loadgiver
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There are many young people that struggle with cruising knowledge, in my experience they are usually they type to be too timid and spook to easily. I agree this behaviour is learned from (anti-)social media and (waste time pretending to) hookup apps. While it can be frustrating because seducing them is slower (I personally enjoy the hunt), it doesn't do any harm to the cruising space. In my experience the indiscrete and grabby type tend to be the mature older crowd, with exceptions. I can guess a few reasons why this might be but regardless it ends up with the same result, people quitting the gym, and people complaining to management. The problem is that this indiscrete cruising behaviour works for them just often enough for it to be reinforced. To be clear I'm talking about a normal gym steam room/sauna, not a bathhouse.
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I agree. In my experience a lot of guys would benefit from better cruising eticquit and technique. A lot of good cruising spots are ruined by fools thinking with their little head acting like they're in an anything goes porno. Cruising is a mix of seduction and reading signals. It pisses me off when people try to just start wanking in front of strangers or worse trying to start with touching at my gym steamroom. I like this cruising spot because its a mix of people just relaxing and people cruising. If all the chill ppl are scared off by horny fools then there's no hunt, there's no chance. And inevitably the gym management will shut things down.
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For clarity, I look away from my target if there is no conversation. If my target starts talking to me I look him firmly in the eyes and flex my cock as we we speak. I also flex/ bounce my cock slightly at first and then more as I get more receptive signs. the more he looks the more I bounce and chub up.
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Somehow there have been no doms answering this, so here's the real answer. Look at his crotch a lot. Make conversation with him and while you do switch back and forth from eye contact to crotch. Find a natural way to make the conversation about his body. The easiest way to do this in a gym is to ask him about his workout. Ask him what he did today, tell him he's clearly taking the gym seriously because he looks fit, ask him if he gets sore from the gym and what helps, compliment a muscle and ask him for advice ie "what's your routine for chest, I wish my pecs were as good as yours". This technique will play out well for you regardless if you blow him most people will enjoy this conversation but many will get horny from it. That being said if he's giving one word answers and/or looking away from you the stop tho. He's there because he wants quiet and it's your job to give it to him what he wants. The approach for a top is very different so look out for signs he's putting on the moves. When I want someone to worship me in the steamroom after a workout I go nude, I make a point to sit on the upper seat preferably so I'm facing my target. If my target is also on the top bench I sit lengthwise with my back against the corner wall and my feet up toward him. I will not stare at my target, instead I frequently close my eyes or do stretches so I'm looking away. I do this so that my target can freely check me out if he's shy. Inevitably I will catch him looking and give him an eyebrow raised smirk. This is when I start rubbing my sore muscles, chest and thighs tend to get the most attention. If I can I will make "accidental" contact by touching my foot to his thigh or brushing my knee on his shoulder, this is a test to see if he pulls away. I can usually tell by this point if my target is hooked. Depending on what I want them do I instruct him to do it. "Rub my feet, lick my balls, etc."
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If they're not about to be in public I put my load where they don't expect it. If I get the vibe they're trying to be ready to pull off when I cum, or if they ask me to warn them first, I'll hold they're head down while I impregnate their throat.
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I want to hear if there are others like me. One of my favourite things to do is humiliate my cocksucker by getting my cum on him somewhere visible before they have to go into a public space. I've got a big dick and I apparently have decent looks because it's relatively easy to find cocksuckers willing to service me in semi-public places. Bathrooms, park trails, ally's, fitting rooms, gym locker rooms, parking lots, offices, hell even a subway restaurant employee breakroom. I don't care for the "feeling" of a blowjob too much but the power of humiliating people is so fucking fun. Usually when I seduce and compel a new cocksucker it's just to prove that I can. It's shocking how many guys will notice my bulge and then follow my instructions. The best part for me is leaving visible evidence on my conquest so they have to be seen messy in public. I do this by shooting my load without warning on specific areas. I aim for their Hair, beard, eyes, and shirt/work uniform. If you ever notice you're sandwich artist has red eyes and stains on his uniform, maybe I was there, or maybe there are others like me.
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You're a great writer, I really enjoy your twisted perspective.
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I love dumb bottoms like this, I've bred so many. Feel free to dm me their contact next time one frustrates you. 😉
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POLL: Can YOU get HIM to go BARE when he wants SAFE SEX/ CONDOMS???
loadgiver replied to a topic in General Discussion
I prefer to only fuck safe-only bottoms. The thing is I can't always convince them to go raw, I often don't even try. I can always convince them that I'm wearing an intact condom though. So I get my seed in every one regardless. I experience a full body tingling orgasm when I cum inside someone who thinks we're fucking safe. I pursue that experience at every opportunity, and I'm very proud of the boys who don't know they've given me so much extra pleasure. -
Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?
loadgiver replied to blktone67's topic in General Discussion
I'm great at pulling out, I always do exactly when I intend to. I like to tell bottoms this if they're nervous about letting me in bare. The best part about this promise is that I never said I was going to pull out before I mark them with my cum. -
Please share. I love the feeling of jizzing inside a boy that's asked me to pull out. It makes for the best full body, skin tingling orgasms when I'm intentionally forgetting to pull out.
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Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?
loadgiver replied to blktone67's topic in General Discussion
I have a few experiences like this. One twunk I hooked up with sticks out. He was a flaky slut that took forever to get into, mostly because we'd arrange a hookup and then he'd drop off the face of the earth. I know he's a slut though because word gets around. All the tops I know that had him I know to be the safe only kind, but they "know" the same of me so who knows. Anyway I finally got into this guys bed and he's got the perfect smooth bubble butt. He waited to ask me to wear a condom once I was already naked ready to fuck. I told him I don't have one and he gave me one of his. My favourite thing about having a huge cock is that the tricks condoms never fit. I put it on and showed him how stupid it looked going halfway down my dick and way too tight. He agreed and pulled it off, we didn't say anything while I lubed him up and pushed into him raw. I was fucking him doggy for a while and he asked to switch to missionary. After I re-entered he told me "pull out and come on my face". I'm a master at pumping a few loads inside and then convincingly finishing on a marks ass but I don't think I could make it all the way to his face so I lied "I guess, I've already cum inside you once so my second load will be a minute". I loved the look on his face as he processed that while being pounded. Initially nodding in agreement, then a confused look shifting to surprise and finally a shrug as he went back to his blissed out fuckface. The deceit was really gets me off so I came shortly after loudly rutting in him as deep as I could. I don't remember/care if he came or not. -
It's instinct/reflex, I rut, pin my target down and push deep when I cum. There's no escaping my grip while breeding, I know because some very strong men have tried.
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I have a similar but different experience. I took a guy home from the gym after he trigged my breeding drive by doing deadlifts. The fucker pulled out a condom and handed it to me just as I was lining up my cock to his hole. I negotiated with him to let me put it in and hold it there for a moment before I pulled out and used the condom. He reluctantly agreed, and his ass felt amazing. I kept to my word and just held my hard cock in him for a couple minutes. I could tell he was about to tell me to pull out. Something most don't get is the instinct to breed a hole that's never been bred is intense. It's purpose beyond pleasure, it just feels like destiny. Just as he opened his mouth to speak I willed myself to cum so as he was telling me to pull out spurt after spurt of my dna was shooting into him. I pulled out and told him I didn't want to fuck anymore and told him to leave. lol.
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Tops: It's not ethical to stealth bottoms. Removing or intentionally breaking the condom without consent is not fair to bottoms that claim they want to be fucked by men but don't want men to plant their seed in them. These bottoms think they enjoy being fucked by a latex balloon and don't want their top to feel the flesh of their hole as they fuck. They definitely don't want to know they've to be filled and claimed with a mans cum. This is why it's bad to distract the bottom with a kiss while you pull out slip off the condom of and push back in raw. It's also bad to empty a bottle of water based lube and refill it with oil based. It doesn't matter how good it feels to have your raw cock inside a tight condom nazi. It's also bad to tamper with condoms. Its really bad to get an exacto knife and cut a small slit at the corner of the wrapper so you can pull the condom out and cut the tip and slip it back in so it looks new. Preparing a bunch of these an keeping them in your bedside table, wallet, and gym bag is wrong and any top that does this must have a perverse predator drive. A stud like this is a bad guy that probably gets his dna into a lot of unsuspecting naive bottoms. Its not fair to the good honest barebacking tops that only get to cream in messy loose sluts and don't get to cum inside tight, never been bred guys that insist on condoms. Good tops only get to fuck the seconds, the bottoms that have already learned one way or another, consensually or not, that their role is taking loads. It's unfair to the good tops that will never experience the "stolen candy" pleasure of being the first top pump your stud load into a dumb brat. Bottoms: They hope for it every time. The militant condom nazi's? They're just being good and saving themselves for the guy who's stud enough to claim them anyway.
