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BlackDude

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  1. Since I’ve never met a gay man who won’t engage in sex (given the right person and situation), we will just have to agree to disagree.
  2. [think before following links] [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.irs.gov/newsroom/irs-announces-delay-for-implementation-of-600-reporting-threshold-for-third-party-payment-platforms-forms-1099-k [think before following links] https://www.cnbc.com/amp/select/irs-600-reporting-rule-delayed/ When most people discuss reporting and the IRS, they usually assume the reporting of income is the topic. However, Here is a link for your reference. Is this clear enough for you? Also, that “funding to enforce the law” could be used to secure our borders instead squeezing small businesses.
  3. You should take offense when someone lies to you. We have too many guys now lying about fucking and they need to be called out. Don’t create some new word to use as a buffer or screening for they guys you are too scared to tell you won’t have sex with them
  4. My unpopular advice is do you and follow your instincts. You will thank yourself later. There is no need to throw yourself headwind into the “gay community” if you don’t want to. I agree, being gay doesn’t have to be an entire lifestyle choice if you don’t want it to be. It’s just sex. And ignore the lesbian. She’s not a man nor is she into men, therefore she has not clue on the expectations of masculinity or can make a judgment on it.
  5. Not saying this is the OP, but my two cents on some guys who are overly picky. Sometimes being overly picky is a form of narcissism and attention seeking (which usually go hand and hand) It’s not the act of sex they want, but the act of rejecting or dismissing someone that them gets off. Tuning men down gives them a false sense of superiority.
  6. That’s an awful story, but common. Unfortunately, many gays are on the eternal quest for “something hotter,” so friendship, honesty and loyalty don’t factor in. One thing I’ve learned as a gay, is you have to be emotionally guarded, have tough skin and most of all, be able to fully turn the page quickly. That still doesn’t mean it doesn’t hurt like hell sometimes.
  7. That was a great history lesson, but doesn’t negate any of the other remedies. The Dems will always blame “civics” on why they can’t change the status quo. When Biden added hundreds of IRS agents, changed reporting requirements to $600 and added funding to incorporate the use of AI in tax audits, we didn’t hear anything about civics and elections. And alot of their civics excuses are not in the constitution, They are just procedural rules. Dems see themselves as a D.C. social club, with no clue, or intent, to help the citizens of Florida
  8. No, I meant exactly what I said. The Dems are doing nothing. And everytime they are called out on it, we get the same Schoolhouse Rock/Civics nonsense. As if they don’t have every seat, the presidency, and all members of the SCOTUS, they are handcuffed. Politics is just the allocation of resources, and there are several strategies they could use, even without a “supermajority” 1. Leverage- If you do this, we won’t do that, etc. See the Tea Party 2. Executive Order 3. Bureaucracy-Money may be allocated by congress, but it’s at the department level that decides where money goes. They could simply squeeze Florida and maldistibute the resources 4. State Level- When there were anti-LGBT laws, many governors got together and decided to restrict some commerce to those states. California in particular. They could do the same for Florida. Truth is, Dems may claim they don’t like what’s going on in Florida, but not enough to do anything about it that offends the “casual” racists and bigots they hope to secure votes from. While the republicans want to reverse time, Dems want to freeze time in place and put you in a perpetual hamster wheel. Even when Obama got EVERYTHING he wanted from voters, they still said “he can’t do anything that harms his re-election.” You cannot reverse time, or freeze it. Both are unnatural, and impossible.
  9. There is deep, anti-black colorism and racism in Latin culture. And this includes Cuba. An quick YouTube or google search will show numerous Afro-Latinos lamenting this. Many of these people bring racist attitudes with them from their countries. In Florida, we see this playing out.
  10. And the Democrats aren’t doing a thing about it.
  11. From my experience, most Cubans tilt Republican for social reason more so than political or financial. Although both parties are problematic on issues of race, DeSantis anti-black policies appeal to a large number them. They feel the key to political and financial success is not Justice, but proximity to whiteness. Italians, like DeSantis, were grandfathered into whiteness in this country. Unfortunately, many Latinos want to mimic this strategy
  12. Words have legal meanings, and social meanings. The term immigration is being used to cause social confusion, to make the people at the border comparative to legal immigrants. The logic that everyone is an immigrant except native people is a bad faith argument, and ignore the fact many of those people made deals to GIVE their land away. As to your point about the USA controlling their governments, the people of those countries also share responsibility. These people are coming here for economic reasons, not political reasons. Which is fine, I believe they need to go through the process and US citizens should not have to pay for the free benefits of non citizens.
  13. The CumUnion party is my city Is a disgrace to the name. The club promotes it to bring guys out, but it’s the same guys standing around waiting on perfection. Very little fucking. And when guys do fuck, people gathering around giggling and pointing like a bunch of school girls.
  14. You really hate cuddling and guys who don’t fuck. Almost as much as I hate the trend of these faux bi-sexual/gay-straight men.
  15. Actually, a factual statement, and nothing racial about what I said. I simply called out the fallacy and deliberate dishonesty of comparing those at the border to legal immigrants and citizens.
  16. I did not immigrate here. There was no United States when my people came. You cannot immigrate to a country before it is established. Everyone in the US is not an immigrant. That logic is ridiculous. Are the Arabs in Egypt immigrants because they weren’t the original inhabitants? Are the Afro Latinos who don’t have Native American Roots immigrants?
  17. I don’t understand why we are referring to these people as immigrants. They did not go through an immigration process.
  18. Power is not inclusive, but exclusive. The more me you invite under the LGBTQ+ umbrella, the more the message will be diluted and resources will be redirected. The very law of nature is that diluting weakens. Unfortunately, gay men have this recent obsession (led by Gen X) with classifying gay men as everything but gay. While this may be sexually and psychologically gratifying, it is absolutely political suicide. Gay men need to have a specific agenda and code, and only allow those who push the agenda guests to represent. All other must be called out and discredited. While I have my issues with the “gay community,” that’s my two cents in the topic.
  19. Are we to assume that republicans and gays are two different things?
  20. I agree with mostly what you said. If you don’t like your doctor, get another. You can always ask for an LGBT friendly doctor or nurse. My only quibbles are: 1. Some people may not have adequate healthcare for one reason or another. 2. A doctor wouldn’t dare lecture a woman or straight male about promiscuity. Facts are facts, but somehow we have been brainwashed into thinking men having sex is bad.
  21. Grindr can’t be vs. racism. The people I referred to in my post find safe harbor and validation on the Grindr app. So of course the app is racist and directs resources to racist of gays.
  22. Racism isn’t just about what you do to people, it’s often about what you won’t do. Many of the people who practice preferences really want to participate in racism. Unfortunately for them, alot of them have no power or resources to deny black people anything tangible in the real world. The only currency they have is Whitness in a community that values it above all else. Many of these men need someone to feel superior to, so they get a psychological benefit of denying black men of their whitness sexually and/or socially. It makes them feel empowered. We all see it in a regular basis: men who go through almost comical lengths to show their not having sex with black men, or even convince others not too, And unfortunately, we have so many black men in the gay community so desperate for interracial access, these men get plenty of practice inflating their own fragile egos.
  23. Then two decades from now, they’ll be wagging their finger at black people, telling them they just need “work harder” and telling us tall tales about how the came over here with $8 and made something from nothing.
  24. My advice would be to stake the place out a few times and get the lay of the land and the guys who frequent. Is their security? What’s their patrol time? Where are the cameras? Who is near on the sex apps? What does their profiles say? Is the place to busy for it to be worth it? If questioned, do you have a reason to be there? Do you look like you belong? Who come daily, or stays long periods of time (this usually means they’re picky and not getting off)? Do you have time to stop before anyone approaches or comes in? Who do u see there you know is fucking? Did this guy come alone or is their a family or GF waiting? All this stuff needs to come into consideration for your safety and enjoyment.
  25. I’m kind of hairy myself and always loved hairy men. But I’ve definitely have some fun with some twinks
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