Bottoms: What do you do when you're not enjoying the fuck?

[rawTOP]

Just curious what you guys do when you're bottoming but enjoying the fuck… I mean when it happens to a top they're usually in control of the situation and can find a way to end things. But bottoms don't have quite as much control over the scene. If a top's not into it his dick goes soft and he can say he's just not up for fucking. But bottoms don't have those sorts of physical signals/excuses.

So when it happens to you - Do you just endure it? Do you put up with it only if the guy seems close to cumming? Or do you just cut it off? Does it depend on the environment? I mean ending it isn't a big deal at a sex party where he can fuck another bottom, but would be a big deal if the guy just traveled an hour to get to you.

[negboi26]

Cum real fast. No point in wasting my orgasm. Then I tell him I'm done and not in the mood anymore.

[axboy83]

I just take it till he cums. Only once I ended a hook up because he was that bad.

[atlfukbud]

I find it difficult to get beyond bad breath or (non-sex) body odor -- but even then I'll put a rag with poppers and max impact in my mouth to avoid kissing and enjoy the hard cock in my ass -- generally dialing up the moaning and dirty talk will get us both mentally back on track...

[Evanmx]

Endure it because the top is in control

[bearbandit]

I go along with it for as long as I can (I'm working on being a control freak!)... But I get fuckin' mad at my boys if they don't tell me what was going wrong for them!

The problem is that we've lost an entire generation almost who would have taught today's 20/30 year olds how to fuck/get fucked (or whatever other nasty little kink they have in their heads - please consider this a personal ad!).

[curiouspuppy429]

Why would the bottom get a choice? I've tried stopping several times, almost every time, and only one guy stopped.

[HotSeed]

I'm usually able to find a way to enjoy the fuck until the top is finished. He has usually mounted me and has me pinned on my back or belly so I can't do much about it any way.

[negbtm]

Just lay there and take it and think about other things, ponder the meaning of life, etc.

[guilfordcigarman]

I hooked up with a guy last night. New him for years and always wanted to be his bottom, but we were never able to make it happen until last night. Here's what happened. I had prepared before he came with an enema. I never saw his cock before and had no idea it was FAT! Just regular length, but FAT FAT FAT! In my mind, I was like, can I TAKE all this cock? Somehow, even though I am older and not getting fucked much lately, it eventually slid in and felt good. But then, the more he fucked me, the more sore my ass got. We were using plenty of lube. It finally got excruciating. He could tell by the sounds I was making that I was not enjoying it, so he came right away and it ended. What a terrible let down for both of us... So, in our case, when it got bad, it soon ended... I'm glad he didn't just keep fucking me.

[TigerMilner]

I usually can readjust my own head and get back to where I need to be in order to enjoy getting fucked, unless a guy is just being abusive, can't cum, or is an asshole. If I feel it is one of those three cases, I might just leave, or walk away if it is a sex club or party situation. It has to be bad for me not to enjoy it, so I trust my gut.

[PERVERSATILE]

[The problem is that we've lost an entire generation almost who would have taught today's 20/30 year olds how to fuck/get fucked ]

Hear-Hear Mister

an excellent point-

I'm very grateful for ALL the teachers

I had growing up

[Bottom Jim]

I usually simply endure it. Actually I have had only one where the guy just could not get hard. He jacked off on my ass.

[Belfast-Bottom]

As a submissive bottom, I put a Top's pleasure and satisfaction ahead of my own. If I'm having anal pain because the cock is too big or he's pounding too hard, poppers usually help. If I'm having significant pain for some other reason, I might request that we change position, but generally my Tops make the choices and I put up with what it takes to make them/keep them happy. I respect Tops who take control and I wouldn't have it any other way.

[Bttm2go]

I try my best to give him a good time. When I bottom, my job is to please the top. His load is my reward. If he is a bad fuck, We will not hook up again.