someone I know irl found me on this site...

[Ezslutbottom]

I have seen guys I know before on hookup apps. never actually talked to them or heard anything past just seeing their picture though.

 

I have always wanted someone I've known to fuck me  and breed me though. had a chance with a friend way back when I was 17 I used to suck him and tried to fuck me but it was my first time ever and I had to stop from the pain... I don't think he would be down now days.. I think he is straight for the most part.

[mblad99]

After my son graduated from high school, I found 3 of his acquaintances on grindr (I don't keep my pic on my profile)  One was a teammate on his basketball team and classmate (kind of a bully in 8th grade),   another on his soccer team (really nice kid) and the third was his bro friend in 8th grade (both liked talking to girls, but for different reasons).   I got 2 of them to send me their cock pics..lol.  

[Guest]

I've been contacted by a guy I went to highschool with, he mentioned my first name and surname initial, and the name of the school. Now the ridiculous part: he's obviously attracted and sent me several xxx pics of himself a night, but the next day he said it was too awkward and everything went silent. 

This is a guy I went to highschool with like 2 decades ago, don't remember a single thing of, don't even know his name and we weren't even in the same classroom, telling me he's attracted but chooses not to because "it's awkward". Small city gays can be ridiculously repressed it's not even funny.  

Edited January 29, 2021 by bluewind

[Guest ChiBottom773]

Once I started camming with other guys thoughts of being recognized gradually become a non-issue for me personally. Camming really has freed me sexually and I love being an exhibitionist.

Edited January 29, 2021 by ChiBottom773
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[bisexualguy1978]

1 hour ago, ChiBottom773 said:

Once I started camming with other guys thoughts of being recognized gradually become a non-issue for me personally. Camming really has freed me sexually and I love being an exhibitionist.

You actually have a good point there. Talking for myself i have a similar experience, not by camming, but by frequently visiting cruising areas near work & home. The constant risk of meeting people you know sort of desensitizes you.
I went from 'what if someone seems me' thinking to 'If you see me here, good for you, let's fuck'.

(nice dick btw)

Edited January 29, 2021 by bisexualguy1978

[Guest PARTYPIGBEAR]

First question. What is wrong, or why would you want to hide the fact you are a member?  I understand some topics, subject matters, and the like are more outside the lines, we will say. But If you take a good look around, there is a great deal of educational material and articles, hot men some of whom put information in their profiles, comparable to say a Squirt,  BBRT, or even Scruff. 
 

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not going to discuss the latest blog with my kids or anything. Besides I can garantee they would not give a crap about it anyway. lol 

I have found when I take an active or confident approach when questioned regarding things like membership on this site, I get a great deal more buy in or understanding from others. If I were to “hide”, lie, or attempt to be deceptive then  it  actually making matters worse. Because we are then communicating to the people who are questioning,  even we feel there’s something wrong that’s why we are choosing to be deceptive or lie right to their face. 
 

That is just my opinion 
 

[ErosWired]

@PARTYPIGBEAR - I think the concern some have is not that they are seen as a member, but rather that someone they know IRL has just seen the pics of their freshly fucked asshole and read their posts about how they will take any cock any time and “love to guzzle jizz”. It’s the way their online self-portrayal has the potential to alter the way people act toward them in person that is concerning, especially if that person knows them in a primarily non-sexual context.

 It is also possible that identification could lead to unexpected or unwanted approaches for sexual contact by people who suddenly see the member as sexually open, available or even promiscuous, whom the member for whatever reason has no desire to fuck with.

This issue wouldn’t be an issue if we could all simply live as our genuine selves with nothing to hide. Then we wouldn’t even need to hide behind usernames. Unfortunately, our society is not yet so enlightened.

[LittleCumSewer]

my gay uncle found out I was a little cumdumpster after a few of his buddies hooked up with me for some quick blowjobs and pump n dumps. I was using a couple sites to score cock on a regular basis and a few of them found me and even though they knew my uncle they couldn't resist using my sweet tender asshole and mouth. best thing is it led to me getting trained to be a true pussyboy by my dirty uncle and his buddies and helped turn me into the take all loads cumdumpster I am. he already knew I was a sissy girly faggot and suspected I was slutty partly because of how slutty I was already dressing but once he confirmed I was a sub bottom, he knew I would be fun to use and train. I was already a talented Deep-throat cocksucker and could take a big dick fairly easily so he knew I was experienced enough to really turn out. he taught me what I am and how to be a great pussyboy so i became a gangbang boy pretty quickly and loved it when he whored me out, passed me around and turned me into a t-girl. he also taught me how to cruise public restrooms, cruising spots and how to sneak into the porntheatres for cock. he also took me to the bathhouse my first bunch of times.

[ladyMacDeath]

Kinda weird.  I legit just found the life on here. May have already pozzdd me.  

[BootmanLA]

On 1/31/2021 at 8:33 AM, ErosWired said:

@PARTYPIGBEAR - I think the concern some have is not that they are seen as a member, but rather that someone they know IRL has just seen the pics of their freshly fucked asshole and read their posts about how they will take any cock any time and “love to guzzle jizz”. It’s the way their online self-portrayal has the potential to alter the way people act toward them in person that is concerning, especially if that person knows them in a primarily non-sexual context.

 It is also possible that identification could lead to unexpected or unwanted approaches for sexual contact by people who suddenly see the member as sexually open, available or even promiscuous, whom the member for whatever reason has no desire to fuck with.

This issue wouldn’t be an issue if we could all simply live as our genuine selves with nothing to hide. Then we wouldn’t even need to hide behind usernames. Unfortunately, our society is not yet so enlightened.

It's also occurred to me that some people post a lot of fap fap fap material posing as depraved trashy pigs as part of their "online persona" here, and then someone in real life connects the dots - and of course is then faced with either admitting it's all fantasy material or defending his alleged depravity. 

[ErosWired]

6 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

and of course is then faced with either admitting it's all fantasy material or defending his alleged depravity. 

…and even if he does try to claim it’s all just fantasy, he’s still on the hook for having such depraved fantasies.

Oh, I’m not really a cum-guzzling man-whore, I just like to imagine that I am.

- So you’re not one, in real life, but you are one in your own mind.

Yeah, I guess?

- Pervert.

[BootmanLA]

2 hours ago, ErosWired said:

…and even if he does try to claim it’s all just fantasy, he’s still on the hook for having such depraved fantasies.

Oh, I’m not really a cum-guzzling man-whore, I just like to imagine that I am.

- So you’re not one, in real life, but you are one in your own mind.

Yeah, I guess?

- Pervert.

And admitting it's a pretense means there's a seed of doubt now planted in the finder's head, as to what else in his life might be a pretense.

[versasslover]

Straight out of college I worked as a IT helpdesk guy at a big phone company. One day I got a message on manhunt from a faceless profile I’d I was the guy from the IT helpdesk, which lead to me being directed to a disabled toilet on one of the upper floors in the building. An mid level exec showed up and I we became work fuck buds until I was assigned elsewhere. I loved that one.  
But a few years back I made the mistake of going on Grindr at home and being relentlessly stalked by this horrible guy in my building why I wouldn’t fuck him. Even had the audacity to come to the door a couple of times. 

Edited January 11, 2022 by versasslover
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[gingerdaddyG]

Don’t think it would bother me if someone I knew irl found me on this site as he’d obviously have similar interests. 
I have blocked others on Fabguys and Grindr who I vaguely know (friends of friends) who don’t know what discretion is - they openly blab about other guys to my friends - and as I’ve said before, I really don’t want friends and neighbours to know what I get up to in the bedroom, sauna, etc. 

I’m only on here and bbrts now, the rest of the time I’m looking for sex it’s cruising and saunas and as of yet I haven’t met anyone I know doing that - not sure how I’d react if I did though…

[hntnhole]

All I can add is be careful in deciding how much information you disclose on these sites.  I'm sure I've fucked guys on BZ at some point - given the numbers involved.  I've always been careful in dishing out really personal information unless and until I know I like Breeding his Hole.  There's really no reason for any of us to know each other's birthday, is there?  It's not like we're gonna send flowers .....