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I started having anon sex with guys before the AIDS crisis, when nobody talked about bareback because it was just a fuck. Condoms were to prevent pregnancy. My first experiences were at the YMCA in NYC which I would visit often and have lots of sex. The place was hot because there 3 floors for men and guys would walk around all night throughout the hallways from all 3 floors. At first I didn't understand the game very well but in a couple of hours after arriving to the YMCA room I knew exactly what to do and started leaving my door open. Being young an masculine and in good shape I got lots of attention and loved getting fucked so much. I started leaving the door open while getting fucked and guys would literally line-up.  I didn't know that I was becoming a bareback cum-hungry bottom because in those days labels were not used like they are now. Not even bottom and top was that common.

A couple of years later for the first time a guy pulls out a condom and tells me that he would only fuck me with a condom. I found it ridiculous that he would be wearing a condom, unimaginable. But then I heard of AIDS and then asking for condoms started to become the norm until it became the norm. There was a time in the 80's when guys at the bathhouse would be shamed for going bareback. It was not called bareback. One evening at the local bathhouse I saw a guy who would leave the door open while getting fucked bareback. Some guys would criticize him but for me he became a huge turn-on I became an obsessed with going back to taking loads. A short time after that I began taking anon loads at the local sauna, when the drug cocktail was not yet available so not too many bottoms were offering their holes raw. But I did and I became very popular an sometimes when I got to the sauna one or two guys who had already bred me were after me. Most bottoms were requesting condoms but many guys wanted to top bareback and be able to come inside because it was assumed that the risk was rather low for guys topping. There were lots of guys wanting to top BB but not enough bottoms to fulfill the demand. On a Friday or Saturday night I would take between 5 and 15 loads a night, still when no drugs were available. Some guys after breeding my hole would ask me not to tell anyone that he had fucked me bareback. Bareback was [banned word] and scorned.

Then the Meds appeared and the Undetectable status was possible. And lately, now with PrEP bottoming BB is no longer feared so the number of bareback bottoms has exploded. In other words, lots of competition. Getting older makes things worse because now there are lots of hot young bottoms taking anon loads who are on PrEP.

Now my approach is to present myself as very slutty BB bottom and when I go to a bathhouse I use signs with phrases like "CUMHOLE" or "CREAM THIS HOLE". They work, but still lots of competition from young very hot holes.

I'm not into calling it cunt, reminds me of women. I prefer to call it my Cumhole or just Hole.

I'm so hooked on anon encounters that even while watching a video I prefer them anon. Not really interested in watching videos of two boyfriends fucking.

5 hours ago, DannyBoyCMH said:

I honestly don't think there is a sure [fire] way, unless you are totally obvious about it.

At bathhouses knowing whether or not someone goes raw is important because it may determine whether they have sex or not. That's why, as DannyBoy said "unless you are totally obvious about it", I'm totally obvious about it not only that I bareback but that I'm looking to bottom.

In my room at the bathhouses I place different signs, depending on my mood, in a black cloth painted with glow in the dark paint saying things like "CUMHOLE" or "Breed this Hole". I wear the underwear with a hole from my profile that also glows in the dark. I leave the door half open and as guys walk by they see the signs glowing in a fairly dark room.

I'm uncut and what I like about sucking an uncut cock is that I know how to treat it. Sucking through a gloryhole is my favorite.

I have a fellow poz bottom cumdump in Toronto with whom I sometimes go to the saunas, Steamworks or Spa Excess and we both help each other collect loads. If we get a sling room, we leave the door open, with one of us on the sling while the other plays with the hole on the sling and sometimes we pretend we're fucking. More chances for having guys come into the room when they see some action on the sling. Once we both have a few loads in our holes and are ready to leave or want to take a break, my buddy who is a total bottom, likes to find a hot hole to dump his load.

I was once bred three times throughout the night by the same guy at a sauna. Not sure why he wanted my hole but breeding it three times was the biggest compliment I've received from a top.

On 12/17/2019 at 5:39 PM, Verbaldomtop said:

Never done the cruising thing before and ive got some free time tonight was thinking of trying iut a few local spots.. total top here. Anyone have any tips?

I think it depends on the kind of cruising spot. Cruising at a washroom is different from cruising at a park or cruising at a bathhouse.

5 hours ago, Hornyone said:

So I just got back from another Montreal Cumunion and once again I am disappointed. ... Lots of guys standing around with very few fucking.

My question to bottoms who complain about lack of tops: Did you fuck anyone and bred his hole?

Regarding Cumunion, I don't see the point of it. For me the best events in bathhouses are the events where they turn off most lights because darkness always promotes raunchy action. Large bathhouse like GI-Joe should always have some of the floors with very little lighting because otherwise most guys congregate in those small dark areas provided by the bathhouse.

12 hours ago, immerhinein said:

Sometimes I also get this sad feeling of wasted time for endless cleanup before visiting sauna, darkroom or else for a fuck session and really little happens, mostly ending up with topping only (what's not bad btw).

Some guys decide to start topping because of the work involved in having a clean hole to bottom.

On 12/6/2019 at 11:23 AM, Doccer19677 said:

I love to fuck a used sloppy hole, preferably with a few loads in to lube my cock.

A sloppy hole is one of the things that can turn a total-bottom into a horny breeding top. A week ago I was at a sauna in a Toronto bathhouse in one of the sling rooms. Curious about the glow in the dark raunchy signs that I hang in my room a bottom walked in and was playing with my hole on the sling. He left the door open and I asked him to fuck me but he insisted he was a total bottom and he never topped. Another guy walked into my room who after a few minutes started pounding my hole while the bottom watched. After a very nice fucking session, with lots of deep fucking, he bred my hole and left. The bottom began to play with my cummy hole and got so horny that he stuck his cock in my hole and after a few strokes he shot his load and said "I never top but couldn't resist your sloppy hole".

13 hours ago, a2malways said:

Second, I feel required to disclose my status.

At a bathhouse you're not required to disclose your HIV status, especially in darkrooms or at a public sling. There's always willing holes waiting for cum.

59 minutes ago, a2malways said:

Generally I like to get bred as much as possible and then go home and jerk off.

My request to fellow bottoms is to yes, get bred as much as possible, but when you're ready to go home look for a hot hole to breed with your cum. You'll make another bottom very happy, even if your cock is small or you cum to fast.

On 3/14/2019 at 3:26 PM, revemupman said:

I would feel so embarrassed that I would quickly zip up and hit the exit and try to forget.

I find it hot when the top disappears right after unloading in my hole, without saying a word. So hot because I feel my hole is just a cum deposit and after he's done, he's gone.

On 11/1/2019 at 9:50 AM, BlackBttmUK said:

It would be nice to see some dark skin bottoms being bred and used by light skinned men. Not all Black men are tops and that’s why white bottoms think they can try and force themselves on Other black bottoms. 

You are free to make porn where black men are bottoms. Nobody is stopping you so there's no need to complain about it.

Many guys switch roles and they do it for many reasons. Someone mentioned how Viagra has helped him with topping.  Others find it too much work to be c;leaning their hole so they don't bottom as much and do more topping. Others who have only topped discover that they enjoy getting fucked, and sometimes total tops switch to total bottoms.

4 hours ago, supersquirter said:

I have never been more fucking horny now that I am poz.

Same here, always horny and now I do more topping and I'm enjoying breeding holes. I'm not very good at topping, but I like topping at the bathhouse when I'm too horny and feel the need to breed a hole.

What turns me on a lot is to get fucked and bred by total bottoms. This is why when I go to the bathhouses I like to stay late and offer my hole to horned-up bottoms, many of whom look for a hole to breed before going home. Huge turn-on for me, especially when a bottom breeds me with his cummy hole.

Once at the sauna I took 12 loads in one night, 3 from the same guy. A top coming back to breed my hole was a hot compliment. 

On 9/5/2019 at 5:35 AM, Hollywood24 said:

Once I became POZ it was as if I didn't have to "worry" about getting pozzed anymore since a toxic load had already taken care of that.  I have always played bottom but wasn't very active.   Shortly after testing poz I loved taking rw cocks and load after load inside my poz hole.  

Your profile says versatile which means you probably take and also give loads. You've talked about your bottom activities after being poz. Has your topping activities changed? Do you enjoy topping more now that you're poz? Or the same? I've heard of many total bottoms who start breeding holes after they poz.

Instead of just talking about stealthing, here is a real example of an ANON stealthing situation, where a cock is fucking a hole. These are not two people who want their consent to be respected.

[think before following links] https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/gloryhole-stealth-40921301

If you want to be treated as a person you don't offer your hole through a gloryhole. 

11 hours ago, ErosWired said:

Good advice - except that what it means is that anyone negative who wants to stay that way should stay condomed up, never have spontaneous sex, and never go to any place where men have public sex because stealthing is an expected thing.

They can have spontaneous sex, meet in Grindr and agree to have sex. But if they expect to bareback they must first discuss their situation regarding STI testing and appear to each other as two human beings. But cumdumps wannabe  who at the bathhouse want to be just a "hole" cannot expect to be treated with the regular social rules that include respecting consent.

11 hours ago, ErosWired said:

Would you swim in a public pool if it were known that some individuals were known to jump in and then intentionally open up vials of E. coli into the water? Of course not - those persons would be expelled and banned from the pool (and likely arrested). You wouldn’t just say, “Well, sometimes these guys show up, so if you don’t want to get sick, just don’t come to the public pool.”

No, I wouldn't but neither would I fuck bareback at a bathhouse if I wanted to stay HIV-negative.

From a legal standpoint, HIV+ guys who stealth can be charged and face the law but not in anonymous sex situations: "Judge, I was in my room at the bathhouse offering my hole for anon loads and this guy bred my hole knowing he was HIV+". In anon sex names and addresses are unknown and most likely you'll never see them again. Not enough information for a legal case.

Do you wanna stay HIV-negative? Go on PrEP or Avoid high-risk situations, especially anon sex.

1 hour ago, tallslenderguy said:

For me, reality should always involve consent and the free exercise of volition of all parties concerned.

I agree. That's why HIV- guys who want to avoid HIV infection should wear condoms and avoid high-risk situations such as Cumunion and bathhouses. These guys should meet with guys before sex and discuss latest test results. That should reduce the chances of being stealthed. It's very simple.

I started to take loads after I got stealthed many years ago, when most guys were still wearing condoms. The guy was supposed to be wearing a condom but when he pulled out and was ready to leave, he whispered in my ear: "I left a present for you". After he left I touched my hole and I could feel it leaking cum. I was hooked with taking loads and never wore a condom again.

At the time barebacking was not very common and on the contrary I was sometimes scorned at the bathhouse for offering my raw hole for breeding. Not that many bottoms did then. My "role model" was a bottom who used to go to the local sauna and get bred in his room with the door open. He was the first cumdump I knew and took notes from him.

It's clear that stealthing is a huge turn-on for many guys, both wanting to stealth and wanting to get stealthed. So there must be places where stealthing can happen and the right place is at a bathhouse. We men need outlets for our fetishes and stealthing is just another fetish. OK, scorn the stealthing of a friend or fuck-buddy but not in an anonymous encounter at a bathhouse.  

23 hours ago, backdoorjimmy said:

That's so hot! I had something like that happen one time at a music festival. He was staying at a hotel on the beach and I could hear people on the walking path while he slid into me and pumped his load up my butt in like 15 seconds. I was strangely satisfied after that, though. 

I also find quick breedings very hot and sometimes guys apologize but I tell them that I loved the quick pumping.