What Did You Used To Enjoy Sexually That's Not So Exciting Now?

[rawTOP]

We change sexually as we get older. How has your sex life changed over the years? Here are some of my changes...

I didn't realize guy gave themselves hand jobs until I was in college. I always humped the bed (think frottage with one person). I remember giving myself a handjob for the first time in my sister's living room watching porn (while she was at work). I was probably a Junior in college by that point. [i still hump the bed sometimes. It feels good.]

I used to like condoms. I liked the tightness on my dick and I liked the fact that they protected my dick from shit.

My favorite way to cum used to be riding a guy's cock (face to face) and jacking my dick. The orgasm's were intense that way. Haven't done that in almost 20 years.

I used to get into butt plugs. I remember in college wearing them to classes. Didn't do that very often though. This was before I actually had sex with another guy. I remember how painful it was to get the butt plug out after being in there for hours, and how the hole didn't close up - there was a perfectly round hole that stayed open for a while after I took out the butt plug.

This is a little off topic but related to the last one... I also remember buying this HUGE dildo in college (before I actually had sex). I tried so hard to get it up my ass, but in hindsight you'd pretty much need to be a fist pig to get something that big up your hole. I used to be so disappointed that I couldn't get it up there - I spent a lot of time trying...

So how about you? What did you used to get into sexually that doesn't really interest you anymore?

[PhoenixGeoff]

I pretty much still do everything that I did right from the beginning. I think mostly I see a change in emphasis over the years.

For instance, oral sex used to be a ton of fun all on its own. Now, I pretty much see it as a prelude to fucking (or whatever else we're getting into). Sex that's nothing but oral is kind of a disappointment to me these days just because I know about all of the other possibilities.

Mostly my attitude has changed in terms of stuff that I wouldn't get into before that I now can enjoy. Dildoes are a good example. I refused to use them as a top or a bottom (as a bottom especially because of one or two really bad experiences with tops who did not know how to use them on someone else). I'm still not all that fond of them (they are, after all, made of latex), but I can get into them nowadays with the right guy(s) and situation.

[Ajinnyc7]

1.)top, i used to be a total top only, a don't even fuckin try it, TOP! now i'm 99.9% bottom. (why i switched is a nother story) i leave that .1 there cuz shit happens, especially if i get some weird emotional connection during a hook up (don't worry, those wild feelings usually pass with the cum shooting out of my dick!)

2.)On that same last note though, i used to be able to really get into a guy in a one nighter. to me it was just for the night and intense, but got into too much trouble with guys thinking it was real and it would last past that night. i know it sounds bizarre and callous. but it was fun to me.

3.) is "hate fucks" i used to love hate fucks! totally wrong and mean but self gratifying. i loved to drag someone to bed i really didn't like, or boy friends of exes, exes, or boy friends of people that didn't like me. i know that sounds bad, but if i'm betrayed I'm very vengeful .

[boycunt]

i started out in high school as a bottom and i have always been a bottom. i still do pretty much all the things i did back in high school. The difference is that i think the quality of the fucking is better (certainly the quality of the blow jobs i give is better). The major difference is quantity. i can take a lot more now than then. i NEED a lot more now than then

[plowedanplanted]

I used to have a religious fetish. I would take my girlfriend to church, take her into a confessional and we would fuck like rabbits after she confessed everything to me. I had the key to my parish church and I once got into a hot scene handcuffed to a giant cross with a life size Jesus on it. I made out with the statue while the guy fucked my ass real hard. I was so drunk on the church wine. I guess the main thing is I was only a top for so long, now the idea of topping anyone makes me turned off. The idea of my dick buried into anything makes me a little nauseous. I need cock in my ass and I need my cum to be able to spray free.

[goodboygonebad]

honestly - bug chasing. I loved the thrill and seeing a poz top smile knowingly pozzing my ass. Not so sure I'm poz by now - I'd really like to get fucked by all PA poz tops so the cum drips out of my aids hole a little pink after.

I want a hot conversion party. No REAL BLOOD just a little bruising and a droplet to make the cum inside turn pink from PAs roughing me up would be hot. After all the poz tops fuck me I'd love to squirt out a glass of pink cum to drink and then have a toothbrush gently scraping my hole for 2 hours with all the poz cum still in there. Would love to hear someone encourage me all along and remind me how much I wanted this and how exciting it is.

[uclatinosj]

I used to love topping but have found bottoming a lot more Me.

[not_sure_bb]

mostly ive been amazed at the amount of cock I take and how a BIG cock doesnt scare me anymore. there was a time I might not be bale to take one and id have to suck the guy off instead of him topping me. I used to go months without getting fucked cause it used to hurt from being so tight (or uptight)

[Barebackbottomno]

I used to enjoy being a true versatile, a true flip fucker. This ended when I fell in love and had a monogamous relationship with a total bottom. All things come to an end and we went out separate ways. Afterwards I favored being a bottom. This combined with age has turned me into a total bottom. Yes, I do miss the days of topping; however, there is still a lot of bottom left in me to please those tops.

[Barebackbottomno]

I used to enjoy being a true versatile, a true flip fucker. This ended when I fell in love and had a monogamous relationship with a total bottom. All things come to an end and we went out separate ways. Afterwards I favored being a bottom. This combined with age has turned me into a total bottom. Yes, I do miss the days of topping; however, there is still a lot of bottom left in me to please those tops. I 'm one of those bottoms who goes soft when getting fucked but, the nerves in my ass are tweaked for pleasure. My ass muscles can milk the remaining cum out of a cock after first shooting deep in me. I have always loved sucking cock and I still get raves about by blow jobs.

[travelingbutthole]

I used to be into toys, big ones up to 3"s wide, but every since I started BBing I have been unable to take anything beyond a small plug without bleeding.

I think my body is reacting to the rubber and doing everything possible to keep it out.

[vrsbbltn]

I basically like the same things, haven't changed much over time.

[Bottom Jim]

I used to top more. Now I find that I really get off when I am being fucked. It reaches a great climax when I feel the top cum in my ass. I used I feel that when I came in a guys ass. Now not as much

[fuckboy20]

I'll be honest. Going out to clubs and bending over and taking any and every load, or just having guys over and just pounding me and breeding me. I used to fucking love that have guys over and have one over the next after the next and have lots of cum up my butt. Or just going to bath houses or book stores and bending over in the dark room or in a public area and taking as much cock in my mouth and ass as I can. But I'm not quite so much into that anymore. I thought maybe I'm losing some of my pig/whore/slut side. But I think the truth is I'm just conserving it or charging it. That and I think I'm starting to prefer actually spending more time with a guy. I thought I'd always be into quick fucks and I'd even count on a buddy who I'd just go over he'd give me a quick load and I'd start my night off that much.

But who knows. Could just be all this fucking rain lately is messing with me too.

[barebearnyc]

I used to be obsessed with heavy assplay. Fisting, double fisting, big toys, feet. Then I got a boyfriend who was all about his dick. And putting anything bigger than that up my butt didn't interest him. We fucked a lot. Now, the only thing I really want up my butt is raw cock.