Pity Fucks

[JizzJunkie]

I'm very curious of how many guys here has ever given a pity fuck before? I know I'm no model but I don't find myself unattractive either but sometimes I've found that after chatting with someone I'm not that attracted to initially looks better after some conversation. (a big cock helps too)

[Guest bbosouno]

This doesn't sound like pity fuck but since you got to know more about him, your perception of him changed then add to that he has a big dick. Hey I've met some pretty hot looking guys who were such assholes they couldn't pay me to fuck them.

[Pig Bottom]

Yeah one time I advertised on Craiglist and I said no one over 55. I got there and the guy was in his mid 70s but I still fooled around with him, I didin't want to make him feel bad, but it was my fault for not picking up that he had old man vocie on the phone.

[einathens]

how do you know the guy's not pityfucking you?

[GermanFucker]

I think there is a difference between a pity fuck and finding something attractive about a guy who isn't one's type initially. I don't do the former, I'll be friendly and polite, but if I don't click with a guy at all, I won't have sex with him. For me it's about adventure and mutual chemistry, I'm not really one of those guys with a big ego who get off on "slumming it" / fucking someone who's "beneath them".

But the latter case has happened, I've been both the one to reconsider myself and the one who's been given a second thought. And why not? If I get to feel comfortable with a guy because he's sweet or because something makes me see him in a different light (which sometimes is as banal as finding out that a fuckbuddy friend of mine has already fucked the guy and seemingly enjoyed it), why shouldn't I go for it?

[fillmyholeftl]

I like GermanFucker's explanation... I too, more so lately, meet (hook) up with guys who awhile back, I didn't consider my "type". As I am embracing my Pig bottom/CUM DUMP side more & more, and find different MEN attractive for different reasons. I don't consider those "Pity Fucks", but rather I have expanded my repertoire. There are still situations where I will politely tell prospective FB/Trick that I m not interested.

[HungLatinDom]

I try to fuck everybody who makes the effort to come to my place. I don't fuck them again. Sometimes, I will repeat a guy who fucks really good but not so interesting physically.

[straycowboy]

Honestly have never done it. If we click, then we have sex, even if they were 70. We are less likely to click though if they lie to me. Honesty gets you further with me, than compliments.

[bb1991]

I don't think I've actually had sex with a guy because I felt sorry for him.

I've been fucked by guys I don't fancy or who aren't my type, but that was just because I was horny and wanted a fuck. One of the benefits of being bottom is you don't have to face the guy who's fucking you.

I do like older men though, and I do quite get off on the idea of sex with guys who are older or who aren't my type (maybe being told who to fuck by dominant fuck buddy or whatever). But don't think that's really a pitty fuck either. More like a fun sort of community service

[ryan]

Yup. I met up with this guy off BBRT he was morbidly obese, fucked me raw to. He was hung like a horse though

He never came, he wore me out!

[pipesmokin'manfucker]

I admit I've done this a few times - my motives for doing it were, and still are, unclear and murky. Maybe I was going through a period of feeling negative about myself and wanted to feel better. Maybe I was kinda lonely at the time. Maybe I wanted some affirmation. I'm told I throw a pretty good fuck so maybe I craved reassurance about that. I can't always figure myself out. DUHHH...

[JizzJunkie]

how do you know the guy's not pityfucking you?

Because if you turn down someone's advances several times, chances are they aren't pity fucking you. But my whole point was sometimes I suck cock for numbers. I fuck because I find something attractive about him. I did fuck one guy I wasn't attracted to what so ever. I'm generally not attracted to short "rotund" guys but he was a sweetheart. He had the perfect type of hole I like. I can push into with no lube or not much effort, he didn't shit on my dick, and it felt wonderful.

[tallslenderguy]

I have never pitifucked with a guy, I just don't feel superior, which is not to say some are attractive to me and some are not. Like several bottom guys here express, getting fucked is more often what I want vs. attraction. I feel a lot less self conscious with a guy who isn't hot. Like JizzJunkie, I am not attracted to overweight guys... visually and don't suck overweight guys, but do get fucked by them. I had one FB for some time who I hooked up with from CL. It was always anonymous, me on my bed ass up, door unlocked, etc.. I have never really seen the guy up close, only from distance looking out my window waiting for him to show up so I could be ready when he arrived. In addition to being obese, he also has a pretty small cock. Honestly, I wonder how he fucks... yeah, that short, but fat enough to feel. He always fucks me ass up, him in a sitting position and always barely in the hole. But he is a sweet guy and he shoots an enormous load.

[sentry75]

Not a pity fuck exactly but my first actual man to man contact could probably be described as a pity handjob. I was in my early 20s and buying bisexual porn in a convenience store. As I left a man followed me out and approached me with some comically inept request for directions or something. He was about forty, a bit of a paunch and just a really generic suburban dad look. It did nothing for me but you could just see the combination of fear and confusion and lust and panic. I had been approached by similar men in similar circumstances and not considered hooking up. Middle aged men driving station wagons slowly through deserted parking lots at night asking me if I was on the wrestling team, that sort of thing. But this was not creepy. It was immediately apparent that he had mustered up all of his courage to approach me and I did not feel like just walking away.

We went to his car. Mini van actually (of course) filled with kid stuff and the amenities of someone travelling on business. We talked a bit. Everything I said was a lie, I expect him as well. He started rubbing his cock through his pants and then reached over to mine. I pushed his hand away and slid my hand over to his crotch. I was surprised at the heat I felt coming from his pants. I struggled to unzip his pants (something I am still terrible at to this day) but freed his cock. It was small, maybe four inches and while I had never actually held another man's cock in my hand I already knew I was a size queen. But it was uncut, which I like.

I started stroking and he gasped. He was oozing copious pre-cum and it slicked up my hand and his shaft. I really got off on playing with his skin and wanted to lick it. I started to bend over but he stopped me saying he was afraid of diseases. It was the early 1990s when we still being bombarded with messages to use dental dams when eating pussy lest we risk the 100% chance of getting HIV from a straight college girl so there is context. The rest of it is a bit of a depressing blur except for the moment where he knew I was going to make him cum and he warned me in a panic that he was going to cum and a simply told him "Cum all over me".

It was a big load and the scent of cum immediately filled the humid confines of the car. So the the palpable air of guilt. Hey I am a guy, I know that post cum shame. I just cheerfully wrapped things up and left.

Handjobs in general bore the hell out of me. Really didn't do much for me, and I only did it because he took the chance.

[Guest Boxir55]

I don't think I have ever pity fucked anyone, there have been quite a few I wouldn't do again for various reasons. a few of them I know would like me too. I just don't get my cock out unless i am gonna fuck them.