Tops, how do you prefer bottoms prep their hole for your cock?

[Tom]

Clean fuck hole is important. I usually use Metameucil to stay regular but when I'm getting fucked, I use this device that shoots water up my fuck hole to clean out...well... you know. But do you tops (or bottoms) have a perfect way for a bottom fuck hole to prepare? Also, what happens if the fuck in un-planned and you can't be your freshest?

[Belfast-Bottom]

I've never seen enemas/douches on sale where I live. Also there are problems with postal deliveries, so buying online can be a problem. I discovered that a large squeezy plastic dishwashing detergent bottle holds 750ml of liquid. I rinsed one REALLY thoroughly and now, before a date or fuck or trip to the sauna, I use it to clean out. I add about 700ml of luke warm water - NEVER warmer than body temperature ( 37c )and I lie on my back with a towel under my butt and press the nozzle to my hole. I squeeze around one third of the bottle into my ass and hold it in for 5 minutes or so. It helps to raise your legs in the air ( prevents leaks ). Then I empty my ass over the toilet bowl. I repeat this process twice. That's three lukewarm water rinses of around 5 minutes each. I find that leaves me clean to get fucked and rimmed deep without problems.

Some guys like to add soap or other chemicals to the liquid. My view is that is unnecessary and potentially harmful. Your rectum is lined with a delicate membrane. It was not meant to be exposed to soap and it absorbs chemicals. Both hot water and ice can cause SERIOUS burns. I know that shower attachment douches are popular, but they run two serious risks - both the temperature and pressure can vary dangerously. I have a nurse friend who knows guys who have scalded their insides. The advantage of a bottle is that you can test the temperature with your finger or a thermometer. The water shouldn't be warmer than your own body temperature ( 37c ).

Finally, I'm 42 and I've been getting fucked regularly since the mid 1980s. My experience of the British Isles and Europe is that anal douching only became common in the late 1990s. It is still not universal. None of the great homosexuals in history had douching facilities. It is a modern phenomenon largely inspired by gay porn ( in my view ) - directors didn't want shitty cocks and asses on film. Previous generations of Tops regarded shit as an occupational hazard - they weren't precious about it. If you stick your cock in someone's arse, you might expect a little mud.

As a submissive cumdump, I respect my Tops' right to a clean hole. The process I described works well for me. No problems so far.

[MAIKOL20]

I respect my tops wishes on what he wants from me, but I want to be nice and clean for him. I eat lots of raw and mixed fruits and veggies for breakfast and lunch which keep me clean naturally, so every am I can empty the food leftovers. before I clean myself. At night I like salads, liquids like beer, wine, mixed drinks with sodas and fruit juices and similar foods. I eat my meat (Protein) at lunch time and also a little bit of starches like pasta, potatoes, rice, corn, etc. but only one of them. I am of course one of those tall, slim, lean kids some guys like. I also happen to enjoy a good fuck, no matter who I get it from. So guys as far as I am concerned you call the shots and I love being seeded, otherwise I wouldn't be a bottom.

[Tom]

You can also try an empty Fleet enema bottle. I bought a few. I poured most of the contents out and sometimes just use the botte with warm water. It works great! I'm usually pretty clean anyway but it really is great in the shower, so maybe try that to make yourself extra clean.

I've never seen enemas/douches on sale where I live. Also there are problems with postal deliveries, so buying online can be a problem. I discovered that a large squeezy plastic dishwashing detergent bottle holds 750ml of liquid. I rinsed one REALLY thoroughly and now, before a date or fuck or trip to the sauna, I use it to clean out. I add about 700ml of luke warm water - NEVER warmer than body temperature ( 37c )and I lie on my back with a towel under my butt and press the nozzle to my hole. I squeeze around one third of the bottle into my ass and hold it in for 5 minutes or so. It helps to raise your legs in the air ( prevents leaks ). Then I empty my ass over the toilet bowl. I repeat this process twice. That's three lukewarm water rinses of around 5 minutes each. I find that leaves me clean to get fucked and rimmed deep without problems.

Some guys like to add soap or other chemicals to the liquid. My view is that is unnecessary and potentially harmful. Your rectum is lined with a delicate membrane. It was not meant to be exposed to soap and it absorbs chemicals. Both hot water and ice can cause SERIOUS burns. I know that shower attachment douches are popular, but they run two serious risks - both the temperature and pressure can vary dangerously. I have a nurse friend who knows guys who have scalded their insides. The advantage of a bottle is that you can test the temperature with your finger or a thermometer. The water shouldn't be warmer than your own body temperature ( 37c ).

Finally, I'm 42 and I've been getting fucked regularly since the mid 1980s. My experience of the British Isles and Europe is that anal douching only became common in the late 1990s. It is still not universal. None of the great homosexuals in history had douching facilities. It is a modern phenomenon largely inspired by gay porn ( in my view ) - directors didn't want shitty cocks and asses on film. Previous generations of Tops regarded shit as an occupational hazard - they weren't precious about it. If you stick your cock in someone's arse, you might expect a little mud.

As a submissive cumdump, I respect my Tops' right to a clean hole. The process I described works well for me. No problems so far.

[Tom]

Me too. I'm all about making the top happy because if he is, I get the pleasure.

[rawTOP]

Cleanliness is first and foremost. I'll let others go into the mechanics of cleaning out - it's hardly my specialty. But in the end there shouldn't even be a whiff of shit. Muskiness is sometimes acceptable, but you won't get rimmed as energetically if your musky 'cause the top is going to worry that there's more to it...

Otherwise, I'd say lightly lubed with a silicone lube like Wet Platinum or Gun Oil to give your hole a soft supple feel. But not so much that it's messy or greasy. I have one fuck buddy who uses a flavored oil based lube and I hate it. Also think about using a Lube Shooter to get lube up in your ass, but again - moderation is key.

While others will disagree I'd also add - don't shave your ass. Just make sure all the hair down there is clean.

And since the OP mentioned it, my doc told me that Citrucel is better than Metameucil 'cause it's not as gassy. You don't want to be farting in the middle of sex if you can help it!

[Tom]

Good to know. I'll try Citrucel. Never gassy though. If you have a good diet, prepping hole is not that big of an issue, nor is gas. But yeah, I can imagine what a turn-off a gassy bottom would be.

[KYcumdump68]

Clean fuck hole is important. I usually use Metameucil to stay regular but when I'm getting fucked, I use this device that shoots water up my fuck hole to clean out...well... you know. But do you tops (or bottoms) have a perfect way for a bottom fuck hole to prepare? Also, what happens if the fuck in un-planned and you can't be your freshest?

i always make sure my ass is douched clean only this i want in my ass is cock and cum when fucking, and a few toys LOL

[oshawaman67]

one thing all large cock tops should remember...there are 2 sphincters,,,,in between the anus and the 2nd is where we can clean for you....but if you push your monster into the 2nd theres not much we can do.....its 26 feet of lower intestine and could get dirty...try not to embarrass us.....we love your monsters and dream about them.....a quick rinse and back to business

[tin]

Rinsed out well. If your rinsing just for fucking - it shouldn't take that long, especially if you have a healthy diet with lots of fibre.

Sometimes, the fuck is spontaneous - and if the bottom trusts that he's clean enough without rinsing first I may risk it - and if your fingering the hole to lube them up you can get a sense. It may not be spotless - but as long as I'm not getting caked in shit, I may put up with it. Rather not, but lets be honest - you shit from your ass, regardless of how you prep for it there is always the risk you may encounter a little bit of brown from time to time.

If I'm wanting to rim someone though - I like things to be fairly clean, ie: hole rinsed out well and a shower / washed ass.

Edited January 26, 2011 by tin

[KYcumdump68]

Rinsed out well. If your rinsing just for fucking - it shouldn't take that long, especially if you have a healthy diet with lots of fibre.

Sometimes, the fuck is spontaneous

If I'm wanting to rim someone though - I like things to be fairly clean, ie: hole rinsed out well and a shower / washed ass.

why this bottom rinses his holes every morning and night always clean always ready

[totalasspig]

I ALWAYS make sure my basement is clean for a top. One, it's just right to do it and second, no one wants to smell shit - I know there have been times that some did come down during a fisting and I had to stop and clean my ass out more even though the top didn't object to it, I still didn't want shit all over the place.

Best thing for a top as well is a clean basement in the event he is into rimming as I have seen RawTopNYC rim some of the guys before he sticks in his dick :-) My Favorite lube is Crisco, because usually after a few loads a dumped in, I usually get fisted to push them in deeper :-)

[likaleather]

one thing all large cock tops should remember...there are 2 sphincters,,,,in between the anus and the 2nd is where we can clean for you....but if you push your monster into the 2nd theres not much we can do.....its 26 feet of lower intestine and could get dirty...try not to embarrass us.....we love your monsters and dream about them.....a quick rinse and back to business

Aren't the two sphincters really close together? One at the "entrance" and then the second right after that? If my thinking is right, if a guy sticks his dick in all the way, he is going past both sphincters. Do some guys really stop at the second sphincter?

[Takingbigones]

one thing all large cock tops should remember...there are 2 sphincters,,,,in between the anus and the 2nd is where we can clean for you....but if you push your monster into the 2nd theres not much we can do.....its 26 feet of lower intestine and could get dirty...try not to embarrass us.....we love your monsters and dream about them.....a quick rinse and back to business

I love it when it goes into the second sphincter! It feels so good. But I always get worried about being clean.

[Bear4Breeding]

. I know that shower attachment douches are popular, but they run two serious risks - both the temperature and pressure can vary dangerously. I have a nurse friend who knows guys who have scalded their insides.

This statement is very true about the shower shot attachments. However, it is very easy to test the temperature of the water. Just aim the stream at either the back of your balls or the back side of your knee. If the water is to hot you'll be able to tell from one of these two areas. The presure is a different story, but if you can feel the pressure on your balls or the back of your knee most likely its to much. You shouldn't feel the water hit your sking. When you go to put it in your hole you can also tell if its to much, you'll feel it on your sphincter and yous hould stop immediatly and lower the pressure. Some diverters are natural at controlloing the pressure in the hose others you can get to much. Just be carefull and take your time to make sure temp and pressure are acceptable before stiking the nozel up your ass.