InsatiableBoy

Well I started at Hawks and made my way over to Entorage. The facilities at Hawks were much nicer (though they need to give the sauna a good scrubbing and retile a bit...), but it was a ghost town while I was there. I got a bit of action and gave up when it was clear nobody was showing up. Jumped over to Entorage and got a lot more action, it was a lot more active, but the facilities are in dire need of some TLC. Although I was kinda into the sleazy vibe at Entorage, you can achieve that same vibe without the facility itself feeling dirty. (To clarify it is clean, just within the boundaries of the state of the place.)

Cut when I was born, though I wish I were uncut. I'm not sure when, but I started noticing something weird when playing with myself, like something was missing. Even now I get myself off the fastest when pulling what skin I can comfortably pull up to my head, It makes me wonder what it would be like to be uncut, and in a small way forces a small lament for what I've lost. However when I get to play with an uncut cock I go out of my way to please it and its owner. Giving head is already fun for me, but I go crazy when I get to suck an uncut cock.

Any input on which to check out? I'd like to visit both but probably won't have the time. Looking for whichever I'll have the most success at pigging out and pleasing a bunch of horny guys.

I was still coming down from the high of this experience when I wrote that post, and I wanted to capture it while still fresh in my mind. Sadly I haven't been able to beat this score yet, despite a couple attempts to do so. It seems like it kind of requires the right energy to happen spontaneously in a dark room setting, and my last couple attempts had a couple willing tops but mostly wallflowers. Might try to get a room to get something started sometime soon, but in the mean time I'm still on the lookout for an opportunity to improve my high score. (I primarily like playing in the dark room in front of others because A) it feeds my exhibitionist desires, and B) when things really get going the overall sexual energy gets supercharged, and being able to contribute to that is a lot of fun. However, I've noticed a lot of guys would prefer to play away from prying eyes, so I've gotta find a balance somewhere in middle.)

I'm never one to shy away from a big cock, but if it's my first of the night things just can't go from 1 to pound city as he's lining up. I'm pretty tight, so I need time to relax and open up. 99% of the big dick tops I encounter understand that a tap or push on their leg or chest means, "slow it down," and are patient enough to change pace according to my comfort level. If anything it makes them even more enthusiastic to eviscerate my ass when the light turns green, slamming back into them with my hips. Even in anon scenes communication is important, and if your comfort level isn't "gore me with that monster cock" that's fine. Of course there will always be a top with a dick that's simply too big for me to take, although that situation is somewhat rare. I'll give it some honest effort, and if it doesn't work out I try to make them feel good in other ways at least.

A while back an Asian guy approached me in the dark room, asked if I wanted a massage back in his room. I said sure, why not, and followed him back. He wasn't particularly talented, and it lasted all of 65 seconds before he shoved his dick in my face, but whatever I'm there to play anyway. I started sucking him for a bit, and then it got weird. The second he got hard he grabs his poppers, takes a heroic whiff, immediately got limp dick syndrome, yet still insisted I keep sucking him. Alright fine. After a little bit of that he says he wants to fuck me, but still can't get it up. I'm not really a size queen, average to smaller dicks do things that huge ones don't sometimes, but this guy was a bit too small for even me. Worse still, he'd get hard, slide in me, take another huge whiff of poppers, instantly get soft, and still try to fuck me with his limp dick. Right at the point I was getting ready to leave his room, he suggested we go out to find a couple guys to add to the fun. We find a couple looking to play, and they swap fuck both of us. Both were champion tops, so not a complete waste, thankfully. They leave, and I'm about to follow, and this guy asks me for my email address. I figure it's harmless, so I oblige with an address I use for hookups. Big mistake. I forget to check that email for a few days, and when I do my inbox is flooded with messages by this guy. They start out innocuous enough, but very quickly take a high speed train to crazy town, some get downright abusive. Obviously I don't respond to any of them, and they stop coming in after a while. And I think that's the end of that. For the next year this guy straight up stalks me around the club every time we happen to be there at the same time. I go maybe once a month, sometimes once every two or three, but this guy seems to be there every other day. I can't initiate a scene in the dark room without him trying to jump in and/or grope me; I can't hang out in one of the gloryhole cubbies without him trying to grab me to initiate something; I can't even be in a room without him standing guard outside, incessantly knocking, even successfully jimmying the locked door open if I didn't acknowledge he was there. I tell him no in every way I know how, and he absolutely won't leave me alone. At one point I was having fun with a guy in the dark room and this guy grabs my head trying to force it into his crotch. So I push him away as hard as I can while on my knees, get in his face, and very loudly tell him "NO, LEAVE ME ALONE!" which instantly killed the mood in the entire area, not something I'm happy about. At that point I'd had enough, and went straight to the front desk to report him, something I had to do every subsequent time he was there, and it still didn't stop him from trying to initiate something with me. I don't see him anymore, and I like to think he got 86ed from the club entirely. But running into him was the only time (aside from another asshole I only had a single encounter with) I felt genuinely unsafe at a bathhouse. To the staff's credit, every time I brought him to their attention, they instantly tracked him down (which wasn't difficult since he was always hovering near me) and had a word with him. Pretty much every bathhouse I've ever visited has a "no means no" policy on their board of rules. Obviously not everyone abides by those rules, but the few times I've had to get staff involved with a particularly toxic guy they're on it fast as lightning. I don't like bothering the staff more than I have to, but when I've reached out they don't mess around.

Is it like other adult theater type setups where there are some booths and such and that's it, or do they have some lockers to stash clothes and stuff?

After a hookup didn't go as planned I decided to make my way to the baths, and it was a fantastic decision. The night started kind of slow, got a couple hits but they didn't want the same thing as me. Climbed up on the fuck bench and got a really dissatisfying ride. Thinking it was going to be another unfulfilling night at the baths, I was working my way around the maze when a stray hand grabbed my ass. He slid a couple fingers over my hole, felt that it was lubed up and good to go, so I let him into one of the gloryhole cubbies. He left the door open and started pounding me like he was out to wreck my hole. I got in the zone really quickly, and slammed my ass back against him just as hard as he was thrusting his hips. After a solid 10-15 minute aggressive pounding he bottomed out and pumped his load into me. By the time he pulled out number 2 was already waiting for me through one of the gloryholes. So I re-lubed, and got him right in there. Once he started pounding me I looked up and saw a small audience had gathered, a number of guys stroking their cocks waiting for their chance at my sloppy hole. Of course I had to give them a show, so I went wild. This guy didn't last as long, and as he pulled out I felt those two loads dripping down my legs. The second I turned around, number 3 pushed his way through the audience and pushed right in without giving me a moment to breathe. He must have watched the other two since he went from zero to pound city in a single thrust. I gave just as good as I got, but at this point I was hungry and I wanted a proper ride on the fuck bench. Happily obliging, we walked over but it was occupied. Before I knew it number 4 came up behind me and slapped my ass with his huge cock. I wanted it bad, so I guided him to my slut hole and backed all the way onto him until I could feel his balls slap me. Using a free edge on the fuck bench to brace myself, I rode him from end to end, hard enough to produce a loud slap when my ass hit his stomach. I got so into the moment I started getting louder and louder, which made the guy actually on the bench get louder in response. The guy fucking him got more aggressive while I slammed my hips as hard as I could on number 4. Pretty soon the rhythm of his thrusts broke, hie bottomed out, and bred me with a massive load. And once again, the second number 4 pulled out, number 3 lined back up, this time determined to fuck me even harder than number 4 and earlier in the cubby. This guy had some serious stamina, I thought he would use my hole all night if he could. He got really into it, slapping my ass, moaning loudly every time I pushed him all the way inside me, which made the bottom on the bench reply with his own moans. But after maybe 20 minutes (I'm guessing since time was a blur at this point), number 3 was at his limit, and he gave me my final load of the night. I know 4 loads is almost nothing compared to what I've seen discussed on this site, but tonight I finally got to feel like a proper cumdump for the first time. Now I want more.

Bottom regrets: 1) Having copies of videos I'm certain guys, one in particular, made when I was 14-16 and camwhoring in Yahoo Chat rooms. Being able to go back and watch myself learn how to touch myself, how to edge, learn how to play with my ass, and more would be a lot of fun. 2) Coming to terms with my sexuality earlier. I was in denial for a long time, and looking back on my late teen and early 20s, never embracing my inner cumdump until long after my barely legal period is a major regret. 3) Not properly taking advantage of an early FB I made when I was still in denial. The few encounters we had were so hot, but I was too scared to take it any further. 4) Not learning the importance, and how to douche sooner. Doing my best to make up for lost time now at least.

I've had one monster cock, and it was a fun experience, but not one I think I'd want very often. He was easily 13", if not longer, and THICK. When he had me get on my back and was lining up, I was extremely nervous. However after he opened me up and I relaxed, I started having anal orgasms almost immediately which persisted for over 2 hours after he finished fucking me. He also asked me if I've ever had my second ring opened up, I had no idea what he was talking about, then he bottomed out leaving me with a sensation of intense pleasure and sharp pain at the same time. It was too much. The overall experience was a lot of fun, but a thick cock long enough to reach my prostate or just beyond is more pleasurable for me than getting absolutely stuffed. I cum just as hard with my ideal size as getting gored with a monster anyway. He also wasn't into poppers, which definitely isn't a requirement for me, but man I wanted to try his cock with a good sniff. Oh well.

It's a pretty significant problem for me as well, even though I'm a (now smooth) twink which usually seems to scream "bottom only". But if I make the mistake of getting visibly hard in a club or bathhouse, all of a sudden there's a giant "TOP" beacon over my head. I go out of my way to make it obvious I'm a bottom, yet it never makes a difference. Sometimes I'm willing to play along, though I don't find much pleasure in fucking in general. Getting fucked is another story. My best advice is either politely decline and be patient for the opportunity to arise, or play along for a little bit, take a break, then try again. I've had success with both methods, but failures with both as well. However, a couple times I tried the second method I put on a bit of a show, I'm talking aggressively fucking a guy in a sling or on a bench for 15-20 minutes straight, and after I had tops appearing out of thin air to fuck me senseless. Trial and error seems to be the goal for a bottom hoping to attract tops.

When getting cleaned out for a hopeful night of being bred, I noticed a bit of blood and soreness. Last week I had more than my share of fun, but it seems like I wasn't lubed up enough. My go-to selection is silicone based, but having to reapply, and getting coated enough on subsequent reapplications slows down the time between when a top is ready to go and when my hole's ready to get pounded. Seems like a solid oil based lube is perfect for what I'm looking for: something I can apply before I start playing and will last long enough to keep me going while my hole is still hungry. Anyone have suggestions for a great oil lube?

It's been on my bucket list for quite some time, but I've had a lot of difficulty finding a Dom top to fulfill it. Everyone's responses here reinforce that it's as fun as in my fantasies.

Cut at birth, cause that was the thing to do at the time. Since I became sexually aware, and especially now, it feels like something's missing. It hasn't stopped me from consistently getting off, but I can't help wonder what it would be like if I still had my foreskin. That's probably why when I get to suck an uncut guy I go absolutely nuts and bring my A+ game. Playing with a guy's foreskin and head with my tongue is one of my absolute favorite things.

Cumdump debut update: wow. To date, tonight may have been my best experience at a bathhouse, period. Just being able to walk around and offer my ass up on demand was such a fulfilling experience, it's the first time I left the baths with a big grin on my face. My final load tally was less than I hoped, coming in at 2, and both were from the same guy at different times. (I gave him the fuck of his life when he came back for seconds, his knees almost buckled when he unloaded in me.) Taking a load this time was extremely different from the first time I took one a while back. The first guy wanted a porn finish or something, so it wasn't all that great. This time the guy went balls deep, and my face was pure ecstasy while feeling him pulse inside me. The crowd was a bit weird, lots of guys sitting on their hands not doing anything. But I got enough action to leave gaping and quite sore, so I can't complain too much. My main disappointment was reaching my limit too quickly (my final fuck tally was around 10), clearly a goal for the future is working on my hole's endurement. I'm already looking for my next opportunity to pig out.

@unitedforces91 Agreed with @ErosWired here. It took me at least a few visits to the baths to even feel comfortable walking around naked (the first time I did it resulted in one of my all time best experiences at a bathhouse), let alone opening up to any sort of play. It really comes down to comfort: if you're not comfortable with something, don't do it. I was fortunate in that there were guys who helped me break out of various shells. Sure there are guys who are pushy and have no sense of boundaries, but you're more likely to find guys who happily work within your comfort zone. My best advice is to go with zero expectations, maybe just watch and observe the first time, and move on from there. It took me at least 3 visits before I did anything beyond watching and jerking off in a room or gloryhole cubby. But relaxing in the sauna or hot tub were definitely highlights with every visit to the point I make it a kind of pregame ritual when I go. It's a good way for me to center myself and get my head in the game for the fun I'm looking to have. Just remember: it's always ok to say no (but do your best to be polite about it), and if you're not into a guy who's making advances on you it's ok to show you're not interested (but do your best to be polite about it). I've had problems with tweakers, and my very own bathhouse stalker, however those kinds of encounters are rare and generally resolved quickly.

It's specifically due to the presence of escorts/prostitutes posting ads, and Craigslist not being able to filter them all out of the system. In my area at least, it's difficult to browse ads without coming across a number of escorts and prostitutes advertising their services. That's partially on Craigslist, as their terms specifically prohibit those ads in the first place. I know I've had ads flagged for no legitimate reason, meanwhile ads looking for a "generou$ contribution" stay up for weeks on end, so they clearly have a moderation problem. A few years back there was also that guy who tried to hire a hit man in the adult gigs section, which is why Craigslist deleted it altogether... With that in mind, this bill is a bunch of partisan bullshit. Despite how much our legislators and president (ugh) love sex workers, they pose a significant threat to core "values" these legislators hold. I do believe sex trafficking is pure evil, but Craigslist shutting down their personals section is working proof that this law isn't a targeted solution. It's legal overreaching to kill multiple birds with a single stone. Maybe Craigslist really was a hub for sex trafficking and I never encountered an ad using the service to promote it, but I've seriously never seen a single ad that in any way indicates that pattern.

@ErosWired Fantastic advice, thanks for your input. Rooms tend to fill up quickly before the event starts, and I was considering whether or not I'd get one at all. Seems like it would be a good idea, just to ensure I have a place to properly advertise myself.

That's why I'm asking about amplifying my cumdump allure, so if I get that borderline grope I can convert it into an immediate need to fuck me. Maybe this hope is a going from 0-100 type of expectation... I won't say no, but I don't want to be pushy. That is until I get someone inside me, at which point I'll pump my hips to get that distinct SLAP if my top isn't already producing it.

I ALWAYS douche before offering my ass up. I'm even a little paranoid when it comes to a potential mess, so I make sure my ass is sparkly clean before I take that first cock. This is great advice. It's not my first rodeo at the club, so I know the basic etiquette. Where I have trouble is making the distinction between a simple passing grope and a "hey I want this ass" grope. I'll do my best to make more noise, getting caught up in the moment is something that happens to me a lot. And I HATE when guys hog the sling or fuckbench, so I make sure to limit my time if there are no takers. The sharpie is a nice touch. Thanks very much for your input.

They sell lube at the club, though it's not very good. The main reason I'm thinking about a jock is purely for utility.

I'm preparing for my cumdump debut at a Cumunion party, and I want to make sure I take as many cocks and loads as I can in the process. This is my first time offering my holes up without a concern over protection, so I'm nervous, but also quite excited. I shaved all unnecessary body hair, every area will be silky smooth for my debut. I was thinking of just wearing a jock with a bottle of lube under the waistband over my ass (I'm not brave enough for spit lube yet) while wandering around the play areas. Does anyone have any other recommendations for turning myself into a cumdump beacon, beyond finding a spot to present my ass and wait? Ideally I'm hoping for a chain spit roasting session but I'm trying to keep realistic expectations.

Jerking off or getting blown while being fucked is kinda like icing on the cake. It's nice, but not essential.

The only hands free orgasms I have while getting fucked are totally dry, but they're extremely intense. If I happen to have a regular orgasm at the same time my brain melts. All it takes is getting fucked just right, and after I'll get waves of pleasure all throughout my body. The longest I've felt it is for 2 hours after getting fucked.

I have a feeling 442 is a MUCH different experience if you play raw. Been a couple times, the atmosphere is amazing, but I had very little success.