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bbinbpark

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  1. One thing I'd throw out there is if you're asked a question on topics listed above, have the courtesy to be curious about the same with the guy your out with. My last date was with a guy that is a little narcissistic and likes to talk about himself. I walked away knowing far more than I should about him and I think he knows my name. If he wasn't hung I probably would have walked away earlier...
  2. You're totally right about the book, yet it is funny to me how relevant the information is today. I own a copy, and read most of it. I remember going looking for it in the Chicago Public Library because I had heard about the book online, and was having issues "cracking the code" to be an effective cruiser as this thread discusses in some replies. The book was supposedly always in the library, yet I never found it on the shelf. Thinking back not much has changed in spite of the apps. If you find an active tearoom in the wild, or just meeting there some of the "roles & rules" are still there. The author coined or stole the term "Watchqueens" for those that are the lookouts. He breaks that down even further, see attached. I can't help but thinking the longevity of the book being in circulation is that it shows how little certain aspects of cruising have changed in spite of the apps. The other thing is whether or not someone is actually studying this behavior with modern inventions such as the cell phone etc being taken into consideration. Unless another major, lethal, STI outbreak such as AIDS comes along I doubt much attention would be paid to the subject beyond those of us that participate or want to.
  3. Haven't posted in a while. Took two loads today. First was from a guy in one of the gayborhoods. Was cute, colombian, short (like me) muscular, and had a gorgeous uncut cock he slid in me. Pounded my hole a few minutes before unloading. When I got home a guy I'd been chatting with wanted to drop by. He's a tall, thin black guy with a nice big cock. Added his load to the mix. Wasn't expecting two today so it was a very pleasant surrpise
  4. I'd probably still be a total top if I didn't start taking cock raw 😁
  5. Politely told a guy on one of the apps tonight that I want raw, immediately got an a question about PrEP. Kid you not, the chat had the same time stamp for my raw comment his PrEP comment. Found it too funny. Needless to say we did not hookup in the end.
  6. As I've begun my transition into my daddy stage, I find more often that it's hard to find guys that I'm interested in that aren't hustling. I get why they won't outright say they're hustling, maybe it's they don't want to admit, or maybe they're worried if they say it on the app/site that they'll get kicked off or something. Recently a guy I met up with a couple times said it was his kink. I bought into that after finding out what his full-time job was (good-paying for sure.) He got very annoying texting me a couple times a week trying to get me to donate to him etc. We did fool around a couple of times, he always wanted to wear a condom. When he went bare at our last meeting (he apparently expected me to bring condoms over) the entire fuck he kept saying he was 'scared' but the tone in his voice gave away the game. I know the voice was fake for sure since he kept breaking condoms on our first meet, and at one point he said something about trying my hole bare before going in for a few minutes. In any event, after the last 'scared' time I finally blocked him.
  7. Likewise, what about PNP? I've had guys ask if I party which is a big no for me, sometimes I've asked what they meant and have gotten a range from pot/poppers to meth etc.
  8. I used to share your frustration about the replies to postings on squirt. What I've come to realize over time is it gives me a better idea if the location is dead or not. If I'm seeing postings about what action happened, I see it more as jack off material. If I see postings that people are going to it, and even stating times, I have a better idea of whether or not to go, and if it'll be worthwhile.
  9. Havent' posted in a while, last 4! loads from the same guy. Tonight, after I got home from family events I messaged him. He's a early 20's black guy with a smooth twinkish build that's into bears. Has a nice downward curve on his cock. He came by last week and I swallowed a load of his, then he bred me after. Tonight I sat on his cock right away and got load 1 in my ass. After we cuddled a bit and chatted some, he was up and running for fuck 2 (ah to be young again) and I got a second load in my ass. I'm very thankful for the loads!
  10. Little birds 😁 Are we trying to get a GOT Lord Varys tag on this thread as well?
  11. How entertaining, this thread has been a delight in so many ways! To cocksucker that brought us together for this moment! Cheers! 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
  12. Curious to know as well
  13. Silly question, anyone have a good way to sanitize your toys, i.e. buttplugs/dildos etc.?
  14. As someone who works alongside nurses, I can confirm scheduling is a bitch! I rarely get on the apps at work for that reason. Depending on the day/shift/unit there can be a lot of downtime, or rare downtime in the hospital
  15. That's the one I have a problem with. My favorite is when I message them at a different time to see if they're free, they respond a week later as though I just messaged them. None of us want to stare at the screen all day, but really, a week later?
  16. Not sure if anyone can help. I remember a story about a middle-aged married man, well-hung telling the story of his vacation, I think in a resort in Mexico, where he fucks aroudn with all kinds of guys. Anyone able to point me in right direction?
  17. Last night I had one of my fuckbuds over. Tall, thin, early 20's black guy with a nice long, curved thick cock. We played for an hour before he shot a huge load. He goes deep, hitting/passing the second ring all the time. After he leaves, he texts me asking when I got fucked last before him. I tell him it was two nights prior, he said he could tell I was open. The guy two nights earlier has a nice cock as well, not quite as thick, more straight than curved, but he fucked me over 2 hours on and off. Apparently my hole got opened up nicely for a couple days.
  18. He came and went One of my favorite fuck buds, the one that says he can feel my pulse while fucking, dropped by. As per usual we had a grand time me worshipping his 9" curved cock. He pulled his underwear off when he got here and kept smashing them in my face while I sucked him, he knows I love his scent. Probably almost 45 minutes of fucking, cause my phone was going off like crazy. Before I silenced it. A guy I was chatting with before, I had told I was expecting a bud, when I got back on he asked if I was still entertaining, my response, he came and went
  19. Did a quick search and I don't think you're on stable ground. A law website I came across in Los Angeles says it is actually 18, and if below 18 there can't be more than 3 years difference. Guy could be legit, or could be a setup, either way doesn't sound like a good idea. This is one of the reason I like guys around my age. No questions on legality
  20. Sorry you had some bad experiences, I've definitely had my fair share. If I read this right, the first hookup was after dark and the second even later? I find the later the night goes the worse it gets. I'm a 3rd shifter and sometimes don't start looking until after 8 PM because of my sleep schedule. Most of my bad experiences have been with the partiers that take more and more drugs and alcohol as the night progresses, sorry to those that applies to. I've found they get more and more active the later it gets. Because of this, I've learned not to meet new people after midnight, no matter how horny I am.
  21. last time I met with a safe only top, he was in my ass raw without question
  22. Back in the pre-app, gay.com days, I'm 99% sure I hit up and sent my dick pics to my uncle. His was a faceless profile that jumped out for some reason, seems odd to hit on the faceless ones, but a lot of closets were still closed to many in our community at the time. I got a cold response, and think he blocked. Only realized this years later when I saw an E-mail he was on and had the same screenname from gay.com as the first part of his E-mail addy. Something the average person would forget, but my blood went cold when I saw that. We've never talked about it, and his now husband, whom he met on gay.com, was very curious to know if I was hung like my uncle when I first met him. Had no interest in him, and the relationship with the two has been tenuous at best for other reasons, perhaps because I let my inner slut out many times and he's been a little on the monogamous prudish side of life...
  23. I remember Girth Brooks seeming to have a thick one. Shame he never did BB porn
  24. I've had sex with friends, not often, a great friendship came out of a hookup actually. I find if there is a lot of sex talk when around them, like almost any other suggestion about picking up guys, then the opportunity is probably there
  25. Camera angle baby! Plus I'm sure the smart phone engineers have workshopped their cameras, unofficially, to make dicks look bigger when used certain ways. Long and short, if you see only dick and nothing to reference, ie fingers or that dreaded can of beer, it probably is smaller than it seems.
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