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No need to approve this but I couldn’t figure out how to report. This entire thread seems pretty over the line and should probably be deleted.
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The Cumdump Network - Locations & Phone Numbers
kinkygradstudent replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I've deactivated the number in my network listing, since I was getting 3 to 4 telemarketing calls per day to that number, and I think it was due to my cumdump network listing. Maybe there needs to be a captcha before viewing these phone numbers? -
Why can't I stop barebacking?
kinkygradstudent replied to Usedbottom's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
If anyone reading this thread wants more information about Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA) or Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA) feel free to hit me up privately and I'll be happy to link you up with them. -
12 step programs -4th and 5th step
kinkygradstudent replied to kinkygradstudent's topic in General Discussion
Several programs, actually. I go to a therapist too, but it's different from working with a sponsor, the therapist is just a nonjudgemental person to talk to who listens, while the sponsor has been through the same situation themselves... -
12 step programs -4th and 5th step
kinkygradstudent replied to kinkygradstudent's topic in General Discussion
See the NA Step Working manual for an example of the kind of questions one considers in a 4th step: http://gssana.org/books/na-step-working-guide.pdf Some examples of the things from that manual that I'm curious to know how others responded to and shared with their sponsor: How was my sexual behavior based in selfishness? Have I confused sex with love? What were the results of acting on that confusion? How have I used sex to try to avoid loneliness or fill a spiritual void? In what ways did I compulsively seek or avoid sex? Have any of my sexual practices left me feeling ashamed and guilty? What were they? Why did I feel that way? Have any of my sexual practices hurt myself or others? Am I comfortable with my sexuality? If not, why not? Am I comfortable with others' sexuality? If not, why not? Is sex a prerequisite in all or most of my relationships? What does a healthy relationship mean to me? and: Before we finish this Fourth Step, we should stop and reflect: Is there anything we've missed, either intentionally or not? Is there something we think is so bad that we just can't possibly include it in our inventory? If so, we should be reassured by the fact that a multitude of NA members have worked this step, and there has never yet been a situation in anyone's Fourth Step that was so unique that we had to create a new term to describe it. Keeping secrets is threatening to our recovery. As long as we are keeping a secret, we are actually building a reservation in our program. Are there any secrets that I haven't written about yet? What are they? -
Has anyone ever worked a 12 step program? If so, what was it like doing a 4th and 5th step and having to have rigorous honesty around barebacking?
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The Cumdump Network - Locations & Phone Numbers
kinkygradstudent replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Your first name (or a name you'll respond to): J. Your cell number (for texts and voice calls): (510) 698-9744 A location (be at least as specific as a zip code): 85719 Tucson AZ Times you're generally not available: mid-day Age: 34 Height: 5'12 Weight: 240# Ethnicity: White/Caucasian -
The Cumdump Network - Locations & Phone Numbers
kinkygradstudent replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
First name: J Cell Number: (510) 698-9PIG or (510) 698-9744 Please text/SMS rather than calling. Location: 94530 Age: 34 Height: 6'0 Weight: 240 Ethnicity: White Availability varies. I'm complex when it comes to role - not a total bottom, but very service-oriented. Also happy to serve as a urinal (or even dirtier) if requested. -
Post Your Problems With The New Site Here
kinkygradstudent replied to jackdaw's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
Still having trouble with making posts in the groups. Are others experiencing similar problems? -
In general most insurance plans will cover it if it is validly prescribed for an FDA-approved use, such as PrEP. I would suggest you start by getting a prescription and trying to fill it, and if that doesn't go through, the pharmacist will let you know what the next step you need to take in order to get approval from your insurance company is.
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Post Your Problems With The New Site Here
kinkygradstudent replied to jackdaw's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
In the groups section, I can read old posts in my groups, but it won't let me add a reply to any of those threads. It says that I'm not allowed to post there... -
Do you guys want "Login via Google"?
kinkygradstudent replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I'm a big fan of Mozilla Persona - it lets you login with your google account, but without google knowing what you're signing into :-) You might check that out. https://www.mozilla.org/en-US/persona/ Another good option is OpenID. Then people can sign in with the site of their choice. My websites are all set up to generate and receive OpenIDs: http://openid.net/ -
Oral Hookup Site Coming Late This Year
kinkygradstudent replied to rawTOP's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
Recon used to use a similar modell- you would sign up for one of their sites, and that would be kind of your home site, but you could list your profile on as many of their sites as you wanted, and when you searched you could choose which of their sites to search. When you logged in, it would use your home site's graphics and name, but you could search all of them. -
why wont guys just say "no thanks"
kinkygradstudent replied to hungry4more's topic in General Discussion
Yeah, I kind of think it's better just not to reply ... it's a lot more disappointing to get a "no, you're not my type" than to simply be ignored - I'd rather not give false hope if I'm really not up for anything. -
In order to be able to see and add the furry yiff group on here, you have to enable groups on your profile. Go to this page: https://www.breedingzone.com/profile.php?do=editusergroups And next to the option: user groups (free for all discussion groups) click the join group circle and then click the join group button.
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Tell Me Your Thoughts On Privacy vs. GeoLocation
kinkygradstudent replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
So, scruff gives an exact number of feet, but it is often off a bit. I sometimes am 5 feet away from myself on Scruff, for example. A4A caches the last time you logged into the app even when you use the website. It needs a way to update that from your web browser. I stopped using the app after a visit from Boston, for example, and now I'm stuck permanently 3,000 miles away from home in their computer. One problem I find with BBRT is the mileage isn't very accurate. Like, someone is "3 miles" away and on the opposite end of town, since it just goes by zip code and the zip codes are kind of wonky here. I really would like to know exact distance. Oh, and I'd prefer if distance was walking distance or driving distance instead of as-the-crow flies distance - I walked 40 mins once to get to someone who was one Scruff-mile away. I think there should be a way to opt out of geolocation but that it should be enabled by default. Most people aren't going to take the time to customize those settings, and the site will be a lot more useful if you can easily tell who's nearby to hook up with... The Cumdumpnetwork integration sounds great - look forward to seeing that! Also, it would be neat if you could click through and see someone's breedingzone posts from their hookup site profile and vice versa :-) -
Evading daddy fucked me bareback
kinkygradstudent replied to gfboy1988's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I don't think I've ever seen a diagnosis code on an insurance statement. And the procedures listed are usually pretty vague. "Lab testing" "Office visit" etc. -
Getting tested the day after would be pretty meaningless. I'd give it at least a week if you were going to get the (rather expensive) RNA test, or at least a month or two before getting an antibody test...
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This would be a really bad time for PrEP (PrExposure Prophalaxis)- PrEP should only be started when you're pretty sure you're negative and don't have a likely exposure, and you should have tests verifying this. But it might be a good time for PEP (Post Exposure Prophalaxis), as long as it was started within 72 hours of the potential exposure.
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Encountering any problem? Post them here...
kinkygradstudent replied to rawTOP's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
See: https://breeding.zone/threads/24536-Access-to-Non-Fiction-HIV-Fetish-amp-Chem-Sex-Is-Now-Opt-In-For-All-Users -
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Furry_fandom Recently got back into this on the urging of a friend of mine, and found myself wondering if any other furries were on this site. Feel free to message me privately, if you like.
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