Are “Belly’s” in Vogue? Help Me Understand Please

[Guest DetroitAnon]

I have the natural body of a gymnast.  I’m 5’6”.  Naturally broad shoulders, very nice chest, arms I can gain huge biceps and triceps easily, bubble butt, muscular thighs, and big calves.   I carry little to no fat in those areas.   I’m also a handsome Italian guy with blue eyes and a dark beard, and semi-hairy body.   Guys guess my age from my mid 30s to mid 40s.  Never my real age of 53.  
 

Most of my excess weight right now is solely in my belly.   I lost a younger brother from a major heart attack 3 years ago at age 46.  I lost my only sister in Nov 2019 at age 56 from numerous conflicting health challenges, just a few months before she would have become a grandma for the first time.   So since 2016, I’ve struggled with depression.  Food and sex have been my only comfort.   
 

What I TRULY don’t understand is how many guys find me to be really hot with a big belly.   I can’t look in the mirror right now out of disgust, and I can’t believe how many guys find it sexy on me, and how many guys actually say they love my belly.  

I met a black guy who is a producer of Bear soft core porn with his own site who said I would be a star and big attraction on his site.  He himself loved to fuck me and loved my belly.

10, 20, 30 years ago, I never heard of a belly on a fairly hot guy to be a turn-on.   Is this a bear thing?  I get my fair share of really hot guys.   Help me understand this cause I don’t really get it.   I’m happy about still being attractive to a lot of guys while I struggle to get rid of my belly (and I will)...I just don’t get it.  .  
 

 

[Harryass]

I am honestly sorry to hear you lost your brother and sister at such a young age.

[Guest DetroitAnon]

On 3/16/2020 at 5:14 AM, Harryass said:

I am honestly sorry to hear you lost your brother and sister at such a young age.

Thank you for saying that

[Daddyph]

My heartfelt condolences for your losses. They were too young to pass away. Best regards, Marty.

[ErosWired]

When I started ART, the medication prescribed had the side effect of rearranging the fat in my body into my torso, where it stubbornly remains. I never had a belly before, and it’s not horrible now, but I have been surprised a couple of times lately by young guys who say they like my “belly”. Only young ones though, in the 20s range.

 I’m glad it gives them pleasure even if I don’t take it as a compliment.

 The only explanation I can surmise for this is that some men when young may have had father-figures or older male role models who had bellies, and thus they subconsciously associate that body shape with positive masculinity or masculine power.

Otherwise, I have no idea, and I intend to get rid of this thing as fast as I can.

[drscorpio]

I'm a fat, 56-year-old, and I have been having some of the best sex of my life with one of the hottest young tops I have ever slept with since Christmas. He is totally into my chubby belly. 

[Beardude]

A sexy man is a sexy man. In most cases physique has nothing to do with it. It's what he does with it.

[smart5ass]

I'm 48 and I have always thought that a ballgut or belly is very sexy.  However, now that I have a small one myself, I can also understand that you don't care for it on your own body.

I'm sorry about your the loss of your family members. 

[Willing]

On 3/22/2020 at 1:05 AM, drscorpio said:

I'm a fat, 56-year-old, and I have been having some of the best sex of my life with one of the hottest young tops I have ever slept with since Christmas. He is totally into my chubby belly. 

Love to lick big bellybutton  belly 😋 

[Willing]

1 minute ago, Willing said:

Love to lick big bellybutton  belly 😋 

BTW, just asking,  is chat room gone for good sir ?

[atlboy]

Big belly's and bears have always been hot. I think you're just confused cause you personally don't like it (nothing wrong with that).

[Willing]

On 5/27/2023 at 9:08 AM, Willing said:

 

 

Edited November 3 by Willing
I'm dumb

[BarebackedBear]

"Dadbod" seems to be the flavor of the week with The Gays these days, and tbh I'm here for it. I've always been a big, beefy bear type. Hairy all over with a tummy, thicc ass, solid thighs, bearded. For ages I was invisible while twinks and gym rats were what the porn industry told guys they should want.

We're heat in the winter and shade in the summer, and a thicc ass makes a great slapping noise when you're clapping cheeks. Don't sleep on the bear types. I've even had a few guys tell me when I get really worked up in the moment, I growl 🐻

[Ieatcumholes]

I have always loved what I call a "Pooh belly"! (Winnie the Pooh, for those who may not know.)

🤬 I'm old enough to have watched the second (?) incarnation of those cartoons when they were new... 😖

[SFCumdog]

While we are constantly bombarded with that old canard about aging guys becoming invisible, I've found that to be completely untrue. Once I got a bit older, started putting on a little weight, got a nice belly, boys started noticing me in a way that had never happened to me before. And then when I finally was able to grow a good solid beard, it became like a boy magnet... guys actually compliment me on it on the street, and in Costco, etc... Until i met my current boyfriend who is half my age 🙂 I was having more sex than I ever did in my entire life. I never got this kind of attention when I was younger. The only thing that I will say is that so many of these boys like older men/daddies in secret for fear that their friends will find out, which I think is kind of sad. If that's what you like, just fucking go for it, and don't give a crap about what your friends think. It's your life and you only get one chance to enjoy it.