LetsPOZBreed

Being someone over 6 foot tall, I've found most venue's slings to be in an awkard positoin if I'm going to be topping. I'm constantly having to bend down a little bit, and it feels a bit awkward. I'm sure it would need to be set at somewhere near the average height of men, though. I'd rather have some flexibity - like my desk at work where I push a button and it adjusts up or down LOL.

Lately, it's been more at the clubs. I find guys less inclined to meet up at one person's place nowadays (either because of roommates or some other reason). It's a double-edged sword. At the clubs, we know what we're there for, so we tend to get it. But at home (mine or his) I feel like I can really focus and give my partner the best expereince possible. Plus, there's more kinky/nasty/primal things that I'd rather do in private than out in the open.

Two, actually (not saying names - I'm not THAT open about my escapades).

Old bathhouse lore (what I was told by my best friend when I was younger) is that bottoms tend to stay in their rooms, ass up in the air, or hole otherwise exposed. Tops are more transient and walk around the venue looking for as many holes to fuck. A good jockstrap never hurts, and more recent trends in clothing (the "cum in me bro" t-shirt, "cumdump" socks, et al.) means you can practically spell it out as well; we didn't always have that option.

If the bowl is filled with just cum, then half-and-half (assuming the loads are all freshly produced); if it's even a little stale, just turkey baste them all in my hole - nothing tastes worse than stale jizz. That being said, I have a bit of a kink around cumming in a bowl of some type of food - think diced strawberries. Me and my partner both squirt loads onto them, and we spoon feed each other the resulting strawberries and cream, after we give the bowl a good mix and let our loads coat each piece of fruit. Yeah, I'm that kind of kinky... >:-)

I've had a mix. My preference is a guy who can really grunt one out with a good lion roar (natural, not "put on"). I find that even with the quiet ones, there's subtle hints - usually a slight contortion of the face. But the only real way I know is the change in consistency as the friction in my hole changes from lube to cum. If you know, you know. When I've been on top, I'd say I tend to grunt more now than when I was younger. Not sure why that is, but I do feel my orgasms have gotten more intense with age. I'm sure that's a factor to some degree.

I gotta say, London has become quite dead on there for the most part. Sure, you get the party listings (the same hotel for each of them) and the guys on there that I'd want to play with only sign up for those - it's not my scene anymore. So, yeah. I've occasionally gone to the saunas and got some play, but I want a good passionate rough-n-tumble 1 on 1. That's just not something I'm able to find anymore.

Full disclosure - I did this yesterday. Went to S.O.P for the first time in over 4 years, and casually mentioned to one guy that it was something I wanted to do. He found a guy who was "close" and into it, and pulled us in a corner and we knelt down to drink it together. I prob ended up with about 90% of it, though, as my other guy stood up shortly after. Kinda impressed I just started gulping it straight away; wasn't sure if I'd go that full on after so long. My feeder's stream wasn't particularly strong tasting (which actually helped), and it went on for a while in fits and starts. Was my only pissload yesterday, but I'll take the win nonetheless. So, yeah...I'm into it. Not very often, though, but when the mood strikes. I'm thankful to have a venue such as S.O.P here in London, though, as I'm sure it would be far more difficult to find otherwise.

Not that I'm the author of some dictionary on the topic, but here's my thoughts on what these terms mean - both from personal experience and the copious amounts of porn I watched under the various lockdowns: Breeding - The act of fucking bareback in which the seed is ejactulated inside the receptive partner. It is not a specification as to the status (poz/neg/unknown) of the top. Impregnating - A bit of a toss up. Obviously co-opted from str8 sex, so the general definition is to breed with the purpose of implanting something lasting inside the bottom. Can be used for poz play, but can also be used for Mpreg play as well, so the whole poz/neg issue is really down to the specific circumstance. "Knocking up" - along the same lines of impregnating, but I almost exclusively have heard this in poz play scenes (and may have said this myself during my role play sessions). When heard during a porn scene, I think it's understood that it's a pozzing (or role playing of such act). Don't think I've come across a situation where this is not the case.

I've had instances where I've not said I've been pre-loaded, but in those cases I was never asked. I could sense when the guys went in, that they noticed and weren't exactly thrilled by it. From the top's viewpoint, I get it; you either expect to be first or get off on it being already flooded. I think, though, that the ones who prefer the latter are upfront about asking his prospective bottom if that's the case. Personally, it's a consent thing. If I have cum in me, I tell the guy; that way it's up to him what happens next. Though, that experience is few and far between these days for me; if I have cum in me, it's because of the guy who just shot it in me and is (hopefully) willing to work it in me more - maybe give me a second one. There's just something that hits different about a hard dick pushing it's own cum deeper in your hole.

Having a guy find me laying around the house in just my underwear. He sneaks up on me wearing a ski mask, so I never see his face. I get pinned down and interrogated - begging for it to stop and for him to leave, but he won't stop until he gets something he wants. After a while of negotiating, he finally spanks my ass and says "this....this is what I want". I resist, saying no and what-not. He restrains me and tapes my wrists together. Slips off his underwear, drenched in fresh sweat and shoves them in my mouth, then tapes over it for me to keep them there. From there, he's mine. But it's not just a matter of just stripping off my underwear too - no, he grabs hold of the back of them and just pulls as hard as he can. They rip open, which sends my mind into a panic. I start shaking my head "no" while I get ordered to stop fighting him off. Eventually, I calm down enough where my masked intruder sticks his raw cock inside. My eyes are watery with tears feeling no barriers between my insides and his bare skin. He's not rough with his thrusts - at least not yet - but he is using the remainder of my ripped pants as leverage, grabbing both sides as he slides each stroke inside me. There's a pace to it, in that he's savouring what he's taking from me. His verbal is a mix between "good boy" and calling me every name in the book. Finally, the moment arrives. He pounds me roughly until I feel the warmth that only cum brings. All while he's letting out a primal roar (like a lion) as I get flooded. I'm at full whining now, though this is somewhat muted by his pants still shoved in my mouth. Once he's done, he slips out and turns me over. Grabs a magic marker nearby and writes me a "message" on my ass cheeks for me to read in the mirror after he's gone. He zips back up, and dashes away. All I'm left with is his sweaty pants, my ripped pants, and whatever dirty message is written on my ass as a souvenir.

It's completely situational, even for the same top in different circumstances. I never kept track of my tops - or even myself when I do top. But personally, I like to savour the moment with a good bottom; that means I'll get close, then slow down (even briefly stop) to beat the urge back. Means I last a few iterations and blow a bigger wad. I love when guys that top me do the same. Quite frankly, I'm not clock watching during a good encounter, and that's the most important thing. If I'm concerned about the time, then I'm not having a good time.

There are a multitude of posts on the forums about this, as well as suggestions and pitfalls of hosting group sessions in general. For those types of things, I'd suggest you have a lookup and read for those. Something I don't usually write in response to these, but think newbies to this should consider - don't just focus on the HOW, but also think about the WHY. Are you going into this lifestyle in the right headspace? Is your body physically prepared to take that much dick in a night? Are you in the right mental space to not really care about the specific guy fucking you at any moment in time? Personally, I'd start small. If you're a bottom that's not accustomed to being regularly fucked, or if at most your daily experiences might be a fuckbuddy or threeway...you're going to need to build up some tolderance. Start with a small group of about 5 men taking turns on you, and prefereably personally know at least one or two of them; this might help settle some initial nerves. At least with a group this small, you can feel when you might be at your limit - if you're limit isn't quite hit, invite men to help themselves for seconds (or thirds). Consequently, if you're starting to feel a bit uncomfortable, you're not in a room of 10+ men and tapping out before everyone gets his chance. Another thing to recognise is that the different guys fucking you will all bring their own styles and techniques with them. Some will be gentler, some will be kind of moderate, and some might get a bit rough with you. You'll need to be able to take different types and also be able to draw a line when something gets a bit out of control and past what you're comfortable with. For this reason, I'd also recommend not doing a session totally alone - if you know someone well enough, I'd ask if they'd be interested in being your eyes and ears on the action. Someone who can monitor that nefarious things aren't going down while you're blindfolded, and also someone you can signal to if a top is getting particularly out of control and fucking in a way that you're not willing to consent to; after all, you want to remember this session for all the *right* reasons, not all the wrong ones.

As a younger top, I would be a 1 - cock got too sensitive when cumming. As an older rarely-top, I'm now more a 3 when I do the honour. More intense orgasm that way.

Level 4 when I hook up these days. Though, to refer to that level as being "safe" is a bit of a misnomer; there's def risk involved with anyone you have raw sex with. However, my mitigation practices is to avoid anyone with a status of "Don't Know" or "Not Sure" and anyone that gives off a weird vibe and appears reckless with his own sexual health. I accept that STI's are part of the game, and I've been proverbially stung by some in the past - but it has been a number of years since that's happened, and the previous statement is one reason behind that.