If it was up to you to set a new age of consent, what would the age be and why?

[twoguyssssss4fun]

It should not be a crime unless you are being forced/ rape. I was not looking to fuck ass or get fucked when I started at 9/10 but I was looking for jo partners, oral and grinding cocks together. I had some hair and even remember saying to my older brother and his friend , why am i always horny?  Every one is unique and develops at their own rate, but a general law is stupid. Thank god things were different when i was younger than what they seem today as far as age goes

[KYRiley]

On 11/3/2013 at 6:46 PM, Good Boy said:

Any age is fine. Children can enjoy a loving sexual experience just as much (maybe more) than adults. I'm not talking about banging a 2 year old. Small children can enjoy rubbing and touching. Sex is beautiful. it should be a topic that we are open with publicly and information should flow freely to children so they know that their desires are not sick or disgusting. Rapers, people who use coercion, and people who want to degrade or hurt innocents should be punished,but I know/knew many many boys who would have loved to have a sexual experience with me. I also know that I was close to their parents and that if we were all open about it they could help make the decision if the child was ready for something loving and honest. Teens could use the advise of their parents in a society that is sex positive. too. Broad sweeping laws that set an age of consent for something that is emotional are ridiculous. Individuals are ready for varying degrees of sexuality at different ages.

I'm going to totally disagree here. 

At 3, 5, 9, and maybe even 12, you may not be aware of cope with the emotional impact of having sex. 

I do say I commend you for restraint.

[KYRiley]

2 hours ago, twoguyssssss4fun said:

It should not be a crime unless you are being forced/ rape. I was not looking to fuck ass or get fucked when I started at 9/10 but I was looking for jo partners, oral and grinding cocks together. I had some hair and even remember saying to my older brother and his friend , why am i always horny?  Every one is unique and develops at their own rate, but a general law is stupid. Thank god things were different when i was younger than what they seem today as far as age goes

If an 11 yr old and a 9 yr old want to have sex together, that's their right and unless parents fuss, the police likely wouldn't be involved.  We have more pressing issues than underage consensual sex.  However, when it comes to electronic means, I doubt they'll ever decriminalize having interactions with people under 18 simply because of National and international laws.

[KYRiley]

On 8/22/2019 at 7:44 AM, CuriousDallas said:

I say get rid of it entirely but stiffen the penalties for rape under 18. Most guys start experimenting when they’re underage and I started at 13. I was ready. Mind you, not every guy is, but I had a really hard time finding guys over 18 to have sex with. I still look very young for my age and still have guys worried I’m under 18 or turned on because they think I’m under 18. I also get a lot of guys under 18 hitting on me. They hate the stupid law every bit as I did and do. It needs to go

I doubt 2 teens experimenting with one another would get arrested or charged, that is unless a parent complains or you're breaking another law  that the police are investigating.

Making consistent laws involving any victim of rape is the best especially when the victim not an adult.

Rapes aren't always a slam dunk to convict.  Also, rape claims can be coerced, done in bad blood, or retracted.  If the parents forbid sex until marriage or a certain age, a child having sex sooner could say it wasn't consentual so they don't get in trouble..

 

On 8/22/2019 at 9:12 AM, Pozlover1 said:

For eons it was Puberty.

During the fall of Rome the nobility had sex with prepubescent children, but that was hated by average people. The Centurion’s lover that Jesus healed without condemnation was undoubtedly under 18, but old enough to help the Centurion with his armor. And the Centurion was probably only in his early 20’s himself.  

At Puberty you got married and started serious work although children helped at the farm or family business to learn. The Age of Consent in most Mexican states (and Mexico City) is still 12.

Children have traditionally been exploited without regard to their well being.  As slaves, as cheap labor in factories during the Industrial Revolution and chained to sewing machines  in Asia today. 

Hollywood had a fascination with children since the late 20’s (“The Kid”) and heavily into the 30’s. Both Shirley Temple and Our Gang were often portrayed in unrealistically sexual situations. I believe this was an attempt to normalize their sick perversions into society. 

Hitler knew his future was with the children, and made joining the Hitler Youth mandatory in 1938. He turned a generation into murderers. 

In the West, the Bilderberg Group invented “teenagers” after WWII. They said it was  to extend their education to beat those godless commies, but they were actually being indoctrinated to do anything the TV  told them to, including buying garbage and being soldiers, until the 60’s when the Hippies finally told them “NO”. 

Making Puberty the Age Of Consent  is actually the BEST protection from  being manipulated by adults for their own purposes. 

While I may agree with you, I can't.   Each person develops differently and even the age puberty begins can be between 9-16.  Also, developmental disorders can impact ones development.

[TotalPig]

No one over 18 should be having any sexual contact with anyone under 18.   

[KYRiley]

6 minutes ago, TotalPig said:

No one over 18 should be having any sexual contact with anyone under 18.   

In an ideal world, that would solve a lot of problems

But in a realistic world, things will never change.

Based on your statement, you're saying that a couple in a committed relationship need to abstain from sex  with people under 18.  So if 1 guy is 6 months older than the other guy and dude 1 turned 18, you're thinking it's rralistic for them tom abstain until both are 18?

[TotalPig]

9 minutes ago, KYRiley said:

In an ideal world, that would solve a lot of problems

But in a realistic world, things will never change.

Based on your statement, you're saying that a couple in a committed relationship need to abstain from sex  with people under 18.  So if 1 guy is 6 months older than the other guy and dude 1 turned 18, you're thinking it's rralistic for them tom abstain until both are 18?

Don’t be stupid. You know exactly what I am talking about. There is a huge difference between two high school sweethearts just months apart in age and an adult molesting a child or teen.  The molesters are not “dating” the child.

[catcherinneed]

On 1/31/2017 at 6:42 AM, Guest GoodExercise said:

My oldest brother fucked me up the ass while we were in the bathtub together.  He was 13 and  I was 7, and I loved getting my first load in me.  So, I have three older brothers, who at the time were 9, 11 and 13.  The oldest told the other two about my willingness to be be used for sex, and I was pressed into service sucking cock, licking ass (my favorite) and getting fucked by all three of them (often in a 4way).  It was a great experience for me to explore each of my brothers in their ascending stages of physical maturity and sexual prowess.  This continued until each left the house to join the Navy -- which is when I decided that I should become a versatile top (and went off to find my first raw bottom).

Fuck that’s so hot!!

[catcherinneed]

I voted age 13 because at that age I was fully aware of what I wanted. I first watched porn (straight) at age 12 and my only thought was wishing I were the woman getting mounted and bred. By 13 I was attracted to older guys, older teens who were not shy and boasting about being sexually active. I wasn’t out, was bullied and didn’t have freedom that would’ve allowed me to seek any sexual experience during my teenage years, so I didn’t get to lose my virginity until I was 19. I always fantasize about having had my first experience around age 13 with an older guy 18+. 

[stevelovesfucking]

On 11/3/2010 at 5:41 AM, submissivefaggot said:

I knew from 13 what sex was about. I think that's old enough for tops to be allowed to use as they wish.

agree

I knew at 13 too

[cman54]

I think it should be 13. I know when I was that age I really wanted to know what sex was all about. I think it should be taught in schools. Boys should be encouraged to do both straight and gay sex.  Girls are definitely ready to have sex at 13. Birth control should be important in teaching girls about sex. But they should be allowed to have a free choice if the want a baby or not. And babies born out of wed lock should be fine with every one. I think it would help both bays and girls with body development. Girls would have great breast development and I think it would help a guys cock and balls development better too. Also it would help with a boys ass develop and be able to handle cock in it. It would teach guys how important their ass is and they can get a lot of pleasure from it.

[bocini]

I was fucked by my best friend i was 14. We were both long haired boys then. It was a totally mess lol. But we  enjoyed the contact and passion of being together.

So with help from his very liberated mother we work out the details of gay sex and really got into it.

Came out . My father was keen for me to move on. So moved in with John at his family house

 Had a hard time at school as the schools openly fags. That i think is the big challenge in lowering the age the school environment.  

But at 14 for us with help and support of johns mum it worked for us 

[Bttm2go]

I would say 16. Really though it would depend on the individual. Some are ready at 12 and others in their twenties. The problem is how would you know. So I guess the only way to address it is to come up with an age and stick with it. It is a little insane though. Five minutes before his age of consent birthday he can’t have sex with someone older but then magically at 12:01 am he’s suddenly able to have sex with who ever he wants. 

[DarkroomTaker]

Its strange, but when I was in single digits, i dont know how I come to know things about sex.

I seemed to wake one morning curious about cock, obsessed with my father and older men.

I seemed to know to sit in uncles laps and bounce myself on thrir groins, some would be fine and some would move me off.

I seduced my father when he was drunk and he in a stuper responded to my mouth blowing him, i wrote this up a while back , not for this thread.

I was also cruising restrooms at this age, sucking men and getting fucked by them in cubicles.

Point is from a very young age, I seemed to know what I was doing, I had an active sex life. However, thinking about some of the kids in my class, they were very young for their age, so maybe it is an individual choice, which will still be against the law.

[SweetPiss]

I don’t mess with children. I have traveled internationally and seen men have young boys to their room. I had  17 year old in Costa Rica. A friend of mine had him come because I was so horny. The guy came and none of my condoms would fit his massive tool. He said let’s do it like this. My friend had told me that this guy was straight and only coming for the money. So eventually I caved and let him fuck me. He fucked the hell out of me. He was at least 9.5 x6 . I still remember him being so deep in me. And he was so passionate and sexual. He pulled out and shot his load on my back. My friend said that he could get a boy that was 13 that was way better. I said no way! Just because I am out of the country doesn’t mean I can break the law.