Barebacking: what's in it for the bottom?

[GexTrick]

Short answer: raw just feels damn fuckin better. like... many leagues better

A bit more in detail (in my experience at least, I'm not by any mean a medically qualified and I dont pretend to be): I think organic tissue is just more "compatible" interacting with other organic tissue. Raw penetration is just so smooth, makes me relaxed and high at once, makes my ass immediately produces rectal mucosa which is the best lube (not too dry, not too slippery) and just knowing that if the top cums it will go in my ass is a phenomenal psychological aphrodisiac before he even does so. I've often sincerely told myself no matter how smart and evolved we are in creating toys and tools for pleasure, nature just knows how to orchestrate the perfect set-up for sex.

Plus, to me condoms dont just make receiving anal sex inferior, they often make it straight up unpleasant, that's why I tend to refuse a wrapped cock at the moment.
The rubber surface pumps and seals air inside my ass, which has given me a bad feeling in the long run at times and triggers weird farts. The folds of a condom feel odd inside me. Rubbers have a distinct smell and they leave that smell and taste on a hole, while I want my ass to smell and taste like man and it's the smell and taste I want when I rim men. They somehow seem to dry me up within minutes, unless copious amount of artificial lube is applied (which is detrimental to the aforementioned smell and taste thing, plus artificial lubes are inferior to mucosa and cum as lube, too slippery means almost no pressure and friction of which a certain amount increases pleasure). And on top of that they are relatively expensive.

To sum it up, it's just a completely different experience both mentally and physically and although I understand and totally can see the reasons why many people choose to use condoms (at least until they try to blame or judge me for my choice not to do so), it's bordeline undisputable that raw sex is the better experience.

[VersGuyAnon]

I love the feeling of a bare cock in me, but more than anything I want a load in me

[BareBackBubbleButt]

You need to understand the psyche of a bottom. First of all many of us bottoms feel like tops are superior to bottoms in the gay world. Top’s often have bigger cocks and many of us bottoms can’t maintain an erection for long periods of time to fuck. Because of that we worship our tops. And the essence of a top’s masculinity and virility is his sperm load. Our first pleasure is to watch the ecstasy we give to the top. It’s so deeply satisfying to know that our body can give a masculine top the ultimate manly pleasure.  It’s so rewarding in itself. And then there’s the feeling that by taking his manliness into our body we may become more masculine like him. We are literally absorbing everything about him that makes him a man. His DNA is now part of me.  It’s because of this that many of us bottoms don’t even need to cum ourselves in anal sex. His orgasm feel like my orgasm. And of course the bottom never should cum unless the top wants him to. We shouldn’t distract from the real sex which involves his cock getting pleasured. 

[Njn0mc]

2 hours ago, BareBackBubbleButt said:

You need to understand the psyche of a bottom. First of all many of us bottoms feel like tops are superior to bottoms in the gay world. Top’s often have bigger cocks and many of us bottoms can’t maintain an erection for long periods of time to fuck. Because of that we worship our tops. And the essence of a top’s masculinity and virility is his sperm load. Our first pleasure is to watch the ecstasy we give to the top. It’s so deeply satisfying to know that our body can give a masculine top the ultimate manly pleasure.  It’s so rewarding in itself. And then there’s the feeling that by taking his manliness into our body we may become more masculine like him. We are literally absorbing everything about him that makes him a man. His DNA is now part of me.  It’s because of this that many of us bottoms don’t even need to cum ourselves in anal sex. His orgasm feel like my orgasm. And of course the bottom never should cum unless the top wants him to. We shouldn’t distract from the real sex which involves his cock getting pleasured. 

Very well described! So true

[PozBearWI]

I for one don't care for the "should's"....  A bottom should xxxx?  Depending upon the top there are somethings a bottom can do to increase his pleasure.  But "should".  Nope.

[PleasureU7480]

3 hours ago, BareBackBubbleButt said:

You need to understand the psyche of a bottom. First of all many of us bottoms feel like tops are superior to bottoms in the gay world. Top’s often have bigger cocks and many of us bottoms can’t maintain an erection for long periods of time to fuck. Because of that we worship our tops. And the essence of a top’s masculinity and virility is his sperm load. Our first pleasure is to watch the ecstasy we give to the top. It’s so deeply satisfying to know that our body can give a masculine top the ultimate manly pleasure.  It’s so rewarding in itself. And then there’s the feeling that by taking his manliness into our body we may become more masculine like him. We are literally absorbing everything about him that makes him a man. His DNA is now part of me.  It’s because of this that many of us bottoms don’t even need to cum ourselves in anal sex. His orgasm feel like my orgasm. And of course the bottom never should cum unless the top wants him to. We shouldn’t distract from the real sex which involves his cock getting pleasured. 

You nailed it! I love knowing that the horny top conquered me and used my unprotected ass for his pleasure. He knows what I am as he shoots his manly essence deep inside me. 
I like him knowing that I submitted to his needs with no questions. 
I like knowing that he can change me. I absorb his dna, along with whatever else is in his semen. If he sees me in public anywhere he’ll remember cumming in me and smirk. In my case, I’m closeted and I let them take pics or video. He can get me exposed, recognized and outed if he wishes. 
I feel like I’ve fulfilled my purpose when I give all that power to a superior top or versatile man. 
I don’t cum with men, unless a dom insists. I like receiving his load and hearing him cum more than I like cumming.

[bareback-flipflop]

The feeling the hot meat inside you, its every moving and pulsating directly and through an artificial texture is incomparable to the plastic feeling. 

[BlindRawFucker1]

Short and sweet.

 

Bare feels great!  Whether you top or bottom, bare is better.

 

I’m not inferior as a bottom or superior as a top.  We’re two guys enjoying each other in the most natural way.

 

Plus, as a bottom, I get the cum.  As a top, I leave mine in him.

[Tranelvira]

What's in it for the bottom ?, SPUNK, the lovely sallty tasting slimy goo. Having it in my mouth and sliding down my throat or coating the insides of my rectum. That man cream tadpoles goo swimming around in me. Such a turn on x

[TaggedslutUK]

As a dedicated cum dump, it’s all in the psyche! My job is to serve the top with my holes and make sure he gets off and enjoys a horny encounter. I guess the proof of that for most guys is a hot spunky load in their ass. I have to say whilst I love a hot cum load the fact that top has chosen to get his raw dick inside me is the biggest inspiration for carrying on and wanting more. That’s one of the reasons I love going to Gran Canaria and serving in one of the dark rooms ass up! The fact that guys walk along the line sticking their dicks in every hole is an absolute turn on and some choose that your hole to spunk inside. What could be better!? 

[Fistedmike]

On 10/14/2024 at 4:45 AM, GexTrick said:

Short answer: raw just feels damn fuckin better. like... many leagues better

A bit more in detail (in my experience at least, I'm not by any mean a medically qualified and I dont pretend to be): I think organic tissue is just more "compatible" interacting with other organic tissue. Raw penetration is just so smooth, makes me relaxed and high at once, makes my ass immediately produces rectal mucosa which is the best lube (not too dry, not too slippery) and just knowing that if the top cums it will go in my ass is a phenomenal psychological aphrodisiac before he even does so. I've often sincerely told myself no matter how smart and evolved we are in creating toys and tools for pleasure, nature just knows how to orchestrate the perfect set-up for sex.

Plus, to me condoms dont just make receiving anal sex inferior, they often make it straight up unpleasant, that's why I tend to refuse a wrapped cock at the moment.
The rubber surface pumps and seals air inside my ass, which has given me a bad feeling in the long run at times and triggers weird farts. The folds of a condom feel odd inside me. Rubbers have a distinct smell and they leave that smell and taste on a hole, while I want my ass to smell and taste like man and it's the smell and taste I want when I rim men. They somehow seem to dry me up within minutes, unless copious amount of artificial lube is applied (which is detrimental to the aforementioned smell and taste thing, plus artificial lubes are inferior to mucosa and cum as lube, too slippery means almost no pressure and friction of which a certain amount increases pleasure). And on top of that they are relatively expensive.

To sum it up, it's just a completely different experience both mentally and physically and although I understand and totally can see the reasons why many people choose to use condoms (at least until they try to blame or judge me for my choice not to do so), it's bordeline undisputable that raw sex is the better experience.

And there’s nothing like taking a cock in my mouth and sucking his cum mixed with my pussy juice from it. It’s the most delicious taste in the world. 

[GexTrick]

28 minutes ago, Fistedmike said:

And there’s nothing like taking a cock in my mouth and sucking his cum mixed with my pussy juice from it. It’s the most delicious taste in the world. 

couldnt agree more

[barenekkid]

One thing that is SO much better bareback is ass-to-mouth. I love deepthroating a cock straight out of my ass. That’s no fun at all with a condom. And when getting fucked by multiple men, every load pumped into me makes me more ready and fuckable for the next cock that fucks me. And then I get to deepthroat a cock that was in my ass that’s full of cum. And so on, and so on. 

[Memphian]

On 8/31/2017 at 12:58 PM, AZRawPig said:

When there's a BOND between the TOP and BOTTOM...its really magical in nature; because, it seems everything works like a well functioning piece of equipment.  The physical, mental and spiritual BOND between the individual's is so powerful you can see and feel the sparks that radiates between everyone.  I have enjoyed being on both ends of the sling...and its really...not a pump and dump situation for ME...its all about the connection and how connected we can make each other feel like...there won't be another fuck'n like this ever again.  So, I feel when  I give everything back and forth...its like an addiction for the BOTH of US....sharing that SPECIAL ...connection...NO PULL OUTS...NO INHIBITIONS...just...hardcore ....cock and ball's deep 'animal lusts'....MORE...until...the loads are running out the hole...and getting sticky wet for MORE...harder and deeper fuck'n.
 

I agree 100%.  To me it's the most intimate connection you can have with another human.  Him literally inside me, and then leaving his DNA in me to be absorbed by my body.

[Jimmi]

There’s the psychological; the intimacy of no barrier; taking someone’s DNA into your bloodstream; and the demonstration of trust (“I know we’ve been taught to not do this without condoms but I let you because that’s how much I’m prepared to hand power over to you”). But there’s also the practical…. Condoms need more lube (spit as lube doesn’t work with condoms) and if your giving head before/after the fuck, latex doesn’t taste sexy to me.