PhoenixGeoff

Don't like it at all, either as a top or a bottom. Same reason I don't really care for effeminate men or the whole thing with panties. I'm attracted to men, not women. If I wanted to fuck a pussy, I'd be straight. If I wanted to have a pussy, I'd be trans. But I don't: I want to fuck and be fucked by men, and men don't have cunts or pussies. They have dicks and assholes. I'll also say this: some bottoms seem to think that there's something submissive about taking on feminine aspects. Maybe it's because I've had quite a few pretty strong women around me throughout my life, but that idea has always struck me as ridiculous. My impression of tops who go on and on about fucking some guy's "pussy" is that they're usually insecure about their own sexuality. To me, that's a sign of weakness, not strength or dominance, which is why it's such a turn-off.

I'm coming at this as someone who's pretty proactive about disclosing my status and I have to say that I don't agree with this analogy at all. What are the odds of any one workman having TB? Pretty slim. That's not something that I can reasonably foresee when I hire someone to come into my home. On the other hand, if I'm going out and having raw sex with guys who bareback routinely, there's a damn good chance that some of them are going to have HIV. That's just the way it is in the gay community these days: a sizable proportion of the sexually active men out there are infected. And as a result, I can reasonably foresee that some of them are going to be poz; it's just the nature of the game. If you're neg and you bareback, you absolutely know that you're going to run into guys who are poz along the way. You accept the risks you're comfortable with and you take your chances. If I don't have HIV and I choose to have bareback sex with strangers, whose decision is that? Mine. If I get drunk or high and go and hit the bath, whose choice is that? Mine. If my bipolar disorder is untreated, whose responsibility is that? Mine. I've personally been living with HIV for about eight years now. That was a direct result of choices I made: mostly taking loads from guys, no questions asked. Why are you trying to absolve me from responsibility for actions I chose to take?

You know, I've wanted to get a tattoo for years myself, and I've always had this exact same problem...I have no idea what would look good or what I want. I've always liked the tribal stuff but never went ahead with it because I've been hearing they're going out of style since the late '90s

Personally, I don't much get into dominance and submission scenarios. But the way I might look at it is that the sub is placing his health and perhaps his life in the hands of the master. It's a consensual transfer of power, where the sub agrees to follow the master's orders immediately and to the letter. But to me, that implies that the master is taking on responsibility for the welfare of the sub. (This is, incidentally, exactly why I don't like being dominant) So perhaps, in this case, knowing that this particular bottom is concerned about getting HIV, the proper question is not whether the sub should be able to refuse an order, but rather whether the order should have been given in the first place.

I understand the reasons for not knowing. But here's how I look at it: if I have HIV, I'll either discover it while I'm healthy enough to maintain it for decades, or I'll discover it in a few years time when I get sick, perhaps become permanently disabled or perhaps even die. Under which scenario do I get to go out and have much, MUCH more hot raw sex? It ain't the one where I'm six feet under....

I think that's a good thing (although it may account for the general overabundance of bottoms out there). Why is it that men are so much better at sucking cock than women? Because we know what feels good. I think that a guy who's been fucked a few times, even if he decides to never bottom again, makes a much better top. And yes, I was on the bottom too my first time. He was even my first online trick! I met a guy on a local gay BBS (this was around 1990 or so) and he took me to dinner and we went back to his place. I guess I was ahead of my time! Although these days we usually cut out the dinner part

I had a PA for a bit (took it out more or less permanently for a bf who didn't like it). Be prepared to go for a few weeks without so much as jacking off at first. Even getting a hardon hurt. IIRC, I first had sex about a month after I got the piercing. It still hurt a bit, but I really needed to get laid I never got an infection and haven't heard of anyone else getting one either. PAs actually heal fairly quickly because you're basically washing it every time you take a piss (your piss is sterile to you, as long as you don't have any STDs or a urinary tract infection). Once it heals, the sensation is fun. Like rawTOP says, even just pulling on it from your pocket is fun, and, especially at first, having it brush up against clothing will get things going. I loved having guys play with the piercing with their tongue while they were sucking my cock. And I enjoyed fucking guys with it in as well...more sensation for me and for them. The downside? Some bottoms do not like them at all. Sucking a cock with a big PA can be an unpleasant experience (I hate it when it hits a tooth). If you tend to be really like to fuck a guy's throat (instead of laying back and letting him do the work), you'll probably have to tone that down a bit (or not if that's your scene, but be prepared to clean up after your sub pukes...that did happen to me once when I got a little aggressive; it was very hot in the moment, but we pretty much had to stop there and clean up). As for fucking, I personally love getting fucked by a guy with a low gauge, heavy PA. I find that the bigger ones are easier to take and more pleasurable. The weight of the steel definitely adds to the sensation. But a lot of bottoms either can't take the piercing or will be scared of it. Higher gauge PAs hurt a bit because of their thinness...you're basically concentrating the power of your thrust into a small area, just like a knife does, so if you do fuck with one, you really need to take it easy (or just take it out). Personally, I'd say you should go for it. There aren't enough tops out there with pierced cocks and, like I said, getting fucked by a guy with a PA is an experience every bottom should have. You will have to go for a time without topping while it heals, but it's not too long and I think it's worth it.

Dark rooms that you typically find in the sleazier bars (the ones I tend to stick to) are a ton of fun, but you usually can see at least a little bit of who's around you. I've only found one or two in my life where the room is totally dark...where you can't even see your hand in front of your face. It's very disorienting, which adds to the excitement. Something about everyone being blind seems to heighten the animal instincts and completely kills the inhibitions. The total randomness of who's fucking who is hot...it's not that there's a sub who's not in control...there's no-one's in control of the scene.

1) Go get tested. Today. And then do it again and again as recommended by your clinic. Know your status and act accordingly. 2) Decide whether or not you can live with HIV. Do some research. Remember, it's nowhere near as bad as it was 20 years ago. If you decide you cannot live with HIV, then you have to stop barebacking. It's that simple. Most people with HIV do just fine (albeit with some extra expenses). If your health is generally good, if your medical coverage is good and specialists are available, if prescriptions for HIV meds are relatively affordable in your country, then you might be OK with taking some extra chances. You need to decide how much risk you can stand.

The problem with this is that a lot of guys don't really know their true status or worse, are misinformed. Guys don't get tested as often as they should. The test itself may give a false negative in the first few months after infection. Some men even lie about their status in order to get laid. You can't rely on the reports of strangers to prevent infection with HIV. I really love barebacking too. Really, REALLY love it. So much that I'm now HIV+, with no idea of who gave it to me (which is just how I like it). I didn't want HIV either, but barebacking was more important. My priorities (and no regrets!). But I did it with my eyes wide open.

I'm versatile, so perhaps I can give you a slightly different perspective. Very tough. I love both! But ultimately, I'd have to say I really, really love having a man's seed flooding deep into my ass. So far, I've never been satisfied with the number of loads fucked into me or the number of tops I've taken. Seems like the more cum I get, the more I want. But I love having that desire! In the right environments (baths, parks, anonymous scenes), zero (although always with a preference for getting fucked). I will gladly take any man's raw cock up my ass if he wants to fuck me. I have slightly better control in a bar or online, but I'm still very likely to have sex with the first guy who reaches an arrangement with me (if it's at all possible). If you want to breed me, move quickly! Because I'm versatile, I have a very close relationship with both my ass and my cock. Both bring me very great pleasure and (I hope) pleasure to others as well. The proof that it's not one or the other is that when I'm both fucking a guy and getting fucked at the same time, I'm often almost overwhelmed with how fucking amazing it feels in comparison to just topping or bottoming. All the fucking time. Right now, I'm stroking my cock and will probably shoot soon thanks to the hot guys on this site. Even if I'm only being a bottom, a lot of tops really appreciate me blowing a huge load as they wind down...I think it's a good way of showing just how much I loved the reaming and the cum I got! Both. Cock perhaps a little more, but only because it's more easily accessible. When I jack off I often play with my ass at the same time. Well, it did get me infected with HIV. But the way that I look at it, the worst that could possibly happen has already happened and I'm still here and enjoying life. So I figure I (mostly) have a free pass to go on barebacking with anyone and everyone who wants to fuck me. It's kind of hard to hide these things from my gay friends, especially when I'm prone to disappear from the bar with a random stranger for a half hour or so. Straight friends are mostly too clueless to get it. The load in my ass. Every time. I'm trying to imagine a scene that's hotter than getting fucked and bred by men I don't know, haven't talked to and never even seen. I'm drawing a blank. Anonymous is fucking awesome! Hmm...how about educating straight guys about how good it feels to fuck and breed a man's ass?

That may be true, but it isn't reality. Anyone who barebacks routinely and has multiple partners (which includes the vast majority of guys on this site) is going to convert sooner or later. The cumulative risk of hundreds or thousands of partners over the course of a lifetime is impossible to miss. So is barebacking automatically bad? Of course not! I, personally, chose to only have sex without condoms while I was still neg. But I did it knowing the likely result. And I blame nobody but myself for the fun I've had over the years or the consequences I've suffered as a result.

From what I understand, the risk to tops is about an order of magnitude lower than the risk to bottoms. Swallowing cum (assuming healthy gums, etc.) is almost (but not quite) risk free. For pretty much any sex act (including getting bred), the odds of contracting HIV in any one sex act are heavily stacked against infection. It's just the pigs like me who have sex with multiple partners routinely (plus a few unlucky ones) that are really at risk.

Make sure you post pics when you finally get that first raw cock buried in your hole, man!

More than that, I'd personally say that if you bareback, no matter what precautions you take (short of celibacy), it's not a matter of if you'll convert but when. And I'd also say that neg guys who bareback have no business at all getting upset with the man who happens to pass the virus along (assuming they even know who it is). You are responsible for assessing risks and benefits for your own health and well-being. Me, I understood that indiscriminately allowing all kinds of guys to fuck me raw and blow inside me meant that I'd convert sooner or later. I took that as the price to be paid for enjoying my sexuality to its fullest. And I'd gladly make the same decision again, any day!

Oh geez...a three-way? Let me think here...YES YES YES YES YES! (And yeah, I have no problem at all with being versatile either, just mentioned bottoming because you said you're a vers top in your profile—incidentally, everyone needs to check out the hot pics on Seth's profile!)

Damn Nakedcub! Why the hell aren't you sharing that fuckhole with the men who'd really appreciate it? Get that ass up to Denver and I'd love to dump a load or three in ya then haul you off to the bath. You've got some catching up to do!

Personally, I take it as a compliment when another guy wants to felch out some of the cum shot in my hole. Why wouldn't I be generous and share what I have with other pigs? I freely give away my own cum and piss after all. It's not as if any felcher will suck every last drop of cum out of me. Most of what I end up giving away would likely drip out of my hole in any case. Now, I personally love eating loads out of a freshly fucked ass. I personally think they taste even better than cum swallowed right from a cock. Maybe it would make you feel better if I told you that I always offer to share what I've taken back with the bottom.

and when and where can we get together to get you breeding my ass? (Denver here...seriously...contact me if you're interested!)

Had a couple friends over last night and hung with the bf. One of my friends ended up breeding me, I shot my load in the other. For various reasons, my bf and I didn't mess around too much last night, but we did make up for lost time today with him pounding my ass with his hot raw cock!

I do my best to disclose my status as early on as possible in my interaction with a potential fuck. Online, this means that my status is included in my profile. In the bars, I bring it up in conversation. My policy is that if I'm having sex with a guy who's HIV-, then he gets to decide which risks are acceptable and which aren't (although if he insists on either one of us using a condom, I'll walk away from the trick). I treat baths and other anonymous kinds of places for hooking up differently. If you're being promiscuous with multiple men you really don't know and fucking raw, then you've really already made your decision. So in that case, I won't actively volunteer my status, although if asked I do answer truthfully.

Hey there rawTOP, Thanks for the direction to StockyDudes.com. I have an application in with them so hopefully we can get something going. Amateur porn is great! Hell, I still love Michael McKey's original "Bareback: The Video," which was a kind of amateur porn (most of the models were not professionals but regular guys who happened to be pigs). I don't know if anyone out there is still doing this kind of work. If not, I'm kind of surprised, since if you can get the group chemistry right, some really hot sex can happen. I am working on getting some stuff put together for upload to Xtube or wherever. I'm Matt Taggert on Bear Films. Try not to be too harsh in any criticism...I've still only done a few of these (though I'd love to do more!) I'd also ask that you contact the company first before advertising the barebacking that I snuck in. They may have very good reasons not to highlight the lack of condoms (although I think it's pretty obvious at several points where I'm fucking the other guy), and I'd really hate to cause them any problems.

On the plus side: In general, guys who are poz tend to be a lot more fun than guys who are neg. Of course, that's because what makes them fun is what got them infected. But once you convert, you've got access to pretty much as much slutty guilt-free sex with poz guys as you like. It's also pretty much a complete license to never use condoms again. When I was neg, there was the little voice telling me that letting complete strangers breed my ass all the time probably wasn't too smart (I never listened to it...as a bottom, I craved guys unloading inside me, and as a top, I almost never could maintain a hardon with a condom). Once I converted, there was absolutely nothing at all restraining me from barebacking all the time (with the caveat that I'm open with potentially neg partners prior to sex so they can make an informed decision). I'm happy and healthy and completely free of the hysteria surrounding sex we've had to deal with since the mid-80s. The downside: Meds are expensive. I have to make sure I always have health insurance. Occasionally, the side effects get to me. A few people, even in the gay community, still to this day freak out when they learn you have HIV. And bug chasers (as opposed to guys who don't know and don't care about their status), I have learned, can be really fucking annoying, pressuring you to breed them at every turn.

So I'm a major exhibitionist. I really get off on the thought of guys watching me have sex. I really get off on them seeing with their own eyes how much of a sex-crazed pig I am. And so obviously, I'm drawn to being in porn. I did a few things for Bear Films, which was cool. I'm on a DVD from them and everything. They're a condom outfit, but they wanted me to top, and the rubber kept killing my hardon, so I got to fake it and fuck my bottoms raw (with their permission and full knowledge of my HIV status of course) But obviously, the place for me is in real bareback porn. And while I'm not obese, I've always had a certain amount of body fat, no matter what I've done. It's just my build. I'm way too old to be a twink and not ripped enough for a lot of the muscle bear and daddy outfits. I wouldn't mind doing amateur porn (often hotter than the pros, IMO, whose sex can sometimes seem rote and uninspired...amateurs are really into what they're doing), but I can't seem to find an outfit that would match me. I'm perfectly fine going vanilla or kinky or anywhere in between. Happy to bottom or top or both. And I'll fuck just about anyone a company would want me to, and travel to wherever they'd want me to be. Nor am I asking to be paid much, or even anything at all (although having someone put me up would be nice). I truly want to do this because it would be fucking hot. So can anyone suggest a barebacking outfit tat might be interested in a guy like me? I've attached some of the Bear Films shots of me, but be aware I've lost a little weight since those were taken (about 20 lbs). Thanks!

14 loads from 12 different guys over five hours in a sling in a bath. When I got out of the sling finally, I noticed a puddle of cum that had leaked out of my ass, run down my crack and dripped on the floor. Naturally, I got down on my hands and knees and licked it all up off the floor...can't let all that sweet jizz go to waste! The next day I hooked up with a trick online. When he went to start fucking me, I found that I still couldn't tighten my asshole around his shaft...my hole was that worn out. He was kind of surprised by how little resistance there was to his cock going in me...he gave me a look that told me he knew how my hole had gotten so loose. what could I say? My profiles do usually say I'm a slut But yeah, that was definitely one of the best nights of my life. Sure would love to set a new record though!