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I think it is standard to think that as a pig. I tried for many years to not be a pig or to bareback but in the end both won as its how I like sex. I don't see the point in fucking with a condom and I love being used in restrained scenarios, my hole being anon used and abused by cock or fist. I went to Berling for their folsom festival, wore nothing but harness, chaps and leather jock around town and felt liberating for guys to want to touch me and use me. That evening I went to the party in a warehouse just in my harness and jock this time and boy it was a great night, I was sore front and back by morning and plenty of guys used me so much I lost count but I knew there was no condoms in site.

Now that was one piggy fantasy I loved playing out and does that make me a bad person?

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Everyone draws his line in the sand at a different place. My ex would never even have casual/anonymous sex - he thinks that alone is risky. My line is certainly much farther out than his, but not as far as yours. Doesn't mean my ex is wrong, or I am wrong or you are wrong.

I think how we set the line should be based on the potential for serious harm to ourselves or others. Of course even that may be grey - some would think that barebacking with a poz guy can cause harm. I get concerned about guys who chem and then have difficulty finding the line that they would otherwise have set for themselves if they were not chemed. Try to have a "designated driver" around who can help make sure everyone stays safe - or at least as safe as they are trying to be.

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Everyone draws his line in the sand at a different place. My ex would never even have casual/anonymous sex - he thinks that alone is risky. My line is certainly much farther out than his, but not as far as yours. Doesn't mean my ex is wrong, or I am wrong or you are wrong.

I think how we set the line should be based on the potential for serious harm to ourselves or others. Of course even that may be grey - some would think that barebacking with a poz guy can cause harm. I get concerned about guys who chem and then have difficulty finding the line that they would otherwise have set for themselves if they were not chemed. Try to have a "designated driver" around who can help make sure everyone stays safe - or at least as safe as they are trying to be.

Interesting points. I wasn't equating "too piggy" with anything involving the line. For me the line between what I would actually do and fantasy is separate. I can get off on very extreme piggy and/or hardcore porn, but won't actually do it.

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Too piggy is an individual thing I believe. What someone thinks is extreme or too extreme may seem calm to someone else. I think everyone needs to set their limits and then maybe push them a little until they decide they cannot do more. Beyond your personal limit is too piggy.

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Your question says "is it strange to desire..." in fantasy nothing is too anything. If you do something and like it and do it again it's not too piggy.
Actually, that's a good way of putting it. There are some things I'm really not into. Or, I think I'm not into it. But with the right guy, I might try it and like it. The only absolute deal breakers for me are puke, scat and blood.
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I think there is a difference between desiring and actually making something like that happens. I'm not saying it doesn't happen.. but because is so hard to attain, it remains a highly desired wish

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