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UpstateNYexplorer

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  1. I think the word is used so often in gay culture now that it really holds no weight anymore. Gay people have just owned the word and took it back. Some people may not like to use it but the majority of men I've dealt with or chatted with have no issue doing so.
  2. You're really just describing how flaky a lot of these people are when it comes to hook up apps. I feel a lot of people are on there just to enjoy the fantasy and have no intentions of ever meeting someone. And then in the case you do finally find someone interested, Your interests have to compliment their interest, Who is gonna host, Where are you gonna meet and when. There's so much more that goes into actually hooking up online that ones you weed out all the fakes/flakes, you aren't left with a lot of options. I know guys that simply frequent bathhouses or adult stores just because it is so much easier to hook up there than deal with all this nonsense going on online.
  3. Fantasy is always going to trump reality because it allows us to meet the high expectations we crave to be met but often never are. I thinking toning down these expectations would help a lot as the disappointment of not having these expectations met just leaves you kind of empty inside.
  4. I tend to convince as I slowly start to fuck them. The hornier they get, the easier it is to break them down. I'll even make a show of pulling off the condom and rubbing my bare cock across their ass before putting it back in. Of course, They always say to pull out before you cum but that goes away as quickly as the condom does when we are both close to cumming. I've had many encounters that went from condoms to bareback breeding.
  5. Cares enough to wear a mask but not enough to stop himself from inviting a stranger into his home to breed him and then do ATM. I just don't get some people, I really don't.
  6. Always as deep as possible. Nothing is hotter than taking a load and slowly pushing it out of your well used ass.
  7. A4A suffers from a lot of greetings but not a lot of meetings. Like most apps, You deal with a lot of blank or vague profiles, pic collectors or guys who want the same thing that you are looking for but expect you to cave to meet their needs and not vice versa (such as a bottom hitting up another bottom). I deleted my profile on there a while ago because I grew tired of dealing with all the BS. Grindr suffers from the same issues but at least hook-ups on there are far more likely.
  8. If they cared, they wouldn't be raw fucking/breeding you. They're accepting the risk.
  9. This is pretty much me in a nutshell. I'm a bi vers so be it man or woman, top or bottom, I typically end up very satisfied.
  10. A favorite encounter of mine was when I stayed at a hotel during a trip to NYC. A few rooms down was a couple (man and woman) were vacationing with their kids and the husband was clearly just not having it at all. It looked like he didn't even want to be there, let alone around her for another minute. I caught him glancing at me in the pool and I would happily return the favor while trying to be as much of a tease as possible (slowly rubbing lotion on my thighs, making sure to bend over multiple times) and his gaze never once left me. By pure luck later in the afternoon, I got onto an elevator and he was there. I remarked that we stayed on the same floor and that I would leave my door unlocked at a certain time (I believe I said 8 or 9) and sure enough, He enters after a soft knock on the door. I'm already naked and ready, which seemed to have caught him by surprise as I don't think he did this kind of thing often. He made a mention that he has time because his wife went out with their kids and that he wanted to enjoy it. He immediately starts sucking me, licking my balls, eating my ass. He is just going wild at this point and I am enjoying every minute. He turned out to be a total bottom and he let me use his hole for a good hour and a half before we were both spent. He used my shower real quick to clean up and left without saying a word. I ran into him once again on the elevator with his family, he wouldn't even look in my direction but that night when I saw him at the bar, I mentioned that I was leaving tomorrow and offered him another round of fun. We grab a few drinks to go, I fucked him twice more and we left it at that.
  11. If I see someone labels themselves as a "no load refused" bottom and yet asks 20 questions, I just ignored them and end the conversation. I'll put in my profile on sites that we are all on here for the same thing, don't make it complicated. People who needlessly make it complicated are the ones I avoid.
  12. I tell everyone guy I suck that they have to have some foul cum in order for me to spit it out. To date, I've spit maybe 3 loads out.
  13. At least the man has some kind of standards lmao
  14. Bottles, plungers and probably a few other odds and ends. Now I have a dildo that suits me fine but when I was younger, I would stick anything in my ass to get off
  15. Anon sex is my preferred sex. Don't need your name, Let's cum and leave it at that.
  16. I kind of laugh if someone asks me because we still end up hooking up anyways. My go to response is typically: I am negative (truly am btw) but I could also be lying, much like you could be lying about your status.
  17. I understand it. Now if they were advertising themselves as a no load refused cum dump and said that then maybe I'd complain but other than that, It's natural to what to see what is being offered. The real challenge is knowing if what is shown is gonna match up to when you see it in real life.
  18. Just enjoy living in the moment and not worry about what others may think.
  19. First black cock I sucked was when I was cruising a restroom. They're always such a treat.
  20. If you're willing to take my cock raw, you'd better be willing to take my load cause you'll get it regardless. I expect the same from any guy that fucks me raw too.
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