Soft when fucked

[SFSloppyAznBottom]

I’m like that too , with exception when I’m stoned or somewhat romantically into the top.

[Harryass]

It is all about making the top happy so no worries!

[find91]

On 10/21/2020 at 11:30 PM, bentover66 said:

Hi Guys, weird that I never get hard when I am getting fucked. I enjoy it a lot, and my pre-cum drips like a faucet, but I don't understand why I stay soft. 

Is that normal? I am wondering if I should go see a doctor to see if there is an underlying health issue?

Can you get an erection not getting fucked?

It's pretty common, a lot of anal stimulation can distract you from an erection.

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

Almost always am soft and tiny when being bred. But also ooze precum and have even cum without a hardon. I get off on being used by top men.

[Pumpinmyhole]

If we're making out while I'm getting fucked, I'll stay hard.  If not, I'm generally soft even if I'm really into the top.  I just get so focused on my ass that my hardon goes away.  

[Guest]

im always soft when im being fucked, i may get hard before he fucks me but soon as he starts on my hole i go soft till its all over.

[damsonffpig]

Hey its natural, the focus goes to your hole and you dick goes soft.....totally normal I would say and very horny too...

[PupLucca]

I wouldn't worry about it. It's pretty natural to not be hard while getting pounded out

[ChainedBoy]

I’ve actually trained myself to stay soft when taking a dick - for so many reasons. My dick is fairly good sized, bigger than most guys that use me. Staying soft eliminates any potential thought that they don’t “measure up”.  While I am a well behaved fuckhole who wouldn’t touch my dick while being fucked, staying soft further eliminates that temptation. It also eliminates a fuckers temptation to jack me - I find that very distracting as all of my focus should be on his cock and my cunt. Finally, in my mind staying soft demonstrates a greater degree of submission. 

[scubacubed]

Depends.  I usually don't stay hard the entire time.  I usually start out fully hard or semi and then soften while getting fucked.  I have cum from being fucked when hard before.

[Guest Xtraglazedonuthole]

This is kind of a problem for me. I have a decent sized dick and tops like to see it hard/ play with it but once i start to focus on bottoming its gone. I can tell there's a little disappointment. 

[OinkingSPERMpig]

Same here. I want it to be about my hole. When watching porn I always prefer it when the bottom has just a tiny limp dick. He is just a bottom pig to be used like he should. Or that is how I view it. I was even somewhat frustrated when I would get rockhard. Nowadays that is not much of an issue any more. As others here say: The more you mentally focus on your hole and challenge yourself to be about "taking the dick" the less you tend to get hard. 

[bbpigbtm]

I stay soft, i usely drip and cum, i have multi anal orgasms ( hole spasmns& gripps& milks, ) i cam cum soft- especially fit nipps are work, or balls pulled

[bbpigbtm]

True, i hate when tops see my bigger junk, and start too fag up, i’m the btm , its a fuck hole, ny junk just a handel to pull me bach on your man cock, i do love that i mat blow big loads being soft& fuck, but great to move back more and feed on my mess!

[bbsam]

Yeah, my dick is often soft when I get fucked. Not always, but a lot of the time.