fuckboy20

First of all: Congrats on always being honest. That is by far the best policy.

As to guys fucking you bareback while insisting on condoms when bottoming: That is for you - and only for you - to decide. Some submissive guys get off on the double standard. Most guys feel akward like you. You should do what YOU feel comfortable with. If you really want to fuck the guy and that's the only way, why not? But noone has the right to dictate the way YOU want to have sex. Be open about what YOU want. You'd be surprised how many guys suddenly agree to your terms once you show them that you're willing to walk away from a fuck.

Just don't be an asshole: Don't stealth. Stick to what you agreed upon. If you agree to condoms, don't pull them off. If you agreed on bareback without seeding the ass, shoot outside. But don't agree to something you're not comfortable with in the first place.

It's an interaction with someone it's not some random person at a book store and bath house. Even though their reasons might be invalid as well as their reasoning. If they choose not to take poz bare cock that is their choice. Fortunately, or maybe not fortunately I haven't gotten to the point where I fuck someone bareback and they tell me not to cum in their ass or tell me to pull out. I can see that going several ways but at the same time if they take a bare cock be it poz or neg they should realize pre-cum leaks and that not everyone control that. But I haven't experienced that yet.

That's a great point. Some do like the double standard. They aren't all bottoms verse guys are the same sometimes too. But what I don't want to do is stick my cock in and fuck them bareback without their consent. Even if they like it they might scream at the last second, "Don't cum in me" or "Why are you fucking me bareback, you're poz" or "you raped me and pozzed me". We already know some people out there are batshit or just wanna start shit. I'd rather not try to play games with someone who doesn't say, "Fuck me bareback with your poz cock." and consent. I have fucked two guys bareback and bred them at a book store and sex club before. But one guy I shoved my cock bare in his ass when he was bent over at the glory hole he said, "OH wait let me get a condom." I diddn't say anything and just walked away. But that's an anonymous thing. If you're with a guy like at his house or he's at yours it's a little harder to just walk away.

But you are right. I might just have to say, "Nope I only fuck bare and I don't pull out." And if they say, "Oh no I can do that" I can just say, "Goodbye". You are correct that it is my choice to have sex the way I want. As it's their choice to refuse or walk away it's also mine.

Trust me I'm not going to stealth. A guy I fucked with a condom last night was so paranoid and wouldn't let me cum in him even with the condom on and checked the condom to make sure it wasn't doctored. All the while I listed off the ways that guys do stealth, doctor condoms, heat and freeze them, and things they do to seed a naive bottom. Just to warn him so he can be safer if he wants.

I think I'll agree with rawtop. I think I'll just state clearly and boldly, "If I fuck you I'm not pulling out." If they say, "Well you can just put it in for a little bit." I'll repeat, "I'm not going to pull out." That way they can do their own pyscho reasoning in their minds and push it as far as they want or don't want or they can say, "Well no thanks."

Because I'm sure it will eventually happen where even if I state, "I don't pull out and I deposit my poz load." Even if they tell me to bareback them or they back up on it and take it they cannot say I raped, pozzed or violated them because I "warned them" and was serious. But if I sense someone is that bat shitty, clingy, or paranoid I'd probably not do anything with them and just zip up and walk away.

Well actually some people there might argue with that. Actually I'm curious. To those tops who are poz and fuck bottoms if you are fucking a bottom bareback and you've already stated you don't pull out and will breed and the bottom ignores you or tries to pretend they'll pull out. If you fuck them and are about to cum if they say, "Stop" or "Pull Out" if you don't pull out are you at fault or liable? That's something important I should probably know or at least decide If I'm going to bareback and top from time to time.

@rawtop

You are correct. I've started fucking to where I can cum from fucking and if they are hot enough or willing enough I can fuck them more than once and breed them more than once. But if they don't want me to cum in them than should I even fuck them to begin with. At the same times there are many guys out there and some probably with really hot asses, holes, and etc. There might be times where they might get me to agree to fucking them as long as I don't cum and I might get suckered and go along with it just because they are really fucking hot.

I diddn't realize there was so much to learn about poz and topping. Thank you everyone for the advice so far it's appreciated.

So I've experienced this lately. When I first became poz I decided not to have sex for a while and no sex with neg guys. Although almost immediately after I did fuck a poz versatile guy. It was really fucking hot and that started me to want to start fucking bareback. I did fuck another poz versatile guy after him who took my bare cock and load no problem.

I always let someone know I'm poz if I'm meeting them and going to play with them. With tops it's mostly, "I'll fuck you bareback but if you fuck me it's condom." So I've started fucking a few guys with condoms even after or before they fucked me bareback.

It's understandable since first off it's less likely for them to get anything fucking me bareback. Second, they are MUCH MORE LIKELY to get infected if I fuck them bareback and breed them. And I don't want to fuck or breed someone who doesn't want that. But it feels very strange..especially tonight that a top fucked me bare really rough and then I try to fuck him bare and he tells me "no". And I realize after that he loves getting fucked but uses a condom..but fucks bare mostly. And then another guy I hooked up with once he asked me to rim him I told him he was going to fuck me but he had me wear a condom. He told me not to cum inside the condom while in him, I sort of did, and he checked the condom afterwards like fucking dissected it. He saw that it really was in the condom and not poppers or broken.

It's sort of common since some guys are worried about being stealthed..and there is reason they should be.

But at the same time as a barebacker it doesn't feel right if a top is fucking me bareback and then has me wear a condom. I understand him not wanting to get poz but still. A tad bit unfair or awkward. Keep in mind I don't meet everyone on BBRT and I met guys outside of online sometimes so it's not like everyone is into taking loads unfortunately...

This question might be more for poz versatile guys. Since poz tops probably fuck bareback regardless and turn down guys who don't. Is this just something that you experience when you first are freshly poz and start topping (especially if you formally bottomed). Just wondering if i should stop using condoms altogether and refuse guys who ask me to wear a condom.

Got together with my usual bear bud and he got a hotel room as usual. Cleaned out and went over to see him and stripped for him and got on my knees and sucked his already hard cock. He had me keep my bikini briefs on and it was so fucking hot how he kept pawing at my ass and groping it and fingering my crack. Serviced his cock and balls until he bent me over the bed. I was a little late this time so he diddn't use any lube or give me any poppers. He pushed his hard cock in and made me take it. Diddn't let me get used to it just raped my hole and fucked me brutally. I was trying not whine like a bitch but I couldn't help it. I just had to take it. He pulled all the way out and shoved his fat meat back in me too. Finally after stretching and tearing up my ass he hands me the bottle of poppers and lets me use them. Then he really fucks me and I really relax and loosen up. We move over to the couch and I bounce up and down on his cock and gyrate my ass. I love doing that with him and I feel so fucking slutty bouncing up and down on a hot bear daddy's cock on a couch. He pulled me off him and I suck him and swallow his first load.

After laying down and watching some tv I see him rubbing his cock and I ask, "Sir Permission?" He removes his hand and I service his cock and he tells me to get it nice and wet. I sit on it again and I ride him for a while. This time, he pulls me off and puts me on my back and starts pounding my hole while degrading me, spitting on me, and then he starts jack hammering my ass. He pauses for a moment and I feel his load seeping into me and then he pounds his load into my ass. I jack off with his cock up my ass and shoot a huge load myself. We clean up and go to bed.

Woke up this morning and saw him lightly sleeping. I felt his hard morning wood and gently lowered my mouth onto his cock and slowly worked it. I heard him groaning and stirring awake and I suddenly feel his hand on my head forcing me on his cock and making me choke. He fucks my face a bit more and then I sit on his dick. I take a big hit of poppers to completely relax and loosen up for him and I ride his cock for all I'm worth and I just feel so slutty and so right doing so. Just love bouncing up and down on a man's cock. He pulls me off and bends me over the bed and starts fucking me. I'm moving a little too much because I'm so excited and horny but he orders me to stay still a few times. After not heeding his warning enough he slams my face into the bed and starts rough fucking me even more all the while telling me to be a good little bitch and obey him and I lay there and take it as he pounds my ass. Finally he shoots his morning load up my ass. We shower, watch a little more tv and then I go on my way and he goes on his.

Great friday night and great way to start a saturday.

I used to go further. I'd create a folder on my hard drive and store pictures of the guys I'd hooked up with. The spreadsheet and the blogs are the more efficient version.

That isn't too uncommon. Sites used to be easier to save guys pictures online as well. A lot of sites now either just thumbnails, preventing you from saving the pictures, and etc. so it's not as easy as it used to be. I do notice now that more and more guys do save pictures of guys from their phones now. I know a friend who has quite a few pictures of guys he meets and the pictures they send him. I don't think he ogranizes it though. Spreadsheet sounds more efficient to list it but for pictures as well blogs or documents are probably better.

Hi random strangers of the internet! I'm a young poz (5 years now) bottom in Pittsburgh, PA. When I contracted, I was 21 and I had only slept with 10 or so guys by that point (pathetic, I know). Since I was diagnosed, I've slept with guys on and off, but never to the extent I desire. Shortly after sex I tend to feel anxiety about my health, etc. So far (knock on wood) I'm undetectable, but I've always had a weak immune system. I'm young, want to live more, but need encouragement one way or another to become a true cumdump, or just accept the loads of occasional men I sleep with (a couple a year). I know where most of you are leaning on that....but I need an answer knowing that I don't wanna catch something untreatable.

Anyway, I know it's a depressing conversation, but once I feel I know what i should do....Here is what I'd like:

1) If I'm NOT encouraged to be a cumdump, I'd like to find a top near me who isn't concerned with me being HIV positive.

2) If i AM encouraged to be a cumdump, I'd like to find a few tops (not necessarily near me), who can take me out and get me loaded up/gangbanged. I'll travel if need be. I prefer hot, in shape guys, but who cares if I'm blindfolded.

Hmm. Sounds like we are in similar situations.

Like yourself I'm also younger. I'm 23 and became poz this year. I stopped having sex for a while after because of fear and a little guilt and just unsure. I'm back to having sex but no where near as much as I did before. But that's partially by choice. To be a cum dump or not that is the question. It's a good idea to talk to other cum dumps to ask about that one. I'm not quite sure if I want to be one right now. Or maybe not so much a public or communal cumdump. Even though it sounds hot. You'd be surprised. I currently see a neg top a few times a week. When we first talked I told him I was neg and he was okay with it. One thing that you might or might not realize about being poz and a bottom is I think some tops find that more attractive. Whether they are poz, undetectable, or neg. Some bottoms tease about wanting to get fucked raw or play it and don't even take loads. Tops don't like bottoms that bullshit like that. The fact that there are guys like you and me which take raw cock and take loads does please tops.

Obviously the question is finding them. But since you are young you still have lots of time. There are lots of people out there. I don't know what the PA area is like but try sites like breeding zone or even location based apps if you have a smart phone. On some location based apps I put that I'm poz in the profile and some I don't have a picture and do something like, "versbb". Then people can contact you if they are interested. But I think you'll definitely find a top whether he's poz or not that will want you and want to use you regularly.

I don't have experience on number 2. Well I did do that once. A guy took me to the baths and had me go off with certain guys and get fucked or bring guys into the room and they'd both fuck me or he'd watch. It was just a couple of guys though not like a room full of guys. But it was a hot experience. But I'm sure there are people who can relate to that one more than I can.

As for STD's and diseases. I haven't really gotten those only one once when I was younger and I even played safe back then. But if you are on meds and have good health insurance I wouldn't worry too much about catching something. Most are treatable as long as you detect them early.

Best of luck

From one young poz pig to another

Between my blog and the spreadsheet I keep of who I've fucked, I've got a diary. In the spreadsheet I keep profile name + real name (if I know it), whether they were a new fuck, and whether I came.

Damn. Talk about organization. I forgot about this but I knew someone who first off had every profile for hook ups and guys he's fucked in a folder in his computer with a direct link to their page. He also had I believe word documents with a screen capture of their profile and what he thought of them and what they did together.

I never even thought about doing spreadsheets. But I do know some people who are spreadsheet happy.

...Since the poster never mentioned any names and it seems you've already called him out once and seem to enjoy doing so, there's a little something called, "Private Message". It's new and hi-tech. Also, you might be the type of person that people fear getting in relationships with. Also, no one should really be afraid to say things on this site even if they are referring to someone whether it be another member or someone outside the site. This should be a site where people can freely, openly, and not be afraid to ask about barebacking, discuss it, and talk about how hot it is.

You're totally killing my buzz...but since you're already here, take a seat and read and scroll more. You'll learn a hell of a lot and it's pretty fucking insightful.

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Back to being serious. I've realized lately that I don't have as much as a sex drive recently. Yeah I'm busy with work and other shit going on but I only play with a couple (partnered) and a friend of mine during the week. It's just that there is something about these people that fulfill a lot of what I'm looking for. Sex is highly involved, (especially with one) but it's getting to the point where I know a night of dickchasing is troublesome and can lead to sitting at the computer finding no one, staring at phone and finding no one, or going out to bars to find no one or even feeling desperate. Which leads to a night at the clubs or bookstores just taking random and anonymous loads. And nothing wrong with it. Just not for those reasons..at least IMO.

My feelings on this so far is more of a split between wanting to be owned/have an equal partner. I've gotten a taste of both sides. I don't mind being a man's sub or boy and him deciding who he wants to fuck me and getting say or no say (depending on the chemistry). But at the same time I think if it was more of an equal partner thing maybe even a versatile man. I might miss having sex with others from time to time but I think monogamy for a little would work.

But then in the back of my mind I know that it only takes one night at a bar, one encounter on a trip or somewhere and I'm servicing a random man and taking his bare cock up my ass or plowing a hot sloppy hole and not giving a fuck for that moment. As long as I realize this and if I ever get close to someone (and they realize) monogamy/open isn't something I'm worried about it. Besides, relationships change regardless on what their original base or intention was. Even moreso if it's a forced relationship or one sided.

In a nutshell I probably can but don't think I want to completely be monogamous. Then again, all part of being young, learning, exploring, and exploding (cum?..sounds hot) I guess.

Heh maybe I'm reverting. Played at the bookstore the other night.

But last night with short notice got ready for my bud and went over to his place. Love how he just stripped me and spat on his cock and shoved it in. I was tight but he likes that. I took a hit of poppers and he fucked me for a good while with his normal verbal insults and degrading me and making me beg for his load. And fuck he loaded me and I came for him too. I like how it was so urgent and so lustful. But that was also because he was short on time.

Normally I'd go home..I got together with a poz top I've been wanting to get together with for a while. Older man not really into rough, verbal, or kink but he had a huge cock. He loved me deepthroating and servicing his huge cock and I sat on it with no lube and only the load in my ass as lube. Felt so fucking good having that huge cock in me and feeling the load before act as lube. I rode his cock but he pulled me off and I got on the side of the bed and he bent me over. He pushed his hard cock inside me and fuck was it big and it felt so damn good. I took a hit of poppers and so did he and I arched my back and worked my ass on his cock. He took another hit of poppers before he shouted that he was cumming and I felt his huge poz load breeding me. It felt fucking great and my hole was pretty damn sore after.

The earlier fuckbud always likes to pull all the way out and shove his cock back in and do this because he loves it when I squeal and shriek and he loves the reaction. He loves to tear up my ass and treat me like a bitch. So having him earlier and this big cock made me a tad bit sore. But as usual, it goes back to being tight

Was a fun night. Having mixed loads in my ass felt hot too.

Well damn..

Got back from the bars and couldn't believe who messaged me on bbrt on the way home. He came over and he was looking so fucking hot, sexy, masculine, and strong as hell. He pinned me to the door and grabbed my ass and lead me into my own bedroom. Ordering me to close the windows, turn the light off, turn the other light on and everything.

I sucked him, he fucked me, we made out, he pissed in my mouth and used my mouth like a water fountain and I drank his piss from the tap and I diddn't spill a FUCKING DROP. Once you look up at a big fucking strong beefy sexy daddy like that and you see those eyes you know that you have to give it 101%. He was very pleased that I drank it all and we went back to fucking and he shot some of it in me and jacked the rest off. I also shot two loads while I was riding his fat sexy daddy dick.

We showed together afterwards and he let me know about what he'll do next time. Can't wait.

Heh interesting. Haven't had sex in a while so decided to go to bookstores.

I sucked a few cocks and was on my knees for a few different guys. Their cocks felt so hot going down deep in my throat and my face being used as a pussy. This hot cuban boy took me to a room and after I sucked him he fucked me. Unfortunately, I realized he used a condom.

But I went to a corridor after and felt a hot furry ass. I took out my cock and shoved it in the guy's ass. Fuck it felt wet and sloppy. I fucked him for a bit but told him to come into the room with me. I ordered him on all fours and I got on the bed and mounted him. It felt really good fucking him but he moved a bit. So I told him to lay flat on his stomach. I really fucked him and I breed him deep and pushed it in far. He thanked me.

I saw a hot ass out of a glory hole later and I rubbed the ass and pressed my cock against it. He pushed back so I took a hit of poppers and lubed up my cock and shoved it in. I started fucking him and I felt his tight hot ass but then I felt him pull out. He asked, "Do you have a condom."

I simply put my cock back in my pants and left while he was saying something or trying to plead about fetching a condom.

At least I shot one load.

No but it's a good idea. Blogging and Adding someone's number doesn't count. Nothing like adding someone's name, number, and load count. Sounds like fun.

Fucked in a hotel by a bear top and bred tonight.

I really hope this in the right place.

I notice that when adding pictures to the gallery here on BZ you can not only add pictures from your computer but you can also add pictures from links where they are hosted.

I do use dropbox a bit since it has automatic camera upload. But direct linking pictures like that isn't really easy. That's better for uploading. I was wondering if anyone knows if sites like picasa, flickr, photobucket, or other sites out there are okay to use for bb sex pictures. Talking about personal pictures nothing commercial or professional. If anyone knows what sites are or aren't okay let me know. Trying to figure out a better way to add pictures here.

Thank you. And sorry if this in the wrong place.

heh gonna start making these short on here.

Got loaded by a hot top I get together with on thursday twice. Got loaded by a leather top once and his partner afterwards on saturday.

That was easy.

Even though I like bareback porn mostly I still watch condom porn. Simply because the guys from Titan and Raging Stallion turn me on and i do not see those type of guys often in bareback porn. I just pretend they are not wearing a condom. Those bareback movies with eastern European twinks do nothing for me. Hairy muscle guys for me! ;-)

The only time I watch condom porn is if the guys are really hot. And I still have some like that and with some I think, "Fuck I'll save it". Some hide the fact the condom is being worn too but it still sort of eats away at me in the back of my mind. I find it interesting though how some condom porn I had the guy in it are also in other films specifically about bb. The ones I specifically hate though are the ones that cum on the back. Such as a waste of cum.

Damn you too. Fuck you Sprint. Go to the free chat line site and click on "Blocked From Calling" The backdoor number is there. I don't really want to post the number because I don't think we're allowed to do shit like that...

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The Free Chat Line is my favorite. The main number got blocked by my carrier because I think I called too much but they have a backdoor number so I can still get into there. They have a bunch of new features but the live conference is my favorite and only one I need. They are for men and women but the lines for men can either be gay/bi or straight. I talk about being poz, bb, and shit (not scat) on there all the time and love getting off with sexy older men. It can get creepy sometimes but easy to pass messages or end a chat quickly.

As for the payed ones I did a free trial of interactive male a few years ago. That was better for people local in my area and I just used the trial so I never payed. But free chat line I notice more people in my area are on sometimes. But I've gotten off several times on there.

Most places that show porn on the tv's usually show bareback. Bareback is a VERY popular porn category. Several bookstores I know show it, bath houses, and glory holes even.

As for bars I don't know bars where porn is shown. But it's usually a mix of condom, twink, amatuer, anal, theme, bb, and so on. Whatever the more popular porn categories are.

So..I thought this was a bit interesting.

When I was younger I discovered gay porn. I had a PSP at the time and since I knew my dad actually knew how to go in and look at my history I did all internet surfing for porn/pics/videos and saved it to the memory card in the device. Once I turned 18 I saved all the porn that I collected and downloaded even more porn/pics/vids and etc. At the time I was very pro condom and very much against barebacking. All the porn I got was mostly, bear, daddy, leather and etc. But once I got more into leather and lived as a leather boy for a while my mind did wander and I did get into bareback porn. I saved some bareback porn as well. I saved all my porn to an external hard drive. It was convenient whenever I wanted to watch it I'd just take it with me and plug it in. So going from pro and only condom to today.

I've been really horny lately and I have literally done nothing this entire evening except watch porn. My internet is for shit so I used my old porn hard drive and hooked it up. As hot as the guys are in some of the porn I have when I spot the latex I go soft. I'm like, "AH IT'S ANOTHER CONDOM". Some are sneaky too and they try to hide it from the camera or they switch to the face and then to fucking and I think, "Oh yeah that hot guy's getting fucked" until I see the rubber on him and then I delete.

So that's basically what I've been doing. Deleting porn that has condoms in it. I did a total 180. Still though I find it so interesting that no matter how hot the guy is and how hot the fucking is if I see rubber on or just knowing there is rubber I just can't jack off to it. I do have some bareback porn on there though. Most of it's when I started getting into bareback porn but looking back further one or two bb porns did sneak in during my condom only phase.

Since everyone here discovered sex with men, porn, and bareback in their own ways I'm wondering for porn collectors/hoarders/fans if you still have porn saved that is condom porn. And if so does it turn you off now, are you indifferent, or can you still get off on it. I'll admit. There are some that I'm saving because even though they are condoms the guys are just too fucking hot to just delete.

Has anyone ever been taken into a truckers rig and fucked? I know one that wants me to stay bound in his sleeper cab while he drives across country and back. I don't know if he was serious or not but here is his exact email:

" youll go the road with me hidden in the back, make you suck my cock and fuck you any time i want, share you with my buds on the road theyre always lookin for a good slut to pound, we'll gang bang you take turns fucking you raw, sound good? "

He wants to head out this week too. I'm not sure what to do in this situation seems like a big risk but would get used a lot. Has anyone had this happen before? Would like opinions on it.

That can go so many different ways. The guy can be all talk and you might not get as much action as you were hoping or he might not be top or dominant enough. Or it might be too much.

Regardless it sounds fucking hot. If you are seriously going to meet with him I'd at least meet with him first and get a chance to weigh the type of person he is and have a chance to scan him before you let him to you up. Oh wait when you say "bound" do you mean bound by his company and with him or bondage.

That's a whole other story to travel with a trucker. I would love to do that. Be a trucker's bitch and have him and his buds use me. Be his fucking urinal and cum dump serve him. Especially travelling around the country that would be so much fun to see different places and people too. It would be even better if we actually enjoyed each others company as well and could enjoy the trip for more than just sex.

I did meet with a trucker once. He never said he was into bb his profile might have even been safer only. But I met him at the truckstop. I dressed in my boots, jeans, and leather jacket. I followed him out to the back area where the rigs are. I was nervous since I wasn't supposed to go but he said I am dressed normal enough that it won't raise suspicion. Thank god for my plain casual style. His rig was huge and he had a bed in the back and it sort of reminded me of a motorhome. We talked some, made out, I blew him, and he fucked me raw several times and bred me several times as well. My ass was so overfull with cum that I felt I couldn't take his cock anymore or anything anymore because it was filled with so much cum. Felt close to a piss fuck.

I remember he told me about what it was like for him being gay when he was younger and his experiences and how he was in talks with a boy that he wanted to travel with him. He told me being a trucker can be lonely. If I diddn't work I would have stayed the night with him. But it did really feel good unloading all his cum as soon as I left his rig. He actually did message me a month or two ago saying he was back in town but this was around the time when I got cut back there by an asshole and it was in the process of healing.

But I would love to get together with that man again. He doesn't seem like the type to whore me out though. I'd rather have a trucker that uses me and whores me out to his buds or at truckstops too. We can all dream

I completely agree. I learned when I was younger and went out without cleaning. I thought, "Oh I'll be okay". I wasn't. I really regret it but I was young so not like I can go back and change it. Ever since then I always use a shower shot to clean myself out. It used to take 3-4 hours and now usually takes an hour or less. If it's really bad it might take longer but usually doesn't. I also don't eat nearly as much processed food and preservatives as I used to. Yeah I eat out sometimes but you'll never catch me eating a big mac or mc. fries unless I'm in a rare, "I want to eat something greasy and fucking nasty moods" which is rare. But you'll catch me at mcdonalds getting a shake or smoothie or checkers. I also drink a few cups of coffee a day which is a natural diarrehtic I've heard. I drink water everyday too usually a few glasses. So by the time I get off work I've already used the bathroom a few times so I'm already cleaned out.

And that wasn't even a routine to clean myself out. That's just because I need coffee to get through my day and I need water because It's usually hella hot. And now those old nazi's are making me wear pants. Fuck them.

But back on topic. I get that sometimes even if you clean out and make sure you are clean it can still happen. And although it only happened ONCE when I was younger water can come out as well.

But what the OP is talking about are guys that don't even attempt to clean getting fucked or going out to clubs and having sex and either a top getting shit dick and then fucking you or having you suck them or just being near them. It's just the cheapest disposable enema bottle is maybe 10 dollars at most. A bottle of water is a dollar. A fleet isn't too pricey either although I prefer not to use those. And there have been times when even after cleaning my stomach doesn't feel well and I decide, "I ain't going out." I used to go as so far and not even go to bars unless I was cleaned out incase someone wanted to fuck me or events unfolded. I did not want to miss out or be unprepared. But if I do go out and am not going out for sex and someone does happen to make a pass I'll at least warn them and say, "I wasn't prepared or looking for this so it's your call."

Be careful too. To those who don't clean their ass your might find someone who gets off on it and then they might do things with you that you aren't comfortable with.

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I'm sure some would take that as a challenge ;P

I seriously think it depends on the area. When I first got on BBRT I had lots of hits and interest. But I was way too nervous at the time and probably raised red flags for people as a newbie. Even though I'm a free for all barebacker now I still don't always get laid on bbrt. If your willing to travel it's easier but I'm not always willing.

But when I was in Ft. Lauderdale. Fuck I had some fun and met a few guys from growlr, bbrt, and manhunt. But I was fresh meat and a traveller. Traveller cock/ass is highly desirable.

It's sleazy and slutty as hell but I still think I have more fun going to a bath house, book store, or sex club. Bending over and taking cock and loads or fucking willing cum hole bottoms. But if you just want to have a general idea of the guys in your area then location based apps like manhunt webversion, growlr, and maybe even grindr are best. Although guys are less legit on grindr.

I thought at first. That you actually meant meeting people to actually learn more about them, socialize, and play.

To be honest both iOS/Android have limitations on what kind of content can be in GPS type apps. Like growlr/grindr. That's why you can't have nudes as main pics on growlr/grindr which is annoying as fuck. I really doubt there will ever really be an app that can bypass that.

What you should focus more on is web versions.

BBRT, Squirt, Manhunt all have web versions. You can use gps to track your location and guys around you. I've actually had good luck with squirt before. They are bb friendly and even poz but good luck finding guys with even a profile picture. The one downfall to an anonymous/cruise location type website.

I searched for PartyNPlay on google play store and couldn't find it. Did it get deleted that fast?

My top choices are bbrt and adam4adam. I don't use growlr much. I've gotten hook ups from grindr in the past but haven't put that back on my phone in a while. There is always craigslist when you are on the go too. I have had some fun times from there

Breeding Zone is now an official sponsor of CumUnion. You're going to see them promoted more heavily on the site (we're just getting all the promotional stuff worked out). We've been trying to find a way to measure the effectiveness of the promotions here. I'm wondering if armbands, like I had for MAL wouldn't make sense. They'd be available for free upon request when you enter the party. The number of armbands requested/given out would give us a rough idea of how many of the guys here go to those parties. And it would help you guys identify each other. Plus, over time it would help get the word out about Breeding Zone to "the right kind of people".

Now, on a practical level, the community here has critical mass because it's global. But right now (a bit after 7am Eastern) that just means 35-40 people actively visiting the site... (Click images to see bigger versions.)

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Even if you look at something like the Northeast US it doesn't look so bad...

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[That's who's on right now - just after 7am - but that map and the one below use a longer time frame than the graphic above that shows 41 people actively on the site - so the maps show more people than the first graphic does.]

But when you zoom into a particular city, even a big one like New York, you see there really aren't that many people...

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There's only 6 people on the site right now from New York, and only 2 of those are registered users. Mind you, it is 7am. I'll try to remember to get new graphics tonight say around 10pm or so.

So at a CumUnion party there will probably only be a few of you with armbands on... But you know those few people will be fine to walk up to and talk to or walk up to and have sex with. In fact I could see people after the fact getting on here and saying "who was the bottom who was taking all those loads who had the armband on?"

If you guys want me to make Breeding Zone armbands available at CumUnion, let me know - I think it may achieve what you're looking for in a setting that won't be as awkward as say a meet up in a bar. Thoughts?

That's so cool rawtop. I forgot that even though you are admin and blog that you are always finding ways to expand and make this forum more aware. I had no idea you were working on becoming a sponsor of cumunion. I really like the idea of doing the armbands. It looks like the ones you used for MAL were really cool. Don't think there is anything wrong with the color too since cocksucking is fucking universal . I know the cumunion in Atlanta sometimes gives out the spunk lube and sometimes dvds to people who are early. I really fucking loved the spunk lube. But an armband is something to keep and doesn't run out and people will notice and ask. Which is obviously the point.

Now here's a question. If you are a sponsor of cumunion now will this be only for the new york cumunions since you are in NY. Or will these bands go to other cumunions around the world. Also will you get to visit other cumunions too? I know cumunion is doing more events too. The augusta one will have the first one this week. It's a perfect location being a male resort, pig pen, the tower, the maze, and the rooms. I was trying REALLY REALLY hard to go to this one too but won't be able to do stuff like that til june. Oh well the innapropriate pool party is in june I think and revolves around male adult film stars. That still sounds hella cool. But I can't imagine anything better then being at a gay resort area and having a cumunion party. And then going around the rooms, leaving the door cracked, or having your ass in the air/stroking your cock with the blinds open. The right men are there for that . Although I heard the lauderdale location does a spa or private place for theirs. And it was the following week I was there...WHY?!

Aside from ranting. Way cool rawtop. I'm not sure if those statistics are admin stats that you can see or if that's the map location feature that you implemented. Regardless it's cool. Back to the original post the site I used to go to had these meets. It was like bowling, bars, going to local touristy places in the area or sometimes really fun places like meeting up at disneyworld for gay days. I know that people don't need events to hang out and get together but they do bring people together and sometimes friendships are formed. But I know sex is the main topic here. Although, it would be funny if an event did happen and people went to a resturaunt and the whole table was bug chasers, poz guys, barebackers and etc, bowling, a bar, and etc. But that's probably not needed.

But cumunion in more places is needed. I heard at some cumunions they have porn stars there sometimes and some places like san francisco even let average guys fuck the porn stars/get fucked extra. Adult film life sounds cool. [/End Post]