Yes

from experience: don't schedule a dentist appt the following day because they look in your mouth, eyes go wide as saucers and they ask "*what happened to you?? are you ok??*". in my case they put it together a moment later so didn't really have to explain but makes for an awkward start to the visit.

Guys, I have the stupidest problem ever. when covid started I felt compelled to follow all the rules very closely. Just my personal decision. So I did social distancing, kind of went off on my own for the most part, and closed the cock service station. I thought it would be short term. But then I just I dunno got used to it and feeling kinda down, never got back in the swing of things, and now it has been almost 3.5 years since I had any load!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it has not been required for covid reasons for a long time but I am still living that way. I'm really hungry for cock like you can imagine. And I want to suck and get my throat fucked and worship balls and take anything in my holes. I feel that I am gd out of practice I won't be good at it any more and will just be a timewaster for a top. I tried putting dildos in my throat and it was so tight. A couple of times I have triggered my gag reflex brushing my teeth! wtf that never happened to me before. Before all this I could swallow cock til their balls press against me. A top could stroke in me like a fleshlight. I could massage him with my throat. Felt so satisfying to be receptive in this way. With a good top that I trust I could really submit and just let him control everything. A top who I trust to let me breathe, eventually, would have the best access to my throat. You know like some tops will go as long as possible in the throat every time till the body starts to fight back. (Of course he can use my holes however he wants. I am always grateful for the chance to make a top feel good, cum, etc and I dig a range of scenes.). But in that case my breathing and how much longer can I do it til I need to stop things is always in the front of mind so attention is divided. And I think I would last a shorter time mostly, even though he is trying to go as long as possible; and sometimes it would end up I would make him stop in the wrong moment because I wouldn't be reading him as carefully. If on the other hand, I know he will let me breathe eventually I would be able give over to his desire and just put all my mind on reading his cues and adjusting my position to be receptive and reacting to his movements to enhance for him. And He can ride his pleasure and allow me to breathe when it suits his rhythm. ... well I didn't expect to write all that... got carried away in fantasy/memories. I know all of cocksucking isn't in the throat and some cocksuckers I guess don't even use their throats? It has always been key to me. I don't demand it if the top is not interested ofc but many of them are. Now I feel like my body in general will not be able to be receptive. I am so disconnected. It is not just throating/sucking but that is the worst part. I dunno if anyone has every been in this situation. It is the opposite of what the whole forum is about I know. 😕 I need to get opened back up but I don't want to give someone substandard service. I feel that I would be wasting a guy's time to hook up. I am like trapped in my mind here how do I get out so I can be available to service men and swallow loads??? Please someone give me a pep talk, or kick my ass, or take one for the team by letting me give you a shitty blow job.

So nice to hear of others who had similar experiences to me and know what I'm on about. @Sub-Cocksucker love your avatar I have the source image and actually printed it and framed it many years ago. I wonder what is the source? Do you know by some chance?

guys, I fucking miss craigslist m4m. I know it has been gone a long time now, apparently killed by sesta-fosta (though they were pretty quick on letting the hammer fall... I have always wondered what is the real story). m4m was so great for me because it was pursued by a wide range of people unlike the apps that all have their little "niche". you didn't need to install anything or even make an account to answer postings, you could just visit the page whenever you felt like it. I think a lot of people would check it once in a while giving it a way huger reach. craigslist was famous of course. there is no hookup app that soooo many people know about. and you have to install apps, which sucks. with m4m there was no tracking, no ads, no premium features for sale. I loved making postings because I could say what I wanted NOW or THIS WEEK instead of making a profile that is more general. Or if you were looking for something very specific that requires a very special person to fulfill (like sometimes I am) you can put up a posting with a lot of keywords and people who search for those things will email you over the next month or 2 til it expired. But you don't need to be constantly running some app on your phone for that. And if you want you can put up more than 1 at the same time. And of course you can also put up a general posting for yourself of what you are generally looking for, people will also message you for a while afterwards depending how you construct it. They were so free form; you could put a lot of pictures or none; a lot of words or none. Apps are mostly encouraging lots of pictures, not much words. and maybe fill their fields like "height" "race" etc. Email responses tended to be more focused and as a person who doesn't like chat pals, the tedious small talk back and forth is avoided. People do not expect to be responded to right away when they send you a message. Unless you are trying to arrange something for today. basically every time I made a posting, if I made the time to monitor the email, I would find what I was looking for. Most times I got way more great responses than I even had time to chase up. Even if it was fairly specific I got at least some. and I met cool, diverse people there. Cool diverse people with beautiful hard cocks. Best kind. Postings. To me way better than chat. Sometimes I look in the old magazines and papers, read the classifieds and think, who might I respond to.... Anybody else? What do you guys think of cl m4m? Better off gone? Replaced by something better? Or like me does a stark white background with times new roman text make you a bit hot?

@SleazyCumPig it's good to know what you want! there are lots of tops who want to see how turned on you are getting when they are fucking you. I am jealous that you are verse; I think it's a limitation on me that I can't please guys by fucking them. Maybe one day I would have a a change of heart and learn to enjoy doing this enough to get through fucking someone with a rubber cock or my hand or something. Sometimes I feel so selfish that I just take from tops without giving back to the universe in this way!

I am a trans guy (ftm) and I have 2 holes down there and a glans that is a bit bigger than it was before I took T but still unambiguously a clit. For a long time I was sad because believe it or not all I wanted was to be in a cage like youse all have been posting. (the grass is always greener!) Without going into all the anatomy details, "chastity" devices made for people with 2x cunts are a totally different situation and do not work the same way at all, and it's impossible to really get the same effect on this body. Because you cannot stop getting hard. I got a bunch of piercings hoping to figure out how to do something similar and even have a couple of small cock cages to see if I could wear them, but I could not do it comfortably. (duh. but I had to try.) Lately I have come to think of myself as having a built-in natural chastity OR I imagine that at some point in the past I was like some of the folks here fantasizing but I went and got myself modified to be as I am. So I am kind of building myself some head cannon about how my body came to be the way it is through my choice rather than circumstance. I hope it is not shitty of me to say that it makes me happy to read stuff like this: because honestly as a total bottom I have always felt very privileged to have the extra orifice. It gives me a bit of grief from top men who are not interested for whatever reason (that's their prerogative of course) and gay guys in gneeral who are hostile (some reasons I understand why too) but I never wanted to get rid of it. The only reason I ever thought of getting any surgical mods done was like I said, so I could be locked up. But it is great to have the extra fuckpocket and really if I could get more of them I would. I would have 10 holes to fuck if the option were available to me hahaha. For anyone interested in what it's like to be gay with this kind of body (which is different than being a str8/les chick): It's not just the fact of being able to take an extra guy (which is kind of awkward rly) that is why it's good. I think the #1 reason is that it is always ready 100% of the time. Doesn't matter what you ate, you never have to clean it, there are no hemorrhoids or other damage etc. If you are a kind of person who's agreeable to this kind of thing, there is seldom any real reason to refuse getting fucked and you can be fucked by surprise at any moment; you can be fucked in the middle of the night or the morning. I know some guys have a really good relationship with their digestion but personally I am not sure my body would ever allow my asscunt to get used with the freedom of my cuntcunt. other benefit, and this is just what I am told because I never was able to know for myself, is that it feels different to fuck them, so for the top it is fun. You can fuck one hole then just slip back to the other. Maybe someone who has fucked both would describe that? (But boy cunt is different than lady pussy because T makes everything more muscled but close enough.) Also you can feel what's in one hole through the other. So if you do have 2 guys they feel each other's cocks. You can use one hole to put a sensation on the cock in the other. Like you can put a vibrator in the front to make the asshole vibrate. You can rub the cock from the other hole. I want to get really good at being fisted so a man can stick his cock into my front hole and put his hand into my ass and grab my whole cunt from the inside and jerk himself off inside me. All that said, whenever I have a cock in my hand and the choice to guide it one place or the other, if it's just about my own pleasure I will send it to my ass 90% of the time. I think the feeling of getting assfucked is superior because it goes so much deeper inside, like you feel it way higher up your body, and the feeling of girth is so much more delightful in the sphincter. I already have what you are fantasizing about but it is still difficult for men to forget about! A lot of guys want to suck on my 1" glans, you pretty much have to go hunting for it because it's so small. I'd rather be like a no recip bottom kind of thing. I will let them if they really want because I want to please, but I really do not like the feeling. I just want to service their body. Maybe it's too much pressure for some guys. They want to shift the attention to someone else for a break. :) I feel that it is a lot of work to be a top and such a kindness they are doing. I wish I could have a cage on my clit even while being fucked. Sometimes I can stop myself and others from rubbing it. A lot of the time nobody even thinks about it. I really love it when a guy fucks me and he does not even make a pretense to suck me or rub me or warm up my holes or do anything else to me except aim his cock at what he wants and dive in. But sometimes there is a temptation to rub. I would love a man who is so selfish he stops me from jerking myself but so far I have been left to my own devices. I always regret it when I do it to myself; it is better to be focused only on him and his pleasure. Hope it's not rude to say that is really a glorious cock. :) I'm sure the tops can appreciate looking at it while riding you.

I'm sure some of you know about [think before following links] https://thephallicbrotherhood.com/ but if not have a look, I think youse might find kindred spirits there. I think all of this is really beautiful and I completely feel it in my bones. @FemBottomFinder I naturally always say thank you because I have real genuine gratitude when any man allows me to taste his cock and balls and to do so long enough that he would cum. Ever since I started out I just always knew it was right. I found that some guys find it kind of offputting, like they are really not into that kind of dynamic at all, especially immediately after they have cum. And I don't want to put my needs ahead of theirs, you know what I mean? So then I'm in a conundrum. I don't want to ruin something that was perfect by making him feel pressured to go along with how I want it. As a bottom in general I am trying to be more flexible in serving men who aren't exactly on the same vibe as I am, and accommodating them, not being demanding. But then on the other hand I feel so much the urge to thank him, sometimes profusely. What does everybody think? Always say Thank you? Or case by case?

@jeff238 - thank you for sharing your wisdom! actually dental tourism sounds like a great idea to me other than the fact that I don't travel much and I'm not even sure how to get all the way to mexico lol. I've had bad experiences with dentists in canada so I've got no reason to think they would be the best. @houbtmbtch - !!!!! I actually have a night guard and I LOVE using it for oral especially being throatfucked because it means everyone can really kind of relax and stop worrying about teeth. He can thrust into me the way it feels best and I can you know just make sure my throat is the right amount of open, no breathing/gagging at wrong moment, massage his cock while in me if he likes it and everything else that's nice. Vs same situation without guard where I am spending a lot of my limited brain power basically trying to make sure my mouth is open wide enough to stay out of his way. Especially these guys that like to move around a lot. I mostly have used it with this one top, he would fuck me so deeeeeep in my face, I think he found new holes in there. Can go in on angles that would normally be straight up hazards and can change approach at any time. By the end of a nice long session my throat has been fucked from like 180° and the top of it feels like a sock with absolutely no elastic left; totally busted in this completely pleasant way. Which sure can happen in any case but I find these guard things enable a kind of, idk, recklessness for the top to really just use it according to the hole that it is. If that's what is wanted... of course it can also be used for more active BJ or oral service to good effect. And whether for throating or BJs it lets the teeth area be used for a nice pressure, like a gum job as your describe. When I first figured this out I was searching on the internet trying to find out other people who were misusing dental tech like this and could not find anything. Is this A Thing that people do?? My major problem with this amazing thing is that I am not sure how to introduce this to new people. I tried a couple of times and I felt so awkward doing it. I'm like "OK trust me this is weird but it's worth it." but I felt so self conscious. I think it kind of gives the impression that I can't give good head on my own which I think it not the case and my, um, pride gets in the way there. Though seriously this tool enables things that are just not possible otherwise. Anyway there was one guy who seemed to get the joy of it but a couple of others seems to find it distracting so I ended up taking it off. Also, I know this may not be too much a concern for folks here but for some it might be: maybe it is kind of gross to be wearing the same one shared between lots of guys? Mine is a custom one from the dentist when I had insurance. I never really tried these pharmacy ones; do you swap them for every person? Will anybody ask? Sounds expensive if so. Looking online they are $1-40(and up)/each. I had a really cheap one once and it was unusable. Sorry for being so jazzed this is the first time I have ever heard anyone else who is aware of one of my favourite things in the whole world so that really made my day. Maybe someone here would be able to say something about this so I could get out of my head. I never used to be this shy before so very confused about how to deal with it. lololol

hi guys have not been here for a while but i know this is the place to ask this, um, nuts n bolts question. i have been out of circulation for a long time due to covid etc. but i would really like to go on with things. the thing that is keeping me from getting back into things is my teeth. i have couple of place in my mouth where fillings have fallen out or chipped off or something. so it is sharp in there, i feel with my tongue. i am broke and doubt there is a dentist in my imminent future. one time, years ago, i had something like this and this guy who was a great top with a beautiful big hard cock was fucking my throat. he was totally in charge of everything and really didn't want my input. he had a solid grip on my skull and neck against the bed. which is one of my favorite things in the world. but i wasn't able to hint him away from a chip i had in my teeth and he scraped his beautiful cock against it and it made a 2-3 inch open gash, which of course due to being so hard bled a lot. and he was really not impressed. i mean he kept fucking me but he was pretty angry i had done that. fair enough i would be too. so i do not know what to do. since my overall goal is to be pleasing, and most tops don't find cheese graters pleasing, i have been staying away. i have a pretty small mouth and med-lg cocks take all of it making it difficult, even if i am in control, to be sure i wouldn't hurt a guy unless he is perfectly still. and my preference tends to be towards guys who would be active. what do i do? input from POV of tops, bottoms, whatever.

breath control and subbing and all sorts of stuff are common all over the world. here is a classic write up of risks [think before following links] http://www.sasmtx.info/breath.html by jay wisean tbh I am not sure how alarmist it is. a lot of people do choking. like people who are otherwise vanilla straight etc.. i feel like the only time you hear about deaths is when it's autoerotic (solo). but you'd have to ask the coroner for numbers i guess. I love face/throat/breath/mouth stuff. hands around the neck, fingers in the mouth, hand over the mouth. and throat fucked so deep and long.

Hi guys! so hot reading about everyone's orgasms. Tell me more. Any men who take while fucking? Another guy inside you or a toy? I bought an aneros for my fav top because I heard they were great to wear while fucking but he was not interested. All he wanted to do was pound my holes. 😉 I'm trans to male.. I have the front hole cums like youse guys are thinking of so thought I would share that they are tres different from the buttgasms. It's great to have an extra hole of course (all the better to service with), but I would love to feel prostate sesations. Drives me nuts thinking that most people who have that thing are too afraid to give it any love at all. Sad! But also, even without the button I have had total anal orgasms. Not that the gspot etc are being stimulated from the other side. It's totally in my ass. It happens in the gut rather than the reproductve parts. Anal cums happen in the intestines and I feel them elsewhere as secondary. Writing this it occurs to me that "anal" it not the right word. Anus is a component but it's really the entire tube. Especially with hands or deep toys. Orgasm usually thought of as being or the autonomic nervous system, but maybe this is enteric? Maybe why the totally different sesations. I have lots more to say about this lol. Suffice to say that asshole cums are their very own special thing.

someone's thoughts: [think before following links] http://www.anus.org/SEX/jlube.html clove oil is numbing.. To mix any oil with water you would need an emulsifier or the oil will seperate. lecithin is commonly used in commercial/DIY and easily available; you'd have to work out a recipie. If you wanted clove without fucking around with oils you could isntead try a tincture. can buy, or make by soaking cloves in vodka or other high-proof booze for a couple weeks. not sure how the kick of liquor would work out tho... It is NOT possible to simply mix j lube just with oil instead of water.. I have tried. I have never found the microwave neccissary and it's a big mess. I fill the bottle about 1/4 or 1/3 full, put the powder in, shake to mix. then add half remaining water, shake, add the rest.

There is no real reason that you'd have to get rid of your dick or socially/permanently transition to female. If the medical system was motivated (which I doubt it is!) it seems plausible that you could take androgen blockers and supplement female hormones for the period before and during pregnancy. So a year or 2 max? And after if you want to breastfeed. You'd probably have some amount of permanent tits (unless you get them removed) but other than that the effects of being estrogen/progesterone/etc in such a context would all go away once your balls took over hormining your body again. And of course you could have all the changes of pregnancy like weight gain, risks like diabetes etc. The actual fertilization would have to be via IVF though so the fantasy of taking the fuck train to preggoville wouldn't be possible. Honestly I spent so long thinking about surgical, hormonal and other medicalized body modifications... eventually I reached the conclusion that everyone should have whatever they want. Gatekeeping based on who has a "legitimate" desire to have a certain organ is always a pointless project. If cis guys want uteri then let them have them. Anyone who wants my uterus is welcome to it. It's probably a bit fucked by now tho. But I'm sure there's lots of new trans guys who would be happy to donate their wombs to a good home. If cis guys started getting preggers themselves there might be a lot of good changes in the world.

thank your for clarifying. interesting system. not sure i have seen this anywhere else. did the site admin(s) make this up or is it a known practice that is just new to me? looks like it's working for the people who are here as there are many members who have been regular participants for quite a long time. curious about how ppl think this system impacts the traffic and content. as a new member it's kind of a barrier to participate. but sometimes barriers are good to raise the quality.

I can't figure out how to add a "reaction" to someone's comments. I can see those added by others. Is it because I'm a newer user?

Recently, I promised to deliver my body for use by a top at a certain time. 2 or 3 hours before I was to arrive I douched a few times as that usually does it. But on this day, it just wouldn't be clean. I did it again and again. Ended up using the shower. It was just a mess. I did it soooo many times. I was late leaving. And even when I went I was not very confident and therefor had a hard time submitting because I was thinking maybe I would leak water or shit or both. What do you do? Cancel? Tell them so they can decide? Be late? I'm sure there are things I could have done a day or two before that would have prevented this. But when you are in the actual situation, what is the etiquette? I hate cancelling at the last minute. Someone wanted to use me and I would like to please them.

I am a trans man and I can get actually pregnant. I have always been very, very careful about not doing so. If I did by mistake I'd have a termination 100% because who wants a fucking child? Not me. That is not sexy. But I do find the fantasy of it hot. Someone forcing a parasite inside you. It changes your body. I have thought about giving birth. I think it would be like the most incredible fisting scene. I have lately been wishing I had a post-birth cunt. My cunt is way too tight. If I had given birth I would have a looser, bigger front hole and I could do more with it. I want some way to mimic the experience. FYI for men who are not blessed with a cunt: uterine transplants are starting to be viable and trans women have been included in trials. It's medically plausible that any of you could get uterus put in within the decade if you were really, really motivated. (You have to find a compatible donor though--- apparently your mother stands a good chance.)

What is a "rough brush"? Is it a certain kind of brush or is it like "to brush roughly"? Anyway I will share my relevant experience. A year or two ago I saw some porns where people were fucking cunts (like actual cunts, not assholes— I have one but most people here don't) with toilet brushes and I thought that looked hot. The thought of shoving it in my ass definitely occurred also. I can really see the fantasy appeal of that. So I went and got a brand new one (cause I'm fancy like that ;) ) and got it into my cunt. I was wasted and extremely horny so the bleeding didn't stop me. It felt totally brutal and wrong/right and I was really getting off on the idea of ruining myself for no particular reason. The physical sensation wasn't anything much that I recall. It was very psychological. I did it hard for quite a while and then I had a giant mess to content with. The blood flicked all over the place every time the bristles sprang out of my hole. Had to wash everything on my bed. Fingerprints everywhere. Someone mentioned bleeding being like a period above. Well I've been fucked with a period lots of times and this was far and away the most blood I've seen. I'm pretty good at laundry but I actually just threw some bedding out after that. (Had to be very careful still because I didn't want anyone coming across the vile mess and calling the cops..) The next day I almost didn't want to finger myself because I thought I'd certainly have some gaping wounds that would eventually scab over and maybe get infected and I've have to figure out some excuse about just what the fuck happened when I went to the doctor. However it just felt a little rougher than usual. There were no obvious wounds. I don't really understand where all the blood was coming from. Must've been 1 million tiny abrasions. It was enough to spook me though and I haven't done it again. Since nothing really bad happened I'm glad I did it because otherwise it would have gnawed at me thinking about it. I wouldn't totally rule out doing it again on the off-chance someone ever brought it up. I don't know if that'll ever happen though as there is such a tiny overlap between tops who are brutal enough to want to do something like that and also sane enough that I'd trust them. I might try to get something with slightly softer bristles. But this is the joy of having a fuckhole that isn't part of the digestive system. If it gets a bit beaten up the risks are much lower. Having seen what happened to my cunt I don't think I'd risk my gut on it. However I really see the hotness in the fantasy. At the dollar store I saw a silicone bottle brush and I bought it but I haven't done anything at all with it yet so I don't know the effects. I also have lots of other thoughts (and and items) on this theme on a spectrum from safe to deadly.

If a guy doesn't do this I take him deep so my nose into his pubes or balls (depending on position). Wrap my arms around his thighs, ass or back to pull him even deeper. Especially guide his ass to thrust so it'll feel good for him. Move his hands to the back of my head so he knows not to feel shy in taking control. I can't even remember the last time I had access to a dick where it didn't spend at least some of the time stroking in my throat. Maybe when I was 14 or something. Even totally vanilla guys will avail themselves of that when given the chance.

I'd love to work with another bottom to take real good care of a top.

When I was younger I was taught that it's lazy to stay still when being fucked. Experience shows, tho, that moving too much, or at the wrong moments, is obnoxious and possibly dangerous, as mentioned above by various people. Still, sometimes I feel self conscious if I'm being very passive. I think he will find me unenthusiastic, or that I'm taking advantage of him by making him work too hard and not keeping up my end of it. (And I am the one who is meant to be servicing him, not the other way around.) In those moments I find a word or a guiding touch very reassuring. If uncertain I'll try moving the smallest little bit, to see the reaction. I try not to let my insecurities get in the way of things much. Most men do want me to move some of the time. Just have to pick the moment and cede control immediately when it has passed. Guys like feeling desired, and sometimes need to catch a breath, so a few strokes controlled by the bottom is part of good service. Others want me to bounce back or move in rhythm with them. These things I know because they start moving me with their hands or fingers and react well when I follow. But then they will get more aroused by whatever it was they wanted and they will take control right back. I absolutely love it when I can lie still and team a good pounding and be very confident that it's what is wanted. Some combination of trust and chemistry will get me there.

Too bad for that guy! Some gay trans guys only take it in the back. I have contemplated that, but I feel like I shouldn't stop anyone from using me how they want. So I probably never will. I thought maybe he was worried about knocking me up but weird not to just ask if I am on birth control or even have the required equipment... lots of trans guys have parts taken out. But maybe he has never had to deal with it and doesn't know. Or doesn't want to take any chances. Whatever I got his cum anyway. :-)

The other thing that comes to mind is how many medical studies about HIV transmission have been based on sero-discordant couples having barrier-free sex. I really think it would be difficult to get ethics approval for a study which was predicated on "grievous bodily harm". But who knows. There is no "justice" in the so called "criminal justice system". Mostly it matters how much power you have. What I don't really understand about this whole thread is how the fact that a video exists makes any difference whatsoever legally. It isn't possible to take a video of actual seroconversion. That's happens in the body. It's just a video of two people having sex and talking up a fantasy. it's not illegal to have a fantasy, no matter how uncomfortable it may be for someone else. If the other guy gets pozzed how will it be possible to trace it to this single event? And if it is possible, what difference does the video make? There's probably already a river of evidence in the form of messaging logs. And the impression I get from this forum is that lots of others are in that same situation. If folks are so concerned about this, I doubt the video makes any difference. Maybe it would be a good idea to consult legal advice. I know in Ontario a good place to start would be HIV & AIDS Legal Clinic Ontario [think before following links] https://www.halco.org/ but I dunno about elsewhere.

New record for me. Hope to beat it soon. Is it allowed to write 3 days' worth in one post? It all feels like one story to me. On Saturday I had planned to have a wild session with this guy I used to hook up with years ago. He was supposed to come over at 9pm and he said he was going to fuck my face and fist me and smack me around and generally dominate me, which I know he is capable of doing cause he did it before. I spent a long time getting my place ready as the house has been a bit chaotic recently with people moving and such. If someone is planning to be super rough I want to make sure a pile of books doesn't also fall on both of us or something in all the fun. I only really like intentional pain. Around 2pm I texted him to touch base as we had planned. He told me he was cancelling because he is too hung over. This is the second time he has done this since we "reconnected" recently. So I decided I'm not going to chase after this person anymore cause he seems not to want to actually fuck me, just chat about it. Not worth my time. Since my body and place were ready I decided to make the best of it and hopped online. A guy messaged me on an app looking to fuck. He told me he only wanted my throat. When he came over, we smoked a j and jumped on the bed. He started dicking me right down in my neck. He's really good at it. He held me tight with his thighs and hands so he had all the control of how deep he was, and whether I could breathe. He was talking dirty to me which I love, though it was sort of non sequiturs. I chose to take it to mean he was too turned on to care about making total sense. But who knows. He used a bunch of poppers and I had some too. He told me to take off my clothes which of course I did. Then he wanted to fuck my cunt and asshole. He fucked me nice; back and forth front and back. He came buckets in my mouth. He got hard again and we did more of the same and he came again. I really liked the way he did my mouth; his whole body on top of me. After he told me he had never fucked a trans guy or anyone else with a cunt before. Fooled me. (It's really easy.) He didn't seem terribly impressed with it. (Which is nice as sometimes guys spend too much time there due to the novelty; I prefer it in my ass.) I told him I want to service him again, then he took his leave. On Sunday I was otherwise occupied and had no time for fun. :( He messaged me on Monday wanting me again. But I already had someone coming over shortly, so I said if he wants me sloppy he can have that. So my friend came over to practice rope bondage etc. We both took our clothes off and I was standing in front of him as he was tying behind me. I was grinding my ass into him when I decided to just press him cock into my hole. Luckily he didn't mind me being so presumptuous and started fucking me. The harness he'd just tied to my chest let me throw my weigh in ways that would otherwise me unstable. But then he pushed me onto the bed and fucked my ass till he came. I cleaned him off and we were talking a bit. He told me to continue sucking his cock. I was trying to get him to control my breath more than he was comfortable with; I shouldn't have done that. Shouldn't top from the bottom like that and shouldn't try to cajole people into things. I will apologize for it. But he let me take him deep in my throat of my own accord. He wanted to fuck my cunt so I knelt ass up, legs wide at the side of the bed. He fucked me til he came again in my cunt. Then he left cause there was work in the morning. I texted the guy who said he'd come over after but he said it was too late for him. I tried to rebook for another day but he doesn't want to commit. Then an hour later he got back to me that he'd changed his mind. Could he come over right now? Yes of course. He again said he only wanted my mouth. This time he was true to his word and used so much poppers I was afraid he would fall over while I sucked on him alternating with facefucking. He came down my throat and was out within 20 minutes, to bed presumably. On Tuesday I met a guy I'd been chatting with for ages who's into a very calm, consenting Dom/sub dynamic. I went to his place. I was late because I was looking at a clock I hadn't changed for the DST change and then my ass just wouldn't get clean. He wanted to play anyway but had plans afterwards so it was quick. He has me strip for inspection then cuffed my hands behind me, kneel in front of him on couch and suck him. I didn't so my best job as I was a bit flustered from rushing over. He brought me to his bedroom and funcked my cunt with a condom then took it off to have my ass which is where he left his jizz. I am not sure why that is; I'll have to ask him another time. He finished pretty quick and then wanted to talk so I did for a while. Maybe I'll see him again.

I don't think this is necessarily the case. Here is somewhere to start to look up particular jurisdictions if you want to check where you are: [think before following links] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Criminal_transmission_of_HIV I searched for info from Canada because it's the system I am familiar enough with. Most of the legal shit up here has been surrounding disclosure of being poz before fucking. If someone knows they are poz and they are going to engage in a sex act that could reasonably transmit, do they have to tell the other person their status? That's as far as it goes. I've never heard anything that having discordant sex is illegal if it's consensual. "In 2012, the Supreme Court of Canada (SCC) held that the criminal law imposes a duty on a person to disclose HIV positive status before sexual activity that poses a “realistic possibility of transmission” so that the HIV negative sexual partner has the opportunity to choose whether to assume the risk of being infected with HIV." Fact Sheet – HIV Non-Disclosure and the Criminal Law. From: Department of Justice Canada [think before following links] https://www.canada.ca/en/department-justice/news/2017/12/fact_sheet_hiv_non-disclosureandthecriminallaw.html In context of OP question, I speculate, a video recorded of two clearly consenting people would be evidence of lots and lots of consent and would immunize the top against any later claims otherwise. My understanding of this is also related to laws about kink/BDSM as to what counts as "assault" under what circumstances. Here is a Wikipedia on the subject: [think before following links] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM_and_the_law I haven't read the whole page but I do know the UK does not allow someone to consent to physical injury and it's the closest to what you describe that I'm aware of. If there is a video, you may want to get a full copy for yourself immediately. Both for later viewing fun and in case there was a problem. There is no such thing as a private video on a computer or device connected to the internet. Many people have syncing turned on. There are breaches all the time so anything can end up online. But then technically the top (and possibly the bottom depending who but them up) would be the victim. But don't take my word for any of it. I'm just some jackass on the internet.