on the bed why don't you go and take a look.". Don got out of the chair and walked to the bedroom. I went to my suitcase on the table and looked at some of the underwear Don gave me as a present. I picked out a white one with yellow around the crotch and the material is also see through. I took the scissors from the drawer and carefully cut the tag.

I reached in the suitcase to grab another one and Don is behind me. He asks, "What are you doing?". I looked at him and replied, "Oh, I'm just cutting the tags off of some of these. I thought these would be good as well.". Don laughed and said, "I already got a few pairs for you. Are you ready?". I looked at him and smiled real big and said, "Hell yeah I am.". We both walked to the bedroom and Don immediately hands me a red pair of underwear. I am a little surprised since I've never seen this one before. Don barks at me, "Alright, put it on boy.". I nod my head and slowly put it on. Don holds his camera and says, "Alright on your belly.". I laughed thinking that this is the first position he puts me in. I'm no stranger to taking pictures. It was 3 years ago when Casey first took pictures of me and I was nervous and awkward as hell. Between him, Michael, and a few fuck buds taking pictures of me..well let's just say I have a little practice. As I layed on my belly I arched my back a little and put my legs up and put one over the other. I heard a snap sound and knew that Don was starting.

Don commanded next, "Alright on your back.". I got on my back and layed my head against the pillow. I put one hand above my head and lowered the other to my waist and near my cock. I gently rubbed my cock through the underwear and I heard another snap sound. I smiled as I heard the sound of the camera taking a few shots. Don disappeared for a minute and I started rubbing my cock. Don returned with a different pair of underwear, a blue one this time with the ass showing but still looks like briefs. Don saw me getting hard and said, "Oh, posing for pictures get ya hard slut?". I blushed and felt my cock grow. I teased back to Don, "..I'm not a slut..I'm just doing pictures.". Don responded, "Yeah right, you are a slut boy.". I smiled as he said this and I grabbed the second pair of underwear and put it on. Don commanded again, "Get on the front of the bed on you're knees.". I crawled up to the front of the bed and got on my knees. I heard the camera snap again. This time I was told to lay on my side. As I layed on my side I raised the front of my body a tad bit and I pushed up my arms and I turned my head and looked at Don and smiled. I heard another snap and my cock was hard at this point. Don laughed and said, "Alright lets take some with that cock showing now.". I responded, "Yes Sir.". I layed back on the bed and we did a few different shots with my cock out and hard. As we started taking more I started getting a little soft.

Don came up on the bed and placed his lips over the head of my cock and started slowly sucking me. Damn it felt good. I figured something like this would happen. I was actually hoping. My cock started getting rock hard again and I started fucking Don's face for a little bit until he pulled off. Damn, I thought to myself. I gave Don a kiss and we went back to taking pictures. Wayne walked in the room. I saw him watching us and I saw his cock starting to grow hard. That beautiful cock of his with the PA. As if possessed I went over to Wayne's cock and I looked up at him. I slowly took his cock into my mouth and started blowing him. I could hear him moan and I could tell he was liking it. I could feel his cock grow harder in my mouth as I was started really going down on his cock. While I was sucking Wayne I heard the camera snap shot made and realized Don was taking pictures. I wasn't focussed on the camera though I was focussed on cock. After I serviced Wayne for a little bit I pulled off. I saw that Don was hard. I crawled over to Don and saw him look down at me. I took his cock into my mouth and started slowly sucking him. I could feel his cock grow and I heard more camera camera shots while I was blowing him. Wayne was taking pictures while I was sucking Don.

Don pulled away from me and he got on the bed and got on his back. I went back to blowing him. While I was giving Don head Wayne came behind me and I could feel his hard PA cock at my hole. "Fuck, is he going to fuck me?", I thought to myself. Wayne's PA cock was right at my hole and I felt him rub against my hole. He was doing a really good job at teasing me. I felt him start to push in a little. While he was right at my hole Don got up and he started taking pictures of Wayne's cock just about to enter my hole. I thought to myself, "These are going to be some really fucking hot pictures.". I felt a cold substance being poured on my ass and dripping down into my hole. I thought to myself, "Fuck..he's really going to do it.". Don took some more pictures with the spunk lube on my hole and covering my hole and Wayne's cock pushing in. Wayne's cock started to push in and I could feel him slowly enter and I could feel my ass slowly start to open. To my surprise I feel Wayne being pulled off me and Don's cock is at my hole and I hear him say, "I'm hard, I want to take some pictures too.". Wayne just laughs and watches as Don's cock is at my hole and starting to press in. I feel my lube being poured into my hole and I hear more photo snaps being made. I realize that Don is probably just getting a few more pictures. My naiveness never ceases to amaze me as I feel Don's cock start to push into my hole.

As Don is slowly pushing in I process everything and ask myself if he's really entering me and if it's really going to happen. He told me he's going to fuck me before I go but I didn't realize he'd do it right before. I feel him push in even more and I breathe deeply and feel my ass start to slowly open. I moan in pleasure as I feel him start to sink into me. "Oh God..", I think to myself as I feel him start to sink in completely. My ass slowly opens but Don starts pumping me anyways. I can only moan and again process that I really am getting fucked. Despite how many times I've been fucked it always feels new and it always feels exciting when I feel a raw cock enter me. But then again, it's not just any cock. That is probably what I was also feeling. I barely had time to think about this as Don starts pumping me and starts pumping me a bit faster. I am not completely open and relaxed but Don keeps fucking me regardless. I feel his hard cock massage my ass and feel him start to push past that second or inner ring. Wayne gets on the bed and gets on his knees and has his hard cock right in front of me. I take his cock into my mouth greedily and start sucking him frantically. As I'm sucking Wayne and I can feel my ass open up even more and Don starts to really fuck me now.

I can feel myself starting to let go as Don's fucking me and I can grasp that I'm about to give in. Give into my desires, the pleasure, the lust, and give into Don. Wayne starts fucking my face and I start moving my ass on Don's cock matching his rhythm. I can no longer fight and I can no longer deny the pleasure and the lust. I give in completely and start bucking my ass on Don's cock desperate for him to fuck me and muffle and moan onto Wayne's cock while I blow him. Don starts fucking me even harder and I keep milking his cock with my ass and I can feel him start to tense up and I know what's cumming next. Wayne pulls his dick out of my mouth and starts jacking his cock furiously while I work his pierced nipple. I can tell that both of them are about to blow any minute and I hear Don start to moan and yell and feel his cock being shoved deep in me as he creams me with his load and pumps the remainder of his load in my ass. Wayne also shouts out and I shake a shiver a little after just having that hot fuck from Don and having a good load shot up my ass. I see Wayne shoot his load and as usual it's a big load and it goes everywhere all over his body and some of it lands on me. Don pulls out and I give him a big hug and a kiss. Wayne stays there for a minute with his furry chest covered in cum and I also take a moment. I turn over and look at Don and say, "I can't believe you fucked me..during the photoshoot" Don laughs and says, "Well my cock just fell in your ass again." I laugh and I give him another kiss. I look at Wayne covered in cum and smiling and I give him a kiss too and a hug and say, "Let's take a shower now."

It's a tie between getting fucked in a resturaunt at the bathroom when it was busy and people were knocking on the door as the man was fucking me over the sink. Can't tell ya how scared shitless I was that we'd get caught and it was a turn on for both and he shot a huge load in me and bred me deep.

The other one was where I was with a leather guy and I was bound with rope, blindfolded, had a hood, gag in my mouth, and in full leather and after heavy making out on the couch he took me outside and bent me over the stump and shoved his raw cock in and fucked me outside. It did hurt and shafe being on the stump but I diddn't care. Getting fucked outdoors, blindfolded, and at night by a big dicked leather top. Life can't get much better.

But than again..one of the first bareback sessions I had in hawaii when I was on the beach getting fucked on a blanket and after the man bred me someone else came and fucked me and (probably) bred me too.

I'd say the rig I was in once was pretty fucking hot but it was more of the trucker that was hot.

I was going to say this was an easy answer but now that I think more about it..

BarebackRT and Adam4Adam are more for hooking up. No one is really relationship oriented or gets taken serious. Although I have met people off of both for platonic meeting..rare as it was. Manhunt is more hook up oriented but it also where people can post what kind of relationship they are looking for and if they are open.

To be honest I really suggest manhunt and growlr if you are into guys. I've had several hook ups from growlr and met a fuck bud on there who I got together with quite frequently and he completely used me like a slut and was probably going to start taking me out to whore me out or his friends. But we stopped hooking up. I'd say quite a few people on growlr are looking for "different" type of relationships like more open with sex involved and yes that involves slut, bb, and open. Not to mention growlr now even has options for triad and even an option to put HIV positive. I was shocked as hell at that.

As for the advice. Not sure how much I can give on that since I just entered a closed poly..but it won't be forever. I think there are two ways to go about that. I've known some people who have gotten together and it was well established from the very beginning that it was more about sex and they could go out and slut around with whoever and some have rules where they play together and some have rules that are free for all. The only downfall I've seen to that formula is the "base" was about sex.

Some start of monogamous and later on (weeks, months, years) decide to open up the relationship and play with others separately or together. Hell I've known couples that normally don't play with guys but the right guy comes along and they all have fun and decide to start going that route. Honesty is important for that one just telling your partner that you are playing with someone and what you do. Partners that "don't want to hear or know" end up being more jealous.

I don't know when you should mention, "I am looking for an open relationship" I'd suggest if the guy asks you your view on relationships or what you are looking for. I had someone on growlr a few months ago say that he wanted to have several boys to serve him and I think his ultimate plan was some kind of poly tree with different subs/tops, sir's, submissive's, and etc. But he was honest about it at least.

Best advice I can say is when you meet someone just be honest about you wanted to be a slut and still have fun with other guys and they'll either understand or won't. And I believe that manhunt and growlr (maybe grindr and scruff..haven't used them in ages) are you're best chance. I was gonna say squirt but I realized that squirt is more of a hook up site too but that's more of a "discreet" hook up site. Guys won't "EVER" put their face pics up..worse than most sites.

Hmm I was at Cumunion in Augusta 2 weekends ago. There was mention of free DVD's and I stood in line for 30 minutes in nothing but a jock strap and a drink in hand waiting to get into the pigpen early. I got a free DVD of some twinks barebacking but saw nothing of wristbands. All I saw in the box was lots of free dvd's. I was not feeling well though so once again..I missed out on sex at the pig pen and cumunion. But in the end, it diddn't matter anyways. I had a blast that weekend.

They probably had the wristbands for Atlanta though but I did not go so I don't know.

I used to tell someone where I was going and got the name, number, and sometimes address of where I'd be. But wanting more of the anonymous sex I slowly stopped doing it. Also because I was more expected to tell. It wasn't really a choice. And when I did try letting someone know where I was my phone never sent the text (fuck you sprint) and he worried the next morning and claimed he never got the text. It's a mixed bag for me. I like the idea more of having it come up on the computer screen and a clever message like, "Oh crap I died. Give everything to "So and so"." I don't do anonymous much anymore. But I think if I were to do it again I'd probably let someone know where I was.

And if I need a good scare I can just watch cruising. The first opening scene with the boy tied up and stabbed repeatedly..that killed me wanting to hook up for 6 months..hate that movie because of that scene..

Some of my first experiences as top were reversing our positions, whether sucking, fucking or other pervy thing that was too easy for me to get out of, then resuming with me as top, usually saying "this is how you do it"

That definitely sounds like how teens or younger guys experiment. For me personally I've just noticed from time to time that some tops have really hot asses. Actually there was one time when a guy was fucking me but a tad bit hesitant and I backed off and shoved my dick in him and fucked him and he loved it..one of the few times I've topped bare. But it never hurts to experiment with different sexual things. It's how we learn anyways

To fuckboy20's point; not much 100% anything around I agree.

Then again with that logic I used to say I was 100% bottom because I thought I was when I was really just denying myself the opportunity to try something else and I ended up being good at it and really liking both now. Oh wait I just proved my own point. Well it doesn't count if i'm the example.

one final request. i'd like a show of hands from all the men who are living in open, public same-sex relationships and sleeping with women in secret.

About that. I have been contacted in the past by a guy or two with strange circumstances. I remember one was married to a women but wanted a male slave to play with on the side. Or have as his partner etc. while still having his wife. VERY rarely have I ever heard of a gay couple with one of them cheating on their partner with a woman. DUN DUN DUN. Although it's rare I think some gay men do have the capacity to really actually want to sleep with women too but more as a side thing and very rarely and their main focus being guys. Almost opposite to how most people view bi guys.

That being said now that I think back someone I go together with a few times in the past. He called me boy at first but then he stopped calling me that and referred to me more as his hole or his bitch or whore. During sex and started outside of sex. I don't know I almost think that he'd be the type to marry or have a guy as his boyfriend and then play with women on the side. It seriously sounds like the opposite of what most supposed situations are or aren't. Very interesting question as well.

Oooh good thread.

I drove about 2 hours to meet someone once. It was late at night too. But now that I think about it. A leather couple I've played with before. First time we met I went to their place. I did something I've never done and I agreed to get tied up, blindfolded, and have BDSM done on me without even really knowing them. Talking to the top on the phone I sensed he was trustworthy but it could have gone bad. But I think maybe also what part of it was really was me wanting his raw dick and to be bred by him. Bad enough that I'd let him tie me up, blindfold, gag me, and even use toys on me. But I was right about him and he was trustworthy. It was dangerous and reckless to do though.

Has anyone else run into this? I have met married guys who claim they are 100% straight. They just like to fuck men in the ass. Isn't the desire to fuck men in the ass gay? Certainly not 100 % straight. What do the rest of you think?

It's not that confusing. Especially if they are fucking you they can say they are 100% straight it doesn't matter. As long as they are out there fucking and breeding they are contributing regardless of their reasons or unknown reasons. It's just a "str8" mentality probably.

But then again some men (straight and gay) really just see a bottom as just a hole. I've known a gay guy that uses boys sexually and as his hole to such a degree that it's almost as if he's trying to act straight..even though he's gay. But then again I always have a lingering feeling that some tops (gay or str8) who claim to be 100% top or 100% straight as can be are probably the exact opposite. No need to make a claim especially one like "100%" unless you are just trying to convince yourself.

I'll be honest. Going out to clubs and bending over and taking any and every load, or just having guys over and just pounding me and breeding me. I used to fucking love that have guys over and have one over the next after the next and have lots of cum up my butt. Or just going to bath houses or book stores and bending over in the dark room or in a public area and taking as much cock in my mouth and ass as I can. But I'm not quite so much into that anymore. I thought maybe I'm losing some of my pig/whore/slut side. But I think the truth is I'm just conserving it or charging it. That and I think I'm starting to prefer actually spending more time with a guy. I thought I'd always be into quick fucks and I'd even count on a buddy who I'd just go over he'd give me a quick load and I'd start my night off that much.

But who knows. Could just be all this fucking rain lately is messing with me too.

It's a good day when I'm spending my morning booking a flight while a guy in a collar is on his knees under the table obediently sucking my cock. ;-)

Doesn't necessarily have to be a slave. Could just be a very obedient fucking hungry boy.

But a really good slave would get on his knees and act as a urinal for his Sir and blow him. That way his Sir would never even need to touch his cock. Wouldn't you agree Sir? ;-)

there is so few things that I havent done - and most to excess -

I love bound guys - but I have this fantasy/desire to have access to a bound guy that I didnt take the effort to bound - and not just a guy in a public place like a bath house in a sling - but a helpless bound guy that I walk in on and have access to him alone - like maybe he is bound while his Master is away at work - or you find him bound in the woods - thats so fucking hot to me - see heres the thing - in putting a guy in bondage he is actually really consenting - but finding a guy already bound - well now there is no consent implied - I FUCKING LOVE THAT!

Do you ever consider a guy in a sling like that? One of the few times I topped in a sex club I went into the sling room prepared to get in the sling and take raw dick. But instead I find the bottom in a sling..hairy beefy older bottom with a wet ass and in almost no hesitation I fuck him and breed him twice. I think it's the act of a guy being in submission (even if not bound) knowing that consent isn't a question. Especially being poz that's something that's hot.

But I will say from experience. A man taking the time (or little time) to bound you and tie you up is extremely hot. Also watching a top's intensity as he ties you up and watching him get hard is hot too. I actually wouldn't mind learning bondage and learning how to tie a guy up.

But I can almost equate this to some bottoms at Slammers in Ft. Lauderdale. Couldn't tell you how many bottoms i saw bent over in rooms or over things. They might as well have been tied up because their consent was taking anything and everything up their ass in public like that.

Blogspot/Blogger/Google is shutting down all adult blogs that have any advertising in the next month or so.

Adult is against the TOS of Flickr

Thank you rawtop it was just very vague was all and I had no idea who that guy was. I noticed though "monetization through ads." I almost wonder if the adult industry has something to do with this. I'm sure there are several blogs out there and sites that link to free porn taken from the studios and maybe they are just pissed about it. I see more sites like this and some other sites, which although link to adult sites and paid sites, they probably have authorization from the studios or the websites and also receive some compensation from them. That and sites like this aren't under googles TOS.

If adult goes against the terms of flickr then how come I can have pictures of me blowing a guy on my flickr account. Really I've done more research on it and it does seem that flickr is cool with nudes and adult pictures..even barebacking, fisting, felching, as long as you check off the little, "Not safe for public" or "Adult only" thing you are okay..that being said..flickr is becoming more like an album, tumblr, site than a hosting site. At least the UI.

I don't see this site shutting down either because it's not under google's terms or other companies terms. I don't know who it's under but with all the porn advertisements and agreements it's more than safe. What's more in danger are blogs or smaller websites that link to or have reference to porn or maybe professional adult content.