What factors got you to start barebacking?

[nude_tomBS]

When my sexual ife began in the mid 1980s the use of condoms was new and very propagated. I tried it some times, decided I don't like condoms and did without them eversince.

I never bothered about getting infected since I took my first knowingly poz load in 2002. Since then it's a great turn on to take pot loads for me.

[hottopforbarebottoms]

I think it just feels some much better without a condom. Feels natural skin on skin...

[kinkydawg]

hate rubbers and love the feeling when a man leaves his seed in my gut.

[bareORbear]

I've always just found sex to be so much more fun bare.

[buzzboi]

Remember playing ard w a hottie. Lubed him, drew him in n he couldn't stop. Best feeling ever n the bond is just so intense.

[needseed]

got into barebacking about 6 years ago with a married guy who i had played with 6 or 7 times. he was eating my ass, driving me crazy with his tongue, then he just pushed his raw dick into my hole, no questions asked. it felt so good i let him keep fucking me till he shot his load deep in my ass. then he got down and ate his seed out of my hole. i was in heaven and hooked. have only played bare ever since.

[HumanSpermBank]

What got me started was my love master/slave stuff, so the master's things he would do after a [bare-back/all internal sperm shots] gangbang turned me on. you know wat i mean, like punishments and stuff, especially embarrassment/humiliation ones like laying you over their knee and push your back so your stomach gets pushed on their knee and gushes out (big-style gangbangs), personally i set goals for how many i want up my ass, i dont swallow though, firmly believe they are for my ass canal only

[sdcigarpig]

What got me hooked, was the first time I got hooked, the guy slide in and fucked me raw, with just a bit of spit. He fucked me long and hard, only to end up shooting his cum right into my ass. I found the feeling of his hot seed pumping into me to be very arrousing and the feeling of his raw cock sliding back and forth in my ass, turned me on, that it was the only way I wanted to get fucked.

[spunxter]

I always got turned off by the fact safe-sex movies always edited to make it seem like they were barebacking anyway; they didn't demonstrate people putting on condoms which I think would have been important (at least in one scene) if they were trying to encourage people to use them. So why watch simulated barebacking when you can watch the real thing. I think I missed some good fuck opportunities because of the awkwardness of it. It always felt better without it, too! HDK, and TIM made me very happy.

[versmetropig]

As a teenager when I started having sex (at 14 in 1977) I never wore condoms with guys and only did with a girl if she wasn't on the pill (Catholic School you know - can't get knocked up and have to deal with the getting married keep the baby thing). I had a good 6 or 7 years before the nasty latex sleeve went on, and as I was already well into the kink and leather scene by the time I was 20, but I dutifully put a sock on it for years - though I was about 65% top 35% bottom at that time, I almost gave up bottoming completely as I had severe reactions to the latex. I found out I was poz as soon as they had a reliable test - since at least 1985, possibly longer as I'm a New Yorker and this was one of the original areas of infection. Started barebacking again with a few poz buds around 1996, assuming that we already had it and couldn't bother anyone else.

Finally got reminded that I enjoy bottoming once there's no latex, and started getting fucked again. Adding in some Party Favors has allowed me to really enjoy being fucked, and my ratio is more like 60% top 40% bottom now. Will not wear latex as a bottom. One or two negative buds are so hot I will put a sock on for them, but mostly play with pig buds and specify BB.

Edited November 13, 2010 by versmetropig
Wasn't finished post and hit enter by mistake!

[srb4887]

I started meeting guys from online when I was 16. There was a divorced bi guy who was like 49 who I would blow and then he'd want to ride my cock and sometimes he'd just slide on bare. He was pretty paranoid about STDs but I guess he figured it was pretty safe given how young I was. He didn't let me cum in him though. Around the same time, a 28 year old took my cherry making my first time getting fucked, getting fucked raw and bred. So, from the beginning, I was in the mode that the other guy should call the shots. I've rarely told a guy that he should wear a condom, only if I was pretty sure he was poz... and sometimes when I knew the guy was poz I still let him bareback me but I'd just insist he didn't cum inside me.

And now I've found a boyfriend who is 23 years older than me (right now twice my age) who has never (or practically never) used condoms. Even though he doesn't want me taking other guys cocks or cum, it's still satisfying to take his. And he started having sex when he was in his young teens so I assume the naturalness of bareback was the factor for him as well.

[tommysole]

my first time getting fucked was a rape by a family member.

after that incident there was a fella that lived a few houses down from me that was known to be gay, he introduced me into the real pleasures of of being assfucked by a man. showed me how to douche, loosened my 14 year old hole with fingers and toys, rimmed me and slipped his black pole into my fuck pit bare. been hooked ever since that day and i started to frequent the piers in new york and take anon loads, bookstores, porn theaters and sex clubs.

i must have racked a few thousand loads over the years since then and i am still taking it bare.

there is no better feeling than having a mans DNA slosh around my cunt especially if i pop a plug in there to let the cum soak into my ass walls!

[renocumdump]

First guy to do me when I was 14 , he was 40, did me bare. I have never been fucked any other way.

[PhoenixGeoff]

Came out back around 1991 or so...before effective ARVs and while the AIDS scare was still going full bore. I was absolutely convinced at first that I wouldn't live to see my 30th birthday just because I was gay. And there were a lot of gay men dropping dead around me. So the use of condoms really got drilled into me.

Still, I was young and just discovering bars and baths and having a good time. And sometimes in the bath I'd be a little drunk and doing poppers and the top would fuck me raw and I'd love it (I was pretty much a total bottom in those days because condoms have always killed my hardon). Then the next day I'd remember it and feel guilty and scared and would swear I'd never hook up with a stranger again and I'd worry for the three months it takes for the antibodies to show up before getting tested and breath a huge sigh of relief when nothing happened.

And of course, I'd be right back at it quicker and quicker each time. And I began to realize that I really did like it raw, and because everyone was screaming that you had to wear a condom or you'd die I decided I was some kind of weird freak.

The turning point for me was discovering other guys that actually talked about liking barebacking, and because I'm a geek, I first discovered this online, around the early-to-mid nineties on IRC. True story: I'd had a bit of a cowboy and rancher fetish and saw the #gaybareback channel on EFNet. Thinking that might be the place to find some sexy, rugged guy from Texas, I went in and found out that the discussion had nothing to do with riding a horse. That was my first experience of guys talking about sex without condoms in a positive way.

After that point, I started barebacking more frequently. I didn't necessarily seek it out, but if the guy I was with was cool with going raw, I was more than happy to oblige. It was at this point that I discovered that I could be a half decent top as long as there was no rubber involved and I went pretty much versatile from that point on.

The last turning point for me was seeing my first bareback porno in the late '90s. I'd never really gotten into porn all that much before. But the bareback stuff was really hot! (It helped that the first video I saw had my kinda men in it too...this was the first point I really fell in lust with Titpig). From that point on, with very limited exceptions, I never let a condom touch me again.

So, casual sex first, then online chat, then the desire for better sex (the ability to top), and finally bareback porn.

[Roglorenz]

I was influenced by some blogs, but was scared after a guy fucked me bare without asking.

I waited a while, and after testing neg, I went and joined some bareback forums. After connecting a few times, I could never go back to condoms.

As for chasing hiv status: yes, I would not cry if I got knocked up.