Chastity Destroys Dick?

[Sharp-edge]

From what I've seen from tumblr I got the impression that the use of chastity for long periods of time can cause the dick to get very small and not getting erections not to mention that the guy cums immediately. Am I wrong on this? What is a ruin orgasm?   

[atlfukbud]

Seems there's a bit of debate over this...however, personally I'd never put my penis in a chastity device or want my partners to. There are plenty of other options for physical and psychological play.

Edited September 19, 2015 by atlfukbud

[foxboy25]

agree with atlfukbud on this lol even if i`m topping still love playing with a guys cock another hard cock just means more cum i get guys who are in chastity but it isn`t for me, and from my experience it really depends on the situation/couple some guys let their bottoms get hard and cum every once in awhile some are banned from it ever again 

[Guest KptNLine]

As a guy locked in a CB, let me clarify a few things for anyone interested in chastity. Being locked in a chastity device long-term will make it more difficult for you to get erections, and you will also lose some penile length over time. In other words, your flaccid penis may appear shorter than before, and when you first unlock, you may find it impossible to get hard. However, if you unlock for a period of time, these effects reverse themselves. I was recently unlocked for several weeks for personal reasons - I started to get erections after less than a week of being unlocked, and I noticed some of my lost length coming back soon after that. 

 

When people refer to a "ruined orgasm," they are generally referring to the following: When you jerk off, or have a partner jerk you off, and you feel yourself geting just to the point of no return and then you quickly stop all stimulation to your penis. At that point, you can either fight the ejaculation and you might leak a drop or two of cum, or you can relax and let yourself ejaculate, but either way, there's little if any physical pleasure associated with the ejaculation when you're not stimulating the penis at the same time. It's fun to try (a total mindfuck seeing yourself ejaculate but not feeling an orgasm).

 

Let me just say this - I totally get others not being into or understanding the point of chastity. Believe me, I know it's a niche market fetish. But that being said, I love everything about chastity. It's such an intimate exchange, surrendering control of your orgasms to another man. I love that my husband has total control over my ability to orgasm. I won't give a big lecture here (if anyone ever has questions about chastity, feel free to PM me, I love sharing my experiences) - but no, chastity won't cause any permanent damage (based on my experience).

[CallMeSir]

I don't really get chastity devices. The true bottom boys already have useless, flaccid dicks because all mental concentration is centered on getting their internal pussy orgasms.

[cam1972]

I don't really get chastity devices. The true bottom boys already have useless, flaccid dicks because all mental concentration is centered on getting their internal pussy orgasms.

Is that so? Well... I'm a true bottom and I get hard and I jack off while getting fucked. And I've never had one damn complaint about my bottoming capabilities. They all have come back for more. And I'm more than happy to give it to them. I don't need a chastity cage or anyone telling me I shouldn't be hard to accomplish getting my tops off. I am so tired of the mentality of so many that bottoms are just mindless holes to please the tops. So much for the gay community and its demands for equality. How can we expect it from society when it doesn't even exist in the gay community? Hypocritical, don't you think? I do know the difference between play and reality. But it seems a lot of guys believe this is the way it should be. 24/7. I know this is a forum where we can state our opinions and I respect that. But after seeing this mentality shown time after time, it has really grown old. So I'm sharing my opinion. But I know that it's an opinion shared by many on here.

[Sharp-edge]

It's just for the playing part for me. Not outside sex. I respect my bottom and consider him equally in our lives. My posts only have to do with the sex part.

[bttmsubslut]

I've been in chastity for 2.5 years. There are no long term consequences, only short-term ones. 

[Guest KptNLine]

I know that there are a lot of strong feelings out there regarding chastity and cock cages, and that most people don't understand the fetish. Believe me, I get that, But I just want to clarify that if I myself didn't want to be kept in chastity, then I wouldn't be. It's that simple. Being kept locked, for me, has improved my sex life with my husband immensely, and that's because we both get off on it. I enjoy being kept locked and horny, and he enjoys having that control over me. Guys stay locked for many different reasons; for me, part of it is that element of control, letting another man control that part of you, but the other part is simply that getting fucked feels that much better (at least for me) when you can't play with your cock. Just because I can't get hard and I'm usually not going to ejaculate during sex, doesn't mean I can't or don't experience orgasm. My anal or prostate orgasms may be different, but it doesn't mean that I'm experiencing less pleasure than my husband. I'm not going to type out my whole story here as that's not the point of my post, but I just want to share that, at least for me, chastity has enhanced my pleasure just as much as it has my husband's because we both get off on it. Yes, there is an inherent sub/Dom dynamic between a partner who is locked and a partner who is holding the key because of that element of power exchange - but how far this goes is up to both partners. 

[MayorQuimby]

I've always been fascinated by these devices. I'd never put myself in one, but I'd love to put my sub bf in one.

[pervinmt]

I don't know about the long term consequences of chastity, but for short periods I have enjoyed it immensely. It absolutely plays into the Dom/sub aspect and being controlled. I find it highly erotic to go about my day knowing someone has the ultimate ownership of my cock. It is a non stop physical and mental stimulation. Knowing I'm wearing it, but others don't know is very exciting. And the uncomfortableness of my dick trying to get hard, but unable too adds the pain aspect. Orgasm denial is yet another exciting aspect, especially getting fucked after it's been on for a while. But maybe you have to have a massochistic streak to really appreciate it.

[LKMike]

It often takes a couple of days for me to get into being locked for a long period. Sometimes for the first couple of days erections, or attempted erections are very painful. The lengthening causes the CB6000 to pull painfully on my testicls. i have to take it off let the erection pass, not allowed to masterbate, and then get locked back in again. Then once locked and not getting erections, during sex or watching porn i just ooze precum. Squeezing the kegel muscle i can pump out pre cum on order after  3 or 4 days of being locked, i can make a big wet patch on the front of my underwear during the day.

[willingbibottom]

I've just become the property of my new black master and he has stated that he plans on putting me into chastity. I've never experienced this before, but based on all of the pictures that I've seen, I am looking forward to it. My ultimate goal is to become a feminized sissy bitch.

[LKMike]

Hi willingbibottom. Thats very cool! Hows it going? what type of device does he have you in? If you are uncut he can have you pieced through your foreskin, low down above your glans to stop erections. If you look at my avatar you can see that i am banded. Its a method for castrating animals. The band is placed round your scrotum with a device called an elastrator. If left on for more than an hour you run the risk of being castrated. It takes a lot of trust or unquestioning obedience to allow a master to restrain and band you. A minute too long and you are castrated, there is no recovering once past that point. Your testicles are dead.

[kels725]

On 9/19/2015 at 7:56 PM, KptNLine said:

As a guy locked in a CB, let me clarify a few things for anyone interested in chastity. Being locked in a chastity device long-term will make it more difficult for you to get erections, and you will also lose some penile length over time. In other words, your flaccid penis may appear shorter than before, and when you first unlock, you may find it impossible to get hard. However, if you unlock for a period of time, these effects reverse themselves. I was recently unlocked for several weeks for personal reasons - I started to get erections after less than a week of being unlocked, and I noticed some of my lost length coming back soon after that. 

 

When people refer to a "ruined orgasm," they are generally referring to the following: When you jerk off, or have a partner jerk you off, and you feel yourself geting just to the point of no return and then you quickly stop all stimulation to your penis. At that point, you can either fight the ejaculation and you might leak a drop or two of cum, or you can relax and let yourself ejaculate, but either way, there's little if any physical pleasure associated with the ejaculation when you're not stimulating the penis at the same time. It's fun to try (a total mindfuck seeing yourself ejaculate but not feeling an orgasm).

 

Let me just say this - I totally get others not being into or understanding the point of chastity. Believe me, I know it's a niche market fetish. But that being said, I love everything about chastity. It's such an intimate exchange, surrendering control of your orgasms to another man. I love that my husband has total control over my ability to orgasm. I won't give a big lecture here (if anyone ever has questions about chastity, feel free to PM me, I love sharing my experiences) - but no, chastity won't cause any permanent damage (based on my experience).

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