Have you ever been turned down because of something out of your control(age/race/height/etc)?

[Bwccummer]

I try to be upfront in if can't host at moment or can't travel at the time to save all parties time. Seems with internet I guess some want a virtual hookup where get address but not want to physically travel. I don't get that but best can figure for the flakes.

Some I guess like play games of where may host but not Actually host. Not get but if actually host could have had fun.

I find some uncomfortable if seem to pressure. I find better to not pressure and not be pushy. 

I think be hard to find individuals if only looking for a age range, from a city unless is large. If put too many limits on that likely find few fit search criteria.

I guess a reason some like anonymous or dark room takes much of rejection away. 

Some not work for if can't host at moment or reply two days after day could host.

Some may only be interested in one time and make most of. Others may like ongoing. All depends on preference.

Find works well to be open for individuals age 18 or older for legal reasons, race, geography if open to someone from 20 miles or so away, individual preference of looks. Personality play a larger role. One can look great but personality can be lacking or shows could treat individuals nicer.

Some not let know if no longer interested, but find helpful to be polite if decline. 

 

[Britnonchaser]

Duh, who hasn't? Jesus christ, I thought "some things we can't control" was a lesson we'd all learned by the time we were like 11.

I have big ears. I want to do something about it but I dont have money for surgery. My dick is like 6.5 inches, not 9.. so... some really hot guys who I'd like to fuck, don't want to know. 

[find91]

On 1/13/2020 at 4:05 PM, MykBruce said:

I've been turned down by a very hoot guy in a club...

I went home to the chat room, got invited by  a horny top...

Whent there only to get fuck by the same guy who turn me down at the club...? 

 I don't understand...  

I got fuck and whent back home. 

Crazy guy...?

Image is everything now a days. Been around people that did not want yo associate with me in public but was more than happy to take my dick behind close doors. You don't fit their "brand" they reject u. But when the horniness hits they are a slut like the rest of us.

[find91]

On 1/13/2020 at 6:30 PM, PG1961Canada said:

Seriously? WTH is the matter with the men in Montreal dude!??  I would love to measure your height, dick size and nipple hardness with my tongue... not worry about your age and get naked with you on my next trip.  Your pics are hot.... your responses to these forums are even hotter!  Woof!!

(See? there is always someone interested!!!) Cheers

Offer accepted.

Mtl can be a great city but very clickish, and thé older crowed is bitter because they are no longer twinks ( let it go) so they take it out on certain guys.

True, that's why I focus on people, I connect with and not on the lost ones

[RandyCubby]

I got turned down by a guy for not remembering I'd done him a couple of months before. ;-)

[Sunovabesh]

5 hours ago, RandyCubby said:

I got turned down by a guy for not remembering I'd done him a couple of months before. 😉

I love you

[Sunovabesh]

On 1/13/2020 at 5:42 PM, takingdeepanal said:

I remember when being a ginger was like being a leper. Apparently, we're "in fashion" now - but why couldn't this have been true 30 years ago?

I mean, ginger men have always been hot? 

I mean, personally I always wanted to taste a Ginger-Bred-Man

 

[Guest BBfaggot]

Constantly. Being a tall large framed hairy masculine guy is a drawback when you're a total bottom in a world that glorifies twink bottoms in porn, culture, etc. There's enough top guys out there that are into a bottom like me to keep me busy though.

[Guest Descartes70817]

Who can keep count of the ways we've been turned down?

I've been too young, too slim, too athletic, too muscular, too attractive, too assertive, not aggressive enough, too old, too overweight, I'm uncut, my dick is too thick, and the list goes on and on.

At the same time I can't count the ways I've turned others down, except that usually the only real turn-off is lying about your weight before we meet. I don't mind guys being a little overweight (who isn't these days), but when you show up and you've obviously knocked 100lbs or more off your true weight I'm gonna tell you to fuck right off.

Edited January 15, 2020 by Descartes70817

[Pozlover1]

When I was younger and wore 29” pants I was too poor for the normie yuppie gays. Now that I am not broke, decent looking for my age, and not an arrogant prick, it seems they want their palm greased before their ass. LOL

[Beardybear]

My beef regarding this topic is the way it has been done to me.  I totally get we all have our likes and dislikes...self included, but don’t be a rude dick about it.  Just tell me so and let’s move on.  You don’t have to name call...I didn’t like elementary school the first time...you don’t have to block me when I’ve only looked at your pic....I didn’t like the drama in junior high....how about we act like adults?  Geez🙄 

[Sunovabesh]

11 minutes ago, Beardybear said:

My beef regarding this topic is the way it has been done to me.  I totally get we all have our likes and dislikes...self included, but don’t be a rude dick about it.  Just tell me so and let’s move on.  You don’t have to name call...I didn’t like elementary school the first time...you don’t have to block me when I’ve only looked at your pic....I didn’t like the drama in junior high....how about we act like adults?  Geez🙄 

First off, you're adorable, and deserve back rubs and chin scratches (no, I'm not indicating you're a dog, but love to rub your belly (in more ways than one)). So, remember that you are valued and are beautiful

1 hour ago, BBfaggot said:

Constantly. Being a tall large framed hairy masculine guy is a drawback when you're a total bottom in a world that glorifies twink bottoms in porn, culture, etc. There's enough top guys out there that are into a bottom like me to keep me busy though.

And they dumb as shit for not liking your stature. Yes, we glorify/objectify the notion of "femininity = submission," however, being a bottom/ sub-bottom/ sub/ does not require this weird means. You are valid in wanting to bottom and just let go. And you deserve the respect and care from tops that acknowledge your individuality. I'm sorry if I come off as preachy, however, masculine/burly/older bottoms deserve love and care as for every bottom does. And it truly pains me hearing such beautiful men like yourself aren't recognized for not only your individuality, but your humanity and beauty as well. 

[Guest]

26 minutes ago, Beardybear said:

My beef regarding this topic is the way it has been done to me.  I totally get we all have our likes and dislikes...self included, but don’t be a rude dick about it.  Just tell me so and let’s move on.  You don’t have to name call...I didn’t like elementary school the first time...you don’t have to block me when I’ve only looked at your pic....I didn’t like the drama in junior high....how about we act like adults?  Geez🙄 

I agree with you.  When I am not interested, there is no need to be mean about it.  Everyone deserves the respect.  You can do that while still being direct.

[Guest takingdeepanal]

I was once told that my email name "obviously means that you have AIDS" ...

[Guest BBfaggot]

2 hours ago, Sunovabesh said:

First off, you're adorable, and deserve back rubs and chin scratches (no, I'm not indicating you're a dog, but love to rub your belly (in more ways than one)). So, remember that you are valued and are beautiful

And they dumb as shit for not liking your stature. Yes, we glorify/objectify the notion of "femininity = submission," however, being a bottom/ sub-bottom/ sub/ does not require this weird means. You are valid in wanting to bottom and just let go. And you deserve the respect and care from tops that acknowledge your individuality. I'm sorry if I come off as preachy, however, masculine/burly/older bottoms deserve love and care as for every bottom does. And it truly pains me hearing such beautiful men like yourself aren't recognized for not only your individuality, but your humanity and beauty as well. 

Well I'm certainly not faulting anybody for having specific things that they're attracted to or want sexually, it just sucks that I can never be comfortable in my own skin because the person that I am on the inside sexually isn't reflected very much by my outward appearance. My only gripe really is the way in which gay culture and porn push the twink bottom as the ideal bottom, and the extent to which this forms preconceptions in guys minds regarding their sexual preferences. Sucky, but not much I can do about it. 😛