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I've been mentoring a young man who, at 18, has decided to strive to be a cumdumpster, and I've decided to share the text of a recent email I sent him because I thought others might find my advice useful as well. Your comments are welcome. My email to the boy: Well, that's good. But remember, to be a true cumdump requires work. I have a lot of guys who fuck me regularly; many are married men. Married guys are the most dependable about showing up for sex. Here's why. Married men and guys with girlfriends often don't have a lot of flexibility with their availability. But, if you really make extra effort to accommodate their schedule and make it as easy as possible for them, they will almost always show up for sex. A lot of my married regulars allow time in the morning, before they get to their job, to stop at my place to start their day off with fucking. Of course, this often means that these end up being quick pump-and-dump sessions. But that is cool with me. There's been more than a few mornings when I've gotten fucked and bred by a six or more guys in the early morning within 1-1/2 to 2 hours. So, keep this in mind: if you work with their schedule to be available when it suits them, are able to host them, and are consistent, they will quickly become regulars. They'll learn fast that you are a throat and ass that they can fuck frequently if you make it as easy as possible for them and to accommodate their routine, not yours. I've given up sleep to make sure my throat and ass are available for married guys when it best suits their schedule. As I said earlier, since they typically don't have a lot of flexibility with the days/time they have to fuck you, by going out of your way to make your holes available on THEIR schedule, they are guaranteed, reliable fuckers who will show up every time to use your holes. This is not theory. This is my personal experience and I've been making myself available for married men for many years. For example, if you have a married guy whose schedule allows him to stop every week only on, say Monday and Tuesday mornings because his driving route to work on those days means he'll be traveling close to where you live, he will absolutely make sure he stops to fuck you both those mornings if you make sure you are ALWAYS available on those mornings. Since those are the only mornings of his weekly schedule when he can fuck you, he will show up, guaranteed. In fact, he will look forward to those mornings and your ass will soon be on his calendar to fuck every Monday and Tuesday morning, week after week. So, a good rule to follow is always try to accommodate a guy's availability to fuck you. The more you make your schedule secondary to his, whether he's straight, bi, married, curious, whatever, the more likely his cock and loads will end up inside you. Make it as easy and as uncomplicated as possible for them and I'm telling you, they will fuck you every week, one or more times every week. If you truly want to be a cumdump, you MUST make the necessary effort required to establish a stable of regulars. Remember, these men are guaranteed breeders. Then, you can supplement your weekly breedings by having a group of fuckbuds that you build up over time who are as interested as you are in getting laid regularly. Additionally, if you're able to find and attend fuck parties in your area regularly/monthly, this is another resource for making sure you get fucked as often as possible by as many different men as possible. Finally, keep in mind that, as a cumdumpster, to many men, you are nothing more than a couple of holes to fuck and unload in. So, accept that and you'll excel at being a cum depository. In my case, even working a full-time job, I still manage to get fucked at least a dozen times every week. At this point, because of the effort I've put in over the long haul, getting fucked by at least a dozen different men every week is quite normal for me. But I've put in the time and effort and consistent focus on what I must do to get the amount of sex I want. Hope you find some of this advice helpful. Always be receptive to learning from what other guys' experience has taught them. One more thing that a lot of Bottoms never consider is this: Don't be a selfish, overly-competitive Bottom. Quite the opposite. Make the effort to network with other local Bottoms in your area. "Why?," you ask. Because you can help each other out and actually be references for each other. For example, there will be times when you just aren't available to get fucked when a potential breeder wants to fuck you. But, if you can recommend one of your Bottom buds for him because your friend is available on a day or time when you aren't, and your Bottom friends reciprocate by also recommending your ass when they aren't available to get fucked, you'll get cock that otherwise may not have bred you. Network with local Bottoms in your area to work as a team so that very few cocks get away from you and your Bottom friends. Throw cock their way that you're unavailable to service and they'll do the same for you. This way, you both win and get cock and loads that otherwise would've gotten away. Sorry for writing a novel-length message, but I always like to share my experience and wisdom with young guys who say they wanna be a cumdumpster. Achieving this takes work, but it's worth it. At least it has been worth it for me. But remember, once becoming a cumdumpster, you still must do the necessary work to maintain your cumdumpster status. So, your efforts never really end if you want to continue being a couple of holes that many men fuck and unload in regularly. I've included a couple pix of the young, wanna-be cumdumpster. Thanxxx for reading!

John, However and whomever you choose to be your first man-on-man experience, I suggest you bee totally honest about your lack of experience and how this is new territory for you. I believe if you are up front about that, i think you'll be fine. Of course, the guy who helps you explore hopefully will enjoy spending time with you as you broaden your horizons. Over the years, i have been many straight, bi, curious men's first mansex experience (that's what they claimed). I've always enjoyed being part of their first time. Actually, its a major turn on for me. Ideally, you'll find a guy who you feel comfortable with and who doesn't pressure you or have a checklist of expectations from you. Only you can decide the guy who you feel a sufficient comfort level with. In such an environment, you shouldn't feel intimidated or feel like you're being graded on your performance. Good luck in finding a guy who will make you feel comfortable and bee patient with you. With the right guy, he'll be turned on being part of your blazing new trails, so you shouldn't feel reluctant to ask questions as you travel this new path. If your experience is fantastic, you most likely will be hooked and you'll want more great sex with men. Again, good luck. Keep us posted and let its know how you're doing. I know i can't be very objective, but sex with men its pretty fucking awesome!!!

I posted my first count for 2013 at the end of March, so I thought it was time to update my tally since it's halfway through the year. At the end of March, my load counts were: Down throat: 39 In ass: 142 Load total to date: 181 New count to date (tally as of yesterday): Down throat: 39 + 52 = 91 In ass: 142 + 174 = 316 Load total to date: 407 I'm sorry to say that I'm behind in my goal for 2013 of 1,000 loads by New Years Eve, 2013. In order to reach my goal of 1,000 loads by years end, I need to average about 2¾ loads every day of the year. My current total averages to 2¼ loads every day up to now. So, I need to step up my game. But, I think my goal of 1,000 loads is achievable because December is always very active for me. I always attend a lot of holiday parties and the majority of them include fucking. Plus, New Years Eve parties are always a good chance to collect the last 2-3 dozen loads of the year. From today until the end of the year, if I average 3-4 loads a day, I'll surpass 1,000 loads. I get regular traffic Monday thru Friday thanks to a lot of married guys who stop by for before and after work quick breeding sessions, so I'm very confident that my goal will be met and EXCEEDED. Wish me luck, pigs.

You and your long-distance partner need to go your separate ways. I was in a long-distance relationship for a period of time and the terms/rules of an "open" relationship need to be discussed up front. It sounds like you and your long-distance "love" did not do that because it definitely seems like you two did not have a meeting of the minds. Additionally, it sounds like your partner is not able to deal with your arrangement. Without knowing your partner, it seems like he may have control issues, jealously issues, and self-esteem issues; any combination of these if not all of them. An open relationship is not for everyone. Just because the partners in a relationship are separated by distance/geography doesn't automatically mean your relationship has to be open. I suspect, though that your partner's problem is not because miles separate the two of you. It's likely he's not the open relationship type, even if you both lived under the same roof. If you are feeling that you have to "report in" to your partner every time you have sex with others, it's probably best that you move on and stop prolonging the inevitable. In future relationships, if you and your new partner decide to make it an open one, make sure to take the time to discuss the rules/terms that you both can agree to. Bottom line: open communication and having a meeting of the minds prior to opening up your relationship is the only way to avoid misunderstandings later. Agree to rules that both of you can live with. But, there can't be too many rules (IMHO). After all, if it's truly "open," too many restrictions defeats the definition of "open" and all you end up doing is starting out with two strikes against you, and you're ensuring drama is part of the train wreck waiting to happen. Good luck!

When a Top can't keep it up or cums too quickly, I'm not a happy camper. The only time a quick shooter is acceptable is when I'm doin "pump-n-dumps" or I'm getting gangfucked and used as a cumdumpster.

I have a overwhelming preference for taking loads up my ass (I live to be fucked and bred) compared to my preference for swallowing jizz. Since 1/1/13, my load counts so far are: Down throat: 39 In ass: 142 Load grand total to date: 181 This is slightly behind my rate for last year, but I've collected a bunch more regulars since the beginning of the year, so I expect my weekly load average to increase. Last year, I averaged 22-25 loads a week; about 75% anal loads; the rest down my throat and/or sprayed on face, chest, ass, etc. I attend as many group fucks as possible and try to attend every monthly CumUnion party to quickly increase my overall load count.

No one race/ethnicity can claim supremacy when it comes to fucking. I have been fucked by white, black, Hispanic, Asian, Arab, native American, and more ethnicities/nationalities than I can remember. My fuckhole has been like a fucking conference at the United Nations. What I can say about Black men is that the most memorable experiences I had with black guys was when I was gangfucked. One gangfuck I remember vividly involved 6 black guys using me for more than 4 hours. The guy who planned it for me wanted it to be a role play scenario with me playing a racist. He wanted me to use any racist language I could think of. I wouldn't have consented, but the guy who set it up was a good friend whom I trusted. Still, I admit I was nervous and I had to be prodded to say "nigger." But once I was able to get over the initial uncertainty, and I felt less worried, I opened up and used all the stereotypical racist talk I could think of. My racist words really got all of them fired up. The scene was intense! They used me hard, the fucking was rough, and the verbal abuse they gave me was incredible. I know it's not for everyone, but our role play of all those hot, hungry, Black guys with their intensity off the charts using and abusing the racist white guy (me) and teaching him to respect them and be completely submissive and compliant was unforgettable. Shame some of the action wasn't captured on video. I ended up missing three days of work; I was sore all over and my ass was absolutely destroyed. IT WAS AWESOME!!!

I can usually tell whether or not a Top needs some encouragement to blast inside me. So, don't assume he knows you want his loads in you. A Bottom really needs to be perceptive and be able to recognize when he should verbalize. A well-timed, "flood my guts, man" or "breed my hungry hole," can give him the go-ahead to unload inside you. Some Tops want to actually hear that. With a lot of guys who fuck me, we both know what the other wants, so no permission is needed. My experience has been that married men usually need very little, if any, encouragement to cum inside. Plus, the majority of men I connect with already know that I believe that breeding the ass you fuck is the most natural thing in the world. If we first had contact online, we've already had a meeting of the minds about breeding. I am always quite clear up front about what I'm looking for, that I don't do condoms, and that I'm looking to get my insides whitewashed. Random and spontaneous hookups have built into them the probability of bare fucking and, to be quite honest, pulling out is such an unnatural interruption when he's close to shooting, that I will often give him a little verbal encouragement when I can tell he is close. If the Top is enjoying the fuck, you can tell, and most of them will get into that primal zone and will breed your ass out of pure carnal instinct. Some Tops will ask, "Can I cum in you," or some other similar question. For those who ask, your answer of "Fuck yeah, man, flood me," guarantees a hot, ropey deposit in your cum-hungry shit chute.

I post on CL about once every two weeks. I mention that I'm available early A.M. For guys to stop on their way to work, or late afternoon for guys to stop on their way home after work. I get a lot of interest from straight/bi married guys and dudes with GFs. I can usually connect with at least four fuckers with each of my postings. I've found that if I make myself available to suit the schedule of married guys and guys with GFs, they will follow through and show up. The easier and convenient I make it for the guys who otherwise fuck vaginas, the more likely they will show up to fuck, and they do show up. They make time in their routine, especially in the morning before work to fuck and load my ass, even if it's only a 5-10 minutes "quickie." I've always had a special attraction to married guys. I make it clear in my CL posting, "BAREBACK ONLY," and none of them ever mention rubbering up. I certainly never do. If a cock isn't bare, it doesn't fuck me. I never compromise about that!!!

Hungry Bottom here. Always looking for that next cock for my slutty fuckhole. Bareback only. No load refused. Also, very experienced at getting gangfucked and used as a cumdumpster by large groups at bareback breeding parties. I do felching, ass-2-mouth, rimming, load swallowing, piss play, to mentione just a few things, and of course, lots of fucking and breeding . . . it's all good!! Also into role play and public scenes, as well as taking pix, video, and online webcam pig sex. Especially interested in straight/married men and really favor Middle Eastern and Hispanic men. Total slutty pig here for all guys who need to fuck and breed a very receptive ass. Message me . . . I reply back to all.