I do refuse guys who insist on using condoms. I sort of find it to be selfish. They use a condom and use you to get off with you getting the short end of the stick. Any guy who uses a condom is usually concerned about catching something or not wanting to give you something. It’s his choice and that’s perfectly ok. I haven’t any fears of sex, I’m an all or nothing sexual encounter and I prefer to hook up with guys who are on the same sexual energy. I live in a big city with heaps of local hook ups as well as travelers passing through so I’m able weed out sexual encounters, knowing another like minded, non condom user, is around the corner.