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I agree with mostly what you said. If you don’t like your doctor, get another. You can always ask for an LGBT friendly doctor or nurse. My only quibbles are: 1. Some people may not have adequate healthcare for one reason or another. 2. A doctor wouldn’t dare lecture a woman or straight male about promiscuity. Facts are facts, but somehow we have been brainwashed into thinking men having sex is bad.
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Grindr can’t be vs. racism. The people I referred to in my post find safe harbor and validation on the Grindr app. So of course the app is racist and directs resources to racist of gays.
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Racism isn’t just about what you do to people, it’s often about what you won’t do. Many of the people who practice preferences really want to participate in racism. Unfortunately for them, alot of them have no power or resources to deny black people anything tangible in the real world. The only currency they have is Whitness in a community that values it above all else. Many of these men need someone to feel superior to, so they get a psychological benefit of denying black men of their whitness sexually and/or socially. It makes them feel empowered. We all see it in a regular basis: men who go through almost comical lengths to show their not having sex with black men, or even convince others not too, And unfortunately, we have so many black men in the gay community so desperate for interracial access, these men get plenty of practice inflating their own fragile egos.
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Who pays for all the new immigrants on the southern border?
BlackDude replied to hntnhole's topic in LGBT Politics
Then two decades from now, they’ll be wagging their finger at black people, telling them they just need “work harder” and telling us tall tales about how the came over here with $8 and made something from nothing. -
My advice would be to stake the place out a few times and get the lay of the land and the guys who frequent. Is their security? What’s their patrol time? Where are the cameras? Who is near on the sex apps? What does their profiles say? Is the place to busy for it to be worth it? If questioned, do you have a reason to be there? Do you look like you belong? Who come daily, or stays long periods of time (this usually means they’re picky and not getting off)? Do you have time to stop before anyone approaches or comes in? Who do u see there you know is fucking? Did this guy come alone or is their a family or GF waiting? All this stuff needs to come into consideration for your safety and enjoyment.
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I’m kind of hairy myself and always loved hairy men. But I’ve definitely have some fun with some twinks
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The problem is a lot of these folks themselves are lying. Most of these “paragons of moral virtue” and doing the same the things in private they denounce publicly. Babies, STDs and they like don’t come out of nowhere. People are fucking. The world has just conditioned a lot of us to feel shame about it and lie about sex. Women lie about sex for sympathy, especially a lot single mothers. Instead of telling everyone about their sexcapeds, they tell us they just happens to get pregnant the one time they’ve ever had sex with a guy who promised to marry them. A lot of gay men envy and want to emulate these women, so they patten this behavior. We also have a lot of guys who just have low self esteem, and just play this mind game with themselves that they aren’t looking for sex. There is ask a generation of feminist who have told the world no man should be allowed to cum unless their is some woman who is extracting resources from it.
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1. An adult manner? 2. Your original question included a racial component. 3. If you have a specific group who sexual ideology basically says, “if you’re not fucking, go away unless your white” some people may get offended.
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Here’s your receipts. Oh, and Google : [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.axios.com/2022/03/10/rise-white-nationalist-hispanics-latinos [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.nytimes.com/2014/05/22/upshot/more-hispanics-declaring-themselves-white.html [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.kuow.org/stories/this-is-how-the-white-population-is-actually-changing-based-on-new-census-data [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.jstor.org/stable/10.5149/9780807877876_behnken I don’t really need to address the colonization issue, because as we’ve seen with the recent coronation in the UK, pictures and video are worth 1,000 words. Many of these commonwealth nations will not amend their constitutions to separate themselves from the commonwealth. These folks don’t want to fight white supremacy. They just want to improve their position within it.
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So someone decided to post some partial identifying information about me in a Gay site online. Part of me wants to confront the two “suspects.” They other part doesn’t care because I could always deny it. Again, I try to be very careful out and about, so I don’t know how much more this person knows about me. I tried to flag the comment, and report with little to no results. And idea of where to go from here? Has this happened to anyone before? Never ceases to amaze me how goofy and immature some guys can be.
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How can you advocate for a group if you don’t first acknowledge its existence?
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Straight guys being gay under given circumstances?
BlackDude replied to MoonDreamer's topic in General Discussion
Never understood gay mens’ obsession with other gay men who won’t call themselves gay… So much to unpack….. -
Honestly do Scruff and Grindr need a white only hashtag? I mean that is the default…
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Have any of you worked at a adult bookstore?
BlackDude replied to JezzabellaCD's topic in General Discussion
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Ron DeSantis specializes in performative extremism due to his lack of charisma. He has no original ideas, and most of his policies shot down at the court level. He barley beat Andrew Gilliam for the governors seat, who was a dumpster fire as a candidate. Those antics may fly in Florida were alot of the electorate are these self hating, anti-black immigrants, but you can’t run a county being against everything. Also, real recognize real. If Trump runs, Desantis is finished. He won’t survive one debate.
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1. Abolitionist also benefited from slavery and white supremacy. Many didn’t care about the issue at all, it was something they could make money off off (similar to the relationship the feminist and LGBT community has with blacks). 2. This isn’t a teaching issue. There are to types of people: those who want to end white supremacy and racism and this who want to find comfort in it. 3. Even those “poor dirt farmers” were allowed to own land, given property rights, and will it to their heirs. Land that was not there’s indigenously. Regardless of how it was acquired, they were not just ants blindly going through the world waiting to be crushed. They were given a choice of hoe and where to live, and may have found comfort in the political climate of the region. 4. When other groups are harmed, we hold groups responsible: nations, religions, political bodies, etc. When blacks people are harmed, people want to parse out blame to individuals.
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And this brings us back to Desantis, who’s using the same strategy LBJ laid out years ago: tell white Americans they are they greatest success story in the history of civilization, and they had no help, as a means to justify keeping all power and resources in the hands of white society.
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Yet that is the very essence of white supremacy.
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I agree with 90% of what you said. But it wasn’t just the ancestors who benefited. Those ill gotten resources didn’t disappear. They were used to create institutions and systems which are still present today. Those resources are used to empower and incentivize those to keep those systems and institutions in place today. Unfortunately, the benefits for whites are often additional resources passed down, while the resources for black and non-black “POC” are usually only symbolic or psychological.
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Two more points about Lincoln: he is also quoted as saying he vowed the superior position as being “assigned.” Not through capitalism, morality or productivity. He also had a well documented plan to send all the freedman to Panama. Im not going to even go into his own suspected lineage. He was no friend to black society.
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Are the so called "bugchasers" actually having sex?
BlackDude replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I think this was more popular before prep, because guys wanted to not “worry” about catching HIV. In their eyes, they could now freely. But I think wad very few. Mostly, I think I was just a bunch of guys fantasies about ja I g some sort of dangerous, sketchy sex -
I prefer to go right in. Sliding takes along time. Especially if people are waiting.
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I think it’s up to you. Personally I like hairy, and I myself don’t shave. But like you said it’s 50/50. A big part of sex is you being comfortable and confident. Also, you have to be realistic. Sometime certain looks don’t fit us, no matter how hard we try to force it. If you force it, it’s going to be in the back of your mind.
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People who are continuing the legacy of white supremacy in ideology and in practice should be ashamed. However, a person is responsible for their own feelings.
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1. We learned in South Africa power is not in numbers, it’s it economics. White people don’t have to be a majority. 2. Most “POC” can be classified as white, and many choose to be. Black people are the only people who can’t be classified as white. That’s why many black people differentiate between POC and black, because doing something for POC oftentimes does nothing for black people. 3. Bi-racial people are considered black in America culturally. That’s not what I say, that’s what white society has decided. Society operates along cultural lines, not genealogy. 4. Nothing will happen in 2044. America will resemble South Africa politically and economically (and the LGBT community culturally): white peoples on top with majority of the resources, POC serving as a buffer class with some benefits, and black people on the bottom. 5. If you don’t want to feel ashamed because white people owned slaves, you don’t have to. Hell, I’m not ashamed when a black person commits a crime in Chicago.