Do You Discuss HIV Status Before Barebacking?

[ffWhole]

3 hours ago, GuelphGuy72 said:

Once I started PrEP I started going bareback only.  I have never asked status unless the other Top brings it up first.  I am not on PrEP anymore but still take all loads no questions.

Same here... and absolutely take all loads bare of course.

If the vibe is right, I might softly let the top know and that I'm poz friendly and would love to hear him verbally... Be it in role play or real doesn't matter... 

I'd start of neutral, like: 'yeah, shoot your hot load, deep inside of me...'

And moving more distinctive: 'breed me' and 'get me pregnant' 'give me your babies'

And finally: 'give me your toxic load' and 'make me poz'

[PozTalkAuthor]

While with my ex (we were open couple) I didn't. They were my ex's friends and I wanted to avoid discussions.

Now? Undetectable untransmittable, I have embraced it all; I'm planning to open the couple with my current partner but the condition is, I want to be upfront.

Rejection? If it is going to happen, fuck it. I feel I have nothing more to lose. I'm turning the fuck 50 years old, this summer will be the upgrade I think. 

I'm experienced and adult enough, everyone around me knows my status, I think I have nothing to fear about.

[Gaylorduk2003]

If you have to or want to ask, then maybe you shouldn't be bare backing. If you are worried about contracting HIV, then you can protect yourself by going on prep....

It really isn't an issue these days ....

[ballerva]

Even though I'm undetectable, I always disclose before a hookup.  It's a different story at bathhouse or a bareback sex party, where I assume guys don't care about status.

[1hornyjohn]

The subject rarely cums up. I'm poz bottom and any conversation takes place after a top's dick has been inside my hole 🕳 

[PozTalkAuthor]

Main concept is: HIV positive folks are not, and cannot be, responsible for other people's health.

Yes we can protect others by taking meds. This is one. But if someone really cares for their negative status, they can get all methods to prevent it to change. Not accepting bareback and/or getting on Prep.

In an ideal world, discussing status with stranger would not be a problem. But in this world, homophobia and serophobia are still dominant. So we can't take it lightly.

 

[allrise]

I never ask, don’t see much point in this. 
No one seems to ask anymore, but if asked, I will disclose as I do on all my profiles. Otherwise, I walk away if I feel uncomfortable.