What factors got you to start barebacking?

[cockjockey]

An older lover I met when I was 18.

His raw oiled dick felt sooooo good in my ass.

He had a really thick heavy cum that he'd deposit in my asshole...loved it!

[NiceHard1]

I don't think anyone has said it yet, so I'll put it out there: Its about the ERECTION!

Guys don't like to admit that it can be hard to stay hard. I had no problem with condoms when I was 21 or 22...but hit 30, 35, 40...it gets to be more of a challenge, but we still want to fuck. And even bottoms get that... Bottoms want to get fucked, and realize that many tops over 30 have a hard time with rubbers, and in order to get fucked, go along with barebacking. Sure there are other reasons and desires too - but this is one of them.

[bearbandit]

Could well be right here: in my fifties and dealing wiht both advanced HIV disease and diabetes; last time at the clinic I had them check testosterone levels, which came back on the high side of normal so my difficulties getting hard are either down to sub-standard trade (unlikely as Im picky) or diaebetic neuropathy. With Daddy's little helper, I don't have the faintest chance of coming on day 1 (even on day 1 - it's a synergistic with atazanavir so that I'm has hard as fuck but I can't come for twenty four hours). Fuck , but it hurts (tops happy!) but when I do come the next day, it's bottom heaven... Meanwhile (isn't versatlity wonderful?) I hope to have takrn several of his...

[VersAlwaysLooking]

Was safe only through my teens and very early 20s. Then accidentally (no joke) fucked a hot, cummy hole in a bathhouse. There was no turning back. After that experience fucking with a condom seemed pointless - i had a taste. Through my mid 20s i was selective and tried to play with only neg guys, then, eventually, i realized half the guys i was fucking were probably poz so now i'll fuck any bottom who catches my attention. I don't ask or care about their status.

[Guest arguy]

I have only had one long term relationship with a guy and after we had been together for 6 months or so and both had tested negative we decided to forgo the use of condoms. I was more of top back then and I fucked and bred my boyfriend everytime we had sex. He fucked me raw a few times but never bred me. After we broke up and I went back to my single, slutty internet activities, I didn't mind fucking guys I hooked up raw but I was very hesitant to let a trick fuck me bare. I met this hot Italian guy online and he was a total top who had a girlfriend but fucked guys on the side. He wanted to come over and fuck me so I invited him over. When we started having sex and he was ready to penetrate me he asked if I would let him fuck me raw. I was very hesitant and said no, but he looked me straight in the eyes and said "Dude I am negative I assure you" and there was something about the look on his face that seemed sincere so I agreed and that was one of the hottest fuck sessions I had ever experienced. After that I no longer wanted a condom covered dick in my ass, although it was at least 5 or 6 years later (like last year) that I started letting tops cum in my ass.

[cum2me]

guys thanks for all the varying responses...

i just joined on here... have been putting this off for TOO long.

built, fit vs top daddy, who is gettn in touch with HIS/MY need for raw cock and cum up the ass.

for years have carried trememdous, debilitating fear.

reading this, and other posts.... is helping me get some honest insight into what other brothers thing and feel,

not looking so much to be pozzed as just to be fucked... deep and often.

and feel that warm wet cum inside me....

just one big friendly load...will set me off.....

anyone in sf ca .... nice guy, built, hung and understanding want to be the first?

[TonyRedux]

Just wondering what factors got you to start barebacking... Was it bareback porn? Barebackers on hookup sites? Bareback discussion forums? The desire for a better sex life? Or a sex partner who insisted on bareback?

For me the first time I barebacked was with a guy who insisted on it. Then years passed and I started barebacking with a boyfriend. Then I didn't want to go back to condoms.

u omitted the option of "i turned poz". there is already broad consensus that raw feels better, seroconverting is a paradigm shift.

[wynona tv]

A big thing as others have said is unsatisfaction with condoms. Especially if you fuck a while, even the best start getting in the way.

Frankly, maybe psychological but even if so you can't dismiss it for the top, guys w/o condoms seemed to fuck more uninhibited, too.

And last but not least, while above says "casual partner," the other thing is after a couple great guys get away while crusing while you try to be pure about using condoms, if you're a pig slut at heart, and anyway even if not if they looked like or were hot fucks, you start reevaluating.

[pozpigluvr]

Sex early on was without condoms because I couldn't get them. During college I became a safe sex nut and stayed that way into my late 20s. Started bb again with a bf but still used condoms with hookups. One day, a guy had me bent over on an ottoman playing with my ass and I was completely into it. I didn't even notice that he'd switched from tongue and fingers to fucking me. It was one of the best fucks i'd had up until that point. I freaked a little but was addicted to bb from then on. Found bbrt and never looked back. This forum and the guys on it have helped me realize that i'm just as sane as the next (lol). Luv you guys!!

[loadme68]

We are very sane just perpetually horny!

[bearbandit]

A long story... I learned I had HIV in the very moralistic 80s, and eventually ended up bbing with two BFs (both long since dead). My next long term partner tested negative and there was no way I was going to responsible for changing his status; he wasn't much into fucking anyway, and most of our sex life was centred around various torture fetishes. There was a point in the mid nineties when we were both having it off with the same guy who happened to positive. If my partner wasn't around we'd bb - it seemed kinda not quite tactful to do it when my partner was there...

Anyway, late nineties I started on high dose norvir which killed my libido for the next few years. Just as it was coming back, my partner got sick and it seemed less than tactful to go out whoring while he was ill. After he died in 2007 I promised myself I'd keep to myself until I felt I was over the grief (who needs even a one-off with baggage?), so it's only the past year I've been getting out again. Unfortunately I live in a very rural area, so there's not much going on: the guys who want to play seem to be surgically attached to their wives.

So in the past fifteen years I've bb'ed precise twice: the first was a guy who wanted 24/7 ownership of me, despite living a hundred miles away: can see you once a month, I insist on monogamy and chastity in the meantime. Nope. But the one time we met he left me with an arseful of cum... Second time was this weekend, a visitor to the area where I live, unusually for me younger and smaller than me, but with an arse lined with wet velvet (tasted pretty good too), a long lazy fuck, very visual (I especially like to see a guy's eyes when fucking). He especially liked the way I leak pre-cum - sufficient that if I can't be bothered to carry on being sucked off I can fake it and fool him. Ended up fisting him with my left hand (a first for me) with only a minimum of lube needed.

I sero-sort: I believe the first infection with HIV to be the catastrophic one (remember my thinking is coloured by the eighties), so even with an undetectable viral load, and mindful of criminal law in the UK, it's only poz guys who'll get my cum in them. Plenty of other ways of getting off but breeding/being bred is special.

Any Welsh guys in mid or North Wales - my profile's over on BBRT...

[cockfun69]

Never liked poppers but get an incredible head rush when my tits are played with so I lost track of what's going on or who's fucking me.

Went home after a night in a London leather club to find my ass was leaking and my tits were sore.

So I kinda realised I hadn't used the condoms I took. Didn't really bother since, though I will use them if there's a shitty ass to fuck.

Still on the hunt for poz nipple versatile or tops (amazing to work a guy's tits to get him drilling me deeper!)

[uclatinosj]

ive been barebacking since my preteens

[Guest faggot hole]

Me too. My first sexual experience (pre-teens) was raw, and i probably had been fucked a couple hundred times before i even saw a condom. When i finally saw one, i truly was dumbfounded. After so many years of raw sex, protected sex just doesn't seem natural (because it isn't). i have never been comfortable with protected sex. i guess we're all just a product of what we are used to and how we've been raised. Lucky me: i was raised to know only the real thing.

[Rawmanfinland]

Porn might have been some influenceces wich made me start barebacking, but when i was 17 and virgin barebacking was for me the most natrural way to have sex. I was thinking that when im fucking my first time i will shoot my load in someones ass. And in my first time that happend. Well, later i started to use condoms sometimes, but barebacking is for me still the most natural way to fuck.

Edited February 11, 2013 by barebackbisexual