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NEDenver

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  1. Thanks for the heads up. Can't wait.
  2. Pride weekend and I'm flying solo this time.  Going to go out and see how lucky I can be.

  3. I can throw this in: Undetectable = untransmissable, but while I test undetectable almost every time, if I am sick right before I get the test, sometimes my VL pops just above the threshold, 30 or so. So I'm especially careful with my partners right after I've recovered from the flu or the like. (COVID was weird. COVID killed my T Cells, but the blood test during and right after were both undetectable at the 20 copies level.
  4. I'd say the bigger challenge is that if you become positive, what medications are they thinking of using that wouldn't have Truvada as part?
  5. Sustiva gave me dreams, not the Truvada. The side effects from the Truvada portion of every medication I've had has been minimal. I had weird, intense dreams from Sustiva. Also, Sustiva made me almost instantly drowsy for the first two years I was on it. I got off Sustiva once the neuropathy was ruining my ability to play my brass instrument. Stribild and Genvoya gave me 40 additional pounds in 2 years. Biktarvy has been a lot of nothing to see here; haven't noticed much of anything. Basically, though, if you can't handle Truvada, what are they planning on treating you with if you become positive?
  6. I had hep a & b simultaneously about 20 years ago. It sucks, and took about 3 or 4 weeks to work itself out. The risk of it becoming chronic is in the 5-10% range. Mine was acute, and now I have the surface antibodies so pretty much done with that.
  7. That’s pretty much how it is for me. Even when I was using condoms, I always wanted the guy to put his load deep inside me. Now, it’s more straightforward and basically expected. When I was negative, I used to try to expel the load quickly. Now that I’m positive, I just hold the load in and think of our bond.
  8. Thanks. I’ll work on that once I get home and can transfer stuff to my computer.
  9. Is there a height/width ratio I should be looking at when I upload a profile picture? Every time I try to upload, the picture rotates 90 degrees. I tried rotating the picture myself, and it held the rotation, so I figure it’s the ratio forcing it.
  10. I haven’t had much of any real moments where being positive has had a physical medical effect. I have a bunch of negative moments based on social stigma. A lot of it would have been better with a better social support network. Took a long time to learn to be kinder to myself.
  11. Two weeks ago, found a hookup on bbrt. We started kissing and sucking with me getting his nice 7” cock hard. Eventually I rolled over so he could start working my ass. He went pretty quickly through that and put just a bit of lube on his dick, positioned me facing him at the edge of the bed. Then he slid in in one shot. Without a proper stretching and being my first ass play in two years and first fucking in 5, there was blood. It seemed to bother him a bit, but not enough to stop. He was done in 10 minutes or so, but it was a good hard fucking on my end, and he shot deep inside, which is my favorite place. I asked him to take a picture of my ass afterward; it was pretty bloody. At that point he seemed a bit freaked out so I left right after.
  12. If he goes in dry for me, I almost always bleed. If that’s going to freak the guy out, I'd prefer he lube things up and stretch me out properly. If it’s not going to freak him out, I can be game.
  13. When I’m bottoming, it’s most important that he cums. and ideally inside. However, if I can time my cumming to just prior to his, the strength of my orgasm makes his better. When topping, I like to make sure I take care of my partner’s needs. So I ask what he wants.
  14. I’m 53, been in a 10-year polyamorous relationship where my part became just about day to day survival. So, done with that. I suppose I’ll look for a solid new romantic partner as long as I also get to seek sexual satisfaction in and out of the relationship.
  15. I like he’s no longer President. I hate how he accelerated the GOP’s grand project of radicalizing formerly sane people. My idiot sister-in-law barely graduated from high school but thinks she’s more qualified than doctors who have spent their lives studying infectious diseases and public health policy.
  16. It’s not “bothering”. It’s an issue that seems to be recurring for you. A lot of the time, people don’t even realize it. But I’ll echo the people above: get on Prep at the very least , and seriously reconsider the current relationship for a healthier one.
  17. I disclose as soon as possible. Otherwise I feel like there’s a lot of wasted time and effort on both parts.
  18. Consent is a thing and when I top, I will stop and pull out when asked. I also ask when I’m close in case the bottom changes his mind. As a bottom, I can’t think of a time I wanted the load anywhere but deep inside.
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