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8 hours ago, tj87 said:

Terrible timing as my newspaper reveals that Eddie Izzard, former transvestite comedian has now come out as trans.

In my experience men wearing women's clothes is just men having fun with a fetish., They feel hotter dressed as women, which makes it a fetish. For me bareback is a fetish and in bathhouses I've worn slutty shorts to feel hotter, just a fetish.

In terms of the men who feel they are women, I would still like to know what "feeling like a woman" is. Can anybody explain that to me?

My hunch is that the men who "feel like a woman" are men who want to be a sex object, which is the way men see women.  This guy Bruce Jenner is the perfect example of this. After 3 marriages, 4 children, Olympic success in men's athletics, he announces that he's now a she. I think my hunch was confirmed with Bruce Jenner when the first picture after transition was of a sexy old woman trying to be a sex object. Pathetic.

I remember reading that Bruce never had sex with men because, as he explained, I'm straight. Instead of trying to see if he could be a sex object for men, he has never tried sex with men and prefers to "become" a woman to try to be a sex object. He would have had more fun with guys.

5 hours ago, hungandmean said:

Comments like these - shit about it being unnatural... this is the SAME rhetoric that was and is used against gay people.

Having someone injected hormones into their body is not something I would call "natural".  Hormones and other substances are banned in sports because you are no longer competing with the "natural" ability.

In the case of homosexuality calling it unnatural was not appropriate because no hormones or other drugs were required. Just start fucking!

9 hours ago, Dirrtyboi said:

Because it’s not your lived experience it is a trend? How offensive. 

If you are referring to my answer then I think it's a trend because many aspects of the Trans movement don't make sense for the reasons that I have already explained. If you disagree with any part of my explanation then go ahead and tell me what of what I said you disagree and why you disagree. Being offended is not valid in a debate.

17 hours ago, Close2MyBro said:

To me the whole "trans" thing is just another trend for most people.

I agree. People no longer want to deal with their personal emotional issues and instead blame some weird situation for their emotional turmoil. I say weird because a man saying "I feel like a woman" doesn't make sense. What the hell is "feeling like a woman"? I'm a man and I would have difficulties explaining what feeling like a man is. Rather than dealing with childhood issues it's seems easier to attach yourself to some identity and then blame any personal problems on trans-phobia.

Following Trans logic,  short people could say "I was born in the wrong body because I feel like a tall person". Unless for ambiguous genitalia people have to accept their assigned gender.

There is a tendency to equate homosexuality with Transsexualism but there is no comparison. The Transition requires a medical procedure and hormones, something totally unnatural. Homosexuality requires nothing.

During my many visits to bathhouses I've run into all kinds of guys wearing their favorite fetish wear like sexy shorts, leather, etc, and occasionally guys who's fetish is to wear women's clothing. 

My questions is, how did a fetish transform into the Trans Movement? Isn't Trans just another fetish?

On 12/11/2020 at 3:13 PM, subBottomKink said:

Bottom isn’t a sex position for me, it’s a state of mind. Beyond the physical feeling, being penetrated just makes me feel alive, whole, fully human.

 In the heterosexual world there are tops and bottoms, men and women. But in the gay world we can choose the role that gives us most pleasure.  Top and bottom is not fixed and many guys who were total tops become bottoms. I've known several tops that later become bottoms.

If a guy can keep his cock hard and can fuck holes for long times, that guy is probable a top or at least versatile because fucking is pleasurable. I've been a bottom for many years and I have fucked occasionally. If I could enjoy fucking holes and last for a long time fucking different holes at a sauna, I would at least be versatile.

Many guys don't bottom because getting fucked and taking it up the ass is not something all men feel comfortable with.

On 11/22/2020 at 12:47 PM, dacoman said:

You could be sued if you stealth someone and get caught.

That's why "anonymous stealthing" is a different ballgame.

Nowadays everyone is being labelled a racist so "being a racist" is losing it's punch. If everyone is racist then the word looses meaning. Is like being called a Nazi. People have difference likes and dislikes and that's OK.

One of the characteristics of a good top is to be able to fuck for a long time without shooting his load. It sounds weird to complain about it.

I'm sure that anyone who can maintain a hard-on and fuck for a long time without unloading will be at least versatile. During my bathhouse visits I could always tell the bottoms who'd been getting bred and sucking cock all night. Many before they go home like to unload and I could tell it was a bottom. Cock goes in, a few strokes, sometimes some moaning, pull out and disappear.

On 11/11/2020 at 1:04 PM, BBSMKR said:

 It’s funny thinking back using words like I want your cum and breed me to encourage him to ejaculate 😂

I like using "dirty talk", like "do feel the cum in my hole?", or "that hole if for you to fuck and then flood with your cum"...things like that.

On 10/26/2020 at 5:20 PM, Cumlovr said:

How do you know when someone wants their cock sucked ?

You can't really tell whether a guy wants to suck or get sucked. He may want both or he may be looking to fuck and breed a hole.

My strategy is to present myself as a slutty bottom ready for anything. I bring with me a small stool so I can station myself wherever I want and don't have to rely on rocks or logs along the paths. I wear slutty shorts with a hole in the back that shows a bit when I'm sitting on the stool. Next to me on the ground I place a sign that says "Breed my Hole" that guys usually see when they approach me. No need to talk or discuss anything. Sitting on the stool puts my mouth at crotch level which is all I need to say because if the guy going by is a cocksucker, he'll get the message and continue on.

I have mostly bottomed and have loved getting bred since I first had sex at the YMCA in NYC in the mid 70's.

I have topped a couple of times but have not enjoyed it mainly because I cum to quickly, unlike the many guys who I've seen topping that can go for hours. There are things I don't like when I've topped such as getting shit on my cock, but I know it feels good from watching the guys who have bred me.

I'm pretty sure that if I could last for a long time without cumming, and fully enjoy fucking different holes at a bathhouse, I would at least be Versatile and not a total Bottom.

So my question is: Are there any guys who can fuck a hole for a long time but they still prefer to be a total bottom and never top, in spite of the fact that they don't shoot their load easily?

On 10/26/2020 at 11:53 AM, 1000GUYS said:

So, im a new slut, 25 yo but look 17, i am new to saunas and etc... im having a hard time trying to figure out if the men are open to me or not. Sometimes guys just look at me touching their balls and other make sounds... but idk, im very afraid of getting close and be rejected.

How do you experient whores know when to aproach the men?? how do you know if its safe to get close or touch him?

I think im missing a lot of good fucks due my insecurity

It's crazy to find out that a young sexy guy like you has insecurity issues.

The closure of bathhouses and sex clubs is a huge issue for so many men who enjoyed anon sex in these places.

On 9/14/2019 at 12:36 PM, SubHornyBottom said:

I am a transgender MtF. But when I was on grindr, I LITERALLY got no replies...In the bathhouse...I am getting ZERO cock...What's happening ?  and What should I do  ? 

My answer is similar to others. Most men in Grindr and in gay bathhouses are looking for men, not women. When bathhouses were open, I found it disturbing to find some guy dressed as a woman.

I took my first loads on a visit to NYC in the 70's, when I was staying at the West Side YMCA. There were 2 or 3 floors with rooms for men only with traffic between the floors. In those days there was no such thing as "bareback".

Then AIDS appeared and guys started to wear a condoms, which I found weird. I then learned to enjoy bottoming with condoms and at the park I would collect condoms filled with man juice.

I started to take loads again when most guys were still requesting to wear condom. It was fun because at the parks or bathhouses there were not too many BB bottoms so my raw hole was in demand when I used to go to the local bathhouse or park.

Guys can be "verbal" with sounds like moans and groans, or with dirty talk.

In breeding videos I only like to hear sounds coming from the top guy and definitely don't like screaming bottoms because they remind me of women in porn. But I love the sweet sounds of the top, including his breathing. Occasional encouraging sounds from the bottom are OK, but it's the top the one I want to hear. I love dirty talk, and again, better in my view for the bottom than screaming, I don't like the bottom blocking the sounds of the top.

When getting fucked I like to occasionally respond to the top's cock by saying things like "Oh,,,,it feels so good" and if the top is silent i talk dirty to describe what's going on with his cock in my hole, but also what will happen when he shoots inside my hole. 

On 8/12/2020 at 5:33 PM, PussyAlwaysWet said:

any suggestion are more than welcome 😉

Make sure to have a well-cleaned hole that can be fucked for a long time

2 hours ago, hunjng said:

I def need more guidance on how to be good cumdump at bathhouse!

You have a hot body so you don't need much guidance. Before Covid-19 when the bathhouses were open I would usually rent a room with a sling that is properly located so that guys can see your hole on the sling as they walk by. Many guys walking by my room would come in and once they find you on the sling will get horny and want to fuck you and eventually breed you. I don't have such luck now buy you do, so take advantage.

I know because when I was young I took advantage of it had a great time when I stayed at the YMCA in NYC.  There were guys walking around all night in-between the floors so I would leave my door open and have tons of guys getting fucked bareback and getting bred without then having a name for it.

I find you can increase the chances of getting attention if you present yourself as a slutty bottom and someone as hot as you should not have a problem.

10 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

When one of my male redneck cousins asked me, at my grandmother's funeral, who I thought "the n-words" were going to vote for that year for governor, it wasn't that he was trying to be offensive; he just was saying what was on his mind and it was an offensive thought.

This situation is different from what I am discussing here because it's personal and not anonymous. I'm saying that guys should chill when you find in the Internet some post that says some horny guy likes to be bred by BBCs. 

10 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

You assume that offense has to be intentional. I'm quite sure that a lot of really nasty racist comments are made NOT with the intention of being offensive, but just because the person making them has an offensive perspective and just blurts out what's on his mind.

I once heard a saying that I liked a lot because it sets you free: "Try hard not to offend people, but try even harder not to feel offended."

17 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

Personally I think an equal or larger problem is that nowadays some people feel so entitled to be assholes to others in public forgetting that the world out there doesn't always approve of assholes. Trying to force the entire world around oneself to accept one's assholity so that one never feels constrained to hold back any thought, no matter how rude or obnoxious, makes no sense because that will never happen. It's best to learn how to deal with the fact that living in a society means, to at least some degree, accepting the limits that society expects.

In other words: Sure, a person can say racist things. He just shouldn't expect not to be called out on them, if he does. And he shouldn't whine about "emotional safe spaces", which makes him sound like the snowflake he's allegedly protesting.

You are assuming that people are always aware that they are offending, causing shame or belittling someone with a comment. A horny guy who's obsessed with big cocks and who has built up a fetish for black cock is not trying to offend anyone. He's just horny and wants to have fun with his fetish. Instead of jumping right away to the "feeling offended" online is best to chill and assume there is no intention to offend anyone. You cannot control assholes but you can control yourself.

A divorced guy told me that when he was married, his then wife would complain when she found his underwear on the floor. She would say "Why do you expect me to pick up your underwear?" He never had an answer for her when he was living alone and heard his wife voice. He looked at the underwear on the floor and realized he didn't expect anyone to pick up the underwear from the floor and stepped over it. His wife assumed that she was being used, etc and a thus a victim. It seems that now everyone wants to be a victim.

9 hours ago, Hungry4bbc said:

He also said he was a top on rm but on grindr he was looking for dick. 

If he wants to make any money he has to say that he's a Top in RentMen. Some bottoms may get some business but only when they are really young.

12 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

Yes, it's true that there is a broader preference (among at least a notably-sized portion of the gay community) for large-sized cocks. But the fact that big is popular doesn't render the term "BBC" race-neutral. 

The same way many black men are offended by the term BBC, I'm sure there are many black men who take pride of that characterization and of being a top. I may be wrong but I doubt it.

The term BBC cannot be race neutral because of the idea that black men are the ones with big cocks. If the men from Alabama were the ones to have big cocks the term would be Big Alabama Cock (BAC). I think the problem is that nowadays people are relying too much on emotional safe-spaces forgetting that the world out there is far from a big emotional safe-space. Trying to control the entire world around oneself so that nobody will offend you makes no sense because that will never happen. It's best to learn how to deal with the shame of being offended because you only need to control yourself and that's totally possible. 

1 hour ago, Spunkinmyarse said:

 But to have it thrust upon you simply because of your ethnicity must be a very different experience.

The elephant in the room is the obsession men have with big cocks and it has nothing to do with ethnicity.

1 hour ago, RawPlug said:

With respect, I think that’s rather missing the point. I like cock as much as any other man on here. I also like to know - and want to like - what it’s attached to. It is actually possible to do both if one treats others with the respect one would want in return. 

In terms of sex between men I make a distinction between anonymous and non-anonymous relationships. Anonymous encounters are meant to fulfill fetishes therefore respect plays no role in these situations. However, in non-anonymous relationships or encounters you have two people and respect has a place here. SO, yes, in a relationship it would make sense to me if a black guy would complain the way his white partner treats him.  But you won't change the world of anonymous sex.

On 8/17/2020 at 1:50 AM, RawPlug said:

A man isn’t a life support system for a  penis.

Are we going to start acting like women, who get offended if someone "objectifies" them? Hell no! I like sex with men because we objectify each other and we all love it.