Dudeliquor and I are very similar in why and how we like to top. I really enjoy getting down deep in a hole and rocking until my cock swells up and the real fun begins. When my cock swells, I gain another inch in length and get even deeper. I would like to return the favor for my man, now that we are together. He is top/vers and has adapted to taking my cock deeply and intensely. He is hung as well and we are working on getting me to the point of being able to take a fucking. Yesterday he put me in the sling, ate my hole and got me hungry for his cock. Once he was inside he had me keep stroking my cock until I exploded. It was good positive reinforcement and hot as hell. I felt a bit selfish, but soon got over it, lol.
Funny observation from yesterday. After I shot, I wiped the cum off of my hand immediately. When I top, no drop gets waisted. I'll felch my load out and lick his off his belly. Guess things really are different when you are on bottom.