How to actually use a condom?

[raw773]

For rather personal reasons, I find myself actually needing to fuck a bottom using a condom. The problem is I haven't used a condom in about 10 years. The idea of doing so is repulsive. I'm really afraid I'm not going to be able to stay hard, the second the latex touches my dick. Obviously I intend to convince him to go bare as soon as possible, but I've got to plow him wrapped first or it'll never happen.

Does anyone have advice on how to go covered?

[FillMyRear]

Throw it in the garbage

[Nclchub]

Lube up your cock before you put the condom on. That can help ease the sensation of the condom on your dick.

It's also possible that he'll be more willing to go bare if you lose your erection while fucking him. Having a good fuck abruptly stop can be the push that convinces people to just ditch the condom (it's what got me to ditch condoms).

Don't stealth him. As hot as that is in porn in practice it can get you in a lot of trouble and isn't worth the risk.

Good luck

[Guest Chiskin]

why are you using a condom? 

 

[verslut]

Masturbate with a condom on for practice.

And learn how to put on a condom properly. Put a small drop of lube in the reservoir, then pinch the reservoir, and finally unroll the condom onto your penis.

[raw773]

On 10/19/2020 at 4:47 AM, Nclchub said:

It's also possible that he'll be more willing to go bare if you lose your erection while fucking him. Having a good fuck abruptly stop can be the push that convinces people to just ditch the condom (it's what got me to ditch condoms).

Yeah, that's pretty good advice. I genuinely respect him and his desire to use a condom... at first. Obviously I can't wait to get in him raw when he's encouraged.

[raw773]

15 hours ago, verslut said:

Masturbate with a condom on for practice.

It's like drinking skim milk when the cream is right there. 😭 But good advice.

[Guest]

I noticed that many condom only guys go bare if you put the lube on the raw dick, so that other user suggesting to put lube before the rubber might have given you an indirect tip. Somehow stroking a lubed dick accelerates the desire to get it going. So many times the rubber ended up still wrapped on the side of the bed, might start collecting them!

[1000GUYS]

1 hour ago, bluewind said:

I noticed that many condom only guys go bare if you put the lube on the raw dick, so that other user suggesting to put lube before the rubber might have given you an indirect tip. Somehow stroking a lubed dick accelerates the desire to get it going. So many times the rubber ended up still wrapped on the side of the bed, might start collecting them!

i cant see why a "Only condom guy" would go bare in any circumstance... 

[raw773]

3 hours ago, bluewind said:

I noticed that many condom only guys go bare if you put the lube on the raw dick, so that other user suggesting to put lube before the rubber might have given you an indirect tip.

I actually worry it's gonna slip off inside the bottom if I lube my cock inside the rubber. I think in reality it won't.

In the end this bottom got tagged raw as hoped for. The condom games were just for show I guess. 🙊🙉🙈

[Guest]

4 hours ago, 1000GUYS said:

i cant see why a "Only condom guy" would go bare in any circumstance... 

Believe me there's A LOT of people who are self proclaimed condom only and go bare as soon as their dick is hard enough

[dacoman]

There are tutorials online, Also jerking off with a condom on is definitely good practice.

[bredbiyou]

On 10/26/2020 at 1:24 AM, raw773 said:

I actually worry it's gonna slip off inside the bottom if I lube my cock inside the rubber. I think in reality it won't.

In the end this bottom got tagged raw as hoped for. The condom games were just for show I guess. 🙊🙉🙈

It does happen. Before I really got into barebacking, a number of tops had to fish condoms out of my whole after they'd slipped off entirely. Of course none of them ever mentioned that it had slipped off until after they'd cum in my ass while unprotected. And of course each time it happened I'd realize that the direct skin on skin contact felt so much better, even as I'd be freaking out about possibly having  been pozzed.

But I'm very pleased that your bottom reconsidered his insistence that you wear a condom.

[raw773]

7 hours ago, bredbiyou said:

Of course none of them ever mentioned that it had slipped off until after they'd cum in my ass while unprotected.

It can just be so hard to tell... You know. We all make mistakes. 😂

[kinkysuBB]

Burn it 😜

Anyway, as a reformed condom Nazi, you firstly pick one that’s the right size. You pinch the tip so as to keep the teat hanging off the end of your dick when it’s put on. You then pop it over the tip of your hard dick, and roll it down. It only unrolls one way, so if it’s not unrolling, you need to flip it the other way. Don’t do this if you’ve already forced it on a bit since you’ve probably damaged it, get a new one. Then lube the whole thing up with water based lube. Fuck. Take it off as soon as you’re finished fucking, before you go soft and it slips off in the bottom. If it comes off during sex, get a new one, don’t reuse it.

Practice on a banana or something, it’s what I did as a teenager.

Of course, this should all be done in tandem with persuading your bottom to cop the fuck on... I mean see the light 😈😏

Edited November 17, 2020 by subBottomKink