Revelation On Big Bottoms, Smaller Tops

[topstud127]

Being 6'1 and 220 pounds (solid), I tend to have an aversion to little guys topping me, roughly meaning under 5'9 and less than 180. Not set in stone of course, but approximately. Plus, I'm expected to top anyway so it avoids making things awkward.

 

 

My bf is 5'9, 175, doesn't really fuck me into submission how I like hence I top 95% of them time. For my regulars, I'm the better/more equipped top so I take the reigns.

 

But the other night, I had a big dick South African. Gorgeous, great great dick, fit as can be- muscular and lean, and he fucked me like a top should. It wasn't a chihuahua holing on for dear life. I wasn't topping from the bottom and he wasn't topping like a bottom. He pinned me down and was in control. I've missed that. Where I'm visiting in Greece, there seem to be more tops than bottoms for once and regardless of size, many of them have nice dicks.

 

My bs "rule" has probably made me miss out on some good fucks. I'm re-evaluating and being more open.

Edited August 29, 2016 by topstud127

[fuckrogerbb]

Everyone should reevaluate the narrow preferences we have. In my thirties I had a wider span of interest than most, but I still ruled certain people out. I knew it was stupid and I was right. I had some great sex with people outside of that span.I even think they were better than the hotties because they appreciated ti more. Hotties can be very stuck on themselves. Age, weight, hairy or smooth. None of that means anything when it comes to sexual pleasure. Try it. You will see.

[SuccessfulChaser]

Fucking is a lot like getting a haircut.   Even the worse fuck (or haircut) only lasts so long and you need another.  

 

Why be to fussy about it? We all like cock---either taking it up the ass or ramming an ass (well we like oral too).  I do think that attitude does deserve some consideration.....I don't like spending time with people who have really bad attitudes towards life.  But other than those types, I welcome anyone to use my holes.....it is just sex right?

 

And, if I have found, that as I have worked to improve my skills as a bottom, I am finding fewer tops who really don't get the job done.  Skill and enthusiasm on my part can offset many limitations in skill and size and shape of the guy riding my ass.  

 

I also believe that current queer porn does a lot to encourage having too many limits.  To make their product commercially viable, they go for a "look" that sells.   I have found many younger guys who seem to be trying to replicate a porn scene rather than figuring out what turns them on.  

 

I am not beautiful, I am aging a bit and have a gut.  But I also have nearly all the sex I want as a bottom in a world where top to bottom ratio is something like 1:20.  Knowing what I like, being open to all cummers and being skilled as a fuck hole---not appearance keep me getting some great cock.  

[NLbear]

I had more of an age thing. I usually always go for guys around my own age. I like my tops to be men and am not attracted at all to young guys or twinks. Maybe also because i always thought younger tops wouldn't go for older (as opposed to older tops going for younger bottoms)? Love it when a hairy 30/40/50s guy takes charge of my hole. So I never actively pursue younger than that. Yet I did have some young guys (18 or early 20s) contacting me and I gave in to a few and surprisingly had a better time than I thought I would have upfront although I must admit I gave in to some only because of their huge dicks).

 

Some lacked the skills but did not have a lack of enthousiasm and were ready for a next round in no time. Others were actually good and made me squirm ;-)

So although I still don't actively seek them I no longer reject them upfront when they contact me.

 

p.s. I visited Greece a lot in my student days and always with a circle of straight friends (m/f). I wish I had had more opportunity then to go after those Greek guys. I picked up signals from guys on many of the islands but didn't have the opportunity because of my travel company. Maybe I should go back but I am older now and my -then- bubble butt has changed into a somewhat bigger bear ass ;-)

[analluv27]

Myself I'm just about five feet six pushing 250 lbs. So I don't have to many hang ups and because of that I had some real fun times with guys upon face value I've would've figured we had no chemistry like this guy who looked like a cross between a big biker guy and one of the duck dynasty cast, but my goodness the things he did to me still brings a smile to my face and a stiffy down below.