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Keep adding fuckboy20... take a look at barebackerman's blogspot post...

Uh can you pm me a link or something to his blogspot. I checked his profile, post history, thread history and no mention of it. Are you saying that flickr eventually deletes adult content?

Since this has come up again…

Tumblr has been weird lately they're clamping down on adult stuff - making things more difficult (like not letting Google craw adult content). That's where I would have recommended previously.

This site has picture upload, BUT pictures are only visible to logged in members.

Raunchy Fuckers has the ability to handle pictures, but I turned it off because I thought it was redundant with the albums here. But the more I think of it, the more I realize it's not redundant because the pictures would be public.

Would public albums on Raunchy Fuckers fit what you're looking for?

I'm even OK with professional pics on Raunchy Fuckers if you want. Even Titan (who's lawsuit happy) says it's OK if their watermark is not cropped off. The pictures wind up being marketing materials for porn producers - what they're really selling is video, so they give pictures away for free these days (usually).

Tumblr huh. I know some people have used that before. I did not even realize raunchy fuckers had pictures. Public albums yes that is something I am looking for. I don't know how it would look on there but I'm willing to give it a try. I did not on this site at first but after I did I realized how easy and convenient it was and nice that people could comment. The only problem is that people I showed had to sign up. But that's not a bad thing either ;D

Oh so you mean like even hosting pics found online as long as the copyright thing is on. I thought you were talking more about personal pictures. I'm sure both would work.

But yes rawtop I like that idea. There are very few places that host adult picture sites and the ones that do are so few and small and I'm sure not all them would be very friendly to the type of pictures that people have on sites like these anyways.

Ah I forgot about this. I apologize. Actually if you go into setting and mark your profile as adult content or not safe content, your searches and anywhere where "prohibited content" or something like that they won't flag you and delete your stuff. You just have to make it so your account matches what you upload. I've seen pictures on flickr and some are bareback fucking, fisting, and all kinds of stuff.

So if you do that flickr shouldn't delete your pictures.

Heh go figure that name..that one my former Sir always talked about that one. I think it was his favorite. Ah, yeah a pride in Atlanta a few years back where leather had a presence, for once, it was rainy and muddy most of the time and it was a pain..but worth it. I'll definitely read it then. The books are relatively short anyways and I've probably gone through all my erotic fiction sites (and stories on here) over and over. Need new material . Yeah, well at least I can still use the internet, programs, and download stuff. But ultimately I'll get rid of it. Thank you Sir.

@tiger: i think 'icky' tends to refer to the products of bodily functions other than ejeculation.

@fuckboy: in my opinion, you're more in touch with the mental, spiritual, emotional and psychological parts of your sexual identity.

Thanks. That's probably because overall as a person I'm more in touch with my mental, spiritual, emotional, and physical side. But that's what happens sometimes when you don't have much of a life and a bit of a loner. But that being said I'm out of touch in other ways.

Ah about the pig thing. I had someone ask me that once. They said, "Well what's pig play. I tried to explain it to them without grossing them out. I think because I wasn't really explaining it they were confused. Because they said, "Well the sex we had..it was intense wasn't that pig play?

What I wanted to say was, "No my dear, pig play is heaving kissing, can be intense sucking and fucking..but more like a top biting my neck, handling me rough, spitting in my face, fucking my face rough and loving the sounds of me choking or slurping on his cock and encouraging it, rough verbal talk, getting fucked with little to no lube or spit or cum, eating out his ass or him eating out mine, getting fucked raw getting bred, sucking him after he fucked me, him felching my hole and savoring it and us making out with his load that was in my ass now in my mouth. Kneeling down and drinking his piss after he fucked and bred me good and being showered with his piss too. And going back at it, fucking, kissing, sweating, and cum, the smell, the stickiness, and just not giving a fuck and just doing what comes natural to pigs. Fukking beautiful.

That's kinda what I think of pig play. Of course add in a little BDSM and you have pig play+headspace which=fucking win.

As hesitant as I am about fucking neg guys bare I did tonight. A client I've been with before asked me to fuck him. He asked if I could use a condom so I did not hesitate. I respect choices. I got hard and was fucking him for a good while on his back. It felt really good. It lasted for a little while and I was trying not to focus on the condom. We took a break since the room was hot and I was starting to sweat. He turned the ac on so things cooled down. We made out some more, and did a few other things, and I got hard and was horny again. This time I told him to bend over and get on all fours. I put the condom on and started fucking him. This time I had a harder time keeping it up since the fucking rubber just kills my hard on. He took a few more hits of poppers and so did I.

I pulled the condom off and rubbed my raw cock against his hole. I slapped his ass with my cock and brushed against his hole. I told him how bad I want to fuck him raw but I won't do that. He simply said, "Why not?"

I was thinking.."HUH?". He asked, "Why won't you." I asked him, "Are you sure" and he begged me to fuck him.

He knew I was poz but he did not seem to care. That was all I needed. I lubed up my cock and shoved it in. He felt so fucking tight and so fucking good. He told he hasn't been fucked in years. I was really enjoying fucking his ass and I pulled out a few times and shoved it back in. I tried not to be too rough though since I could tell he wasn't into that so much. So I focused more on slower strokes for a whole, putting my body on his back, kissing his neck, holding his hand, and making sure he was relaxed and happy. That and we both did some more poppers.

I really went into overdrive and I started pounding his ass. It was lust and maybe some of it was primal but even if he was a little uncomfortable I did not care at that moment. I was pounding his ass and my cock was so fucking hard and I needed to cum. I fucked him much faster and harder and told him I was getting close. He just responded for me to keep fucking him. And I did. I pulled out almost all the way and shoved it back in and that did the trick. I shoved my cock DEEP in his ass and fucked him for a few minutes after too. My dick still hard and starting to get harder. He had me pull out though.

I was a little rough and I probably could have been rougher but it was for both our enjoyment not just mine or his. But I really enjoyed it. After we made out and romped around some more I fucked him again except this time with his legs in the air. He mentioned something about the condom and got another one out but then decided he wanted it raw. I fucked him some more and started pounding him again but he asked if he could suck me instead. I guess he was getting a little sore. He did tell me he hasn't been fucked in years so he's tight and I'm a pretty good size myself.

So we made out some more, I blew him, and he blew me, and we jacked off on each other too. Then we had dinner which was AMAZING and I ate like a starving kid (really was) and we fooled around some more until it was time for me to go.

I might have hesitation when it comes to fucking with condoms. But If I'm given CONSENT to fuck raw I'm not pulling out and the guy is getting my load. And if he changes his mind I'll pull out and get dressed and leave. Although, in this case if he asked me not to cum I would have respected that and listened. But fuck I've been so damn horny lately and fucking his hot tight ass and breeding him was really fucking hot.

And since there was consent I don't feel guilty about anything.

I liked loaded lube. That's an interesting name. I know some who would probably never buy cum lube too. And yeah I think fort troff or str8 cam or something like that is similar.

The very first cumunion I went to (not first in Atlanta just first one I went to) they gave out spunk lube. I REALLY liked it. I met someone at a bookstore once too who gave me his remaining bottle of spunk lube. I think it works great and much better than stuff like wet. And yes it really does look and feel like cum. Spunk Lube, Gun Oil, Boy Butter, Cum, and Spit..these are a few of my favorite things

Actually now that I think about that..I wonder how many people would accept "used lube" from someone or like half a bottle or something like that. Probably not too many.

Right. The whole "would I wear this on the street?" question is in the front of my mind when I approach the t-shirt thing since they'll sell better if people will wear them on the street.

I bought a t-shirt from the Harlem Studio Museum a couple years ago that had "Black Is Beautiful" in black text on a black shirt. You had to be up close and the light had to be just right to see what it was saying - then it was pretty clear. Along those lines I'm also going to experiment with black light inks. You'll probably need to hand wash them, but the message will only show up when you're under black light - say at a bar or club.

The other way is to have double meanings. If you're wearing a t-shirt that says "Service Specialist" or "Don't Be So Negative" your straight friend will either think it's cute because they don't understand the meaning. But at a gay bar everyone will know what you're saying. Or a message that's so over the top that people think it's funny. My boyfriend thinks clothes with WHORE on them could actually sell really well and cross over to a straight market, etc. People already think gay guys are a bit slutty. Owning it with a WHORE t-shirt could be seen as funny/cute. The key there is to not be too specific. They don't want to think about exactly what you're doing to earn that label - but they think the general idea is edgy and hot.

Combining those ideas… Now imagine there's a big biohazard symbol in black light ink on a t-shirt that says "Don't Be So Negative"… Or the biohazard symbol could be black on black so it's not all that visible until you're up close.

I really like that idea rawtop about "Don't be so negative".

I remember a friend of mine went to NYC and mentioned a shirt he asked if I wanted. It was a clever way about getting fucking that wasn't so obvious such as "Bottom" or "whore" and stuff like that. I personally prefer a little more subtleness. And that's probably perfect. I will say that a breeding zone shirt is a good idea too. I went to a gay forum for a number of years and even a forum meet. I love the shirt I got and what I love more is on the sleeve it says the initials for the forum too. When to went to ruby falls I think the tour guide even recognized it and commented on it. But I'd rather wear something that represents barebacking.

Maybe something like "BZ" on the front or back and maybe "BZ" on the sleeve. Or maybe two different versions. One for bars like "Breeding Zone" and one you can kinda just wear anywhere and only "some" will know what BZ means. Not everyone likes the subtleness that keeps people guessing or makes them wonder but I do.

To the person who said something about "bareback" in binary too. That is pretty fucking genius.

Definitily not Mr Mr Benson, even though that the book that everyone remembers. I'm pretty sure it's its one of the "... for a Master" series which turned up last week. I know I've read and enjoyed the damned book! (As well as having got some damn good ideas from it). Since I won't be going to Pride this year (it's in a muddy field, my balance is bad, even with the stick, and I prefer to keep my mudwrestling private) I'll see if the story is one one of the novels I unearthed last week ("I? I did all the moving and humping for it" "Yes, and as I remember I've got practically no fingers from ripping your tits of while you watched ff porn!") Arthritis is a bastard and neuropathy makes it worse for delicate jobs like TT)

Apologize took so long to respond. PC had virus..in safe mode right now with networking. Take that bastard virus.

I did check and my roomate has the entire "Master" series so I'll have to find out which one you're talking about. Is that a quote from the book? Sorry you won't be able to attend pride either. I DEFINITELY will.

I'll just share my experiences..I did get together when I first started barebacking with someone who was poz and not on meds. I actually regret it. Not because he wasn't a nice guy or anything but just the way it happened. I did not get it from him but I shouldn't have been drunk off my ass laying there taking his raw cock. That is probably what led me to not want to play with anyone poz for quite some time after. Wasn't really fair to him but live and learn and experiment happens when you're young and bareback.

I'd say it's better to do it when you know you are ready. Has much more meaning. But everyone's different. I'm not against sex while being a little drunk or really drunk in any way whatsoever. Just for guys who are uncertain about barebacking and looking to get drunk and get barebacked to convince themselves..I'd be cautious of that.

If it's counting the beggining of this year quite drastically.

Went on a sex drought last year until new years eve played with a guy at a hotel..drunken hotel sex..pa sex. That was how this year started.

After moving into an apartment closer into town I went wild. Had 7 or so loads a NIGHT, had bunch of guys over breeding me, going to clubs more often, and just finding new sex hook ups. It started to get slower before I became poz in march and after becoming poz sex has been very rare. Yeah I've hooked up a few times since then but not nearly like I was back then.

And I have topped a lot more lately. Topped guys in book stores, hook ups, but mostly condoms unfortunately, some raw toppings and breedings. Which were really fucking hot. But just looking forward to something more right now. But definitely more verse then I ever was.

No, not Mr Benson (though that's the book of his that everyone remembers). As I remember Mr Benson's basic premise was that he was introducing a young man who didn't always take Mr Benson's advice to leather. I remember the t-shirts with the slogan Looking for Mr Benson, some with a question mark at the end, a delightful way of changing the entire meaning of a phrase with one piece of punctuation. If the book I'm thinking of was John Preston it must have been in the Master series. I'm not completely unpacked from moving last year, but I'm fairly sure that I have the complete Master series somewhere...

That was the premise of the book..but it got involved with a leather club and someone inside secretely selling and trading slaves off to some foreign country and Benson's slave accidentally getting involved with that as well. Even at the end of the book both Benson and his slave say how absurd the whole slave trade thing in new york was. I think more of the concept of it though.

I know there were more books afterwards. I was just told to read Mr. Benson. I should have figured there were more in the series and that more happened. Now I sort of regret not reading them. I know there aren't kindle versions of those either. I know someone who has the complete series. If I wasn't so stubborn and had a desire to read more too I probably would have read all of them.

Didn't John Preston write a novel about this?

Mr. Benson?

It's funny how at one time that was somewhat an introductory or something to read to learn a little bit about leather. But the whole thing with the slave brothel in new york and everything. It got really far fetched. But there was a lot I liked about it and some stuff I did not agree with. But several authors and just erotic fiction writers have tangled on the whole "selling slaves" or "underground slave market" fantasy or hell. Just like prison rape fantasies.

Oh, I'm not looking to be a slave or bought/sold. I was just chatting with a guy and wondered if he was full of bullshit or this sort of thing actually happens. Thanks

Oops that's what I get for being stupid. I read too much into it i apologize. But as others have said yes this kind of thing probably does happen. But it's just not that well known. In some ways us barebackers..at least the ones that are proud or admit to doing it. We aren't really that known either. Feels like it sometimes with all the people on here though

I'll say this the guy has balls for admitting that he sells slaves even if it's legit.

A slave, as property, would also be potentially subject to forced castration, or the other edgier things that are being discussed here, at the Master's discretion.

...Since you went there. I did not want to name of the "edgier things" but castration, permanent hair removal, permanent markings..I don't really want to get deeper or edgier than that but 4realz is right. I suggest whitebttmslut read some erotic fiction stories out there. Maybe stories about slavery, getting sold, prostitution, or stories of subs submitting completely to an unknown man and the end result. Just because they are a fantasy doesn't mean that the situation in the story isn't someone's actual reality or former reality. That is one of the things I really like about this site. The barebacking, poz talk, bug chasing, stealing, chem, all that. I did not know all that was out there. But this site has opened my eyes up to how people view barebacking and the other things that some people do with barebacking. And even if I don't agree with all of it it's better to know it exists than not be aware of it or think it doesn't happen or exist.

Best of luck to ya whitebttmslut

For those into bears and I mean big furry bears BearFilms has one.

BearFilms doesn't do a lot of leather but one called "Midnight Growlers" Rocky West is the longer bearded bear Sir in it and I believe when he is gang fucking the boy at the end with the others it's raw. I think when he fucks the cub in the sling it might be raw too. But the other fuck scenes including the one with the hot bear top and the muscle cub in the sling is safe sex. But they say that it's their most intense (Which for bear films isn't saying much) but it is hot and one of my favorites. That and Bear Instinct is another one it's in but I forget if there is raw in that or not. It could be just because the model Rocky West prefers it raw which wouldn't surprise me. But strangely enough Midnight Growlers is not on bear films website anymore. I thought because there was raw in it but it's only in one of the bundled dvd sets.

But with the world of bear porn (don't know much about) Rocky West is one hot fucker and I love his attitude and his take on leather. There is much hotter rougher bareback porn out there but he does bareback in that one..maybe the other two. And he is hot and bear films was probably one of the first film studios I got into. So even though they mostly do safe (except for their newer raw n hairy) that one with Rocky West will always be a favorite and one I remember. Especially since he barebacks. So I thought it was worth mentioning.

Interesting. I don't believe this is as common as some people think it is. I actually do know someone who was "bartered" from his vegas training master to his now ex-Master. I think it was a small gesture thing that was bargained to show the slave was property and meant something. But then again, the source might not be as reliable as I'd like it to be.

I'd say be careful. A huge part of me wants to believe there is a community or people who do train slaves and sell them to Masters who are right for them and who are right for their Masters and it working out. But I think this is few and far between. I think more of what it is might be the underground and non consensual slavery. I won't argue that a man would pay top dollar for a young, inexperienced, slave with very few limits. Youth is always admired and desired. Take a young boy who doesn't know too much of the world or experience and you have a blank canvas that you can paint to your liking. While I think older slaves have more value because of their experience because they have taken time in their life to learn more about who they are some of their ways or things they do might be more set in stone and just stuck. They would most likely not be that way for a younger slave.

...Wow me observing this like an auctioneer or appraiser. Haha...

But like I said proceed with caution. I won't say it can't exist non sensual. But MORE than likely if someone knows of a consensual training and selling slave who's to say they don't know about the underground methods. I know some people have fantasies about the underground slave markets but more than likely that situation is something that is completely out of the slaves control and their body, mind, and everything about them is surrendered to another or completely stripped and taken away for the person's amusement. I'm sure there might be some good situations with that. But more than likely they aren't because the slave more than likely has no consent or slave.

Just be careful. It's a hot fantasy and if it's legit it's not a bad idea. But there is too much out there that isn't legit and isn't consensual even if not much is known about it and is hidden.

I agree with rawtop. If you want to be someone's slave try finding someone who has a lot of experience who has a good reputation or is well known and who is interested in you for their use and their ownership not thoughts or desires about them selling you to someone else.

If someone ever approached me like, "Oh hey boy you're hot I want to train you as my slave and possibly sell you." No thanks. I'll submit to become a man's boy/slave. But not to be sold off by the man to some underground slave market or some other country. Besides I already found someone. But one day..when I'm older. I actually would like to maybe have a submissive of my own or maybe train a submissive. But that's probably years...years down the line. And that's if I'm still around. But just be extra cautious of men who talk about wanting to sell you (with consent even) or wanting a brothel of boys or some type of far fetched fantasy.

Also with that comment about, "There are REAL Masters out there but not slaves."

I'd bet there aren't. Not all tops got to experience being on the bottom. Not all tops know what it's like being fucked, forced to submit, or being a boy. Some tops just decide early on they'll be dominant and have a boy or bitch to use and abuse. When maybe all along. There are some so called "REAL TOPS" out there who are probably, "REAL FUCKING BOTTOMS IN DENIAL". I think there are very few tops out there and probably more REAL BOTTOMS with potential to serve a man that's right for them. Not every bottom or slave will suit every top's needs or wants. But a very good bottom will be able to figure out and adjust to the top that they choose to serve.

But that's just my opinion on it. And I have a fucking opinion on this.

Not gonna lie. As soon as I saw the thread title and saw "einathens" I thought he was the op and thought I was being summoned . But that's because you are one of the few one this forum who really does reason and rationalize about everything. Something I admire. Not that others don't I'm just calling you out personally and in publicc. But thats because we know each other.

*wink wink*

@losttop:Was that really neccesary losttop? The guy knows that he needs multiple guys in his life and he recognizes it and so do the partners/fuck buds involved. As long as everyone is kosher with it why should you have to give it a jerry springer outlook. By the way saying something is "Jerry Springer" case is really lame.

@einathens/OP:

This is one of the reasons why I became an escort actually. When I was younger around 18 I'd have sex with a bunch of guys some guys I wasn't always into but I was not strong enough at that point to call it off or end it during or even before. But one thing I noticed was the guys were really happy. Even if I fucked with a condom back then it still made them happy. Just spending time with me for some reignited an old spark that they thought might have disappeared over time or just in general made them happy. And that in turn made me happy.

So when I considered escorting I thought back to that. And while in the past I have been sort of a bb cum slut. I've always been somewhat selective, and not like I have a high standard except being attracted to the guy, that's more than some do. There were only a few occasions where I was in a dark room or somewhere when it was truly anonymous. But with fuck buds in the past or guys I hooked up with. There was always an emotional connection. Even a top who would literally just fuck me and sometimes fuck me with just spit and make me take it I loved the feeling of him in me, I loved making out with him, and the lust I had for him but after he came that was it. But I at least knew that. I did almost fall for..well I did for a TN fuckbud I had with a huge dick who reminded me that just because I'm a bottom doesn't mean I have to "Serve" or "take it" from every top. I can still be human. And more recently a bear bud I hooked up with quite frequently treated me sort of like a partner/sex toy but when he realized my job is for shit, no health insurance, and poz I became just a fuck hole to him. And that hurt a little because I actually did have an emotional connection with him and he did with me but he severed it.

And within the last few weeks I've fallen for a Sir and his partner in another state and I am very well on the process to becoming his boy. I've played with a few guys since talking with him with his consent and with a client it felt very awkward because I have a lot of feeling for my Sir now. And with the man who we had a "poz" thing with there was so much emotion when we made out, held each other, and when he fucked me and when we were laying down next to each other. Basically I've come to realize how much emotion I show and give during sex. I'm not just a fish, I'm not just a hole. Yeah I have a hot ass and I'm a pig but I do feel a connection with a top, bottom, verse, or whoever I'm with. Because the simple fact is that there wouldn't be sex with them if there wasn't anything at all. But that being said that doesn't mean I get all mushy for the guy I'm with.

It's that I analyze and recognize that, "I think I'm lusting after this man" or "In another time..we might have actually been an alright pair". Stuff like that sometimes. But I've chosen to be with my Sir so even if I continue to hook up with guys before we meet just because I might feel emotions for another man or develop a crush on him or lust for him doesn't mean I'll act on it. I'll just think of it as hot sex with a hot man and leave it at that. But maybe I've always known this. Because everytime I have sex with a man, every time I kiss a man, we embrace, or I feel his touch and I moan, groan, and wimper I feel every minute of it. Just like when I'm on my knees sucking a man's cock, on my back, or bent over feeling his cock go up my ass. I feel every second of it and everything that's going on. And strangely enough it always feels different and it always "feels" each and every time. Even now as much as I want to think about sex I don't know it until it's actually happening. I can remember it but the feeling of remembering and feeling in the moment is completely different.

FEELINGS!

But yes to guys who strictly want NSA I'd probably be the worse fucking candidate because of feelings. But at the same time I read men I'm with and I understand chemistry. If the top just wants to fuck and nut I don't dare try to kiss or be affectioniate or show that to the top. I present a hole for the top to use and fuck and thank afterwards with no body contact. And I used to think I liked that but maybe not so much anymore. Proof is in the pudding since I've became poz I've barely hooked up and that every encounter since poz has actually been physical and emotional contact..except at the bookstore. WHY DID THAT CUTE CUBAN BOY USE A FUCKING CONDOM DAMMIT. And why didn't I realize he had a condom on. And how dare that guy stick his ass in a glory hole and me fucking him raw say, "Oh wear a condom." Naive naive naive boy. But enough ranting.

Nothing wrong with feeling or wanting to have emotion for a guy even if it's with most hook ups. It just means that with the right guys whether they are bf's, fuck buds, or just fucks. It will be explosive sex and with a lover or partner you'll both be really fucking happy to have each other. There will always be cumdumps and holes to use if needed. Everyone has their role to fill and be filled

Hmmm, a question... How does one become "a REGISTERED total bottom"? Is there an official bottom registry? Is there an official top registry? I've never figured out where is get my "official gay card" - but am quite sure I need one to get all those discount offers!

There is a slave registry. I don't know how official or current it still is. But I remember in the past hearing how a Sir found his boy because he saw pictures of him online with his slave registry number tattooed. I suppose you could call that a registered bottom.

I don't know much about the gage and size of PA's. But total I've probably had 3 PA's in me up til now. I have sucked a few guys with PAs. The first time I took a PA bareback really hurt and it popped in but I took it anyways. And the second time I was drunk and I was able to take it no problem. And the third time I was way too tight but I still took the PA until the guy took it off to fuck me harder. The only PA's I've ever had in me are the ones with the little ring around it and the bell. I don't think I've ever had just the bell. But the ring was really little. Still kinda scares me and excited me knowing they have been up there

Went old school last night. No anal. But I sucked the guy and he came in my mouth once and after playing and making out some more he came in my mouth a second time. Rare according to him. I came a total of 4 times altogether. Though he did not swallow any of the loads. Still hot. And he sucked my dick really good to the point where it did not take much jacking to cum.

To be fair, "Dirtpiglet" you were bugchasing. What do you expect. Bug chasing is probably a bigger gamble and risk than just barebacking and taking loads. Because you actually seek high viral load tops or guys that you know are poz so you can become poz. You were trying to bug chase for whatever reason and probably not the right reasons. So you aren't really preaching you are just sharing the thoughts of a bug chaser who chased and turned around and did safe sex and found a neg lover to be with. That's good for you. I did not quite bug chase before I became poz. I almost did but before I could even consider it I was poz already. I wasn't bug chasing or trying to get poz. I was having bareback sex because I love the feeling of raw cock up my ass or my raw cock in another man's ass. I love the feeling of having all of a man inside me with no barriers and the true bonding or true sluttiness of it. The freedom of it. That's what it was for me (and still is) freedom not forced or trying to be poz.

My biggest fear of barebacking was that because I'm into leather that a Sir wouldn't except me since I figured most Sir's were neg or safe only. God how I was naive back then but I met a poz leather top and he alleviated me of it. And as for finding a relationship or dating. Yes it has been a little awkward. I have to tell my status otherwise I'm a criminal even if the other guy never asks. Even though I've started topping there are many who will never want to take my poz dick. So yes dating or trying to find a relationship and being poz is tricky.

However, I've always believed that regardless of who I am and what I am whether I'm poz, barebacking, or whatever there are so many people in this world I'll be able to find someone to accept me and love me for who I am and not care about my status or be poz. And yes, even though I've had neg guys fuck me bare..I still have gotten some stigma from some neg tops and some get off on that. But now I've decided to just be honest about being poz and barebacking and completely. That and I've found a poz daddy who does care. And I'll tell you. As rough as it is for anyone finding someone, add being gay, into leather/pig sex/poz if someone like me were to find someone than that not only makes me a fucking winner but them.

The harder it is to be accepted and the more struggles and judgement you face from people. Well the easier it is to filter through that useless crap and find what's right for you. At least that's how it's worked for me.

Glad things worked out for you though

Thank you for warning me about the legal implications. I urge ANYONE who fucks bareback or with condoms with someone neg and doesn't disclose status who is poz to click this LINK!

http://www.aclu.org/files/images/asset_upload_file292_35655.pdf

The bible belt is truly fucked. I need to get the fuck out of this state. 10 years minimum if you have sex with someone and don't state your status. Only exception is if the other is informed of your status. So basically you could go home with a neg guy and you could both be drunk and horny and he could ask you to fuck him bare or not and if he doesn't ask and "YOU" don't say anything you are the one at fault. This state is so fucking ass backwards.

But thank you for letting me know of the legal matters because now that I know them I will state I DO NOT PLAY SAFE on all my profiles. Never again will I bear that horrible rubber. If someone fucks me and then says, "fuck me but use a condom." I'll just fucking walk out won't say anything.

Oh and for NY. You lucky fuckers. Just a simple misdeamenor, It's like, "Billy...even though he never asked your status you really should have let him known your status. I'm going to have to slap your wrists. Now behave you! *shakes finger*"

Bible belt: HOW DARE YOU HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE NEG AND NOT MENTION YOUR STATUS EVEN THOUGH THEY BACKED UP ON YOUR DICK AND RODE YOU (with condom or without) MONSTER IN THE SLAMMER FOR YOU. NO HEALTH CARE, MEDS, YOU'LL ROT AND DIE

I really wish that I could find a way to have that on the "Welcome to Georgia" sign so those poor bastards travelling here know.

I want to get a shirt that says, "I'm fucking poz wanna fight about it?" That's it..that's my shirt for pride

Hmm. What the hell I've give it a shot

Might be a fun change. Actually I know it will be.

I live in what is considered the second largest "gay" city in the US - we have a very active community - it has a lot of mature gay men - but all ages are very well represented - but heres the thing - I never see some hot butch YOUNG guy - all the YOUNG guys seem to be these nelly little queens - call them twinks if you want - but they all have their gay little outfits - and talk and run around like little girls...

sometimes I think maybe we worked to hard - that the new gay generation never went through the school of hard knocks - and they have no idea what it is to be a MAN- just little prissy queens who have no idea what it means to man up - is our future headed toward the loss of masculinity represented in our community - have we gone to far to open the doors of acceptance that boys blossom into flowers instead of men?

Here Sir have a drink to relax first off *tosses a virtual drink*

How dare you insult my Ft. Lauderdale first. I'm sorry but before you cry about Ft. Lauderdale come to Atlanta. See what "our" so called gay community is. And how it's actually being chipped away at by the city of Atlanta, famlies and hetero couples, and gays themselves. I really don't know what it will be like when I'm 30 or so...well maybe 35-40. Our only leather bar actually got rid of smoking and now has fucking drag queens on mondays. The only sleazy area around cheshire is in THREAT to be torn down so nice homes and apartments can be built..because it's a trashy area. It's a mess.

While I was in Ft. Lauderdale briefly I saw so many gay businesses opening or reopening and even know ones coming soon. The sex clubs were AMAZING and beyond what someone who only lives in Atlanta can only dream of and the men there are fucking hot. I know there is a spanish influence down there but I also couldn't believe all the barebackers and poz guys that were there. There are so many there that I think it scares the safers (totally my slang to call someone who plays safe lol)

I think it's a generational thing. You don't know what it's like to grow up being gay (well..most of your generation diddn't for that matter..some came out or admitted it later) so that's one thing to keep in mind. There are men and women who are brave enough in this day and age to be open and gay at a very early age and people who are accepting of that. I know that's something that past generations would be fucking proud of and somewhere they're probably smiling for that. Second you so wrongfully underestimate youth. I once had at a sex club a very beautiful blond haired, twink boy with a huge dick. He was so passionate, sweet, sensual, and a damn good lover but my beef was he was young. Even though he fucked me I couldn't enjoy it because he was my age and I had sort of a thing against guys my age. I even told him afterwards, "You are an amazing guy someone else would be really lucky but I'm not into younger guys..sorry." That was such an asshole thing I did but he just smiled and thanked me and said he enjoyed it and he understands. Cute and sweet and smart.

I sort of repented in ft. lauderdale because a boy who used to live in macon moved to ft. lauderdale after he visited and fell in love with someone...and talking to him at the bar I could tell he was very much like an Atlanta twink. A bit effeminate, he had stylish dressing and very gay, and talked like a girl a bit. But beyond that I talked to him and learned he's a boy who is working hard to live in ft. lauderdale, likes his job, loves his boyfriend (he says) and his social skills surpass mine greatly and there is a lot to admire about him. But it would be ignored if you just write him off as a twink.

And when he I was on my knees sucking his cock and he was fucking me bare with his huge dick he was amazing. His dick was huge, stamina was amazing and I could feel his youth and his drive. And I agree with another poster on here. I think there are TONS of butch looking masculine daddies who want nothing more than to spread their ass for a young twink and take the big young cock. Not only that but have you seen some men around your age. Some of these mature or so called butch men. They are fucking more fem and less masculine than a twink. I saw a guy in a leather shop once and thought he was the fucking hottest beefy butch daddy I ever saw and when he spoke it's like fucking rainbow colored boas spurged out of his mouth and he grew fucking wings and had a fucking wand with magic pixie dust (****) and displayed it for everyone. Also some of these so called men who are supposed to mature and masculine. Shit some of em are no better than a so called twink.

Also, you don't realize this but besides the youth, drive, and sexual energy us twinks have we also have lots of hopes, lots of dreams, lots of fears, and lots of strength. Some of us really look up to the older generation and want to become better, stronger, and happy and we'll even learn from your mistakes. Everyone I've come into contact with and met..for some reason I feel I've changed them a little bit and made them a bit happier or smile a bit more and laugh. Even if it's just at a bar or a hook up. I don't really know how I do it or what it is but maybe I'm starting to understand the power and influence of youth more.

Now with that being said I fucking love a hot butch daddy top and a man who has swager. But that doesn't mean a twink should get written off for just being a twink. But that is of course your choice.

And also, lots of the butch, leather, and all those men. A lot of them did pass on. I'm sure lots of boys would love to have a more masculine, butch, and strong role model or archetype. But not everyone does. I was lucky in the sense I was raised by gay leather men.

And you worked too hard? You don't think the younger generation works hard enough and never went through the school of knocks. So some of us never got the switch, never got beat in public, and yes some of us might have lived with our parents longer. It's a different game now Sir. Internet, technology, what schools have become now, the education system, the poor and than the rich, the way society is. We have our own shit to go through and some of us work very fucking hard to keep what we have and what little we have. I think it's actually fucking arrogant to say that "you worked too hard" and we haven't or don't know what it's like.

The sad thing is if you actually give people a chance you'll learn so much more about them instead of thinking of just of a good piece of ass to fuck or a dick to ride. Not that it's ever wrong to go just looking for that. But I see people like you at bars and other places. Always galavanting about the good ol days how the younger generation doesn't know anything, so naive, and how you live and just love to gloat about your glory days. What good is all your achievements in life and all your pride if you don't have someone to share it with. While some might be bored as fuck hearing about your ramblings and drivel a young man takes curiosity to it and listens and is engaged and captivated. But you will miss out on that.

I'm sorry but I might not be a twink..maybe I'm growing out of it but I was a twink at one point. It sucked getting judged by guys just for being younger..but then again I did the same to people my own age so I guess that's karma for you. But you really should be fortunate and happy to live in Ft. Lauderdale with such interesting people and tons of hot guys both tops and bottoms and versatile. And so many things to do, great bars, and great places to go for sex.

But then again, I'm just a twink, I haven't worked hard enough and I don't know what it's like to be a man. And I'll let you know. I even HAVE called out someone in a bar before when he shouted, "God dammit this bar is becoming full of fucking twinks it's a fucking twink bar" (when it really wasn't.). I looked him in the eye and said, "What's wrong with twinks." He bitched out and said, "Uhm nothing I wasn't even talking to you." I commented that, "Well no but I'm talking to you because you made a comment which partially applies to me so I'm curious." He just bitched out and said nothing.

And I even called out someone who criticized me for barebacking when we talked in a bar and said out loud how I shouldn't do it and I told him don't fucking tell me how to live my life, I understand the consequences and am responsible for my own life and I can make my own decisions and they don't impact you and I will do what I want and what is right for me. Nerve of that asshole to shout in the bar that I bareback and then act concerned.

And trust me. There are lots of twinks out there that are strong, can speak their own mind, and will beat the shit out of someone if they are insulted or need to defend themselves. Ironically I've actually known one or two.

I think your doing the right thing here, but I would always verge on the side of caution. You need to realize that LEGALLY in many places it is up to YOU to inform the other person of your status, if you dont, you can be prosecuted, even if they dont ask you.

Dont take offense to this, but you do have an obligation now IMO as a person who is poz to act in a responsible manner in regards to sex with your partners. I know many on here think otherwise, and thats there opinion. However like I said before in many places it is a crime to not talk about your status. If you want to top there are plenty of places to find bottoms who will gladly take your nut, and there is no reason to give it to someone who doesnt want it and is trying to stay neg.

Like I said before in another thread on here I have a good friend who was likely pozzed from being stealthed, and he is still having mental health issues from that. Not everyone is okay being pozzed and while they may enjoy sex, and sometimes unprotected sex, its everyones job to respect the partners wishes. That IMO means open and honest communication.

Thank you. I really appreciate this. There was only one time the weekend after I became poz I went home with someone from a bar. Before we fucked I said I just tested poz and am waiting for the confirmatory results (truth) but probably still poz. He chose to fuck me bare. Ever other times it's been consensual with someone I know who is poz or just some random cum dump in a book store/sex club.

I'll admit as well that I'm not sure I agree with the way that works but that is what it is. You are correct in the sense that it's not really worth going after someone who isn't poz or is neg and doesn't want to fuck with a poz guy especially bareback. And yes there are places to go and drop a nut and there are websites as well. On every site I state I'm poz. I'm really glad I asked this because going to bars more often or being in places where it's not quite cut and dry who is poz or who is into BB it's important to know what my responsibilities are. And now I know.

Thank you very much hollywoodslut. Your insight was very helpful and very much appreciated. I'll probably just go after verse/top poz guys or just go elsewhere to drop a load.

@hungry_hole

Interesting the way you describe that in third person. You are correct in that sense. Although, I want to leave it up to the bottom to decide. But if it were my choice I'd rather just fuck and breed them. I'm already trying that make that scenario a reality just trying to actually get that going. But cumunions are popping up all over the country now. But the scenario is perfect. Just fucking, sucking, and loads being deposited or going up my ass and no mention of status or anything.

If a guy does not "ask" you your status or even bring it up then I think you are correct in that it is not stealthing. I don't think the top should have to say, "I'm Positive." If nothing is said I'm not sure if it's really two consenting adults but it is consenting to the anonymous aspect of it.

I just know it's going to happen one day even if I state how serious I am, I'll shout, "I'M GOING TO CUM" and someone will go, "Pull out no pull out stop stop". That's probably bad that typing that just made me rock hard instantly >

@einathens

Thank you. You know I'd love to but also part of being a top (which I'm not really trying to be is patience). In time I'll be able to do fun stuff like this and have some anonymous no questions asked sex with many guys. But I can't wait until it happens. I appreciate the compliment as well