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my cock is 7 1/2 long by 6 1/4 fat. Its straight as an arrow when erect and I take herbal pills so its hard as a rock when Im using it.

I get no complaints. In fact plenty of my fucks will text me and say "i need your big dick breeding me again" or something like that. so I guess its big enough. Now would I like a 9 inch cock. hell yeah. but I have found plenty of bottoms who are either really tight or simply cannot take my above average size, so wishing for or owning a monster dick has its downsides.

Long cocks hurt by jabbing ones second sphincter. now if youve got that sphincter loosened up by years of dildo use, getting plowed by huge cocks or fistng then youre set. however your pussy will probably be pretty loose and sloppy and not so good to fuck anymore. Its all a catch 22.

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Long cocks hurt by jabbing ones second sphincter. now if youve got that sphincter loosened up by years of dildo use, getting plowed by huge cocks or fistng then youre set. however your pussy will probably be pretty loose and sloppy and not so good to fuck anymore. Its all a catch 22.

In my experience, that seems to be a problem guys with long cocks have, jabbing away at that second sphincter, if they just took it slow and steady they'd get a far more pleasurable ride. I can tell you when mine is warmed up I can slide that second sphincter up and down their cock for a ride they dont forget, and I dont use dildos or have a loose arse, it's simply a matter of realxation, and lubrication (and the confidence that you aint gonna shit, an extra plus for good douching). Mind you it does need to be a slimmer long cock!

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NLBear (in #10) is right. I'd add that there are optimum sizes and shapes for each encounter. A so-so cock on a top with skill and a good attitude can do a good job for a bottom. An ohmygod monster cock can tear up a bottom but it can be gentle too and give mutual pleasure. I can attest to both but I'll leave that for another time.

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LOL Tiger.

Been there done that:

1) Yes, I'm being told I'm not average size, but big. Which, to be honest, I disagree with.

2) What a relief. I thought I was the only tight and picky bottom. I have the same issues with big cocks: I'm quite a size queen, but I have a tight ass and taking a big cock means 3 or 4 days with no further anal sex. If it's with condom, then it's 1 week, so I just refuse to take it. If it's bare, I enjoy it while it lasts, but oh well I have bleedy mucus for a few days. So I'm switching to not so big cocks these days. As long as they have a nice shape and a decent girth, it's great.

This goes so far that now I'm quite an insecure bottom, which makes things all the worse. I douche before sex, of course, for the extra confidence. But, let's admit it, sometimes bare implies no more lubricant than a spit. Poppers makes things better but, well, the first moments when I'm being plowed I'm so nervous... :(

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Let's face it. For a lot of bottoms a 9" )or bigger) dick is a fantasy. And I do admit that taking one that size can be a dream cum true and I must admit it is fun for a change. But in reality? I much more settle for an average size that does the job.

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the term "big" is a relative term that guys use in comparison to what they see or experience or feel.

I think that many times we compare our own cocks to what we see in pictures or in porn, and this makes us all feel small or average at best. But when a bottom is getting fucked, he is comparing the feeling he is experiencing to other guys who have fucked him.

I always thought I was average, probably due to the first part of my comment above, but then sometimes hear guys tell me I am big when I am fucking them. At first, my thought, like you, was that they were just humoring me. But I've come to believe that in that moment, my cock feels big to him. I've also realized that I am just a little thicker than some, though I think pretty average in length, and that it is my thickness that they feel. So when guys say that, it first makes me feel good, but then I also take it as a cue to check in with him to ask if he needs me to slow down, add more lube or spit, or even stop if it really hurts. I try to be a respectful top.

So I suggest to accept the compliment, smile, and make sure the bottom is doing ok and enjoy it!

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  • 8 years later...
On 11/21/2012 at 10:41 AM, NLbear said:

here is mine, as a bottom.....

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I’ve been lusting for your ass for years and now I finally get a gander at your beautiful cock. Thanks for the pics. It’s worth going through these older posts. You have the perfect dick by the way. 

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42 minutes ago, Treehugger said:

I’ve been lusting for your ass for years and now I finally get a gander at your beautiful cock. Thanks for the pics. It’s worth going through these older posts. You have the perfect dick by the way. 

I agree, NL is a hot man, with a sexy body... luv to do him myself.. 👅👅👅

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