On 10/20/2019 at 11:09 PM, hornycumslut91 said:

As someone who was stealthed before, I'm going to say fuck no. It's one thing if you're with a bug chaser who's into it and begs you to knock him up. It's another to ruin someone's life and infect them without their permission. And if you think stealthing is cool, then you're a sociopath.

You cannot paint all stealthing situations with the same brush and some stealthers don't qualify as sociopaths.

In my opinion, which I've expressed here before, anonymous stealthing at a bathhouse or in a darkroom is totally OK. These places are high-risk places and a bottom has to be very naive to believe the HIV status from some random horny guy who wants to breed him in one of these places. It's just common sense. First, why would anybody believe that a bottom who offers his hole to anonymous cocks at a bathhouse is HIV negative. Second, part of the fun of these places being able to live fantasies and for some fucking and breeding a negative hole is a huge turn-on.  Third, in the topic of fantasies, some HIV+ bottoms play the game of being HIV-neg, just another fetish. I have a sign that I use that says "HIV- HOLE" and sometimes hang it on the sling at the bathhouse. A few weeks ago a guy came into my room, he fucked me and bred my hole. He said "You'll have to change your sign" and left.

In any other circumstances I would agree that stealthing is not OK, even when meeting through Grindr or other Apps. Don't paint all stealthings with the same brush.

On 10/20/2019 at 4:01 PM, NWUSHorny said:

I've had 3 different guys with rock hard dicks come up to me, while I have been offering up my ass, and rub their dick all over my hole even teasing me with the tip at my opening, but refused to stick it in.  All of them did it for 10 minutes or more, before either they or I got tired of it.

It could be that these guys are looking to bottom and enjoy playing with your hole but they don't want to stick their cocks because if they start fucking you they will cum too quickly and then they no longer feel like bottoming. At a bathhouse I sometimes play with a guy's hole who's on a sling but I  have no intention of fucking.

I consider myself a bottom not because I can't fuck or don't enjoy shooting my load. I do get horny and horny enough that I need to cum almost every day. Not sure about other bottoms. Maybe some bottoms never get horny enough to get an erection? I doubt it, but I may be wrong.

I prefer to bottom because I don't really enjoy fucking the way I see some tops enjoy fucking. They can fuck for a long time without cuming and enjoy breeding a hole. I enjoy more shooting my load while I jerk off and have control of the pressure on my cock. The  few times I've fucked I don't really enjoy the feeling when I'm shooting load.

One of my fantasies at a sauna is getting bred by a total bottom, a bottom who's been bred and wants to relieve himself before going home. Quick breeding, in my cumhole.

On 8/31/2019 at 10:29 PM, a2malways said:

Followup. I am at Steamworks tonight. Just spent almost 90 minuted getting clean. With specialized douche stations. It takes time. And water. Lost of water!

Two comments. (1) Many tops don't appreciate that having a clean hole takes effort, and (2) Many bottoms turn into tops because of the work it takes to stay clean

I much prefer having anonymous sex, so much that even when I watch videos I prefer anon scenes. Videos of lovers having sex I usually skip them.

2 hours ago, nelly26 said:

Hmm interesting. Do they say they are looking for older bottoms specifically or are they contacting you a lot so you came to that conclusion?

Both. Many profiles are explicit about looking to top older bottoms, either in the name of the profile or the description. I created a raunchy profile in Spanish which has worked very well for me. I describe a walk-in anonymous breeding session, no hello's, no talk, unless is raunchy talk. Some are tops but many are versatile get turned on by anon scenes, a waiting hole. This profile has triggered many requests, way over 50.

12 hours ago, nelly26 said:

Homophobic ("macho") countries tend to have more tops.

I think you're right.

It's such a turn-on reading those Chilean profile who clearly say "100% TOP" and some are almost offensive to other tops "If you are a top don't bother contacting me".  I keep getting new requests for getting together when I'm in Chile in September.

What surprises me is the large number of young guys who are looking for older bottoms. So weird, because in Canada older bottoms don't get much attention.

I'm starting to plan a trip to Santiago, Chile and decided to open a profile in Manhunt because like Grindr, it very popular in Chile.

I've been pleasantly surprised by two things:

• Lots and lots of tops, many stipulating clearly in their profile that they are 100% Top and explicitly rejecting tops:  "Want to meet with bottoms only". Can't believe it
• Many younger guys looking to have sex with older guys, can't believe it either.

In the couple of weeks since I opened my profile I've received request for sex from about 50 guys! All of them looking to breed a hole anonymously.  I've been there before and had a great time having sex with Chileans. Here is a video that I took in Santiago, Chile a few years ago: https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/an-old-2012-anon-breeding-session-25167662

This time I'm contacting a guy in Santiago who rents a Dungeon for sex and who also organizes bareback parties and private sex events in the Dungeon. Never been to the bareback parties but I've heard they are fantastic.

On 8/16/2019 at 6:15 PM, bbzh said:

I have used Pure for Men. I have some now. I prefer taking psyllium husk pills. They're way cheaper and get the job done. I can buy 500 of those for cheaper than I can buy 120 Pure for Men capsules. I just need a clean coochie - don't need someone to package flaxseed, chia and psyllium husk, mark up the price and sell it to me.  I put chia in my smoothies by the way. I am not hating on Pure for Men. It's clever marketing. 

Pure for Men is expensive but I find that it's easier when traveling

Does something like Pjur Back Door help with big cocks?

I'm trying to get ready for a holiday in South America. I've been there before and I find that tops looking for older bottoms are much more common than in North America.  Lots of young uncut bareback tops in their 20's and 30's who get turned on by an older cumhole.

I had bought a bottle of Pure for Men a while ago and never got into it. But I recently discovered that it really helps me with my digestive system and makes it easier for me to clean myself. I'm now taking 2 capsules twice a day and it seems OK. Anybody taking or have taken Pure for Men?

Seeing so many guys who pick the load over the fuck, should remind bottoms that once they are done taking loads at the bathhouse there are many bottoms who would appreciate your load before you go home. I know, many bottoms say, "I never fuck because my cock is too small or because I cum too quickly". Many bottoms don't care about that and they don't care about a guy ready to breed them being a bottom, at least many here don't.

10 minutes ago, hungry_hole said:

This is a hot video Alirio from Chile who posts (in Spanish) hundreds of videos of him taking loads and pushing them out at the end.

I found another hot video from Alirio, a self-described bottom proven by his videos but who once in a while he enjoys topping.

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/de-activo-follando-a-un-fans-junto-a-su-amigo-40368431

De activo follando a un fans junto a su amigo (as a top fucking one of my fans together with another friend)

"He's a fan who loves my videos and one day he visited Chile he asked me to meet me and do something fun so I invite him to spend an afternoon and I also invited another friend with whom we both fucked him bareback and filled his hole with both of our loads. This is a gift to my fans who like to see me as a top so I expect lots of comments and votes. Kisses everyone and enjoy "

This is a hot video Alirio from Chile who posts (in Spanish) hundreds of videos of him taking loads and pushing them out at the end. Although he's a bottom, he occasionally fucks and breeds holes. In this one Alirio first fucks and breeds a Mexican follower of him and then he takes the load from the Mexican with his sloppy hole. Very hot!

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/dando-y-recibiendo-verga-a-pelo-40580961

Dando y recibiendo verga a pelo (Giving and receiving bare cock) by Alirio

13 hours ago, kitpig said:

So I'm naturally hairy but often make the effort to shave smooth or clip, but I am wondering what guys prefer when they fuck a bttm like me?

I was wondering the same thing. There are some guys who like hairy holes and other prefer smooth hole. But you can please everyone so what is a bottom to do?

2 hours ago, BB4fking said:

I guess the most useful thing I’ve found is to prelube my ass -

I prefer to be more direct so when I get a room and leave the door open guys walking by will see a glow-in-the-dark sign that says "Cream my Hole". No possibility of confusion left.

17 hours ago, tighthole64 said:

Have never seen one of those before, but seems like lots of $$$$ for its intended purpose though.

I'll be going on a holiday to South America en I found a guy who owns a Dungeon that he rents to guys who want a place for sex. He also rents a Spit Roaster and was wondering how portable this thing is. I want to hook up with guys and wait for them on the Spit Roaster in my apartment. If I like it I may buy one for me.

Asking for help to find a special dildo was so successful that now that I'm looking into buying a "Spit Roaster" (https://www.mr-s-leather.com/sex-toys/sex-slings-furniture/spit-roaster-kit-save-10) I thought I asked here for some feedback and tips on that very special fucking furniture.

• When shopping for a Spit Roaster, should I stick to Mr Leather? Or are there different styles and brands?
• How portable are when disassembled? Do the pieces fit on a suitcase?
• Is the Spit Roaster strong enough?

Any other comments are welcome.

1 hour ago, Monster5-8gPA said:

https://www.squarepegtoys.com/shop/slink/

Thanks a lot!

It's weird that LARGE is 21" and the XL is only 20.5". The circumference  is bigger in the XL

Would someone know where can I get this big orange flexible dildo? Since a saw a video (this is a screenshot) of this guy playing with this big dildo I've been looking around but have not been able to find it.

Any tips?

2 hours ago, tnjon77 said:

I think at some point, we all have.  I always see profiles that plainly state things like "no one over 30" or "50+." 

I think you're right, and age is the most common reason for being rejected because we are always too old for someone, a type of rejection that gets worse with time.

On 5/3/2019 at 7:18 AM, Spunkinmyarse said:

I’ve been to Montreal before, and like it as a city, but that was before I started taking loads, so have no idea how it scores in that front.  Any pointers gratefully received...

So much depends on how the bottom looks and his age. If a 20-something hot twink gets on a public sling at a sauna will get much more attention than an old out of shape bottom.  When I was in my 20's I was getting all the sex I wanted.

The question was simple, if you were to choose between the (1) freedom to love men from an accepting society or (2) freely fuck with men because there are no STDs. I thought the answer was going to corroborate what I see in the posts in this site and in Grindr, Manhunt, BarebackRT, etc, SEX.

A young guy once told me that he asked a girl if she wanted to take a look at a gay cruising park. The naive woman thought that these parks were places where men go to hold hands and watch the sunset together. She had trouble understanding why guys would arrive in a car alone and disappear into the bushes and was shocked when she learned that the men were there for sex.

I'm not saying that men are unable to love but what I'm saying is that the glue is SEX and if something else happens, then fine but sex is first. I've never heard of an App dedicated to men in love.

Society may be delusional about men being sex machines and pretending all we want is be able to "love" (what a joke!)  but I don't understand why guys in this site are so reluctant to admit that sex is the main motivation, and the only motivation for many men.

On 7/7/2019 at 9:27 AM, ErosWired said:

Put differently, you want to know whether gay men would rather love freely but risk disease, or fuck freely but risk loneliness?

No. In terms of freedom, I want to know whether gay men would rather love freely or fuck freely. If men are able to love freely without any discrimination men should be able to establish monogamous relationships which would eliminate any fear of infection. Ridiculous, of course, but that is the perception that the general public has about gay men, men who have been oppressed just because of who they love.  Sex is never part of the gay world because the only way homosexuality can pass muster, is by leaving sex out of homosexuality.

In 1980's during the AIDS crisis many gay men, all of a sudden became monogamous, the same men who were regular sex clubs in NYC, like the Mine Shaft,  or San Francisco.

18 hours ago, CuriousDallas said:

Option B...not even a contest. I freely admit I’m a slut and a whore. I worry about getting STDs all the time..if they weren’t around I’d be getting fucked nonstop

I would also go with Option B, no contest. I don't care about same sex marriage and I just wish we could fuck in peace.

Think about, if there were no STDs it would not only provide you with peace of mind while being a whore, but the lack of STDs would also allow men who are married or in a relationships with women, to have sex with men without having to explain anything to their wives. We forget that there is a large number of so-called straight men who want an emotional/intimate relationship with women, maybe children,  and casual sex with men, no kissing or possibility of love. Some men who are have sex with women like being a top with the woman and then be the bottom with men. I've seen that a lot.

7 minutes ago, Pozlover1 said:

#2 is an unrealistic expectation. ...

Both are unrealistic expectations. My question is a hypothetical one.