porkboy101 Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 Here's a scenario for you: You hook up with a hot bottom guy. After some foreplay, you slide into his ass and you start fucking him. During the fuck you notice that the bottom is not as clean as you hoped. How do you tell him, nicest way possible, that he needs to clean out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators rawTOP Posted January 22, 2013 Administrators Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 Go wash off your dick and tell him why... "You're not completely clean. I gotta go wash off my dick..." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pipesmokin'manfucker Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 All I can add to rawTop's excellent advice is - you tell the bottom why but do it calmly. I've found most bottoms I've fucked are awfully sensitive abt. this possibility and can be quite chagrined when it happens. So me, I try to communicate the problem in an undramatic, even perhaps amusing way. I like to do what I can to dispel tension & anxiety, which can easily lead into an emotionally unpleasant situation. I don't like none of that dam drama & trauma malarkey. I can contribute to it or I can try to defuse it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TigerMilner Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 This is a tough situation. I know I consider myself to be fanatical about be clean, but we are biological creatures and the digestive system can't be shut off. Sometimes you just can't fuck. And sometimes you think you are clean and then, surprise. I think the most important thing is not to be an asshole about it. I like the comment made earlier about keeping humorous. You are fucking an asshole after all. You have to accept that on occasion, you might get something on your dick. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HungLatinDom Posted January 22, 2013 Report Share Posted January 22, 2013 I always make a point of asking. I would tell him, no matter how hot sex is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bttm2go Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 Shit happens. I try to be as clean as I can. Sometimes your body has its own mind. As a top I have pulled out with shit on the stick. I just let him know calmly and ask if he wants to try cleaning out some more or try another time. I always make sure they know it's not a big issue. As for tops who go bonkers over gatting some brown on their cock, they can fuck off. Shit happens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vrsbbltn Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 When I top a hot bottom and I get my dick shitted I can tell when it was an accident and when it wasn't (it's a bottom into scat or a negligent one who didn't douche). If it is a minor incident I usually ignore it and keep fucking. If it is a catastrophic mess I say things such as "it's not clean, I can't continue like this". Only once I lost self control. Although I seem to be nice about it, in my mind i'm completely crazy/insane/mad. I just can't stand smells. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gangbangtheblackboy Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 all bottoms should invest in a shower kit. i like deep/rough sessions so the 1 or 2 squirts an over the counter enema provides won't do it for me. lol. i like to be completely filled to capacity with water 2 or 3 times... ....that way i can take dick ass-to-mouth all night without any worries. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest BBSeroMan Posted January 23, 2013 Report Share Posted January 23, 2013 Douche that shitty fuckhole right now or you aint getting bred. PERIOD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest slobbvers Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 Yeah. I shrug it off and say what can you expect? Am fucking a shithole. Try to be polite and ask them to clean out better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rawmanfinland Posted January 25, 2013 Report Share Posted January 25, 2013 I just keep fucking till my cum is in his ass. Thats all. If im lucky he will clean my dick with tongue. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
straycowboy Posted March 7, 2013 Report Share Posted March 7, 2013 I usually just finish fucking them and clean myself up afterwards. I think it happens to even the best bottoms. And if its a spur of the moment deal with a straight guy,well he isn't likely to have thought about it anyway. I cant go another round though till they are clean. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rcc226 Posted March 7, 2013 Report Share Posted March 7, 2013 This rarely happens to me because i'm fanatical about being clean and won't fuck unless i'm sure i'm clean. but if it does happen and the top is an immature ass about it, then it's over for me. period. forever with that guy. I don't have the energy to deal with someone who isn't an adult about the situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CalMark Posted March 10, 2013 Report Share Posted March 10, 2013 I dated a guy who insisted that I be completely clean before he fucked me. I was sometimes a little lazy about doing it, though. One afternoon, he was fucking me when a small bit of shit came out of my hole. He turned me around, put me on my knees, and made me suck my own shit off of his dick. Needless to say, after that occurred, I always made sure my ass was sparkling clean for him. I learned my lesson. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Topper Posted March 10, 2013 Report Share Posted March 10, 2013 Heres a novel idea. If you are concerned either about yourself or your partner being soiled why not start the foreplay in the shower. Its very easy to lather up a wash cloth and discretely clean his ass and he will think you are having fun playing with his ass. After a long night is a smokey smelly bar and you bring someone home I just think its a nice way to start the fun. Clean and fresh and a good tooth brushing wouldn't hurt either Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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