Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex

[ellentonboy]

5 minutes ago, MuscleAss said:

Not working for me either. 

I am getting a notice "cloud fare" is protecting this site.  I turned off my VPN, so I don't know what is going on with BBRT.  I'm  going to try and see if I can  get the number for customer service.  I wonder what happens if you are a paid member. I have a friend in the UK who I talk to almost daily, he's a paying member as well.  I'll check to see if he can log on....

[PozBearWI]

Down for me as well

[JamesL100]

BBRT homepage says:

Yes, we know about it.
No, we are NOT going out of business.
Yes, we are WORKING on correcting the problem.
It is a HARDWARE issue that must be addressed.
No, it was NOT a Data Breach
No we do NOT have an ETA
Lastly, there is NO NEED to email in with questions.

[SweetCheeks]

I’m getting in lay here but I just quit Grindr because it is worthless here in Alaska.  There aren’t nearly enough members which means it is slow cruising.  I have been able to hookup occasionally, but so many times you get flaked out on.  Also, you are heavily censored with your profile picture, no geniltalia, and your profile is your one post you must rely on besides sending messages.  They want you to buy upgrades to get noticed.  
 

when Craigslist was around you could post whatever pics you wanted of your cock or hole or cock in hole, and put multiple posts up to bait a catch.  It was faster.  
 

What could be improved learning from Grindr about online gay dating?  Let people post explicit pictures, multiple ads, and maybe a contest whose winner gets fucked by RawTop!

[Japbtm]

For me it’s just Grindr and Sniffles, both work pretty well but have different success rates at different times. Some days it’s a Grindr day and others are a sniffles day. 
Grindr is about who is present and online now. Usually see guys who are there and have notifications when you are being messaged. Timing is pretty good. 
Sniffles is like location and planning. You can see who is going where and like Uber or llyft you can see if they are actually on their way. Some days it’s a Grindr day, other days a sniffles. I haven’t had luck on other sites. Bbrt doesn’t have enough guys here in Hawaii to make it work good enough. 

[ingridguerci94]

I believe the majority, if not all, apps/websites pose challenges in finding suitable matches. In my observation, approximately 75-80% of the male users on these platforms identify as bottoms, while many of the tops are either geographically distant or seeking younger partners. It's exceptionally difficult to connect with someone who shares my interests, although I acknowledge that placing blame solely on them is unfair. In my experience, those who approach me are often too far away or not compatible with my preferences. It seems I may need to adjust my standards to find enjoyment in this aspect of my life.
 

Edited February 2 by ingridguerci94

[BBBottom98]

Part of what I hate about hookup sites is how many guys who'll just block you rather than saying "No thanks." Like if you want to change your mind, that's fine. If you can't do that day, that's fine. If you don't want to chat, don't reply. If you change your mind later, you've blocked me. That's my impression of you.

But blocking in the middle of a conversation makes you look like a twat. Had a few guys like that over the last few days. "Yeah, I'll fuck you on Friday" Then out of nowhere, block. Come on. If you've changed your mind or don't like something, say.

Then there's the "What road?" guy. Everything else fine. My profile says I couldn't accom. He asked "What road" then I said I couldn't. Then block. So you don't want to fuck me ever because I couldn't accom this one time?

I don't block many people and that's intentional. I don't go through blocking every guy I'm not interested in. If you're persistently (over a few days not within 20 minutes of saying something) annoying with constant messages, I'll block because of the constant message stream. But other than that, I won't.

[Bwccummer]

I had posted on a website something looking for. A reply got that individual basically wanted me to visit them when the ad was what I was looking for. I did think to reply but would have been helpful if shared city nearby. I figure their attitude was ultimately why decided to block and not reply. 

Last time tried apps that basically a wash out and waste. However, I find works better to watch or read something while periodically check apps. Otherwise seemed few not able or want to travel time could host.

It was my ad and either try to accommodate or see if maybe if took a different tone could have worked something out or meet halfway. I think what can be problematic is one not read ad carefully and want one to fit what want. I can try to work something out if can if nearby but I also don't want to try to make arrangements if someone is 50 miles or more away as can be harder to arrange unless they are planning to travel.

[WilliamByrd]

Non existing in my area unfortunately 

[Guest]

On Grindr I've had more guys delete their profiles after chatting and swapping pics than I can count. Only had 2 Grindr hookups over the last 6 months, one is a semi-regular, and the other was a one time thing and never heard back from him.

I think Sniffies is full of flakes. Had one Sniffies hookup, but he couldn't get hard. The other contacts I made never panned out.

BBRT is good for the major metro areas, but no action in my area. Had a few chats but those never panned out either.

I've used Doublelist and Escort Alligator for hook ups. Been pretty successful with those. Especially Escort Alligator with men and women.

[toolman1966]

Grindr is full of flakes in my area.  Growlr has been a great site for hooking up... 

[RawNerdUK]

No apps or sites seem to work for me... Since everyone else is fucking like rabbits it's clear I am the problem.

[JamesL100]

I wonder if they are all fucking like rabbits. Maybe in a city. I only get action if I go 1.5hr to nearest sauna. So don't beat yourself up about it.

[Guest]

Grinder in this area is hit-and-miss.  Some flakes but not bad.  Guys with wild imagination on their cock size make it challenging.

I met one guy who was dominating and rough but cock size was lacking.   

Have not tried the other apps because it just seems like a waste of time

[Willing]

Finding people that want to have sex is easy on here,   everyone is just  so far away from each other seems.