I gotta say, I usually need to be into the guy for the equipment to work properly. Or else it just doesn't happen. But I've also come to realize that some guys just don't photograph well, or else can't manage to take a good picture of themselves. At least twice I've had guys on BBRT chase me and keep messaging me, but there was just something about their pics that wasn't doing it for me. I just didn't wanna take the chance as that situation is even more uncomfortable then.
With both of these guys I finally gave in to each on separate nights when I really needed to get off and there'd be no chance of equipment failure. And fuck me... they were both the hottest, horniest, perviest, sexy fucks I could have hoped to find. In both cases we played for hours. And then we met up to play a few more times afterwards.
But in both cases also, karma came back and bit me in the ass. After being pursued by both for a couple years, once I finally connected and found that I REALLY liked them, both ended up leaving town inside of three months after our first hot session.
And one other thing, they both ended up being really great guys. It was my loss and I still regret it.