BlackDude
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So there are two guys. Both equally attractive and take loads. I see them out and about. One has a good job, intelligent, kinda picky, very handsome. Great body. Says all the right things, feels good, kisses good. He invites me over. But for some reason my dick just won’t respond. I want to be into him but my mind won’t let me. My body feels good, but my hormones don’t respond. The other guy is an unashamed slut. Hot as well, but straight out the gutter and bad news. Takes loads in front of anyone. I’m almost sure he gave me an STD once. And when I see him, I feel like my dick is going to explode it’s so hard. I fuck him for a minute, I start cumming. Just typing this now has me horny. Why? There is nothing wrong with the first guy. Usually I’m very logical and rational. But when it come to sex, I guess the body wants what it wants.
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I agree. Soccer players are always the best looking athletes. I don’t think I’d survive in some of these other countries.
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Well honesty is always best. Especially if it’s going to be a long term relationship, even if it’s just sexual. Although, that could have been his way of breaking things off, and you gave him the out he was looking for. If he’s already married, best for both of you to not get too attached.
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Not bring politics into the answer …. Your not allowed!
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I’m not going to give all the blame to the white guys. Unfortunately many Latinos, and most Asians have the same energy toward black guys.
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Well I didn’t say all, just certain guys. Being black for a long time, I see people actions toward other black people. 60% of non black gays will not sleep with another black guy. And that’s okay. Black guys in general need to stop begging for interracial sexual access. We waste too much time and resources. As far as comparing “white only” to other preferences, all of those are usually negotiable, except race. For certain guys, the number one criteria is to be white. Weight, age, fem/masc is evaluated on a case by case basis. NO ONE in the gay community is turning down hoards of white guys. And the number of black guys who turn down white guys is negligible. They few that do, usually have a strong fetish for Latino men.
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That’s a battle not worth fighting. I understand certain people get psychological benefits from only having sex with white or white identifying men. That’s like asking a peacock not to show its feathers. It’s core to their identity. What they need to understand is that certain responses online may have legal or even physical consequences in the real world.
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Incoming non PC rant coming: This summer was one of the best summers ever. With the pandemic dying down, guys were out and horny. This large oasis in the middle of the city became cruising central. On any given night, 20-30 guys would be there, most fucking, sucking or on there way to doing so. Guys were giving in to there most carnal desires right there in the woods. After a few months, the homeless people stated creeping in. The cruisers and the homeless mostly stayed out of each other’s way. Neither was a public nuisance since the park was large enough and wooded so no one could see what was going on within. Then one day, the cops decided to do a sweep and arrest all the cruisers. They homeless, who were trashing the place, trafficking and doing every drug in the book, were left alone. Fortunately, I wasn’t there with this happened and I’m an extremely caution cruiser. I still don’t understand why cruisers are being targeted for “loitering” when they are allowing the homeless to run amuck. Well, it was fun while it lasted.
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While I’m more into masculine men, I appreciate a faggot. They know who they are, and there is no games. Kind of refreshing. I was recently out on the prowl, and this twinkish fag showed. All it took was some eye contact, and he had his pants off, and was blowing my dick in preparation for breeding him. No pulling out, no “asking for a break,” no pretending like he wasn’t there to fuck when he was, no “I can’t cum because I have to fuck my wife/GF/BF” later. None of the BS moralizing “clutching my pearls” at another gay guy approaching you. Just two guys getting what they want
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I don’t think that offends reasonable people. You do have some guys who may be offended because they rely on validation of white men, but normal guys with there self esteem in tact just keep it moving. What “offends” people is when you let your feeling in the bedroom determine how you treat people in the real world, especially in a professional or business environment.
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Location and hotel is important. If your too far out from city center or somewhere way off the freeway, I think that could make a difference. I also went over to this Cumdump party late night. When I got to this seedy motel, the front entrance had a lock so you couldn’t drive in without a guest pass.
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I just did this yesterday at a place I affectionately nicknamed “Animal Planet.” It a large preserve/park in town and guys go there and put on a show, especially in evenings and at night. There’s so much open raw fucking and sucking there, it’s like like a dream. This guy showed up shirtless with a jock strap And within 10 minutes, we were tag teaming him behind a tree in broad daylight. Weirdly, it felt so liberating. I know it’s too good to be true and one day it will all be over, but for now, I’m enjoying it!
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Very tactful way of putting it. I think sometimes gay men hold on to “hope” a little to long.
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Man I usually agree with you, but I just believe most guys are fucking someone. Even if they are holding out for their unicorn.
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Interesting I never even heard of that song. Guess I’m getting old!
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I love cuddling, but I depends on the guy. All that’s discussed before hand. But these “cuddle parties” are bs. They’re basically guys scouting for guys they will hit up later to fuck. As I say, after a certain age, never believe a guy who says he’s not fucking. He’s just not fucking you.
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Guys already know if they want to fuck or not. Don’t allow him to play games just to boost his ego. They’re are alot of guys into gay baiting, especially at work. They know they can get certain guys to do certain things for them with a little flirting. If he’s married, and your being clingy, he will eventually make the calculation that spending ti w with you isn’t worth his marriage. If you want to fuck, be upfront. If he says yes, enjoy the time and let him decide how far he wants to take it. If not, fine, move on and let him enjoy his wife.
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Maybe I’m crazy, but can you tell if a guy has a big dick? Is this some kind of instinct? I think there is just a certain swag or confidence a guy has where I think “yeah he’s got a big dick.” Usually I’m right.
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This is why you never make a nurse a fuck buddy. Their job is the ultimate excuse and they can never coordinate unless it’s on their time. There forever working yet somehow on Grindr perpetually.
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Some of it was an exaggeration. Some of it was real. It was meant to covey a sentiment that “sex was hard, calculated and difficult”
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Most of us Gen Xers were lied to. I know I was I was told all the action was “online now” I was told you had to have chemistry with a guy before fucking I was told I had to look like an underwear model Personally, I was told I should settle for being the “black friend” I was told being A-Sexual was a thing I was told I should wait til a guy was past his prime I was told I should suppress my sexual desires to make straight people comfortable. I was told friends don’t fuck I was laughed at for cruising I was told Treasure Island was fantasy I was told _____ guys just don’t like black men I was told by mediocre guys i should be Greatful for their presence Then this summer came. And I seen you young men were friendly. And most importantly fucking. Out in the open, raw, uninhibited. Big, short, tall, fat, fit and all. No chit chat. No games. No oral only.” No “saving it for later.” No pretend girlfriend at home. Just raw breeding. You know what you want and you go for it. Shamelessly. You’ve reassured me everything I thought was true is. And I’ve had a blast doing it. Thank You.
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I enjoy the chase. I love cruising, the mystery, The Who’s doing what. But I’m not letting cock blockers off the hook. I really believe it’s as simple as: A. I’m not fucking and I feel bad about it, so your not going to fuck either. B. I hate ______ so I don’t want them fucking. Take The Rock for an instance. I’ve seen a guy sit in the cruising area with a large cup of coffee, with the full intent of letting people know there would be no fucking today. I’ve seen guys keep their high beams on the wooded areas, to shine light on and discourage cruisers. I’ve seen guys at the bar filibuster, while keeping an eye on you to make sure you’re not fucking.
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Preach. I’d say it’s about 40/60 leading toward white guys who don’t like black men. It’s cool, I wish they’d just have the balls to say it. Although, I found out the more mediocre the guy, the more he hates black men. They think their whiteness alone is currency. And it’s validated everyday by gays. I agree, Most white European guys are fucking from my experience. They only thing I would dispute is POC. I don’t include black people in that because blacks people are the only people who can’t be classified as white. They can go back and forth, we cant. Latino men are about 25/25/50. 25% will fuck you, 25% will fuck you until there is a white gut available, and the other half are white or white-Latino exclusively. Problem is some black guys are so desperate for some “exotic sex” they’ll do anything including lie about their experiences. I have NEVER been with an Asian man, not been approached by one. I don’t even see them with each other. They seem to be exclusively into white men As a black man, you find very quickly this “accepting” community is no better, probably worse when it comes to race. They gay community is 50-60 years behind. I’ve also had successful/good looking white men tell me that the whole whorship thing is a turnoff. They want a regular guy with confidence who is real, not some guy begging for validation or acceptance. That’s my two cents though.
